forever and always ♥

I wear my heart on my sleeve ♥ // this is my querencia // lover of love // trying to put thoughts into both sensible and senseless words

[dutchfruitjar]

[searshae-deactivated20170713]

What's an INFJ alone time?

It’s that time when the doors are locked and the INFJ sits in the comfortable space with no human being in sight (but animal companions are okay). The time when the INFJ brings out her journal and starts writing. The time when she puts on soft classical music through her phone and starts dancing. The time when she pulls out a sketchbook and doodles her favourite characters or any fantasies she had.

And if an INFJ tells you it’s time for her to be alone, please, from the bottom of my heart, leave her alone. Don’t ask any questions. Don’t stay in the room saying you won’t make a noise. Alone time is completely different from “stay quiet” and “don’t bother me”.

It’s more to “I need to take a rest from unconsciously picking up all the nonverbal cues around me and their emotions that I automatically considered in making a decision in that very situation where the individual is in the same room as I am so I could finally stay in touch with my /own/ thoughts, emotions and do things that I love in this mode.”

Because the fact is, no matter how hard INFj try to concentrate on HERSELF, the concentration just goes somewhere else, to everyone and everything around her. It’s like being a living radar that’s CONSTANTLY scanning everyone’s thoughts, emotions which helps her make a decision, even if it includes herself.

So in order to give this radar a rest, just stop appearing in it. If you do that, she won’t act on the detection. And therefore, she can rest. While she’s resting, she does all the things she loves, which I guarantee, will share any interesting discoveries with you (if you’re important enough).

Trust me on this one, an INFJ will /LOVE/ you to bits if you can understand this need of hers.

[whispersandquiet-deactivated201]

When you’re an introvert like me and you’ve been lonely for a while, and then you find someone who understands you, you become really attached to them. It’s a real release.

Lana Del Ray (via whispersandquiet)

[onelettereffect-blog]

To all my INFJs

I know sometimes it feels like this world wasn’t meant for you. Don’t forget you make it better.

– INTJ

[tamaresc-deactivated20170902]

My introvert half cancels plans for something I agreed to when my extrovert half was present. #dailystruggle

[tamaresc-deactivated20170902]

An Introvert's Social Calendar

- hanging with friends - time to recover from hanging with friends

[freetheintp]

[chlyloren]

IS IT JUST ME OR DOES ANYONE ELSE WANT A SIGNIFICANT OTHER SO YOU CAN LOVE THE HECK OUT OF THEM AND GIVE THEM GIFTS AND HUG THEM AND LISTEN TO THEM WHEN THEY ARE UPSET AND LISTEN WHEN THEY ARE HAPPY AND DO THINGS TO HELP THEM OUT IF THEY ARE STRESSED OR EVEN IF THEY ARE NOT ETC. because like having someone who loves you is absolutely dandy but i just really want someone to pour love into ya know?? is that too much to ask??

[collectively-lost]

It’s strange, yknow, because everything in my life usually feels wrong. But you’ve never felt wrong to me.

Nicole Torres (via ntorres-writtenemotions)

[thegoodvybe]

[depressionheadlock]

I wish I’d done everything on Earth with you.

F. Scott Fitzgerald (via depressionheadlock)

[randomtology]

Kdrama: "Let's go on a trip"

Translation: "This is the last time you will see us happy so enjoy"

[lavenderbyun]

Theres an alternative universe where Baek Ah and So just say fuck this shit and go to live in the mountains.  And they pass the days with So training people in martial arts and Baek Ah painting and playing music.

Of course Soo joins them, she has a beauty business and people watch in complete confusion as the scary martial arts teacher melts when he sees his wife. 

One day Woo Hee comes along, she killed Taejo and has been on the run. But the mountains are a mystery and no one will ever know who you truly are. So she befriends Wang So, and teaches alongside him… whilst simultaneously pretending not to swoon everytime she hears a certain tune being played especially to woo her. But she knows she’d fallen for the pink robed musician a long time ago.

and they just live happily, Wang Moo becomes king and him, Jung and Eun find themselves ‘accidentally’ visiting the mountains on a regular basis, without anyone ever finding out out why.

[randomtology]

I would gladly like for this to happen 

[j6]

back by unpopular demand: me

[fruitsaladchewits-deactivated20]

I hope you live a life you are proud of; if you find you are not, I hope you find the strength to start over all over again.

[everybidenjusthavegoodtime]

i romantically stand outside your window and hold up my iPhone to blast our song. a 30 second ad plays first

[nippled]

*throws flower petals at you* be my friend