ava

please read my pinned post before messaging me • 19 • i can get a lil bratty sometimes • I WILL NOT SEND PICS

[randomusr13]

Personal Information 

Name: Ava (a variation of my actual name)

Age: 19

Pronouns: She/her

Timezone: CST

Sexuality: Straight 

Relationship Status: Single ( with a couple random play partners )

Orientation: Submissive (albeit a bratty one, especially when I feel comfortable with someone)

About the Blog

This is an 18+, NSFW blog. Everything posted on this blog is fantasy, and consent is implied with everything. I do not condone any nonconsensual or misogynistic activity in real life. 

DMs and asks are open! I would love for you to interact with me :) However, a few things to keep in mind - Don't come in messaging like we already have a dynamic - we don't. You have to respect me before you get to be dirty with or degrade me. Despite my kinks I am a human who likes being treated as an equal before being treated as a toy. Please keep in mind that I will not send pics. (Also please don't take it personally if I take forever to reply to you, I lowkey do that with everyone)

Do not interact if you are

• Under 18

• Homophobic 

• Racist

• A pedophile

• Someone who believes Trump is a good person

Kinks

Misogyny, Patriarchy, Humiliation, Bratting, Brat Taming, CNC, Orgasm Denial, Oral Fixation, Writing Lines or other Punishments, Praise Kink, DDLG ,and more (I'll keep updating this)

• I love being a little, but only with people I really trust. So keep in mind if you're looking for a little then you've got to be consistent and earn that side of me. (I have anxiety and it helps me - the assurance and the permission to be clingy especially if that makes sense )

• I know I have degradation and praise kink on the same list, it just depends on the day, the vibes. Feel free to ask what I'm in the mood for if we're playing, and I'll let you know if you take the humiliation too far

• I love nonsexual dominance, especially in established relationships. Like yess please make me drink water, get my shit done, take care of myself. 

• Also eloquent men really are such a turn on. It pulls me out of the scene or whatever if you have tons of typos, message after message. I'm the girl, let me be the dumb one loll

• And y'all, my likes are public for a reason loll

Limits

Sending Pics, Witholding Aftercare, Appearance Degradation, Food Disorders, Suicidal Kinks, Scat, Vomit, Gore… I'm sure there's more. If we're playing and something comes up, I'll let you know.

More About Me 

I'm a full-time college student, kink definitely isn't my whole life. As I said, DMs are open and this includes both for kink and non kink talk. I love baking (and also cooking). I love making art and exploring different mediums. Right now my favorites are clay, painting, and digital art! I love music, I almost always have headphones on lol. Don't judge but I love white girl music, especially Taylor Swift. I also love animals! 

Beyond any sexting, I'd love to make new friends, have fun, and get to know you better! If you message me, please include your favorite flower emoji and tell me what time zone you're in, so that I know you read this post :)

[letmeeaseyourburden]

"Oh sweetie, you don't have an opinion on that. You are just a girl."

[diet-cokesiut]

at the risk of losing followers, i just wanted to say that it's a very sad day for me.

my following is 90% middle aged white men, and i hope you all hear me out: i like to fantasize about becoming a sex object, but i'm scared that some of you take it too seriously.

i am first and foremost a young woman. i believe that in addition to being somewhat attractive, i am smart, powerful, and on the same level as my male counterparts. for those of you who actually engage in a misogynistic lifestyle outside of kink, please do not interact with me. that disgusts me.

thank you. 💙

[patriarchypuppy-deactivated2023]

Why should I not cum?

I’m not a man. My orgasm isn’t needed.

Men get uncomfortable when they don’t cum. I get wetter.

Men get blue balls. I get needier.

Men’s orgasms are needed to create life. Mine are not.

Men have a right to cum. I do not.

I literally have no need to cum. Like, sure it feels nice but edging means I can feel good all the time and not just for a few seconds.

Plus, the less I cum, the more likely I am to do disgusting things just to have a glimpse of an orgasm.

[frijolpapi]

There’s nothing more accomplishing than having a woman be completely submissive to you because you respect her and support her.

[competitivehole]

THIS!

[randomusr13]

It's my birthdayyy

Feel free to send praise or degrading messages in my asks as a little treat ✨

[prettysheepy]

Being a brat is about so much more than the intimacy of punishment, the reassurance of knowing that even at my worst you still care for me and find me attractive, or even the ecstasy that comes from mixing pain and pleasure. Sometimes I just like pissing you off 🥰

[abookand4redropes-deactivated20]

[your-denied-daddy]

How good girls are using Tumblr nowadays... ✨🖤

[whimsyandwrath]

This until a Man on tumblr decides you’ve earned the right to cum…

[hellraiserssss]

You must ask about her day, ask if she wants to share something, ask if she ate or drink water, ask about the music and book, make some jokes, and talk about random stuff.

You gotta make her feel human first before turning her into a brainless fuckdoll.

[x-xsleepingrose]

Feels like a lot of people forget this part.

[themasterofo]

Gaslighting

“Sir? I was reading on a website about something called gaslighting.”

Oh, I see.

“Did you ever hear of it?”

Yes, silly. You have, too.

“I did?”

Mmmhm. You’re always so forgetful, aren’t you.

“Umm, I think so, but… it sounds a lot like the things you say.”

What does?

“The gaslighting. Like… when you talk about my thoughts getting all fuzzy from edging. Or like you just said, how I’m forgetful.”

Well… it’s true isn’t it? I mean you do get kind of fuzzy, and you are a very forgetful girl sometimes. You remember that, right?

“Yes, Sir. I know. Except, I mean… I think maybe sometimes-”

Oh, by the way, yes you may edge.

“I… but I didn’t ask to edge…”

Sure you did. You asked me right before you mentioned this gaslighting thing. Don’t you remember?

“I… I don’t remember asking.”

Oh, my forgetful girl. You probably don’t remember because I couldn’t answer you right away. I asked you to wait a minute, and then when I was ready, you brought up this thing you read instead. So, I can understand why you forgot, but I didn’t forget. Pull your panties down a bit and edge your little cunt, just like you wanted.

“Okay, thank you, Sir.”

Pretty leaky I bet.

“Mmmmm. Yes, Sir, very.”

Show your tits when you edge, like a good girl.

“Sorry, Sir, I forgot.”

My forgetful girl. I’ll bet it feels nice to touch. I’m sorry I made you wait so long.

“That’s okay, Sir. I’m the one that forgot.”

That’s true. And you’re the one who changed the subject, too.

“I’m sorry, Sir.”

It’s okay. Just try hard to stay focused next time. Get that cunt close now.

“Nnnnggh… yes, Sir. But… Sir?”

Yes?

“This is gaslighting, right? I mean, I didn’t really ask did I?”

Yes, of course you did. We just went over that.

“I know, it’s just that… I don’t remember it, and I think…”

You think what?

“I think you were gaslighting me, Sir. It’s okay if you do, I like feeling confused a bit and I think I like gaslighting, but you did do it, right?”

Right on the edge please. That’s right. I want you really squirming.

“Yes, Sir, oh God, it’s really close.”

Good girl.

“Sir?”

Shhhh. We’ve talked a lot before about when your thoughts are wrong. Edging makes you really fuzzy. Sometimes you remember things a little different than they really happened. Sometimes you forget about things that happened. You remember that, right?

“Yes, Sir, I just… I’m sorry, but I know it’s not true.”

Oh you poor thing.

“Sir, no. I want to be fuzzy and confused - I like it - but I know this time.”

All right. Okay.

“So you did…. nnngh… you did make that up, right?”

I didn’t want to have to do this, because I’d really rather you trusted me, but I guess I have no choice.

“What? Do what?”

It’s okay, little one. Keep edging really close. We’re actually lucky because when you came in to talk to me, the reason I made you wait after you asked to edge is because I was working on a recording. If I… I just need to find the spot and increase the background volume a bit and… there. Listen:

“Sir?”

Just a minute, little one.

“Sir, please may I edge? I’m really leaky.”

I said just a minute, little slut.

There, so… Hey! Don’t cry. It’s okay. You just forgot.

“I’m really, really sorry, Sir. I really didn’t remember.”

Okay, but do you remember, now that you heard it?

“I… I think so.”

Silly girl. You heard it! It’s just like I told you, isn’t it.

“Yes, Sir.”

Okay. Look at me. I want you to really listen now. You’re a forgetful little girl, and it’s easy for you to get confused. Sometimes you’re gonna get things wrong, but that’s okay!

“It is?”

Yes! But you have to, have to, have to trust me when I tell you you’re wrong okay?

“Yes, Sir. I will. I do.”

Stay close. You really thought you didn’t ask to edge, but I knew you did. Which one was right?

“You were, Sir.”

Good girl. Even closer please. I want to see you trembling.

“Ohhh, ohhhhh, ungghghhh…”

Now I want you to really put this in that little brain with a big important sign on it okay?

“Hee hee, yes, Sir.”

When you forget. Or when you remember things wrong, it might really, really seem like you remember it right. But if I say it’s wrong, which one will you believe?

“I believe you, Sir.”

That’s my girl. So about this gaslighting thing. Do you think maybe you got a bit confused about that, too?

“Do you think so, Sir?”

Mhm. I think you probably saw that it sounds a lot like the things I say, but the difference is you really are a very forgetful girl, and you really do get things mixed up all the time. I think we both know that much is true.

“Yes, Sir, definitely.”

I guess it’s lucky I was recording this time, but I’d really like it if you could trust me next time you get confused.

“Yes, Sir. I will. I’m really sorry. Really, really sorry.”

Okay. That’s okay. Lesson learned, right?

“Yes, Sir.”

That’s my good little girl. You look really desperate.

“Mmhmm… I am. May I please cum, Sir?”

Oh, you silly girl!

“Why… nnnngh… why silly?”

Because I just let you cum two days ago! I’m sure you must remember that! And we decided you’re going to go four months this time.

“We did? But, I don’t… I mean did I really have an orgasm two days ago?”

You really are so, so forgetful. I hate to have to keep doing this, but I have a video of it, so I’ll just show you.

“No! …I mean, no, Sir, please. I believe you. I didn’t remember, but I know I get forgetful.”

Maybe if you try, you can make yourself remember a bit. Sometimes that helps with really forgetful girls. It happened right here. You were on my lap, and you had your hand on top of mine while I edged you until I told you to go over. Do you remember?

“I… I think I do a little bit. Yeah! I think I remember… Was it nice?”

Very nice. And you were very snuggly after. In fact you were snuggled right next to me when we decided it would be five months this time. I’m sure you remember that part.

“Yes, Sir. It’s really fuzzy, but if I think about it, I think I start to remember it.”

Good girl! So, I guess you won’t be having an orgasm today!

“Haha, no, Sir. I just had one! I don’t need another one for a long time, like we said.”

A long time. Okay then. Right on the edge for another minute and then I’ll take it away.

“Yes, Sir.”

Oh, and just one more thing.

“Yes, Sir?”

I know you forgot, but we already talked all about gaslighting. In fact, this is the third time you’ve brought it up with me.

“It is?”

Mmhm. The first time we had a nice long talk because you wanted me to do it to you. And I said that if I did you’d have to have a special word that you’re not allowed to forget, to let me know to stop. But since you’re so forgetful, I never had to do it anyway!

“Hee hee…”

Stay close, please.

“Yes, Sir.”

You remember that word right?

“Mhm. Yes, Sir. I remember.”

Did you think you wanted to use it?

“No, Sir. I don’t want to.”

Okay. Then let’s get ready to take this orgasm away right when it’s so, so close. Six months is a long time, but I know you can do it.

“Yes, Sir… ooo… ungghhh… Not for six months, just like we decided… nnngghh… when I had my orgasm. Oh, Sir! I remember it! I really, really remember now!”

I knew you would. Just always listen to me and we’ll fix the wrong thoughts together.

[x-xsleepingrose]

At first this appealed to the parts of me that love to be really fucked with, but it got so wholesome with the safeword at the end it’s more like goals now.

[mastersoverminds7]

Oh honey, you're up so late. Rubbing yourself stupid again?

[randomusr13]

Yes 🙂‍↕️ (12:53 so it's not that bad yetttt)

[carnagebear8]

Here's an idea modern women would do well to internalize.

Sex is for men. Sex begins when the man starts getting aroused, it ends when he orgasms. The woman is a tool, an object, a desired toy, and a very significant one too, but sex is not for her in any way. Her arousal means nothing, her enjoyment means nothing, her orgasm means nothing. In sex, the woman is the servant and the man is her master.

[kittengurlz2]

Slept all day today so,,, should I tease myself all night??

[randomusr13]

Literally me every day

[desireddracula]

hiiii

i like to think im a good girl...but i cant seem to take that final step...where i finall y just admit that im not as smart as i think i am..

do u have any tips about betraying this core value i have about being smart? it just feels wrong to say im a brainless edging slut without actually meaning it...

start small, you might think you're smart but nobody's knows everything. Focus on what you dont know. Think about a subject youre ignorant about, think about how you're not smart at that. Write out "im not smart at (whatever)", say it aloud.

Once you've done that and you've enjoyed how good ignorance feels pick another topic and repeat, then another. Keep thinking about all these subjects you dont know much about until you start to realise maybe you dont know much at all, dummy.

[letmeeaseyourburden]

Your husband waved his hand in front of your face, pretending to be a Jedi.

"Tonight you will take it up the ass."

You giggled in response to him being silly. That it wouldn't work on you.

"I know, but the roofie I gave you will."

[myescape-mydesires]

Let’s see how many times we can cum in a day, baby. 💞

[randomusr13]

As a denial slut... I think the "we" part of that sentence might look like the "we" of Lebron & Bronny's or of Ewing & Ewing JR's combined points 🥲

(but also like... overstim 😏🤔)

[picsthatmakeyougohmm]

[randomusr13]

This looks so cozy ngl