~banno

khudkifav

[goth-queen]

[coquette-club]

[wifihauntingfairy]

name so unique, i was the only one in my school with that name.

[bhindesi-tara]

Bengali songs starring Dev da or Jit da >>>>>>>>>

[bhindesi-tara]

For @viraah di ...cause she wanted some recs

For now ....you can check my playlists if you want to

[coquette-club]

[rangrez-dil]

[rangrez-dil]

I spent a whole adolescent fighting with my father.

Will I spend my adulthood fighting with my mama?

[rf-times]

Ultimately, men don’t rape unless they’re certain they’re going to get away with it, it only looks like mindless and random impulse because our society is so structured to let men get away with it. Men rape more when they know women can’t escape or speak up or punish them, and less when they can. Areas, cultures and situations where men rape less or more than other situations are not because of an innate personality, temperament or cultural enlightenment, it is because of differing opportunities and repercussions, which are all caused by a large variety of factors. You can argue that the impulse to rape and take advantage of these opportunities and the desire to perpetuate societies and socialisation that supports rape is genetic, but men’s raping is not mindless acting on genes. Likewise, you can argue some societies are structured differently that allow for an environment of more or less rape but ultimately every culture exists by perpetuating the rape of women and take any man from any culture and give him an opportunity like war and he will behave the same way.

This is why discussion of socialisation and the structure of our societies is more important to preventing rape than comparing different cultures or genes.

[dhklmcdgkmbbnkhkmn]

Reminds me of some bits from Lundy Bancroft’s Why Does He Do That. He asks victims of abuse 2 questions that illuminate the same falsehood of no self control.

1) Does the abusive man blow up to his friends? His parents? Other family (outside of nuclear family)? His boss? People important for his career? If not, his anger is clearly controllable. He is not ruled by his impulses or feelings like he may claim to the abused woman.

2) When he flies into an abusive rage and destroys things, whose things does he destroy? His objects? The things he uses? Or does he destroy (almost exclusively) the woman’s things. This also demonstrates that when he APPEARS out of control, his anger/rage is controlled for his own interest.

Rapists do not rape indiscriminately, they rape when they feel that the conditions will protect them from consequences. They rape to harm women, put them in their place, and intimidate women as a class.

The narrative of men “out of control” and ruled by “impulse” is an attempt to hide the calculated cruelty of men, and of the prevalence of rape.

[thezenangel]

my favorite beauty & wellness routines

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BEAUTY

💋 makeup

jackie burkhart makeup tutorial by jackie wyers (i did this one for christmas one year and got sooo many compliments!)

2008 victoria’s secret angel makeup by jackie wyers

no makeup makeup by jessica vu

everyday makeup for beginners by murielle sunga

clean girl/no foundation makeup by murielle sunga

🎀 hair

heartless & easy hairstyles by emily heal

cute hairstyles for spring & summer by ambi

messy bun tutorial by tina engeo

WELLNESS & HEALTH

🩰 workouts

15 minute fast paced cardio by bigsis

20 minute slim thighs (lying down) by emi wong

20 minute curvier hips & thigh gap by lena snow

35 minute gentle pilates by move with nicole

35 minute feel good pilates flow by move with nicole

45 minute full body pilates by move with nicole

🧘🏼‍♀️ yoga & stretches

15 minute slim leg stretch by emi wong

25 minute self care yoga + savasana by jess yoga

30 minute yoga to regulate nervous system by akshaya agnes

30 minute yoga to relax & stretch by yoga with kassandra

30 minute yoga for flexibility by boho beautiful yoga

45 minute full body yoga by boho beautiful yoga

45 minute deep stretch yoga by yoga with kassandra

1 hour yoga for flexibility by yoga with kassandra

🫧 gua sha/facial massages

quick gua sha massage by tina engeo

daily gua sha & jade roller routine by tina engeo

slim face yoga by oppserve

lymphatic drainage/face lifting massage by themoments

🪷 meditations

10 minute meditation to release stress & anxiety by lavendaire

10 minute meditation for balancing the nervous system by yoga with adrienne

10 minute future self meditation by lavendaire

13 minute meditation & breathwork by akshaya agnes

20 minute sound healing guided meditation by lavendaire

[dayaar-e-ishq]

First in my bloodline to go against my entire bloodline.

[andaaz-e-aafat]

First in my bloodline to disconnect with my entire bloodline

[tum-naam-sochlo-merese-ni-hora]

Last in my bloodline cus there will be no more after this one chat

[zeherili-ankhein]

Last in my bloodline cuz I'd make a boneline next

[rangrez-dil]

First in my bloodline to go for therapy

[maebyhere]

[bbyangelbambi]

[rivercantswim]

Found this on pinterest

[rangrez-dil]

[lostinsfiction]

the west’s ability to take beautiful indian cultural clothing and water it down to make it the most basic and boring outfits will never cease to amaze me 😭

steal indian clothes —— style them ——rename them.

[heartfirsttomato]

Dutch Lion

[tamatagotchi]

strictly fueled by masala cha

[rangrez-dil]

Yeh hui na baat