We still have children living at home, so our scenes are pretty short and of the mild to mild-plus variety. Our protocol is, of course, under the radar when the kids are home and out of bed. Even when they’re home but asleep, we’re still pretty discreet.
A couple of examples come to mind.
When Sir uses a “questioning” or “coaxing” tone, but his request doesn’t include the words “Will you” or “Can you” or something similar, that makes his request a command. “Baby, refill my juice, please?“ That’s not a request, not in our dynamic. When I call him by his first name followed by “Dear”, it means Sir or Daddy. So my reply of “Of course, {name}, dear” means “Yes, Sir” or “Yes, Daddy.”
To anyone listening, they would hear his tone and his statement as a request which I would then be free to deny. But they’re wrong, I am not free to deny what he’s asked for because it’s not a request.
We’ve recently added Daddy to Sir’s titles. Prior to 24/7 D/s, I called him by his first name or various terms of endearment, dear, darling, honey, etc. I really enjoy telling our youngest, who is in elementary school, that we always do what Daddy tells us or I’ll ask what Daddy said about something. I know I won’t be able to get away with sneaking in calling him Daddy for much longer, so I’m just enjoying the heck out of it while I can. Eventually all the kids will move out and I can call him Daddy to my heart’s content!
Daddy has always almost exclusively called me Baby or Love. But he calls me by my full first name during sex. Most people call my by my nickname, which is just a shortened version of my first name. But not Sir. He has called me by that nickname a few times, but only in front of company and instead of calling me Baby or My Love. My full first name is reserved for use during sex.
Daddy has recently begun calling me Baby Girl, which he started around the same time I started calling him Daddy. He reserves Baby Girl for times when the kids aren’t around (could be just out of the room) and for during sex.
I love that he has a special name for me that he doesn’t use in front of other people. They don’t know I’m his Baby Girl. They don’t know he’s my Daddy, my Sir. I love that we have something special, just for us.
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