[requests closed]

name and pronoun suggestions- please read pinned post

[raw-wheat]

our intro :)

colored text throughout for easier finding of important information

note: redid this 8/21 because we found out we're a system

you can refer to us collectively as Mica or %, they/them. we are white, ablebodied, median and monoconcious. various facets have social anxiety, depression, and autism.

mods:

Jericho {he/it/🎵}

Haven {he/she/they}

Kade {he/they/🍄}

Nico {they/he/hymn}

Ajax {it/he/☠}

Requests:

CLOSED

we will do:

-discord emojis (only words/simple concepts, we don't draw)

-pronoun/name suggestions! Just send in any genders, identities or vibes you want us to take into account and we'll do our best :)

-name and pronoun validation (trying them out so you can see them used for you)

- coin genders and make flags

-coin other terms! doesn't matter how specific we will make you a flag for it

-make barcode flags for characters, icons, etc.

-make combo flags

all of our coins are free to use, add to wikis, edit however you like, etc. we do like to be tagged/notified if you do anything with them though

the queue posts once a day, requests are always bumped above anything that we just made for ourselves

we follow @hey-color-palettes and @fivepointpalettes and use both of their colors a lot in our flags, we also sometimes adopt flags from @new-pride-flags

BYF:

-we support marginalized groups. all of them.

-ACAB

-cringe culture is dead

-your thoughts aren't always your fault and shouldn't be demonized

-don't debate in our comments, they will be deleted because this is not the place. if you want to argue with us we have a blog for that @wheaty-discourse

-that being said we have no DNI, all coins are free to use, just don't be mean

-this blog is generally sfw and if ever post something not suitable for kids it will be tagged #nsfw along with any other appropriate tags

faqs:

what's vior?

what's constelic?

what's aldernic?

what's an allion?

what's vesility?

those aren't pronouns though?

here are the rest of our identities (we have way too many)

aesthetic/hoarding blog @raw-wheat-hoards

tags:

#i am weary of days and hours ⌛ coining

#blown buds of barren flowers 🍂 reblogs

#desires and dreams and powers 🦋 requests

#and everything but sleep 💀 off topic

[clowniconography]

I’ve been relistening to a lot of The Worst Idea of All Time and so I decided to doodle one of my favorite quotes from the show which I find going through my head a couple times a day

[newromantics-tv-deactivated2023]

How would you solve this problem : 7 + 16 = ??

10 + 7 is 17 and then + 6 is 23

7 + 16 = 23

7 + 6 is 13 and + 10 would be 23

Other (????? How else would you do it??? Put in tags)

Voting ended onFeb 9, 2023

[kiruliom]

non-coiner friendly LIOM/MOGAI community ask game

rules: please send the person you reblog from an ask!! even if youre not mutuals. it makes them very happy each time trust me ^^

what got you interested in the community? did you get involved immedietly, or observe from afar for a while?

how much did the community effect your identity? if youre open abt it, compare your identities from before and now. if your identity is private, did you identity solidify or instead get more complicated over time?

which members of the community inspire you? what influences your liom/mogai content the most if you make any?

a theme/aesthetic you love to work with that people wouldnt usually guess??

do you do any creative work related to the community? if so, would you like to share your favorites?

what is something you wish this community could improve upon? do you have any hopes for that wish?

your favorite work of someone else's creations? can be anything

what are you most proud of yourself for, in the context of this community?

would you like to share a work of yours that you think should get more attention than it already did?

free space!!! ask anything you want. just make sure its not too personal of a question

remember to respect people's opinions and right to their privacy! please dont harass anyone for any reason over this ask game

with love,

-your Darling 🫀

[a-timeless-illness]

Verbalism Terms I've Made

Alt Verbalism/Alternate Verbalism

Verbalism is an umbrella term in itself. However, most find themselves not fitting in todays terms of verbalism. Alternate verbalism goes off what is deemed to be hyper, semi, and/or non verbalism. An individual may identify with alt verbalism as a way of saying, "Hey, I don't fall under hyper/semi/non verbalism but instead something else."

Choice Verbalism/Chosen Verbalism

Some individuals may find themselves simply not wanting to talk. Rather it be for long periods of time, short periods, or anything in between. The individual may not have a reason, or a reason that isn't physically/anxiety related which thus goes under this term.

Restrained Verbalism/Strained Verbalism

Where one finds themselves not being able to speak at all. Regardless of reason. However, when the individual tries to speak, it's almost like their voice is being restrained (metaphorical). Where even when the individual tries their hardest to speak, they cannot at all.

Fatigare Verbalism/Fatiqué Verbalism/Fatigue Verbalism

Where ones fatigue affects their verbalism in anyway. Rather it be only speak rarely, short sentences, not speaking at all, using other ways to communicate, and more.

Pain Verbalism

Where it is either very painful for some to speak, or their pain makes them unable to speak at all, or most of the time. This could be due to many reasons like a physical disability or vocal chord damage, but it doesn't have to be. Also, it may be used when talking is emotionally painful.

Psy Verbalism/Psychosis Verbalism

Where one's psychosis affects their verbalism in any way. May lead to being completely nonverbal, sometimes speaking, making sounds or gestures, etc.

Clusteric Verbalism

Where ones verbalism is affected by the clusters ABC of personality disorders. Rather, it be dramatic speech, barely speaking, cluttered, verbalism that doesn't make sense, and more.

Mood Verbalism/Moodic Verbalism/Moidic Verbalism

Where ones verbalism is affected by their mood disorders. Rather, it be they're too tired to talk, find themselves not wanting to talk, or hyperverbal. It's not limited to just that, though.

[general-illyrin]

How many side blogs do you have?

0

1-5

6-10

11-15

16-20

21-25

26-30

31-35

36-40

41+

Voting ended onFeb 3, 2023

[general-illyrin]

If you vote, please reblog so it can reach more people.

(I wouldn't normally ask, but this is a serious poll that I am genuinely interested in learning the results of.)

[sweetschizo-deactivated20190808]

Hey if you’re schizophrenic/psychotic I just want you to know that you’re a wonderful person and that you deserve so much better than the demonization, marginalization and stigmatization you face in this society.

[sweetschizo-deactivated20190808]

Please consider reblogging this/other positivity posts for schizophrenic/psychotic people every once in a while. If you have more than 100 followers, odds are that a couple of them experiences psychosis and that they rarely see positivity posts for people with their symptoms.

[dukeofash]

Howdy newbies and welcome to Tumblr, it takes a bit of setup to get this site running well so here’s what works for me. One of the neat things about this site is that its a different experience for everyone, so tailor these settings towards what you want from this site. 

New XKit 

[nat-20s]

I love u narrative songs 💖💖💖

[nat-20s]

Too many generic love songs not enough songs about one specific ass situation

[pronounstheclown]

tag the first song you think of

[motleyfolk]

“Cringe culture is dead” isn’t about letting 15 year olds cosplay MHA. It’s about letting 50 year olds dance at clubs even if they’re “bad at it”, it’s about letting 10 year old’s wear random bits of clothes to make an outfit that’s “weird”, it’s about letting adult men experiment with artsy makeup looks even when they’re “messy”, it’s about letting teens scream music even if they “sound bad”.

“Cringe culture is dead” means letting people learn new hobbies at any age, experiment with their identity at any time, expressing themselves in ways outside the norm just as much as it means let 20 year olds play roblox. 

Cringe culture is just social norms being forced on people rebelling against societies value consensus, it’s keeping people in brackets that are easier to market to. 

Let cringe culture be dead in every aspect of life outside online spaces.

[kingofthebouncycastle13]

Disagreeing with you on one thing here, it does include the teens cosplaying MHA. Cosplaying in general. Because I still see teens today getting bullied for not just wearing the costumes, but for dancing in them, doing skits in them, or even just wearing them out in public when all activities listed are harmless. Shit they even get bullied of the bully thinks the series or whatever is trash and just do it to be personal.

Teen cosplayers are indeed included here, because if I see the, “You weren’t bullied for liking anime, you were bullied for this!*cuts to teen cosplayer having fun*” again, I’m gonna punch someone in the face.

[raw-wheat]

"cringe culture is dead" includes *everyone*. even if you don't find them attractive, even if they're not your age, even if it's an experiment or a phase or any of the situations listed above

[riotmlllf]

if you tag me in a chain post and i don't do it it's not because i hate you it's because i am very lazy. i love you thank you for tagging me.

[raw-wheat]

system specific pronouns

we were thinking about how using "us" to refer to our whole system can be confusing in a lot of sentences, but "i" isn't always accurate, and semiplural pronouns are a thing but not really meant for this purpose,, so we decided to coin some! these are first person pronouns meant for plural systems to use in place of we/us/our/ours/ourselves:

wy/uys/ouyr/ouyrs/ouyrselves

and then for similar reasons, i decided to make second and third person pronouns. so these are second person pronouns you can use when talking to a plural system in place of you/your/yours/yourselves:

syou/syour/syours/syourselves

and these are third person pronouns you can use when talking about a plural system in place of they/them/their/theirs/themselves:

sthy/sthym/sthyr/sthyrs/sthymselves

i honestly have no idea how these would be pronounced as my brain can't really handle verbally using non-nounself neopronouns anyway, sorry! but online at least hopefully this are useful to some people

[raw-wheat]

i meant to add this but ofc these are not required if you don't want to use them, and always ask before using different pronouns for a system! also these explicitly do *not* refer to an individual person/system member and should only be used collectively since that's the whole point

[raw-wheat]

system specific pronouns

we were thinking about how using "us" to refer to our whole system can be confusing in a lot of sentences, but "i" isn't always accurate, and semiplural pronouns are a thing but not really meant for this purpose,, so we decided to coin some! these are first person pronouns meant for plural systems to use in place of we/us/our/ours/ourselves:

wy/uys/ouyr/ouyrs/ouyrselves

and then for similar reasons, i decided to make second and third person pronouns. so these are second person pronouns you can use when talking to a plural system in place of you/your/yours/yourselves:

syou/syour/syours/syourselves

and these are third person pronouns you can use when talking about a plural system in place of they/them/their/theirs/themselves:

sthy/sthym/sthyr/sthyrs/sthymselves

i honestly have no idea how these would be pronounced as my brain can't really handle verbally using non-nounself neopronouns anyway, sorry! but online at least hopefully this are useful to some people

[todaysbird]

there’s been a really bizarre trend in the past couple years of TERFS/radfems getting pissed off about biology posts. posts about the bilateral gyandromorph cardinal (one half male, one half female), posts about older hens beginning to crow and act like roosters, posts about animals being animals. and it’s hilarious because they interpret these posts as some kind of agenda. no! these are animals not choosing any gender identity or sexuality but being born into bodies they have no control over. weird how that happens in nature huh

[butchosprey]

never tell terfs about white-throated sparrow or they will lose their fucking minds

[tkingfisher]

Do you want to hear about white-throated sparrows?!

Of course you do, they’re fantastic. They come in two models, one with tan head stripes and one with white head stripes. But the gene that controls stripe color also has a bunch of other effects! It’s a supergene!

To briefly sum up a grueling amount of fieldwork by people who were probably not getting paid nearly enough, basically the tan-stripes are nurturers and the white-stripes are fighters, across both males and females. White-stripes chase away intruders more, tan-stripes bring more food to the nest. Tan-stripe females bring more bugs to their chicks than white-stripes, white-stripe females are more aggressive and sing more.

There is a reason Jordan Peterson picked lobsters, not sparrows, to get all MRA about, because the sparrow ladies are ALL about the tan-striped males. Sexy nurturing tan-stripe males are immediately grabbed up by the more aggressive white-stripe females (who are also dead sexy if you’re a sparrow.) Then the remaining birds pair off, so you get tan and white couples reproducing in virtually all cases—nurturing male with aggressive female, hyper-aggressive male with hyper-nurturing female.*

And this is good!** Because it turns out that they can have a tough time if they don’t mate across stripes—white x white sparrows often come out undersized if they come out at all. There was some cool recent genetic sequencing and one particular chromosome is way funky, inverted, and scrambled in the white-stripes. So now every white-stripe has a funky chromosome and a normal one, and every tan-stripe has two normal ones.***

This is all really unique and means that white-throated sparrows effectively have four sexes, because they now only reproduce with a member of the opposite stripe and sex chromosome, and their offspring may be any one of the four sexes. The stripes have essentially become a second sex chromosome.

The geneticists involved think the funky chromosome probably showed up as a weird import from somebody gettin’ jiggy with another sparrow species. Presumably this created a hypersexy female whose white head stripes brought all the boys to the yard, and very unusually, that bred true.

Is that cool or what?!

*No word on whether there is a resulting sparrow tradwife media genre.

**Leaving aside the impact on the emotional health of the non-sexy sparrows.

**A population solely of tan-stripes can reproduce safely, they’re just not that into each other.

[krakensdottir]

I reblogged this a minute ago but I’m going to reblog it again, because I want to add another non-binary bird species: the ruff.

First of all, look at it.

That’s a male ruff, specifically. You can see how they get their name. The females don’t have that fancy collar. They just look like sandpipers, which is what they are.

Like other sandpipers, these are wading birds, but they live in wet meadows and marshes instead of by the seashore. During the breeding season they gather together and the males hold territories, called leks, in which they display to attract females.

At least, some of them do.

Some male ruffs do not display in leks. They have plainer, often white, neck ruffs, and they sort of wander around the display grounds courting the females wherever. The interesting thing is that the territorial males tolerate this. Research suggests it’s because females are more interested in a display ground that has both kinds of males. The ladies like variety, it seems.

But it gets even more complicated. In 2006, a third male form was discovered. This form is extremely rare, and doesn’t have male display plumage at all. It looks just like a female ruff in the field. The other birds, however, can tell the difference, judging by their behavior. These female mimics travel with other males when the sexes split for the winter, and during homosexual mountings (which are common, as they are in many other animals), they often top.

What’s really interesting about these ‘cryptic males’, or faeders, is that they are apparently super sexy. Seriously. Females and males both prefer mating with them. And it’s believed that, like the satellite males, the presence of a faeder attracts more females to the area, which benefits all three forms.

And the thing about these forms is they are fundamentally different from one another. The plumage and behavior differences last throughout a bird’s life, and are determined by genetics. They are functionally three different genders - one of which shows natural intersex characteristics. All three can breed with females, and females are more interested in breeding when all three are present. They know that diversity is the good shit. Which makes them much, much smarter than TERFs.

[thefernhands]

If you're fifteen or older an still sleep with a stuffed animal please reblog this.

[raw-wheat]

i love you headmates that don't have a role, i love you if everyone in your system has a role but you, i love you if you're in a system where roles don't even apply, i love you if you reject your role or only feel partially connected to it, i love you if you changed roles, i love you if you have a very specific role that defines your entire being, i love you if you have many roles, i love you if you have a personality that "contradicts" your role,, i love you plurals of all sorts

[raw-wheat]

ok apparently i'm in the mood for airing out my opinions tonight so here's another one

as someone who doesn't celebrate christmas, "happy holidays" is a fucking joke. 90% of the time it's coming from someone who is thinking solely of christmas, or maybe also hannukah. if you bring it up they might mention kwanzaa and the winter solstice. but the fact that there are technically several midwinter holidays doesn't change how i feel seeing a card that says "happy holidays" covered in santa hats and rudolphs and pine trees with presents underneath. it reminds me of the phrase "i don't see color".

if you know what holidays someone celebrates, wish them a happy whatever. and if you're making casual conversation there's nothing wrong with talking about holidays you're celebrating soon. it's so fucking easy to just use any normal greeting that doesn't involve the goddamn "holiday season"