Having some alters that didn't form from trauma doesn't make you mixed origin. Alters can form from stress, hyperfixations, and other things. It doesn't make you any less of a DID system.
thats not what makes me mixed origins, and even if that was what made me mixed origins it would be up to me to decide that! i dont think im any less of a DID system for being mixed origins, and im pretty confident in my identity and diagnosis!
i understand that this is coming from a place of care (..i think) but its not up to you to decide what labels someone uses. someone might identify as mixed origins some might not. if they identify as mixed origins due to feeling insecure that is what you should help about: the insecurity, not the label
along with that! we do soulbonding and have spiritual beliefs about our system, which is what makes us mixed origins. we do also call ourselves mixed origins due to some neurogenic stuff, such as our psychosis. i like the labels i use because they help me understand myself. i dont feel any less of a DID system because of the labels i choose to use or not use.
i appreciate your concern(?) though
Telling someone how to define his own complexities and innerworkings of an indepth concept is disrespectful and inappropriate. You don't know this person at all, but you went to his blog and without any knowledge, understanding, or compassion, decided to attempt at generalizing his own parts of himself so you can understand him better.
It doesn't matter if you are against someone defining their experience with non-traumagenic (based) terms, because you don't get to decide for them how they define their experience. (General)
You came from a place of no compassion. You did not make an attempt to understand his situation, his circumstances, his perspective, his experiences - anything, really. You even took it a step further by giving unwarranted opinions regarding him without his consent to do so. Why are you speaking on something, especially about someone, when you know nothing? Actually, when you don't CARE to know anything?
Then you were disrespectful. Defining someone else's experience and being, while telling him the way you want to understand is by forcing your beliefs and views, doesn't make him any less valid, is telling him that the way he conveys himself to others isn't valid. This insinuation stems from you not understanding how he conveys himself, and then to top it off, you CHOOSE not to understand. You take someone's identity, dignity, and ability to self-actualize and morph it into your own. You did that, because again, you CHOSE to not care. Disrespectful, and honestly? Disgusting.
It was insanely inappropriate to go to someone you don't know and say what you said. You may say that to a friend, a partner, and a loved one - go ahead, you go do that. Word for word. You don't know this person though, and not only that, but you decided to go anonymous so he doesn't even get the chance to see if he knows you. You went anonymous because you know what you said is disgusting and comes from your choice to not care. You have no inherent credentials, no willingness to understand, no ability to care, and no connection to him.
You can care about defining people by a book, or care more about how others instruct you to define someone else, but the least you can do is also care about the people you CHOSE to talk to and treat this way.
