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reblog if you’ve read fanfictions that are more professional, better written than some actual novels. I’m trying to see something
you people are really out there putting skeletons in negligently small enclosures without any enrichment or socialization smh
You mean coffins? Those are just their beds, are people really believing that’s their whole enclosure??
actually coffins are primarily for TRANSPORT. some skeletons may enjoy using them as a resting area, but that is highly dependent on the individual and the breed (bog skeletons for instance prefer to sleep under the stars or in mud baths). But most people assume those tiny ass coffins work as a daily unliving space, bc that’s all the mortuary supply store sends them home with, when actually that’s as cruel as keeping a goldfish in the plastic bag it came with. Coffins have no room to roam around in! No room for toys or enrichment, hardly any light, and often a concerning lack of cobwebs (necessary fiber supplement!) and halloween decorations.
Oh and fyi keeping skeletons in closets is not any better! do your research before buying or adopting!!!!!
This is actually incrudbly classist and ablist. Some people simply arent able to give their skeletons an idael environment. Besides my mom let our skleton unlive in a coffin for years and he unlived fo be like 203
excuse you how is it classist to recognize that skeletons are unliving creatures with unique needs, requiring proper care and enrichment??? yes skeleton care requires a lot of time and expense–which means people need to think carefully before making that commitment! I feel so sorry for your family skeletons—keeping a skeleton in box for 203 years qualifies as Inhumane Treatment of Unhumans. next you’ll be telling me you make your boogeyman sleep under the bed.
and look, I get that there are concerns about skeleton overpopulation, and that plenty of skeletons are in need of a good home—emphasis on a good home. but I would prefer to see more skeletons unliving in properly qualified Skeleton Sanctuaries than in individual homes that aren’t equipped to care for them. because the fact is, not everyone is responsible enough to have a skeleton! Owning a skeleton is a privilege not a right!!!
So is keeping my skeleton encased in a mobile flesh suit okay, or… ?
Contrary to popular belief, a mobile flesh suit isn’t actually a housing. It’s the skeleton’s larval stage.
This is a great time to set up your skeleton for a happy and heathy unlife, though! Make sure the larva has plentiful access to good food and fresh water, and provide it with ample room to play and stretch. The ideal diet for your skeleton will be rich in calcium, protein, and B and D vitamins. Healthy larval skeletons require approximately 30-60 minutes of activity per day, although they may enjoy more. Larval skeletons should also not be too overstimulated—while they may try to overextend themselves, it’s important that they get enough sleep!
And finally, be sure you provide appropriate enrichment for your larval skeleton. Unfortunately, some larval skeletons in less than ideal circumstances may take to damaging behaviors that cause poor development of the larval sac, also known as “the brain.” To prevent this, enrichment is necessary. There are a lot of kinds of good enrichment for your skeleton, but many papers and reports suggest some kind of creative hobby is a good option.
the way this is genuinely making me want to take care of myself tho
telling me that one of the campers never talked bad about a dead/presumed dead titan army member after the war ended and then got punched in the face?
well heres lou punching someone for bad mouthing her big bro >:)
To say he was surprised was an understatement. It was a normal dinner, for the most part. Kayla and Rowan were talking about some archery contest they’d had earlier while Maria and Austin were writing a poem, for some boy Maria liked, he figured. So when the pavilion suddenly burst into chaos, it was a surprise.
It started with a sickening crack cutting through the hushed conversations and one of the Ares kids hit the ground, his nose was bleeding, broken, Will assumed. He heard the boys attacker before he saw her.
“Say that about my brother again and I’ll make sure you end up with worse than a broken nose!”
Will was quick to his feet when he heard Lou Ellen’s voice, but Cecil was quicker. He was at the daughter of Hecate’s side almost immediately, standing between her and the boy while Ellis tended to his brother.
He wasn’t sure what had set his friend off, but she was glaring daggers at the son of Ares on the floor, purple eyes glowing with rage though there were tears brimming them, he could see the Mist curling around her, as if responding to her emotions. Cecil placed a hand on her shoulder and she scowled.
“You don’t know anything about my brother and you have no right to talk about him.” She snapped, turning to walk out, with Cecil on her heel.
“What happened?” Will asked Ellis as he knelt next to the two boys.
“Mark thought it would be fun to poke fun at the Hecate kids in the army,” Ellis muttered. “I told you not to piss Lou off, just because she doesn’t look like a threat doesn’t mean she isn’t one.”
Mark only rolled his eyes and winced as Will poked his nose. “Well, it’s not broken. What did you even say to her?”
“I was asking about that general guy.” Ellis rolled his eyes.
Will was well aware of the stories, despite the war only being a month ago, rumors spread like wildfire about the demigods in Kronos’s army, specifically, about General Alabaster Torrington.
Now, Will had come face to face with the guy during their Philadelphia raid. He’d been in charge. Michael had insulted the guy a bunch but he only really got aggressive when his sister – Lou, he remembered – got shot, Sylvie had been aiming for him, but her arrow almost…avoided him.
Now I wish you hadn’t done that, I really was trying to be civil. He’d said.
So, Will really had a hard time believing the rumors, most of them revolved around the guy harming and killing his own army, specifically, his siblings. Which really didn’t seem realistic considering he’d only attacked them because they hurt his sister. It was solidified by Lou and Cecils annoyance by the rumors.
“How many times do you need to be told not to talk about Alabaster, Mark?”
“Why should I listen to you? You’re probably still loyal to that damn titan.”
Ellis scowled. “I’m not. Alabaster is- was, my friend. Besides never heard you’re not supposed to speak ill of the dead?”
Will pursed his lips. “He seems to be a touchy subject, so how about we don’t talk about him for now?”
Mark only rolled his eyes but Ellis gave him a thankful look.
I watched the asexual and aromantic communities get eaten away at by exclusionists and proto-TERFs and queer people making fun of microlabels and people who talked about how they just wanted all of us to stop dividing ourselves so much and people who decided that the concept of the Split Attraction Model was homophobic and people who flooded the ace and aro tags with porn and--
Well, you get the point.
But now a lot of people on this site don't know about ace culture and modern history, so here's some stuff you should know about:
The Asexuality Visibility and Education Network (AVEN) was started in 2001 by asexuality activist David Jay as a forum and educational space about asexuality.
A Carnival of Aces, which is a monthly blogging carnival on ace topics, has been taking place since May 2011 and has included such topics as coming out, non-traditional relationships styles and polyamory, asexual education (which I hosted), and labels and microlabels.
The Split Attraction Model is one model for talking about sexual and romantic orientation that splits out those two orientations, allowing individuals to describe sexual attraction/orientation as distinct from romantic orientation (e.g., aromantic bisexual, heteroromantic grey-asexual). While this model is primarily used by people on the ace and aro spectrums, it can be used by anyone who wants to discuss or describe sexual orientation as being separate from romantic orientation.
The AVEN triangle (or asexuality triangle) is a black and white or greyscale triangle that originated from taking the Kinsey scale and extending it down into another axis to address/acknowledge the range of attraction between what's on the Kinsey scale (allosexuality) and no sexual attraction (asexuality). It's generally presented as white at the horizontal line at the top and then black at the point at the bottom, often with a gradation of shades of grey down to the bottom.
Microlabels are specific (sometimes very narrow) labels for sexualities, romantic orientations, and genders. While these are not aro- or ace-specific, they were often associated with those communities because there was a culture of having nuanced conversations about narrow definitions, often by people couldn't find something that fit their experience in the standard L, G, B, or T lexicon. Demiromantic/demisexual, cupioromantic/cupiosexual, and quoiromantic/quoisexual are all examples of micro-labels.
The ace ring, a black ring worn on the middle finger of the right hand (generally) is a symbol of asexuality that some ace people wear. It originated on AVEN in 2005 when people were looking for a symbol that was rather covert.
Cake has also been an ace symbol, mostly from the idea that ace people agree that cake is better than sex. It used to be common to see a drawing of a cake with the ace flag colors.
The ace of (heart/spades/clubs/diamonds) has at times been used as a symbol for different ace spectrum/aro spectrum combinations. Ace of hearts is generally agreed on as alloromantic asexual and ace of spades as aromantic asexual (aroace or aro/ace). Ace of clubs is sometimes for grey-romantic asexual and ace of diamonds sometimes for demiromantic asexual, but those are less common.
Dragons were also associated with the ace community, at least on Tumblr. I'm less certain where this one came from (theories include that they're mythological creatures the way ace people are seen to be or that it's because there were headcanons that Charlie Weasley was ace).
Can’t risk it
The duck of creativity. I waited so long for it.
God fucking damnit
I was put on the spot y’all
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Facebook User: I wish my posts reached further, then I’d get famous.
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Tumbler User: I specifically didn’t tag this so no one would find it why does it have 200k notes? Who the hell are these people following me? All of you need to go away so I can go back to posting incomprehensible garbage and pictures of frogs.
Self-fulfilling prophecy
Oh no
Help
Here’s a picture of a blue poison dart frog.
WHY!?
Okay, lots of folks asking “INSTAGRAM DOES THAT!?”
And yes, it does:
Nice.
Kaeru the frog from Poco’s Udon World
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ALWAYS REBLOG WHEN YOU SEE SOMETHING LIKE THIS PLEASE; ITS SO MUCH MORE THAN IMPORTANT TO PEOPLE. IT MEANS EVERYTHING TO SOMEBODY AND EVEN THOUGH YOU MIGHT NOT SEE THIS IN THE SAME LIGHT, SOMEONE MIGHT. INFACT YOU REBLOGGING THIS COULD STOP SOMEONE TAKING THEIR LIFE TONIGHT.
WORDS TO USE INSTEAD OF: CRY / CRIED / CRYING
Do you ever find yourself over-using the word “cry” (or “cried” or “crying”) in your writing? Try using these words instead:
sob / sobbed / sobbing
wail / wailed / wailing
weep / wept / weeping
bawl / bawled / bawling
whimper / whimpered / whimpering
howl / howled / howling
blubber / blubbered / blubbering
snivel / sniveled / sniveling
squall / squalled / squalling
yelp / yelped / yelping
whine / whined / whining
shed tears / shed tears / shedding tears
burst into tears / burst into tears / bursting into tears
tear up / teared up / tearing up
choke up / choked up / choking up
well up / welled up / welling up
break down / broke down / breaking down
let it out / let it out / letting it out
turn on the waterworks / turned on the waterworks / turning on the waterworks
open the floodgates / opened the floodgates / opening the floodgates
How to Kick a Reader in the Gut
Disrupt the reader’s sense of justice.
This generally means setting a character up to deserve one thing and then giving them the exact opposite.
Kill a character off before they can achieve their goal.
Let the bad guy get an extremely important win.
Set up a coup against a tyrannical king. The coup fails miserably.
Don’t always give characters closure.
(Excluding the end of the book, obviously)
A beloved friend dies in battle and there’s no time to mourn him.
A random tryst between two main characters is not (or cannot be) brought up again.
A character suddenly loses their job or can otherwise no longer keep up their old routine
Make it the main character’s fault sometimes.
And not in an “imposter syndrome” way. Make your MC do something bad, and make the blame they shoulder for it heavy and tangible.
MC must choose the lesser of two evils.
MC kills someone they believe to be a bad guy, only to later discover the bad guy was a different person altogether.
Rejection is a powerful tool.
People generally want to be understood, and if you can make a character think they are Known, and then rip that away from them with a rejection (romantic or platonic) people will empathize with it.
MC is finally accepting the Thing They Must Do/Become, and their love interest decides that that’s not a path they want to be on and breaks up with them
MC makes a decision they believe is right, everyone around them thinks they chose wrong.
MC finds kinship with someone Like Them, at long last, but that person later discovers that there is some inherent aspect of MC that they wholly reject. (Perhaps it was MC’s fault that their family member died, they have important religious differences, or WERE THE BAD GUY ALL ALONG!)
On the flipside, make your main character keep going.
Push them beyond what they are capable of, and then push them farther. Make them want something so deeply that they are willing to do literally anything to get it. Give them passion and drive and grit and more of that than they have fear.
“But what if my MC is quiet and meek?” Even better. They want something so deeply that every single moment they push themselves toward it is a moment spent outside their comfort zone. What must that do to a person?
Obviously, don’t do all of these things, or the story can begin to feel tedious or overly dramatic, and make sure that every decision you make is informed by your plot first and foremost.
Also remember that the things that make us sad, angry, or otherwise emotional as readers are the same things that make us feel that way in our day-to-day lives. Creating an empathetic main character is the foundation for all of the above tips.
“Accidentally Asexual” should be an AO3 tag for when a character gets written as ace mostly because the author was ace and Forgot.
Like the character was intended to be allo but an ace author just. Forgot. That sexual attraction isn’t just a plot device.
#are we SURE sexual attraction ISNT just a plot device??? (via @tina-nina)
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Honestly, probably the best social tip I could ever give you guys is literally just ask. Need to make a doctor's appointment but don't know how? Call the doctor's office and ask. Don't know the meaning of what someone said? Ask them. Don't understand the instructions you were given? Ask them to repeat or clarify. This has literally never failed me, no one's gotten angry, no one's refused to answer.
Even in situations where you think it might not work, I once accidentally missed a deadline to accept a job offer, so I called and asked if they could reset it and they did. Just today I called a doctor and asked how to schedule an appointment, the lady told me how, and then I did it. Didn't know if someone was being sarcastic or not, so I asked and they told me. Just ask.
I don’t think it’s healthy, this adult obsession with asking young kids what they want to be when they grow up
like, these kids are already being raised in a capitalist freakshow of a society wherein a person’s worth as a human being is heavily determined by income and profession. can we at least give them a childhood without constant reminders that that shitty standard will apply to them too?
a child’s personality is not defined by what career they may or may not pursue 20 years from now, so stop using “What do you want to be when you grow up?” as a defining question.
the ‘When You Grow Up’ Question, as I like to call it, might seem like an innocent way to get kids talking about their interests, but it has several major drawbacks:
frames a child’s interests (and their value as a person) as valuable in the far-off future (when they are an adult), not the here-and-now…
…and valuable because of profitability, not because of the joy it brings
is overused, too generic to convey genuine interest, inflicts anxiety, becomes damaging & exhausting over time,
puts unnecessary pressure on kids. sets up the (stressful, unrealistic) expectation that career goals should be part of childhood identity, and children should be planning their adult lives (instead of just being children while they can).
a lot of adults don’t understand how to respond in an appropriate manner! they will respond with “that’s not a real job” or “you won’t make much money doing that,” which is not a helpful reaction when a 4-year-old tells you they want to be a polar bear or a baker. (It’s also not a helpful reaction when a teenager tells you they want to be an artist or musician, btw.)
the notes of this very post are full of adults & teens sharing unhappy childhood memories. no matter what the intention, we can see from firsthand testimony that this question is causing real and lasting harm.
“How else am I supposed to talk to children?” ASK THEM about their INTERESTS!!! Kids have like a MILLION hobbies and interests, they are so gash darn INTERESTED in the world! Ask them about those!!! Ask them:
What books/movies/music do you like?
What’s your favorite animal?
What’s your favorite weird animal?
What’s the worst animal? Name 3 terrible animals. Yes Scar from the Lion King counts.
What’s your favorite type of toy/pet/plant/rock? Yes I would love to see your Rock Collection
Do you know any jokes?
What’s the funniest word you can think of?
If you lived in the ocean would you have flippers or a tail?
What 3 superpowers would you choose and what would be your Secret Hero Weakness?
What do you want to talk about?
Most kids love to talk about their interests—if they think you might genuinely be interested. But too many children are used to having their interests dismissed or shut down by adults, and have learned to distrust the ‘When You Grow Up’ Question for precisely that reason. So ask different, more thoughtful questions—and be careful to respond positively. Kids (of all ages) deserve positivity: they deserve to be excited about the world, and to have their excitement reflected back at them. Do Not Drain Their Joy!!!
My ten year old self would have lost their shit if an adult asked to see their rock collection. I had 87 objects. I liked to rearrange them by colour, hardness, shine. I would take them into school on rainy days and sit a bunch of seven year olds down in the library and do show and tell with my rocks. If I couldn’t remember actual geology facts, I would make up whatever sounded cool and they loved it. I had a lump of obsidian (I now use as a paperweight) and I told them that it comes from volcanos but I found it in a totally non-volcanoed area, hinted at a mysterious backstory and let them make up stories to fill in the gaps. I think one kid told me he thinks the rock is one of the ones the come from the stomachs of dragons that they use to bang together to make the sparks that ignite their flame breath and clearly a dragon had flown away from his volcano to die and the rock is all that’s left of it. And I was like yes child. you win. absolutely correct. cannot wait to see what else you do with that imagination.
This reminds me of those tests to determine what career paths you have available that they made us take from middle school through high school. I remember the first time the school was required to make my grade take a test to determine future possible professions. It was seventh grade computer class where we had to take a break from our normal projects and take a long test that was meant to make us think about what possibilities we had for future careers. In seventh grade, when we were twelve to thirteen years old. We took tests like that every year after that for various classes. In my senior year 2018-2019 the Pennsylvania government created a website that they were going to start children in kindergarten up to seniors take tests every couple of months to determine possible career choices.
They were starting to test kindergartners to see what future career choices they could have in fifteen plus years. Starting in kindergarten to push kids to choose a career path super early. I am twenty and still don't have a clue what I want to do. Hell the tests in senior year gave me Nail Technician as my first option, and I can not art for the life of me. My second is baker which I am actually considering, but I have always enjoyed baking, but another problem with baking, I cannot art. I spent my final art class drawing and painting various forms of a volcano. And my final problem with both nail technician and baking, I have weird allergies. Like I am allergic to red dye, which is in nail polish, nail polish remover, and food colorings.
So those tests have never helped me with anything. But testing children from as early as kindergarten which is like five to six years old is absolutely ridiculous. It was stupid enough in middle school, at the very least wait until we are in high school before making us think of what soul sucking careers we will be stuck with for the rest of our existences.
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Chapters: 1/1 Fandom: 僕のヒーローアカデミア | Boku no Hero Academia | My Hero Academia, Wizard101 (Video Game) Rating: General Audiences Warnings: Major Character Death Relationships: Kaminari Denki/Shinsou Hitoshi Characters: Kaminari Denki, Kaminari Denki's Mother, Shinsou Hitoshi, Midoriya Izuku, Todoroki Shouto, Yagi Toshinori | All Might, Shigaraki Tomura | Shimura Tenko, Sensei | All For One, Class 1-A (My Hero Academia) Additional Tags: Traitor Kaminari Denki, Shinsou Hitoshi is in Class 1-A, Alternate Universe - Canon Divergence, Character Study, Crossover, BAMF Kaminari Denki, U.A. Has a Traitor (My Hero Academia), U.A. Has More Than One Traitor, Kaminari Denki Angst, Kaminari Denki-centric, Magic, Dimension Travel, storm magic, Self-Reflection, Kaminari Denki has PTSD, Kaminari Denki has Issues, Not Canon Compliant, Spoilers, For Wizard101, Secret Identity, Identity Reveal, Identity Issues, No Dialogue Series: Part 1 of Glitch Verse Summary:
It has been four and a half years since I last had been home, or at least what I had thought of as home. I have spent four and a half years in a universe that is so very different but so similar to my home world. I have spent four and a half years since I had last been called by my actual name, not some made up name that was given to me upon enrollment in a school for magic called Ravenwood School of Magical Arts, or as it is more widely known as throughout the Spiral, Ravenwood Academy. I have spent four and a half years playing a hero for a set of worlds that are not my own, fighting battles and wars for a set of worlds that are not my own.
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Or a self-reflection character study behind a certain blonde with an electricity quirk who also happens to be a traitor, and a secret-not so-love child, more like a one-night-stand child.
We don't appreciate the fact that Bruce Wayne is a Kardasian level celebrity enough. Everyone knows him. I want more one shots and crack fic moments where the League (Pre identity reveals) just openly talk about Bruce Wayne in front of Batman.
Just imagine them playing fuck, marry, kill with famous actors and such and throwing Bruce into the mix. And Batman just sits there, silently suffering as he listens to the reasons why Flash and Lantern would marry, fuck, or kill him. He prays they choose kill. They don't.
there’s an incredible amount of glee that comes from watching a sibling do something so remarkably ill-advised and feeling the warmth and comfort in your heart swell at the knowledge you have literally the rest of both of your lives to keep reminding them of this one shining moment of Stupid
But then the incredible amount of dread that comes from your sibling watching you do something so remarkably ill-advised and the feeling of terror and fear in your chest rises at the knowledge that your sibling has literally the rest of both your lives to remind them of that one inexplicable moment of stupidity that you lay wake in bed remembering after all those years
Cosmic Balance
It doesn't even need to be a sibling. It could be a friend you grew up with and still are friends with.