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I am currently seeing this guy and he's great! He's so nice and wonderful, and the only guy I've dated that my friends like, but the thing is, I think I'm in love with someone else and have been for a while. Unfortunately this person goes to school far away. I feel sort of guilty. I really like this boy I'm seeing, and I don't think I'm leading him on exactly because I AM into him, I just don't think I could LOVE him because of my feelings for this other person. HELP! What do I do?

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There is this guy that I am crushing on in class. We do not have any mutual friends and I never see him outside of this one class. I've never pursued someone who is completely outside of my social circle before, and even though we get along really well and we always sit next to each other and talk we don't hang outside of this class space. How do you go about asking someone out or asking for someone's number without seeming aggressive/too forward when you only see them every once in a while?

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This boy told me that he loves me and I said it in return. But now that we've said that to one another, he doesn't respond to my texts right away, he'll respond like a day or so later, when he used to respond immediately. What does this mean? Does it mean anything?

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I have this thing for a guy I work with, but he doesn't know. It's pretty awkward because he talks about his other hook-ups with me and asks for dating advice. He probably isn't into me, but even if he were I wouldn't know because I'm pretty terrible with guys. HELP, I need somebody, HELP, not just anybody, HELP ME OUT! What should I do to handle these awkward, heart aching situations?

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What's the difference between loving someone and being in love with someone?

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I'm in love and I'm so scared he's going to randomly stop loving me! He doesn't give any signs and I have expressed to him this fear and he makes me reassured that he really loves me but I can't help these thoughts!

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I think I have a crush on my roommate, but she doesn't know. I don't even know if she likes girls in the way I do. What should I do?

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I keep feeling extremely lonely and pining for that special someone, but I find myself too busy to even think about dating anyone. What should I do?

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There is this guy that I am crushing on in class. We do not have any mutual friends and I never run into him anywhere other than our class. I've never pursued someone who is completely outside of my social circle and I'm not sure how to ask him out/ask for his number when I only see him every once in a while. We get along really well and goof around a lot. How do I ask him out without seeming aggressive or awkward?

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I think I am still in love with this girl, which is embarrassing because we haven’t had sex for a while. I think she loves me too, but we are not together because we both know we’re not compatible for a relationship. 1. Is it worth telling her and disrupting her life? 2. Do you think you can overlook “compatability”?

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How do you know whether you're romanticizing the past/being overly nostalgic or you genuinely miss an ex and want that person back?

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do you think you always know when you're in love with someone?

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do you think that being with someone always makes you less focused? i feel like there's this idea that people are more productive when theyre single. do you think that's true?

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i'm a person who loves having crushes- even if nothing comes of them, but lately i havent met anyone to have a crush on and it makes me really sad. what are ways of meeting new people to have crushes on? (like how do you meet people outside of your network?)

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if youre not sure if you want to be with someone or not be with someone is it better to not be with them? or be with them? i dont want to hurt someone by changing my mind all the time but it seems like im not happy when im with them but im even less happy when im without them! what do i do??

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How do I get over jealousy? Like seriously, all consuming awful ugly heart-wrenching jealousy???

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how do you know whether someone is actually into you or if they're just really enthusiastic about being your friend and want to hang out all the time? is it weird to ask?