Likes to be perched up somewhere(think spiderman perched up on a rooftop), not very physically active, but a lot of their strength could be in their legs.
They often think about how to react to a person because it may take time for them to learn what they want because they can be in survival mode rather than living life mode.
Career: CIA, they are good in careers where they can be analytical, and to the point, if possible.
Relationship:
Relationships often don't enter their minds.
If someone asks them out, it may take a few years of dating or marriage before they think “huh, I do like them.” and even if they do like them, they won't act any different.
Emma Frost from X-Men has some Anuradha qualities.
Ps: i am still learning and astrology is a forever learning subject. It may or may not be relatable. :)
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•° solar return observations °•
Solar return 7th house- the sign in your 7th house of your solar return will probably be the one to backbitch/backstab you👀. For eg- having Sagittarius descendant, people with sag sun or prominent sag placements are likely going to do you very wrong. 😊🪰
SR Uranus in 1st- an apparent change in the appearance of the individual. Dying their hair, a haircut, change in the makeup looks, joining the gym, having skincare routine, etc.🦄😋
SR Jupiter in the 12th- spiritual enlightenment🧞♂️. Could be the time youre very sensitive to the energies of the people. Seeing spirits frequently👻. (Hack- wear black tourmaline for the shield against negative energies). This is the time when everything will be clear to you, the intentions of the people, their traits, their habits, their trauma🤠 (your's aswell).👽
SR moon in the 6th- sensitive to other people's words, their criticism, etc. Take care of your health at this time please. Eating disorder. Very moody. Might eat spicy food alot. 🥲
SR neptune in the 11th- the friends, peers, acquaintances you have, you'll be getting to know about them more clearly👀 in negative way ofcourse, Alot of deceiving, lying, manipulation, taking behind your back, cheating, blah blah blah.😗🪓🩸
SR Saturn in the 11th- yes you ARE GOING TO LOSE FRIENDS, even the closest friend you have🙃. I honestly LOVE Saturn whatever house it's in because it fucking slaps you so hard that you begin to see everyfuckingthing very clearly🤪😶🌫️. Its going to be hard for you but dont worry youre better of with little to no friends than lying poopies.💩💝
SR venus in the 1st- you're going to be every 2nd person's crush, like literally fr. You're guna appear more ethereal and soft to the other person, maybe innocent too which will make the other person wAnT tO pRoTeCt YoU aT aLL cOsT🥺 because to them you're vulnerable to the world😐😐😐😐.
SR mars in the 3rd- alot of fights with your siblings/ cousins/ childhood friends. Way of communication may be direct, more straight forward, could even be a little cruel ehe🤭. Probably guna put people in their fucking place. Humbling down people alot.💅
SR aquarius ascendant- very detached from the emotions. Its like giving yourself 5 minutes to feel everything then after that, stop feeling completely until the next year. ORRR.... you could be in your feelings for the 1st or last 6 months then the rest of the year? Nonchalant🧘(could be opposite).Your mood for the year: 'eehh'😐 'Okhay'😐 'Yeah'😐 'Mhm'😐 'No'😐 'Don't'😐 'Shut up'😐 'Can you leave me alone'😐 'Youre so annoying'😐 'Can you stop'😐 'Omg youre a fucking fe/male'😐. Might be the year you'll question your sexuality.
SR lilith in the 4th- watch your closest ones/ own family turn against you just cuz you stood up against their negativity and manipulation. Oof!! 😍😍😍THE BEST YEAR EVERRR!!!🥳🤯💋 Sarcasm intented. Theyre going to spread false rumors about you. Play victim card in the situations they create. Its like creating a problem for you to solve.🧍🏻♀️🧍♂️🗣
SR venus in the 5th- will attract ALOT of love interests👀🔥🧲 but since its a 5th house, it wont be long lasting. For girls: this placement can make guys crazily obsessed with you for monthsss beware as they can note down your every move (3 of my friends had this and the guys ended up following them home, it was scary). For guys: this can make girls want to be with you just bcz everyone wants you, youre the center of everyone's attention (cheating could be involved too👀)
SR Sun/mars/pluto in the 6th- take care of your health because; sun: can make you vulnerable to the evil eyes which could lead you to falling sick frequently🪰🧿. Mars: your anger, impulsiveness, all the othet martian feelings, can make you sick as well, so beware of your surroundings and your mental health🎭. Pluto: the jealousy with this can turn physical real quick✂️. And all three: JUST. TAKE. CARE. 😀 🫠
SR moon in the 7th- sweeeeettttt cravings will ⬆️⬆️. Feeling very joyful for no reason🌞. Feeling 'Butterfly in the stomach' frequently🦋. Lovesick🐕🦺.
SR mercury in the 5th- you could hear from a friend that a lot of "certain someone's" like you😊. Love to talk about your interests and hobbies. Involvement in frequent get-togethers, random friends meet💁🏻♀️.
SR saturn in the 8th- might deal with your own fears. Could be a triggering year for you🧘.
SR nn in the 9th/12th- frequent travels🗺. Might overthink alot about the world and the life (a lot of what's, why's, who's, how's, etc).
Wherever SR Jupiter is, you're expanding that. Like for eg- 5th house: your interests, might pursue your hobbies, or if you already are, lets say an artist, youll expand your art, the type of drawings you make. 2nd house: your business. Money. Self esteem. Confidence. 11th house: your friend circle, electronics, etc.
SR saturn/neptune in the 8th- out of nowhere setbacks, betrayal, cheating, etc are possible. BUT you WILL receive a news about CERTAIN SOMEONE which will make you question them🤫. Or youll get to know some f-ed up family secrets😗.
SR Scorpio ascendant- watch people getting intimated💁🏻♀️. You're guna hear rumorssss about youuu👀🤫. Random guys/girls approaching you with the intention of "hUmBLiNg YoU dOwN" 🗣💩 (ykwim).
SR venus in the 7th- randomly, out of nowhere, falling for someone veryyyy haaarrrdd🕳🚶🏻♀️.This usually happens within 3-5 months after your birthday.
Whereas... 😗
SR neptune/saturn in the 7th- showing you why you shouldn't have😊. (If i were you i wouldn't give them a 2nd chance, many people don't deserve it🧘. Pay attention if its their "traits" or "company" either way, you shouldn't forgive them because "traits" are self explanatory, they wont ever change, and if its the "company" affecting them then its guna be tiring for you and trust me you wouldn't want a person who is gullible🧍🏻♀️).
SR Uranus anywhere- sudden. Anything sudden. For the better or the worse🎭. Out of nowhere. Unexpected👀. The ex you didn't see? Here s/he comes💩. Job offer🌞. Oldest friend contacting you🏌♂️.realization about career path. Your personality, your looks. Family dynamics. Home, etc.
SR lilith/neptune in the 1st/5th/7th/8th/10th/11th- people be copying youuuu i seeee👀. Your secret enemies wanting to be you👀. Copying your style, outfit, skincare. Haircare, haircut, your hobbies, even your career path🤾♀️. Amd they'll still have the audacity to TELL YOU how you should be doing *insert what you're good at* 🧍🏻♀️🧍♂️like?????. Jealousy runs deeeppp 😶🌫️.
Moon opposite MC or opposite 6th house ruler can show using work as a distraction this year, you will keep busy to deal emotionally.
Mercury aspect Saturn can point towards making important decisions, hard aspects can indicate making them unwillingly.
The year I had Leo rising in 18° (virgo degree), I knew I was getting a lot of attention but I was also very conscious when getting it. I was aware of the states and notice that I felt so seen, I just couldn't want it.
So somebody asked me this, Scorpio Venus in solar return can mean a lot of things facing betrayal in love, being desired by others, a passionate sex life. This can also mean being a little fearful and cautious in your love life.
Leo moon in 0° in 2nd house is will probably spend on some new hobby relating to arts/music. It's a good indication of starting to invest as well.
Venus in 12th can indicate losing money.
Jupiter in 8th house shows maturing up when it comes to money, you will be wising up and knowing how to use it responsibly.
Saturn in 1st/virgo rising/Saturn conjunct Sun/Saturn conjuct SR ascendant lord shows it's a year of routine and consistency, it shows monotony in year. Could be year you get a job, start education.
Pluto in 1st/5th/10th/6th in SR shows being that you may be "the new person" somewhere this year.
Look out for years when you have sun in 8th house of solar return, those years are always something big happening.
Sun conjunct Saturn in 5th/7th/8th/2nd house indicates maturing and wising up about relationships, you may wait for the right partner or you look for commitment than flings. These are the years you can have epiphanies of what you really want when it comes to partners and intimacy. Always look out for Sun and Saturn conjucts in Solar return.
So one of you asked this, Pluto and moon in 7th house of solar return indicates having a change of heart possibly in a relationship (if already in one), it can be solidifying a commitment or a significant change in the relationship that will be a turning point emotionally, state of your moon will tell you how you will deal with it. Moreover, if single can show change in perception towards relationships and partnerships, gaining fame or being known, attracting envy. If moon aspects your ascendant, this will likely have an impact during the majority of the year or will be a significant theme during the year.
Moon in 4th or conjunct your IC in solar return can create feelings of wanting a family or a big family. That may be your own or desiring to create one.
Moon in 11th house of solar return can show you desiring for new experience. With that if you have 11th lord in its own sign, exaltation debilitation you may actually get to experience new things this year.
Moon in 2nd house of solar return can show a strong craving for deep connections this year.
Moon in Scorpio or pisces can make you detach or devoid of any desires, you may feel not wanting to indulge in things that gave you joy.
Saturn in 10th house shows you can be working towards things destined for you. Whatever you will work on will give fruits in the big picture.
When you have Saturn conjunct sun in SR, you are driven to be more focused and take responsibility of the house you natal sun is in. Lets say you have sun in 6th house in natal chart - you will try to work on your routine and health this year, eat healthy. Sun in 12th - trying to work on your sleep schedule
When I had Mars conjunct Venus in my 6th, I had the craziest attraction towards a coworker. All fun though, very light hearted flirting.
Having SR ascendant in my natal 11th house, is a good year to be popular much more better than 5th house I would say, it's more developed and mature. You have good pleasant presence socially, people like you and know you just for who you are.
Having moon in Scorpio in your solar return can make you want to isolate fron your close ones, there can be distance with real family as well.
Disclaimer: This is for general and entertainment purposes. Also if any of those houses are empty, look for the ruler of that house to give you more insight! There are so many content ideas out there, I listed what I could think of. Just in case you needed some ideas! I do post astrology content on here because my 11th house ruler is actually in the 8th house. In Vedic, mercury is in Aquarius in the 8th (Aquarius rules astrology) As a Leo rising, I do love being on camera 🥰 On my personal Instagram, I post selfies with a pretty background (Taurus mc things as well as my Leo rising) 🤭 Remember that not every rising sign has the same type of persona! You are each your own 🤍 If the content you post already now doesn’t relate to any of these, that doesn’t mean anything. Post whatever you want! this can apply to Vedic astrology and you can use any house system. This can also apply to your solar return and progressed charts. We are meant to evolve and utilize the current energy of our charts. Enjoy baddies! Part 2 will be up either later today or tomorrow. Thank you for being patient 🤍
BLACK MOON LILITH. 🌙 THE POWER OF SEDUCTION. 💋 & HOW TO USE IT TO YOUR ADVANTAGE. 🐍
Introduction
[please read. Examples for each sign/house included below]
✨ Who is Lilith?
To be honest, no one really knows. In some mythologies, she is Adam’s first wife who was banished from the Garden of Eden for being subordinate. In others, she’s a cxm stealing night demon who causes men to have wet dreams so she can steal the sperm & eat the babies??? (I think. I may have made that last part up, but it sounds about right). I chose to believe she’s somewhere in the middle.
Her mystique is a part of her allure, much like women to men in general. She’s like the High Priestess in tarot. An all knowing witch w her foot upon a crescent moon, holding all the secrets to the known & unknown. Sexy, right?
No matter the background story, Lilith is THAT BXTCH. (That is, if you’re into the whole sexy demon lady thing). She speaks of unbridled feminine power. The dark side of the moon. Lilith represents the untamable part of feminine energy. Chaos in its purest form. & low and behold, we all have a Lilith within us, scratching to get out.
🎵Glory Box- Potishead
“Give me a reason to love you.
Give me a reason to be a woman.
I just wanna be a woman”
(if you don’t know this song, you are missing out)
✨ Definition of Seduction
1. The act of seducing — especially the enticement of a person to sexual intercourse
2. Something that seduces: temptation
3. Something that attracts or charms
- Merriam Webster Dictionary
✨ The Power of Seduction
Like the snake charmer charming the snake out of the basket; Seduction is the art of charming the snake out of *his* basket…if you know what I mean *wink*…just kidding. In all honesty, seduction is so much more than sex & getting someone to sleep w you. It’s about attracting the energies, people, places & things that you want into your orbit. The power of seduction IS the feminine super power. It is the power to be desired, the power to tempt & entice & ultimately, the power to manifest. Why do I say it’s a feminine super power? Not because girls are the only creatures that can seduce, no. But rather because feminine energy is all about receiving. It is vital for feminine energy to be able to lure in its object of affections or else it won’t be able to survive. Always remember, the Moon (feminine energy) is only able to RECEIVE & REFLECT light from the Sun (masculine energy). The Moon doesn’t create light itself— inherently making it “negative” energy because it only takes. The Sun on the other hand, has enough light to spread around, giving freely, making it “positive” energy. See the connection? This doesn’t have to do w gender at all & has everything to do w how energies flows between negative & positive/dark & light.
To seduce is to control, to manipulate, & to influence. Like The Magician in tarot, casting spells & pulling rabbits out of his hat, seduction is the fine craft of illusion, allure & making things appear out of thin air— using the best parts of yourself to reel in the best of catches. When you understand your seduction style, you better understand how to use what you got to get what you want! AND THAT is when the magik happens, baby!
✨ This post is going to be about how to tame the untamable. How you can use your star given gifts to the best of your abilities & attract whatever/whoever you want in to your life, bringing blessings down from the sky. Once you master your Lilith, you master your own shadow, your own inner chaos, your own power of seduction— & merge into one being, always striving for your highest good & manifesting beyond your wildest dreams. While looking damn sexy doing it!
✨Below you will find descriptions for each Lilith placement by zodiac sign/house, celebrity examples, songs/lyrics, films/characters & seduction tips! Enjoy!
🎵Sexy Bitch- David Guetta ft. Akon
⚠️ FYI: I will be using sidereal examples, HOWEVER, this is still applicable to western tropical astrology! Please, don’t plagiarize my work. I put a lot of time, energy, effort & thought into my writings & I ask you please respect that. If your description doesn’t resonate, try reading the Lilith placement ABOVE if you are reading for your western sign. You may learn something new!
⚠️ I do not want to offend ANYONE by using traditional gender pronouns. I am a cis-gender heterosexual female, so I am writing from the perspective I know best. I am NOT trying to say this is the only perspective that matters. I have included cis-woman, trans women & even drag queens as examples in this post. Please feel free to share any insights you have, no matter the gender, non-gender or perspective! I’m truly open & supportive. This is not an exclusionary post.
Special shout-out to my little sister who helped me conduct research for this post! I love you so much! She’s the one who encouraged me to start this tumblr lol 🖤💋
ON WITH THE SHOW:
✨ Lilith in Aries/ Lilith in the First House
The Embodiment of Lilith
Ruling Planet: Mars
Tarot Card: The Magician/The Emperor
Lilith is more than comfortable in Aries/1H. She’s the provocateur, the fire dragon, the mistress. Lilith finds a lot of power in the first house & in the first sign of the zodiac. She loves playing the sexy villain, one who causes men’s head to turn & woman’s stomach to drop. She IS Lilith. Well, at least the façade of her.
If you have Lilith in the first house or in Aries, you seduce by simply being you. Be bold. Be present. Be open. You don’t shy away from competition, because you know other woman can’t compete w your daring & enticing nature. You don’t see competition, you walk up to it & squash it. Your aggression may turn people away, but it will activate the right mate that will find you irresistible & charming. You ooze w sex appeal & look best in blacks & reds. There is a commanding energy surrounding you that causes others to want to ACT. You bring out other’s masculinity to the forefront— the competitiveness, the passion, the anger, the rage, the lust— and all you have to do it walk into the room.
You tend to wear more daring & revealing clothing & make your admirers drool. You usually have tattoos & piercing— giving off a fierce edgy vibe. Your favorite wardrobe is probably something related to the 90s, be it a band tee or a choker. You wear makeup like it’s war paint! Real garage band glamour. You may have a nasty habit of attracting married men because you bring out the animalistic & primal energies in even the most domesticated of men. You have an energy where people just want to taste & tame you, hoping they can satisfy your seemingly unquenchable sexual thirst. If a man has laid eyes on you, best believe something started stirring inside him. If a woman has laid eyes on you, best believe something started stirring inside her. Never question if you’ve made an impact. You ARE the impact.
Be aware that this can attract the wrong type of attention as well. This Lilith sign is likely to have had some unfortunate sexual encounters, to put it lightly. The same energy that attracts your prey, can sometimes attract a predator,l. This this Lilith sign has to be particularly careful not to attract people trying to steal power away from them. It’s because of your power that you are so undeniably desirable. But sometimes people will want to overpower you & that can lead to serious problems. Own it. Don’t be afraid of it, but be wise.
All in all, when you walk in a room, people see Lilith. You are their worst fear & most lustful fantasy. Show your dominant & masculine take charge side & you’ll have the right partner wrapped around your finger. You, more than any other Lilith placement (maybe not Capricorn/10H depending on how much money is involved) are okay w the being the bad gal— so be it. Sometimes your relationships can go from extreme passion to extreme hate but you enjoy the journey, it’s all the same to you. Primal. Animalistic. Untamed. Wild. There is always an air of volatility in any of the relationships you are truly fascinated & enthralled in. Your fierceness is your super power & some people can’t handle it. You don’t sweat like a whxre in church on Sunday because you’re ashamed, you’re sweating because you’re too busy fxcking the Priest. Everyone knows it & you’d have it no other way.
🎶 Lana Del Rey is a Lilith in Aries native. She is known for having an ongoing affair w the-man-who-shall-not-be-named, but was (& sadly still is) a mogul in the music & film industry when her career first started. She has had no issue sharing her experience of being a mistress & has seen the benefits of “being a bad bxtch on the side” (Sad Girl). Del Rey also talks about anger, passion, abuse & drugs in relationships— all things Lilith in Aries brings to the surface because of the primal energy associated w it. Think her third album “Ultraviolence” (If you have this placement & you haven’t listened to this album front to back…do it now, thank me later). It’s a great example of the highs & lows of multiple love affairs. Each song, like a chapter of a memoir, drawing out the extremes of love, hate passion & lust from a femme fatale perspective. Although Lana has been the center of controversy when it comes to promoting “toxic” relationships— she’s NEVER shied away from who she is & the types of relationships she prefers. THAT’S the Martian in her. She welcomes the taboo & the “ugly” parts of love no one would dare talk about & makes it into a poetic, drug induced, teenage fever dream. She has been & will be, the misunderstood mistress of the decade.
🎵 Ultraviolence — Lana Del Rey
“He used to call me DN
That stood for deadly nightshade
'Cause I was filled with poison
But blessed with beauty and rage”
🎵 Sad Girl — Lana Del Rey
“Being a bad bitch on the side
Might not appeal to fools like you
Creeping around while he gets high
It might not be something you would do, but
You haven't seen my man
He’s got the fire
And he walks w it
…
His Bonnie on the side”
🎞 The Girl With The Dragon Tattoo
👑 Honorable mention:
Shakira (there’s a she-wolf in the closet, amiright?)
(A lot of celebrity men have this placement, I’m sorry this list is a little short for woman, but you have a LOT of men, Bruce Lee…Will Smith (cough cough, Ryan Reynolds, and some…um…some war criminals. I’m going to leave them out, but I’ll give you a hint, they both definitely contributed to the onset of WWII. Do with that info what you will…lol)
Drop a flame 🔥 emoji down below because you’re on fire, baby!
✨Lilith in Taurus/ Lilith in the Second House
The Sensuality of Lilith
Ruling Planet: Venus
Tarot Card: The Empress
Lilith in Taurus/2H is all about the finer things in life. This Lilith expresses true— stand out beauty. Be it the face, the body or the whole package. Beauty is projected onto this Lilith sign more than any other, even if the person possessing this placement doesn’t see themselves in that light. This Lilith is all about exploring the senses— all the things that make us human and alive. Lilith in Taurus/2H will only want the best foods, the best wine and the best sex— no if and or butts (unless you’re into that) about it.
If you have Lilith is the 2nd House or in Taurus, you are a natural beauty— whether you feel that way naturally or not, people find you irresistibly attractive. Always remember, attractiveness is not solely based on looks! Your scent is delicious, the way you move your hips is hypnotizing, your taste in music—impeccable! You ARE the sexy vibe. You can be a show-stopping beauty in sweatpants or in couture. You are beauty and grace personified!
This is a placement for a muse and you can use this to your advantage in terms of seducing and attracting whatever you want into your life. Because you may not see your outer beauty, sometimes it could be beneficial to have someone see it for you! For instance, you could be a model, but it may be better for someone else to dress you! People will see the beauty in you in places you would never imagine yourself, so be open to other people’s view. You may be too calm, cool & collected to truly see how you shine.
You win over any admiring lover by cooking, caressing & providing a homey environment that anyone would feel comfy in. Light candles, play music, add tactile toys to your bed pleasures. Listen, you would totally KILL in some lingerie— anything that stimulates the senses (taste, touch, smell, sight & sound) you are QUEEN! And don’t you forget it. You exude femininity & people will want to cater to you, so let them!
The dark side of this Lilith can be getting too comfortable! Be mindful not to just chase highs & pleasurable experience & leave responsibilities and health on the back burner. Remember to stay engaged with the harsher part of realities, so you can fully enjoy the good things in life. What’s pleasure without pain? You also have to be smart with your temper. It’s slow to rise, but once it gets going…it’s GOING, so be careful not to alienate those you love in a temper tantrum. All in all, you are one beauty queen & you should wear your crown proudly! You are walking art. Sometimes this can become a burden, however, because you are more than your looks. So sometimes your beauty & sensuality can be a gilded cage. I recommend using your beauty to your advantage, but being deliberate in not allowing it to be all of who you are.
🎶 Megan thee Stallion is a beautiful example of a Lilith in Taurus native. She is tantalizing to the senses & posses an all around bold & beautiful presence, from her head down to her toes. For the music video, “Big Ole Freak”, she is playing around w color, stimulating to eyes, bubbles, stimulating to the touch & her voice is cool and smooth, stimulating to the ears. Although fashion wise, Megan hasn’t always hit the mark, no one can deny her beauty AND THAT is the power of a Lilith in Taurus native. You just are beautiful, you don’t need all the glitz & glamour to prove it! Megan is also one of the most sensual rappers out to date. She deals w themes of sex & pleasure almost exclusively.
🎵Big Ole Freak- Megan thee Stallion
“"Baby lemme rub, lemme rub on ya
Can I get a lil' love, lil' love from ya"
My body addictive it's driving him crazy”
🎞 Scarface
👑 Honorable mentions:
Megan Fox
Lady Gaga
Drop a cake 🎂 emoji down below because you’re delicious!
✨ Lilith in Gemini/Lilith in the Third House
The Mind of Lilith
Ruling Planet: Mercury
Tarot Card: The Lovers
Lilith in Gemini/3H always brings a mind-blowing experience to someone in this Lilith native’s presence. Lilith here is quick witted, intelligent, worldly & one of the greatest conversationalist to grace this planet—and she knows it. She is able to enrapture her prey with light banter, chilling tales of late night rendezvous in the big city & possess an effortless coolness that keeps people coming back for more & more. This Lilith is certainly one to play the cat & mouse game, mentally— heck! She is the one’s who wrote the rules!
If you have Lilith in the 3H or in Gemini, you seduce by the sound of your voice & the impressiveness of your mind. You know how to tell a story & get anyone to hang on to the edge of their seat, wondering what your next witty comeback is going to be. Now, having this Lilith means you are not the most committal on the planet, so you will really have to be aware of how you cast your web. What you consider light flirting may really awaken true feelings of desire in someone else and you could send the “wrong” message. (You may get off on this in fact, actually….you’re secret is safe w me).
To be honest, you look good in anything! It’s not your outer appearance that matters, but rather your inner intellect that makes you undeniably attractive. People will remember things you say in passing for years & years to come. So always choose your words wisely.
This may actually be one of the hardest Lilith’s to tame because you are all about exploring as many experiences as you possibly can—simply so you can talk about them later. This may confuse people who are attracted to you, and maybe even confuse you at times if you are unaware of your nature. Because this is a masculine & extremely cerebral Lilith, you will have to be mindful and take into considerations people’s feelings. Yup, feelings aren’t your strong suit. You can easily manipulate and entice with just the sound of your voice, but there are feelings behind your actions & you should be responsible because other people may not be as heady or as detached as you are. You would do a lot better in partnerships w other Masculine Lilith signs such as other Air & Fire placements. You have no issue leaving someone who believes they are deeply & madly in love with you on read. And that is your magic, but also your curse. They way you can fly from person to person, relationship to relationship can leave people feeling like they never mattered to you at all. Once you detach, you detach…sometimes, never to to be heard from again. You’re not as dreamy as Pisces, but you’re just as elusive & can a leave a lover asking “did that even happen?”.
To seduce, invite people to a night out, or go on a date to an art museum or gallery. Your lover will be genuinely impressed by your knowledge & how you know how to work a room. They enjoy seeing you flutter from conversation to conversation, never missing a beat. You know a little about a lot, but seem endlessly fascinating & full of otherworldly adventures. You objects of affection will appreciate the way you always seem to know a little something about something. Your intelligence & gift of gab are UNMATCHED. You are most likely highly educated or at least give off the aura that you are. Just be careful not to come off as a know-it all. Always leave a little room for learning!
All and all, this can be a very powerful Lilith placement because your intellect is sexier than any lingerie— but chances are, you look good in lingerie too. You can seduce the hardest men/partners to pin down, because YOU certainly give them a run for their money! Look at Amal Clooney! She’s a Lilith in Gemini native & was able to woo & marry one of Hollywood’s most eligible bachelor’s, George Clooney! There is power in your words— strong seduction power— use it wisely! Or else be a tornado/whirlwind, leaving your lover dazed & confused like Dorothy waking up in Oz.
🎶 Doja Cat is a Lilith in Gemini native. In her career, she’s been a rapper & a singer (I think she is a DOPE rapper, doesn’t get enough credit for her penmanship) and uses her voice to inspire & seduce millions. She’s so good, she can sing a song about being a cow & people drool. I think it’s interesting that she picked the name Doja “Cat” because I think cats embody the Lilith in Gemini energy so well. You may have a cat…but do you OWN a cat? Cats are notoriously smart & mischievous…so is this Lilith placement.
🎵 Rules- Doja Cat
“Play w my p—, but don’t play w my emotions…
I need devotion
Leaving you with that lotion
Telling me this and that, the third
That sh— for the birds, I'm ghosting
if you don't dive in that p— like dolphins”
🎞 Cat Woman (the character, choose any Batman movie & any actress)
Clementine - Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind (I want to highlight her change of hair color, every time they meet. Gemini energy is known to switch the look up, quick!)
👑 Honorable mentions:
Amal Clooney
Judge Judy (she’s iconically witty & smart-mouthed. Made an entire career off talking sh—)
RuPaul (THEE Drag QWEEN, Hunty!!! Notice how Ru is able to switch effortlessly into another larger than life character. If that’s not Gemini duality, I don’t know what is!)
Frieda Kahlo (I could do an entire post on this one! Trust me. She’s amazingly dope if you aren’t familiar w her life story)
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✨ Lilith in Cancer/Lilith in the Fourth House
The Empathy, Compassion & Chaos of Lilith
Ruling Planet: Moon
Tarot Card: The Moon
Lilith in Cancer/4H is an extremely powerful feminine energy. This can be a very chaotic placement— as Lilith may experience fluctuating moods & deep dissatisfaction in life— but can be an extremely loving and compassionate placement as well, that is willing to sacrifice her own happiness in order for others to feel supported, loved & nurtured. It’s when she doesn’t feel as if she’s getting the same treatment that we run into problems. She is the ultimate mother figure, and sometimes mothers have to do what no others will do to protect those they love & care about most. Lilith her is very emotional, sometimes so in tune w how she feels, she forgets to acknowledge the world around her, comfortable in her own world of woes. Lilith here has unbridled power to manipulate emotions— her own, but most importantly, those that are drawn closest to her.
If you have Lilith in Cancer/4H you are lovingly empathetic & this is your card of seduction! You can sense how others are feeling & use it to your advantage. Your nature allows you to see what others are unable to see within themselves, especially when it comes to unexpressed & repressed emotions. You yourself have probably struggled w emotions that sit just beneath the surface, at any moment ready to boil over. Hence why you are such a deep & impactful lover— like the phases of the moon, their are so many different shades of color to your personality.
You look particularly attractive in dresses and loose fitting clothing— your lucky, you look best when you look comfortable! I’m sure some of you may be very blessed in the breast department, so show off them boobies when you really want to cast your spell on someone.
With this placement, you will have to be careful of attracting people w deep rooted “mommy-issues” and/or who are just genuinely unhappy. Because you possess a strong & caring nature, your partners could try to use you to fill that hole that was left there by a parent— NOT YOUR JOB! However, you can use this gift/persona to your advantage, just don’t let it drain you. You can make anyone feel welcome & at home, but you have to make sure that you’re not trying to please someone who is unappeasable— that’s like trying to fill up a cup w a hole in bottom of it!
To seduce, invite people (you trust) into your home. Let them see you in your natural habitat. Comfortable & in charge. You shine in your own dwelling & people will fantasize about coming home to you every night! Your intuition is so sexy, the way you just know things can be spooky to some, but a huge turn on to others. You know how to love w a big heart & tangle anyone into your web. Don’t be offended by the mom trope, MILF’s do exist! Just don’t be taken advantage of by people because they have a sob story & don’t take advantage of people with your sob story either. This can be a particularly emotionally manipulative placement, so try not to weaponize your tears & recognize when others are doing it to you.
All in all, this is a very special Lilith sign. You truly are the dark side of the moon. Mysterious. Intriguing. All the things a woman can be. At times, you can be a bit scary. You bring emotions & feelings to the surface in other people that they wouldn’t usually explore. This is a gift! Be careful not to let it feel like a curse.
🎶 Princess Diana is a perfect example for Lilith in Cancer native. On one hand, she was beloved, compassionate, philanthropic & one of the brightest stars to shine from the Royal Court in centuries! She was good hearted, good natured & and was undeniably a mother figure for millions of people around the globe & her death was a tragic loss. On the other hand, she is said to have been an emotional wreck any time the cameras weren’t on. She caused a lot of havoc in the Royal Court due to her emotional outburst & people that were closes to her found her manipulative & immature. I am NOT trying to pass judgment here, at the end of the day, I was not there, I do not know her, hell, I wasn’t even born...but I think it’s a chilling example of the different layers of a Lilith in Cancer and how much of an impact/divisive effect it can have, depending on who is on the receiving end & what situation they are in.
🎵California King Bed- Rihanna (Lilith in Cancer native)
“Just when I felt like giving up on us
You turned around & gave me one last touch
That made everything feel better
And even then, my eyes got wetter
So confused, wanna ask you if you love me
But I don’t wanna seem weak”
🎞 Mommy Dearest
(Scrub Christina! Scrub!)
👑 Honorable mentions:
Naomi Campbell
Rihanna
Grimes
Aaliyah
Normani
Zendaya
Shonda Rhimes
Foxy Brown
Melania Trump
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✨ Lilith in Leo/Lilith in the Fifth House
The Drama of Lilith
Ruling Planet: Sun
Tarot Card: The Sun
Lilith in Leo/5H is another masculine side of Lilith. Here, Lilith is bold, creative and also a DRAMA QUEEN. She is dynamic, knows how to make an entrance (and exit) and is absolutely Legendary. Using her grace, charm & will power to dominate & win over anyone, people feel as if they are in the presence of royalty. She is the playwright, the actress, the cast, the crew, but NEVER the audience when it comes to how she lives her life. This Lilith can encompass the performance of femininity as an art. Capable of so much fire & passion, this Lilith placement can make icons that are remembered for centuries!
If you have Lilith in Leo/5H, you seduce by being the over the top, sophisticated, generous & dramatic woman that you are! You know how to curate an image— a heightened character of yourself— and perform it to anyone who is willing to watch (or not, you don’t care who’s looking, you will ALWAYS put on a show). The issue w this Lilith placement is sometimes you can feel trapped in the larger than life persona you’ve created for yourself & feel suffocated by the very drama you created in the first place.
When it comes to clothing & fashion, you know how to dress yourself. You know how to make a statement w your wardrobe, while still remaining classy & on trend. In fact, you ARE the trend. You treat the world as your runway! Be careful not to get too caught up in brands & luxury. Sometimes, your need to be seen can leave quite a whole in your bank account. However, you may always feel it was worth the money as long as people are GAGGING!
To seduce, be in your natural habitat— the theatre! Or really anything that is artistic & creative in nature. Leo/5H energy is arguably the most creative energy out there (& and I say that w heavy pisces placements) & Lilith just super charges it! When you write, speak, act, draw, paint, sing, &/or create is when you shine the brightest! You can also be great w kids, particularly kids that aren’t yours. (You kids may steal the spotlight from you, although you will always be a fierce protector, you will not appreciate them taking away your attention). You know how to lead & command. People want to listen to you! You rule with flair!
Of all the great qualities this powerful Lilith has to offer, one draw back is to NOT get caught up in your own ego. As a child, you could have suffered from not feeling seen or heard & had a very low-self esteem, so you created an alter ego to better navigate the world as an adult OR the success that you get off your creative pursuits ends up projecting an alter ego onto you. Meaning, you could be shy naturally, but because you’re a movie star, people don’t think you’re shy & expect you to be ON all the time. This dynamic can cause you to be very sensitive about how you come off to others & you may not take criticism well, seeing it as a slight or as if someone is purposely trying to expose the “quiet/awkward/nerdy person” you may feel you are deep deep deep down. With this Lilith, your ego is your best friend, because you made sure to build it up, but it’s also your biggest enemy— because at any moment you may feel it can come crashing down.
All in all, this is one of the most dynamic Lilith placements. You are not afraid to cry, yell, laugh or smile when it comes to expressing your emotions in the world. You’re not afraid to bare it all— you’ll be the only one to know if your acting or if you’re coming from a genuine place (and sometimes you may not even know yourself).
🎶 Marilyn Monroe is a Lilith in Leo Native! Congratulations, you hit the Old Hollywood Sex Symbol jackpot with this placement! Monroe’s image is so iconic and so well known, one could easily say, she is one of last centuries Queens of Sex. Monroe was the top paid actress at one time, but again, fell into the trap of being known for her character, rather than who she was. Not to make light out of her untimely demise, but how DRAMATIC! She lived her life w absolute flair. I mean, she had an affair w the sitting U.S. President who was one of the most beloved men at the time and then HE DIED! I mean, grab the popcorn! (But also, rest in peace to anyone who lost a loved one.) Monroe IS feminine DRAMA! The ultimate no-body, turned sex fantasy, turned starlet, turned tragic ending. This is obviously an extreme example of what this placement is capable of, but you get the picture! People don’t even no Norma Jean. Like who? But we all know Marilyn. A blessing & a curse.
🎵Set Fire to the Rain- Adele (Lilith in Leo native)
“But I set fire to the rain,
Watched it pour as I touched you face
Well, it burned while I cried
‘Cuz I heard it screaming out your name”
— (see, so dramatic! Side note, Adele writes a majority of her songs…that’s the creativity I’m talking about! This Lilith in Leo placement can be a one woman show)
🎞 Chicago
👑 Honorable mentions:
Adele
Zoe Kravitz (yes, people know her as Cat Woman now, but she has done music as well, Lolawolf is super dope. She really is a creative firecracker! I’ve been a fan of hers for years! Her TV shows are good as well.)
Kylie Jenner
Trixie Mattel
Queen Elizabeth (I mean, duh, she’s LITERALLY A Queen, like a real life Queen, for real)
Eryka Badu
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✨ Lilith in Virgo/Lilith in the Sixth House
The Virginity & Purity of Lilith
Ruling Planet: Mercury
Tarot Card: The Hermit
Lilith in Virgo/6H is a bit of an oxymoron. Virgo energy is all about purity, health & virginity, while Lilith is all about sex, passion & fierceness. Now those things don’t inherently negate one another, but, on the surface it feels like it does. Here, Lilith is the Virgin Whore, the tease, the girl next door with a freaky side. She’s refined and turns her head at impurities or imperfection— yet somehow manages to leave a trail of chaos in her quest for perfection. She’s clean, she’s attractive & she makes sure to always present her best self…however, everyone has their skeletons & this Virgo placement can’t wash them away completely— no matter how hard they want to perceive their image of innocence.
If you have Lilith in Virgo/6H, your seduction method is one of subtlety. You could attract partners simply by being non approachable. Meaning, your standards are so high, almost no one is good enough to pass Go when it comes to moving things to the next level. You expect the best from others—but always, mostly from yourself. Your self-criticism causes you to be a machine of trial & error. You know what works & what doesn’t. You, like Leo Lilith, have done a magnificent job of creating a squeaky clean version of yourself & you try more than anything to keep that facade going. Only the most daring, bold & beautiful partners can catch your eye & keep your attention.
(As I’m writing this, I thought of Shrek & Fiona. Fiona was so high in her tower (pure & untouched), only Shrek was brave enough to go get her. Only to find out she was an Ogre as well! She was never the perfect beautiful stereotypical princess, she was always something so much deeper & more complex than that, but she was forced/wanted to hide it away. Hmmm…maybe I’ll do a deep dive on that later. Back to the show…)
When it comes to fashion, you look good in really earthy tones & free flowing clothes, OR sharp tailored, (expensive) well fitting gowns & suits. You tend to dress for your jobs or careers, so chances are, if you’re not in baby doll dresses w sweetheart necklines, you’re in a pencil skirt, beautiful heels and a button down. No matter what you’re wearing, as long as you’re giving the illusion of having complete control of your life, you look good. As far as make-up goes, with this placement, you could be all natural— only wearing lip gloss or some very very very light blush & mascara, perhaps it was even too awkward for you. After all make-up is for whxres (I kid, I kid)— but if you do wear make-up, you are doing it to PERFECTION. There will not be a flaw on your skin. You will be meticulous & routine about your make-up, but it could be so subtle that no one even knows you have it on! You really are a natural stunner. And because you have spent so much time mulling over every detail of you face, you know what to highlight and what to lowlight, if you know what I’m saying.
As I stated earlier, this is a very tricky & complicated Lilith. In my opinion, Lilith is pretty uncomfortable here. There is so much contradiction in the Virgin Whore trope, where to begin. At its worst, this Lilith placement can point out other’s flaws while still attempting to come off as holier than thou EVEN though they have stirred the pot & brought in their own shenanigans. At its best it can be so kind & serving to those around them— doing the things that no one else is willing to do for the greater good. The hyper criticism of Virgo energy in general, is brought to the forefront within this Lilith. Constructive criticism— good. Criticism just for the sake of criticizing— bad.
All in all, this Lilith can force this native to have to reconcile w their impurities & be OKAY w them. No one is perfect. You shouldn’t hold other people to an impossible standard, but most importantly, you shouldn’t hold YOURSELF to impossible standard. When this Lilith becomes unfulfilled, she can easily fall into someone who means well, but comes off as harsh & unsatisfied. It can be difficult for those who are trying to win her over, because they want the real you— not the perfect you! Think of Shrek and Fiona. He loved the ogre in her.
🎶 Jada Pinkett-Smith is a Lilith in Virgo native & if you’ve had any interaction w society over the past 4-years, you are very familiar w the word “entanglement” & well verse in the “slap heard round the world” that resulted in a 10-year Oscar ban on her husband, Will Smith. Pinkett-Smith is a very complex look at the power of Lilith & the true power it can have over people, particularly partners. In almost every video that has surfaced, Jada is seen berating & belittling Will in some way shape or form. Of course there is more to the story, but for the sake of this post, let’s go w the shallow version. Not only was the fight started by “defending Jada’s honor”, (keeping her image pure), it was brought on by a critical look of dismay at Will for laughing at the joke. THIS is how subtle & quickly this Lilith can cause people to act. As interesting as that slap is, I actually want to talk about the “entanglement” story, because in all honesty, it all started (from the public’s eye) during that red-table talk. Notice her use of language (Virgo is ruled by Mercury) in order to absolve herself of not being seen as someone who had an affair w a much much much younger man, but rather someone who slipped into a tricky situation that she would have otherwise never been apart of. (Listen, I am not hating about an older lady & a younger man, HOWEVER…I’m all about owning it! She didn’t want to because it would make her look bad AND THAT is what I’m trying to get at w this particular Lilith placement). Her need to be seen as perfect, even though she’s done some imperfect things is the very thing that is bringing chaos to her family & life. Granted, Jada’s mother was an alcoholic growing up, so she is only doing the best that she can. I’m sure that was a tough environment to say the least & I’m sure that’s why she attempts to have so much control in her adult life. I am not here to pass judgment, but this is a very telling example of the dark-side of this Lilith. This Lilith could easily fall into the obsessive-compulsive category if left unchecked.
I do want to end on a positive note! I LOVE virgo’s. My mom is a western virgo & so are some of my best friends. My current partner is a sidereal moon in Virgo & my little sister is a sidereal Virgo rising, hell my entire youtube channel is pretty much sponsored by Virgos (shameless plug, check it out, Kosmostrology)…why am I telling you this? It’s because I think you are some of the most giving, loyal & service oriented people. I think you are a very misunderstood sign & I love the purity and the way you see the world. There is nothing wrong w wanting to make the world a better place— NOTHING! Just always keep in mind, that your idea of perfect, may not be everyone else’s idea of perfect & as long as you remain flexible in your fantasy, you can be a wonderful mate, lover, & friend to anyone!
🎵I Want to be Evil- Eartha Kitt (Lilith in Virgo native)
“Prim and proper, the girl who's never been kissed
I'm tired of being pure and not chased
Like something that seeks it's level
I wanna go to the devil
I wanna be evil…”
(This song is ICONIC. It’s a bop from the 1950s! HIGHLY recommend you check it out. Eartha Kitt is an absolute Legend.)
🎞 Jennifer’s Body
👑 Honorable mentions:
Kim Kardashian (geez, I could go do an ENTIRE article on this Lilith placement with her, alone! Literally stepped on the scene w a sex-tape, got pimped out by her mother, gone through 3 marriages now, the most photoshopped & body altered person on the planet…and still manages to be a PRIZE & a dream girl for a lot of folks. A great example of the Sacred Whxre)
Oprah
Demi Moore
Selena (singer)
Eartha Kitt
Jodi Arias (In case you don’t remember, this is the woman who murdered her boyfriend by stabbing him like 140 times & came walking into the courtroom w pigtails & glasses trying to pass herself off as an innocent babydoll…the contradiction, see what I mean?)
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✨ Lilith in Libra/Lilith in the Seventh House
The Equilibrium of Lilith
Ruling Planet: Venus
Tarot Card: Justice
Lilith in Libra/7H is a mild placement for Lilith. But “mild” like a mild tasting fish. Meaning fish taste like fish, no matter what kind of fish it is, be it; tuna, cod, crab, shrimp or salmon (I’m hungry now), there will always be a fishiness to it…but in any case, the level of “fishiness” varies. I say all that to say, this Lilith is powerful & distinct no matter what kind of girl ( or fish lol) she is. She IS the balance scales of Karma even though her energy is soft. When one encounter a Lilith in Libra, one encounter a choice of plunging into the depths of their own psychology, addictions, sexuality & mortality (8th House) OR stay behind doing the day to day grind of living & routines, never truly knowing or exploring what’s on the other side (6th House). THIS IS POWER. And the funny thing about Lilith here, is she doesn’t even have to lift a finger to send her lover’s swirling in a bitter daze about their own shadows…even if they choose to ignore it. Much like the smell & taste of fish, this Lilith lingers— bringing out the most passionate of reactions. Some people love fish, some people hate it, either way, everyone has a choice on how they react to it.
If you have Lilith in Libra/7H, your method of seduction is extremely understated & subtle. Opposite of your Lilith in Aries/1H counterparts, you would rather flirt than fxck. You ARE a flirt, a charismatic beauty that has a cool detachment from strong opinions. You seem to be very passive in your communication style & tend to ride the fence. This is glorious & infuriating to anyone you wish to attract towards you. Lilith is back in a masculine energy within Libra. Much like Aquarius energies, Libras can carry that too cool for school vibe & people love it! You stay away from being overtly passionate, trying to remain the calm & level headed, but in doing so, you end up bringing out the fire in your partners.
Fashion-wise, you probably look good in anything! You know how to blend the classic couture w current trends. You probably don’t go too bold or over the top, preferring a look that accents your “good” parts while not being overtly sexual. You most likely believe in the rule of 2s for woman’s fashion. If you show boobies…no legs. If you show a lot legs…no boobies…something of that nature. You could also be very monochromatic in your choice of colors. You may have your signature color and/or style. After all, why fix what ain’t broke? That’s the most objective way of getting things done. You naturally keep up appearances, even if people don’t necessarily notice. You’re more likely to maintain your french manicure than pick new bold colors every time you switch up your nails.
You truly do hold the key of Karma when lover’s cross your path. Interestingly enough, I don’t think you’re much of a seductress w this placement, you are more likely to be seduced. You drive your partners mad w the idea of partnership w you, but you don’t ever truly commit— even in marriage. They may be all in & you may be all “meh.”, it just depends on what you feel you can get out of the connection. You are all about contracts & equal give it take. You know what you bring to the table…so they better match you or up the anti. You may find that as partners come into your life, they encounter some sort of loss. This is your energy (& their Karma) forcing them to explore the 8H parts of their psyche that they would otherwise ignore. With this Lilith, you are there as a gentle, nonjudgemental guide, ushering them into the dark side w a beautiful smile and witty conversation.
All in all, this Lilith placement is more about the people you attract rather than how you attract people. This is a very passive Lilith sign & that is its strength, but also its kryptonite. You can find yourself being the balanced one in the relationship OR you are the unbalanced one in the relationship & their really isn’t any in between. If you are chasing pleasure & people pleasing, forgetting to check on yourself in the process, you are possibly creating a path of destruction— leaving other people’s feelings in the dust as you float around from situation to situation. If the person you are dealing w is doing this, then maybe being passive isn’t the wisest decision for you. This Lilith placement, more than any other placement, could go EITHER way. You could gain & maintain control & balance or completely spiral out of the bounds.
🎶 Dolly Parton & Whitney Houston are both Lilith in Libra natives & they both sang “I Will Always Love You”, originally written by Dolly, of course. This song is 1.) ICONIC, but 2.) It’s a very loving & peaceful break-up song…but. for. who? “I Will Always Love You” is a song about sending your lover away because you know the paths you are going down will lead you in different directions. Dolly specifically wrote this song as a “farewell to her business partner and mentor, Porter Wagoner, expressing [her] decision to pursue a solo career”. (Wikipedia) I mean, C’mon…that’s SO Libra/7H, it’s cliche. Down to the business partnership! It’s heartbreaking when love isn’t enough to maintain the balance & commitment of a relationship. But THAT is the push. This Lilith placement talks about triggering partners & sending them on their way as you explore aspects of yourself that is ONLY brought out in partnership. While also being about leaving partners behind so YOU can find your own way. Yet, somehow, because Libra is so fair & balanced, they still want the best for their lover’s because best is only fair. This is the placement that will most likely have a whirlwind romance full of passion & desire & have to leave it behind. (I’m sorry!!!!!!) And although Dolly wrote a beautiful song & Whitney sang an exceptional rendition, I’m sure the people on the listening end were NOT happy about their decision to part ways and go solo (Aries 1H axis)— they maybe even got angry.
Digging deeper into Whitney Houston, she is a prime example of how an unbalance Lilith in Libra can send someone into the depth of addiction…i.e. her relationship w Bobby Brown. Legend has it, Bobby Brown was always a rebel rouser, but never a drug abuser. Once he got into an intimate relationship w Whitney, who on the surface is gorgeous, talented and truly a one of a kind artist, his relationship w drugs also took a huge spiral. He was flung into the shadows of the 8th house, wrapped up in her allure & charm. Now, am I blaming Whitney Houston for Bobby Brown’s “downfall”, no, not at all…I am pointing out that their relationship played a part into his overall development as a human being— for better or for worse, I am not here to judge.
Side note, because I think it’s interesting & worth noting…When writing this blurb, I found it fascinating how much I HAD to talk about the couple aspect of this Lilith. You WILL be in partnerships and coupled up more than any other placement because that is truly the only way you see your Lilith come out. It’s very telling because no other sign has been like that. 7th House is the house of “others” for a reason! You could be in some long-term relationships that are doomed from the start, but because of the Karmic nature of this Lilith, you HAVE to stick it out until the Karma is resolved. This Lilith placement is a twin-flame placement if I’ve ever seen one! This can also play a part in your business contracts.
(You always have free-will. If you’re in a toxic relationship, get out!! Don’t wait around for someone because of the twin flame label. I’m just pointing out some relationships could last longer than you originally intended).
🎵I Will Always Love You- Whitney Houston & Dolly Parton
“I hope life treats you kind
And I hope you have all you dreamed of
And I’m wishing you joy & happiness
But above all this, I wish you love
And I will always love you”
🎞 La La Land
👑 Honorable mentions:
Taylor Swift
Hunter Schafer
Lavern Cox
Julia Fox (note how she started dating Kanye right at the beginning of his divorce from Kim K.)
Megan Markel
(I’m also awarding this placement: “most likely to turn their breakups into catchy pop-songs”…here is your trophy, it’s real gold🏆)
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✨ Lilith in Scorpio/Lilith in the Eighth House
The Hidden Passion of Lilith
Ruling Planet: Mars (Western: Pluto)
Tarot Card: Death
Lilith in Scorpio/8H is a well of mystic endless fascination & almost obsessive sexuality, but not in the way most would think. Lilith here is dark, perhaps too dark, as the shadow side of her dwells in the deepest part of her psyche. Here, Lilith is about suppression, rather than expression. Her sensuality is obscured by her need to feel in complete control. It’s almost as if she’s too private to be truly intimate w someone— a part of her will always be hidden, for fear of rejection, abandonment & just overall loss of control.
If you have Lilith in Scorpio or in the Eighth House, you are a keeper of secrets & truth. Your power of seduction hides in your power to hide— hide feelings, hide memories & hide the darkest aspects of your self & arguably human nature as a whole. The ones drawn to you want you to reveal yourself to them— gradually watching you flower bloom. They want to be the person who cracks the code & opens up your impenetrable gates. Usually, it is assumed that this Lilith placement would be filled w lust & sexual energy, but we must remember what Scorpio truly means and the power the 8th House holds. Scorpio and the 8H are all about power & privacy— forcing Lilith in this position to always hide her power deep within herself in fear, that if released, it would be “deadly”. Meaning, everything that existed before the “reveal” will be turned to ash, nothing will remain & transformation & change are bound to occur.
This Lilith placement loves black (of course, who doesn’t), but I would actually like to draw attention to how conservative this placement is likely to dress. The irony in this placement is, with all the sexiness & power of allure it possess, most of the time, this Lilith wants to keep it hidden, a secret from the world. Think hijabs & head to toe covering in more conservative countries. (I am not passing judgement for or against, but it is a wonderful example here). The attire is meant to tuck away the power of feminine energy & make it sacred to those who are closest to it— rather than expose it for the world to see. (Again, not passing judgment for or against) You know how to dress & suggest. You may wear a turtle neck to the club & a maxi skirt to brunch…it really stems from a level of shyness but it can sometimes be misconstrued people thinking you are a prude. THAT IS NOT THE CASE! It is more so about preserving yourself & your sexuality for the man/partner w the most power, unleashing a level of sexuality, sensuality & intoxication that hasn’t been felt before. You are the Grim Reaper, leading your “victims” souls to their little death (orgasm) & renewal.
This Lilith placement MUST be careful not to hide so deeply within itself that it becomes unrecognizable to itself. Don’t be afraid of your power, own it & sell it to the highest bidder! (Literally or figuratively, not here to judge…I’d do it.) Once tamed, this Lilith placement will know how to project sex without actually having to be sexual. Because this Lilith is so deeply tied to psychology, you of all signs know how to hypnotize & seduce without letting your “volunteer” know they are even under a spell. THIS…this…is a super power, but it requires more discipline & restraint than others because it is so so so soooo powerful.
You may deal w deep wounds surrounding intimacy & self-expression. Your natural combustable energy could have been contained, shamed or drugged out of you. With this Lilith, you most likely were told that the “real” you is too taboo for the real world. You may have encountered people trying to take power from you, like your Martian counterpart, Lilith in Aries/1H. But unlike Aries energy, that calls for war & outright passion and almost instant gratification, Scorpio energy broods & dwells, seeking sweet sweet calculated revenge. THIS is another Karmic placement. Who knows how many life times you’ve lived, attempting to hone in on this power. It’s the ultimate power struggle for change & transformation— causing nothing but earth shattering shifts in energy like an earthquake. Sometimes you have been stalked, other times you have been the stalker. Sometimes you have been the victim, other times you have been the one holding the bloody knife. The Karma is so personal & so private, it is only between you and whoever the universe has chosen for your partner to this comic dance.
All in all, this Lilith placement is a bit subversive. You would think this sign would be the most sensual & sexually open, but it is absolutely not. This Lilith is all about the preservation of what is most sacred. It is capable of seeking light in the darkest of situations. Yet, this placement is more likely to draw out the darker behavior patterns in their partners, making them lustful, private & extremely calculating.
🎶 Beyoncé is a Lilith in Scorpio native & she perfectly exemplifies the power of this Lilith. Beyoncé is one of the greatest selling R&B pop-artist of all time, but sex was never the item she was selling until much much MUCH later in her career (compared to Megan thee stallion or Cardi B), AFTER being married and having a daughter. Beyoncé is one of the most private & elusive celebrities in the age of social media. She has managed to stay relevant, but beneath the radar. Even when her drama spills over in the public eye, (ummm…the Solange elevator incident) she slithers around the issue as if it never happened…I mean, do we still know what happened that day? No.
Beyoncé also demonstrates how this placement is attracted to power more than anything else. Her husband, Jay-Z, is no looker, but he’s absolutely brilliant and a business man. She saw this potential in him early & has been loyal to their relationship through him being a successful drug dealer— *cough cough* I mean, entrepreneur, into a music mastermind, all the way to BILLIONARE status! And now she gets to wear the most stately Tiffany’s diamond & go twerk in The Louvre.
Because the 8th house deals w money inherited & money made after marriage, this placement is more likely to be a “good luck charm” and bring riches through the spouse, rather than earning it themselves. Powerful.
Michelle Obama is a fellow Lilith in Scorpio & she is the epitome of class & elegance. Michelle ALWAYS looked good, but was never revealing or inappropriate for the position she was in. Oh yeah…and she just so happened to be married to the first Black leader of the free-world. Not bad for a little girl from Chicago! This Lilith may not sleep w everyone, but they know WHO to sleep w if you catch my drift.
🎵Dangerously In Love- Beyoncé
“With you next to me there's no darkness I can't overcome
You are my raindrops, I am the seed
With you and God who's the sunlight I bloom and grow so beautifully
…
I am in love with you
You set me free
I can't do this thing called life without you here with me
'Cause I'm dangerously in love with you
I'll never leave”
🎵Upgrade U- Beyoncé
“I hear you be the block, but I'm the lights that keep the streets on
Notice you the type, that like to keep them on a leash though
I'm known to walk alone, but I'm alone for a reason
…
I see your hustle with my hustle, I can keep you
Focused on your focus, I can feed you”
(I’m giving you two songs because I want to demonstrate the transformative effect this Lilith placement can have. From being dangerously in love one minute, to upgrading/transforming (8H) their partner into something bigger than they themselves could have ever imagined, the next. You bring out the power in your lovers. They are willing to do ANYTHING to make sure you are protected…even if it’s a little shady…or a lot shady tbh)
🎞 Olivia Pope - Scandal
Annalise Keating- How to Get Away with Murder
👑 Honorable mentions:
Cher
Michelle Obama
Courtney Love
Brittany Spears
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✨Lilith in Sagittarius/Lilith in the Ninth House
The Wisdom, Freedom & Exoticness of Lilith
Ruling Planet: Jupiter
Tarot Card: Temperance
Lilith in Sagittarius/9H exudes a certain exoticness that no outsider can truly harness. This Lilith is about freedom & exploration, always in pursuit of higher understanding of faith & spirituality. Another masculine Lilith placement, here we find her to be curious, interesting & full of experiences that reel in her in suitors. She is all about living outside the boundaries of what her “small-town” may say. She wants to travel! She wants to see the world! She wants to explore! Although in Western Astrology, Sagittarius energy is painted to be quite care-free & wild, in Vedic Sidereal Astrology, Sagittarius/Guru energy is on of the most serious signs of the zodiac (not saying they can’t have fun & throw a GREAT party). Following Scorpio/8H, Sag energy has experienced the depths of themselves & now want to grow & expand into the sunshine, teaching others and spreading light along the way. With that in mind, this Lilith placement always carries a certain knowledge that is sexy & beyond ordinary. It could be acquired through higher education or through life experiences. Either way, this Lilith is full of life & only attracted to those who understand the power of her wisdom. Her foreignness is glamorous to the everyday man. This Lilith is a placement for Princesses & Royalty. Think about how important education is to any royal family. One has to be impressive, worldly & smart to be able to handle world affairs!
If you have Lilith in Sagittarius or Lilith in the Ninth House, you are more likely to seduce someone outside of your culture OR you are somewhat exotic within your own culture. Perhaps you’re culturally mixed & speak two languages or just look different from how your ethnicity is usually described. THIS is one of your many powers. Regardless of if you are in your hometown or a distant land, you are seen as someone who is regal & intelligent. People know that if they can’t keep up with philosophical conversations, they need not apply. Your soul is always wondering from experience to experience— like your opposite sign, Gemini— the difference is you are more likely to turn these experiences into a religion & start a cult…lol. Your faith & beliefs are VERY important to you & people will find it sexy that in no matter what circumstances, you always seem to remain true to yourself. You require a certain level of freedom in all your commitments, be it traveling often or pursuing higher education, you may find it hard to settle down before your 30s. You have no problem walking away from relationships that no longer serve you after giving it your best.
You look best embracing your wisdom & spiritual gifts, while also maintaining a faith to your “origins”. So, if you have culturally traditional clothing, wear/modernize that! You will always stand out in a crowd full of trends & fast fashion. You could also be really interested in art from a cultural perspective, so you would do best to take your date to a museum & end the night dancing in some hole in the wall Ethiopian restaurant w a full afro-centric band dancing the night away. Or bringing your lover home to a culturally significant dish, introducing them to things & experiences they have never dreamed of before!
At its worse, this Lilith placement can become self-righteous and a know-it-all, so be mindful of other people’s opinions & try not to force your belief’s on others. Your way of spirituality/life may work for you, but it certainly won’t work for everyone. It is easy to become preachy because you are so passionate! That is not a bad thing, just something to monitor as you develop relationships & learn your communication style! ALWAYS remain curious & willing to explore. NEVER think you’ve mastered anything so you can remain open. As long as you continue to listen to those around you & don’t get blinded by your own faith, you will always be on the cutting edge of beauty & sophistication. Believe it or not, YOU ARE the Princess of the Zodiac.
All in All, this Lilith placement is all about learning & teaching. You teach your lover’s about life, expanding their horizons & opening their world up in ways no one every truly expects. You are unpredictable & live off your luck. This can easily pull your “seductees” in, as they want to know more & more & more about you. But the gag is, your life is a never ending tale!
🎶 Priyanka Chopra & Grace Kelly are both Lilith in Sagittarius natives. Both of these beautiful woman were actresses turned blushing brides to powerful and/or popular men. Chopra was able to land the much younger & very eligible bachelor, Nick Jonas, while Kelly was LITERALLY made into a Princess. I bet these woman know how to hold a conversation! In both relationships, there is an “otherness”. They were able to marry someone outside of their culture & adapt— teaching & learning new ways to view the world in doing so. I mean, Priyanka & Nick had like 10 weddings just to accommodate both of their cultural needs in union— how beautiful!
This placement is not just about race & ethnicity, it can also be about social class as well. The film example, down below, The Princess Diaries, starring Ann Hathaway, another Lilith in Sagittarius native, is about a “poor” girl who finds out she’s actually royalty. She then takes on a very personal journey to learn all the customs of Kings & Queens, while still remaining a bit awkward and out of place, juggling her friendships & previous relationships. By the end of the movie, she is able to blend who she was & who she is into who she will ultimately become— A QUEEN!
🎵Chun-Li- Nicki Minaj (Lilith in Sagittarius native)
“B— it's King Kong, yes, I'm King Kong
This is King Kong? Yes, Miss King Kong
In my kingdom, with my Timbs on
(How many championships?) What? Six rings on”
🎞 The Princess Diaries
Princess Jasmine- Aladdin
👑 Honorable Mentions:
Jackie Kennedy
Ann Hathaway
Monica Lewinsky
Drop a world 🌍 emoji because you’re out of this world!
✨Lilith in Capricorn/Lilith in the Tenth House
The Restrictions of Lilith
Ruling Planet: Saturn
Tarot Card: The Devil
Lilith in Capricorn/10H is a very powerful Lilith indeed, but maybe not for the reasons you would think. Capricorn/10H energy is all about status & worldly power, here this Lilith will use its sexual power to get worldly possessions. She is the sugar baby, the prostitute, the stripper, the mistress, the trophy wife. Best believe, she WILL be paid for her services. This Lilith placement knows more than anyone else, that nothing is free in life & won’t give themselves away for free either. They believe that sex is an art & their services should be paid for accordingly. However, don’t get it twisted, this Lilith placement is hard to impress. She will only be attracted to the best & the brightest, the most powerful or the most street smart. She is not afraid to get down & dirty because she of all people knows— There ain’t no rest for the wicked.
DON’T BE ALARMED! I am not calling you a prostitute (or maybe I am, who am I to judge!) I am calling you a business woman who knows that sex is leverage. You know pleasure is exchangeable for money or status & in this dog eat dog world, money is power baby…no questions asked. The ultimate “Pay me up front, or I’ll take it the hard way!” attitude.
If you have Lilith in Capricorn or Lilith in the Tenth house you will dress for the job/man you want & look damn good doing it! If you’re attempting to seduce the President, you’re in a tight pencil skirt, using the old bend-and-snap tactic tried & true. If you are more attracted to the “street entrepreneurs” (if you’re picking up what I’m putting down), you are the BADDEST bitch in the land, wearing the latest trends, nails done & edges laid to a T. You easily know how to lure in anyone into a gaze, but you give off the “if you want me, you gotta work for me” vibe & that drives them crazy. No scrubs…no, not for you. You’re checking credit scores, you’re checking mattress banks, you’re checking for luxury cars & Egyptian cotton sheets. Capricorn is a feminine energy after all, & the Devil wears Prada!
You seduce by leading w the word “no”. Some may take it as you thinking you’re better than them, perhaps, but it’s really more of a test. You believe if they aren’t willing to fill up your tank, then why bother putting any gas into theirs. A date for you would somehow involve you showing your loyalty. This is one of the most loyal Lilith placements there is, so you best believe you are making suitors jump over hoops to prove they deserve your “ride or die attitude”. Because once you’re committed, you’re most likely committed. (Not saying you don’t move & groove, but you sign on to things for the long-haul, unlike Lilith in Aries/or Gemini.) Your unapproachability is what makes you so appealing. If you show up on someone’s arm, everyone knows they had to earn their keep or else you won’t be there. You are mysterious, only showing yourself to the most powerful & you are dedicated— this combo alone makes you one of the most sought after Lilith placements, even if people don’t realize it upon meeting you.
At its worse, this Lilith placement can cause you to be so restrictive that you can go years & years & years without any romantic relationships, putting all of your sacred energy into your work/career. This Lilith is the most likely to go through a celibacy spell, which isn’t a bad thing at all, but just be aware that your standards aren’t so high no one is able to impress you. This Lilith can also be very addicting & is another strong Karmic placement. Because the ruling planet is Saturn, the planet of Karma, chances are, you actually have karma with the material world & gains. You may find that this life isn’t all about what you have, but rather about who you are. You can be too self-critical in proving your worthiness through your outside appearance, that you may forget that your inside is really what counts! Don’t get caught in the trap of material luxury & your public reputation defining who you are…YOU define who you are, the material things are just an extension of you. You deserve to sleep in Gucci because you’ve worked hard enough to do so…however, if you’re still on the path of working towards your goals, you are STILL equally as impressive & deserving. It will come in time, don’t let it make you feel less then.
Capricorn energy in general may really struggle with understanding their sexual power because Saturn is so restrictive. Capricorns really don’t get their shine when it comes to being sexy, intriguing & tempting. Normally your own ambition blinds you from onlookers, but trust, they are there. Once you are able to see how glorious your discipline actually is to the outside world, you’ll be able to capitilize & rarely hear the word “no” again. You are the entrapping seductress of the zodiac as much as your opposite sign, Cancer.
All in all, Lilith in Capricorn/10H is a placement willing to do anything to maintain their status & power in life. They will work their way from the bottom to the top, using their sensuality & sexuality almost subconsciously, in order to take their rightful place at the top in their business affairs or their romantic relationships. You know how the world works & you’re not afraid to be brutal when using your feminine gifts to get what you want— the good way or the bad way.
🎶 Lil’ Kim, a Lilith in Capricorn native, is one of the first (if not the first, other than Foxy Brown) to bring raunchy female rap to the forefront in popular culture w her debut album, “Hardcore”. Most people only hear her vulgarity, but if you listen closely, she is really talking about using sex to get money from the men around her— no questions asked, on her quest for power & security under difficult living conditions. Growing up in Brooklyn, New York, Lil’ Kim’s persona is actually a true part of who she is. She is scrappy & talented, stopping at nothing to secure her pocket in any romantic rendezvous. At the same time, she spoke of rocking only luxury brands & riding w the riches & the most powerful, regardless of the circumstances that got them there. She is truly ICONIC when it comes to the “f— you, pay me” attitude we see so prevalent in music today. Whether you like it or not, you must respect the hustle. It is also worth noting that she was L.O.Y.A.L. to Biggie Smalls, even after his untimely death. He was not the best partner, but she took a lot of pride in her ride-or-die attitude, knowing that true love requires a real level of loyalty & commitment through thick and thin, for better or for worse.
In another instance, we see Hillary Clinton, a fellow Lilith in Capricorn native, married to one of the most influential U.S. Presidents in modern history. She was a political weapon behind the scene & maintained a loyalty even after the Monica Lewinsky scandal. She attempted to run for U.S. office twice, wanting to continue her power, & even after losing, she still holds a lot of political power. Whether you agree with her politics or not, she has stayed in the public eye & is undoubtedly one of the best female political minds we’ve had in the last century. Her close proximity to power & standing beside her husband amid a HUGE scandal are some of the things she is most known for. Some of the most political woman have this Lilith placement. It’s kind of ironic that hardcore female rappers & successful female first-wives have the same Lilith. Legal or illegal, baby, everybody gotta make it! Or we need to look at what we consider legal and illegal, if you know what I’m saying…no shade, all tea.
🎵Queen Bitch- Lil Kim
“I am a diamond cluster hustler
Queen b—, supreme b—
Kill a n— for my n— by any means bitch
Murder scene bitch”
🎵Money Power & Respect- The Lox (ft. Lil’ Kim)
“See, I believe in money, power, and respect
First You get the money
Then you get the m— f—, power
After you get the f—‘ power
M— F— will respect you
What's the key to life?
Money, power, and respect”
🎞Evita Peron
(They need to remake this movie, NOT with Madonna. )
👑 Honorable Mentions:
Amy Winehouse
Mila Kunis
Selena Gomez
Demi Lovato
Nancy Reagan
Trina, The Diamond Princess
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Lilith in Aquarius/11H can be seen in two ways— either as a rebellious feminine energy that requires ultimate freedom and female expression or as an extremely traditional feminine energy that is tied within it’s own restricted box…but the ultimate answer is, this Lilith is a mixture of both. Here she is a rebel. Being a masculine Lilith placement, she is able to use her sexuality objectively, like her co-sign Capricorn, who is also ruled by Saturn. (You may want to read that Lilith placement as well.) She feels no need to fit her sexuality into a box. Wanting to explore different relationships & people, but is also willing to use her sexuality to be known on a public scale. One thing is for certain, this Lilith placement is by far the most unpredictable & no two Lilith in Aquariuses will be a like. You could almost look at this placement like Lilith in Capricorn on steroids— encapsulating feminine energy in a bottle & selling it to the highest bidder. But instead of using it for power & status, it’s mostly used for fame & attention— usually on a large scale.
If you are a Lilith in Aquarius or Lilith in the Eleventh house native, your seduction style is obviously, quite unique. No one can pin-point what exactly it is that draws them to you, but they know it’s something. You have a certain star quality about you that people just feel within you presences. Opposite of Leo, you still gain a lot of attention, but rather than be regal, you are so out-of-the-box, people’s mouth’s drop at you version of feminine expression. With almost a cool detachment, you are probably very comfortable in your body (OR extremely uncomfortable in your body—this is a Lilith of extremes) so you don’t mind flaunting what you got to get what you want. You look good in whatever no one else is wearing at the time. You ARE a trend setter & you may have a signature look that people will always associate w you, even if you’ve experimented and switched it up over & over again. This can be a blessing a curse.
As stated earlier, in a constant state of rebellion against the ordinary, you can end up getting trapped within the very thing you were trying to get out of. This is ultimately a placement of sacrifice. In order to receive the attention that is desired, it’s almost like you have to give up a level of you that will never truly be understood. Think celebrity culture— yes, we all get to be entertained by their larger than life persona’s, but they lose so much of the day to day living as people project their wishes & dreams onto them (11H), thinking they know them, but rarely ever do. Whether you are selling out arenas w this placement, or just trying to date around, you will always seem bigger than the room you’re in.
A great date for this Lilith placement is something fun & rememberable. You would be the type to take your lover into an underground club in a warehouse & rave/party all night, pop a molly & end up in an *rgy…OR you stay your ass in the bed for a quiet evening binge watching Netflix & go to church on Sunday…it just depends how you’re feeling. Because you tend to be a natural philanthropist & care about humanity as a whole, you could also take your lover to some sort of volunteering activity & community service work. Like I said, you’re unpredictable. Who knows what kind of dates you have in mind. This placement is also very likely to experiment w their sexuality— being attracted to/attracting all kinds of interesting & unique lovers, no matter the gender, race or religion, but who knows what lovers will be able to keep up. You’ll be on to the next if the spark dies out. On the other hand, just like Saturn, once you’re committed, you’re committed. You may want an open or polyamorous relationship, but you tend to value friendships & are extremely loyal to those you care about.
You are also most likely to seduce a friend rather than a stranger. Because you are so unorthodox & otherworldly, trust & understanding it something you deeply value in any of your connections. You want to be able to laugh w someone who gets your quirky sense of humor & although you may wear your sexuality on your sleeve, you are very choosy about who you decide to give yourself to. This is a very subtle way of seduction, but if you have your eye on someone, you’re almost best to start off as friends and woo them w your own personal brand of sexuality from there. Once in a relationship, there can be an unusual quality to it! Your relationships are almost like they are tailor made for you and your partner. It’s almost always going to have an element to it that outside people may not fully understand.
Lilith in Aquarius/11H has to be careful not to ostracize itself by being too unrelatable or too rebellious that people are turned off. You have to be mindful that you are not hiding behind being different or marching to the beat of your own drum, as if you’re creating an isolated island for yourself, rejecting the public as a whole because you feel it’s rejected you, but instead you should be embracing your uniqueness & showing it to those who value what you’re bringing to the table. The girlies who get it, get it. The girlies who don’t…don’t. You find your power being unique & cutting edge, but always remember, the world may not be ready for where you are quite yet. If you feel a sense of rejection, it’s not because you so far behind everyone else, it’s because you’re so far ahead that people can’t always comprehend where you’re coming from. That is the delicate dance between Saturn (restriction) and Rahu/North Node (Untamable energy)— that is the sacrifice of Aquarian energy. You must alway obey the laws of Saturn, or the impulsiveness of Rahu will lunge you into some scary territory. Always maintain a level of groundedness and self assuredness & your won’t feel as if you’re battling the world. Instead you find a trail of people, just like you, wanting you to usher in the next wave of “cool”.
Another complexity of this Lilith is sacrificing personal relationships for the greater good or for friendships. Because you tend to think on such a large, worldly and humanitarian scale, it can be hard for you to recognize people on an individual scale. Yes there is tragedy all over the world, but the people closes to you can also be struggling & need your one-on-one attention too. There is a thin line balancing the needs of the world & the needs of your personal relationships. Always remember to take a step back & nature your intimate relationships as you climb the social ladder. You may mean nothing by it, but people truly care for your personal attention because it’s so few & far between that you are able to give it to them. On the flip side, you may find yourself losing friendship, relationships & people because your calling took you out of their realm.
All in All, this Lilith placement is one that can’t really be described, but rather lived! Each person possessing this Lilith has such a unique and unorthodox way of looking at sexuality, sensuality & femininity. You are definitely the tastemakers for the next generation. People are drawn to you because you don’t look/sound/or think like anyone else. You also have a magical way of using the internet, social media & connections to build a brand for yourself. Interestingly enough, some of the most successful recording artist possess Lilith in Aquarius. After all Aquarius/11H is the house of gains, wish fulfillment & fame!
🎶 Cardi B is a Lilith in Aquarius native & a beautiful example of this placement in action. Not only is she one of the most successful artist within the last decade, she was masterfully able to use social media & the internet to garner attention. Aquarius/11H rules technology. She has always been very open w her sexuality when it comes to her lyrics & visuals. “WAP” is one of the all-time highest streams songs in like this history of the internet. She’s never shied away from her past as a stripper & uses this as a part of her persona, always cutting edge in her videos. When you think about it, her fashion sense really can’t be described. She uses lively colors, never looks the same, but manages to stand out from the rest. She’s unique & unapologetically herself.
I also want to point out, & some of you may disagree, that although she always gets cast as being dumb, she is obviously HIGHLY intelligent. She has been at the forefront of breaking political news & voicing her political opinions without holding back. She has been one of the main critics & rebels of the American political system & we will all remember “CORONA VIRUS!! S— IS GETTING REAL before anyone even knew to take it seriously. In this way, her overt sexuality has become a mass for her actual high level of thinking. This is the paradox I’m talking about w this placement. She’s an extremely successful artist…dummies don’t make it as far as she has, no matter how she “talks”.
🎵Bodak Yellow- Cardi B
“Honestly, don't give a f—
'Bout who ain't fond of me
Dropped two mixtapes in six months
What b— working as hard as me?
I don't bother with these hoes
Don't let these hoes bother me”
🎞 Pariah
👑 Honorable Mentions:
Tina Turner
Halle Berry
Fergie
Cindy Crawford (Genuinely one of the smartest super models known on Earth. She’s literally a genius person, she just so happened to make more money being beautiful)
Angelina Jolie
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✨Lilith in Pisces/Lilith in the Twelfth House
The Mystique of Lilith
Ruling Planet: Jupiter (Western: Neptune)
Tarot Card: The High Priestess/The Hanged Man
Lilith in Pisces/12H is a placement of deep mystery & hypnotic power. Here, Lilith can cast a spell w just a glance, sending her suitors into a spiritual whirlwind, blurring their reality & lunging them into a completely new dimension. She doesn’t even have to say a word to open this portal either. Her lover’s project all their desires on to her, making Lilith in Pisces/12H the ultimate fantasy girl. Much like everything in life, this placement is a double edged sword. On one hand, it’s magical & wonderful & sexy & other worldly…on the other it can lose itself in the 5D, not ever fully being comfortable in 3D reality. This placement, more than any other, has to be careful not to lead or follow a lover into a spiritual dimension they may not find their way back from— be it through drugs or other worldly spirituality practices.
This placement of all placements has to remember it IS having a human experience for a reason. You won’t be able to cheat yourself out of you human body, no matter how hard you or people around you try to escape into fantasy world. You are powered by your dreams, but also your illusions, so you will have to be extra careful when navigating your way through this life. It could be extremely easy for you to get lost in a reality of your own making.
If you have Lilith in Pisces or in the Twelfth house, you look best in loose fitting & bohemian style clothing. The more ethereal, the better. Flowy dresses, maxi skirts, and oversized sweaters are where it’s at for you. You may not be a huge fan of tight clothing. Anything that is restricting or limiting to you, won’t allow you glide through the void the way you are inclined to. Now, that doesn’t mean that you can’t pull of any look! After all, you are the dream girl, and just like water, you will flow into any fantasy your lover can imagine!
Your seduction style could be quite underdeveloped, but not in a bad way. You honestly seduce those around you without trying because you are so mesmerizing. If people are in a room w you, you catch their eye, and only the brave will be willing to see what lies beyond your calm waters. Sometimes people who aren’t meant to be attracted to you, will be, so the fantasy of you will linger in their mind for eternity. You may always possess a certain awkwardness when it comes to your sexuality, because as stated earlier, you may never ever feel comfortable in your human body. You could constantly feel like you’re swimming against yourself, but somehow this makes you magnetic & alluring to the outside world. Just like your co-sign, Sagittarius, also ruled by Jupiter, you have an exoticness about your presence. People have so many questions about you when you cross paths— “Who care you? What are you? Why are YOU?”— and if they are not willing to ask, they are more than comfortable answering these questions for themselves. You may find this quite frustrating throughout your life, as people always tell you things about yourself that may or may not be true. Remember, this placement is all about projection & illusion. Not everyone really wants to know how the rabbit came out of the hat, they just want to be entertained.
An ideal date or night out would be a hot yoga session, a trip to the museum or a night in talking about philosophy & occult practices. Don’t ever be afraid to share you inner wisdom of occult knowledge to those you are truly attracted to. The right mate will want to listen & know more about what you know because you have such a sexy & graceful way of explaining out of the ordinary type things. You will always draw in your desires by presenting the mysteries of The Universe. Remember, Jupiter is the teacher after all. You possess the key of lifetimes & lifetimes of knowledge…don’t ever forget or be ashamed of that.
I cannot stress enough how this Lilith placement will have to be mindful of not getting so lost in their own world that they forget this world exist. It is easy for this Lilith to drift away to La La Land & loose touch w reality if not careful. Lovers can first find this fascinating, but then find it exhausting as if they feel they will never truly be able to keep your feet on the ground. You may also feel as if you get lost or swept up in relationships as well. This could be because you attract such dominate partners because you are such a feminine energy. It is imperative for you to know what you want in your relationships & what you want for your life in general beforehand so you don’t get stuck in a wave of people defining it for you.
All in all, Lilith in Pisces/12H is the placement of the dreamer & the mystic. You are able to easily hypnotize your lovers by just looking deeply into their eyes. You exude mystic powers & people will almost always feel as if you put a spell on them. The funny thing is, you never have to put a spell on anyone…your essence is intoxicating enough on its own— no witchcraft needed. Although you probably know a little voodoo/witchcraft on the side! You are mystically magnetic.
🎶 Katy Perry is a Lilith in Pisces native & embodies the dream girl aesthetic perfectly. Her biggest selling album “Teenage Dream” is literally her floating, wrapped up in a pink cloud, naked. If that’s not dream girl, I don’t know what is. Katy Perry was the IT girl of the teen 2000s, playfully using her sexuality in almost a girlish type way. “I Kissed A Girl” was so tantalizing to the listener, painting a picture of a girl on girl love affair— yet no one ever really saw her w a girlfriend. Another reason why Katy Perry is a perfect example of this placement is her relationship w Russel Brand. They married, extremely quickly. It’s safe to assume that he was so caught up in her allure, he wanted to capture her as quickly as possible without fully getting to know her. He was satisfied w her celebrity outside & didn’t have the chance to get to know her inside. However, I really want to focus on Russel Brand now. After his relationship with Katy, which was at his peak of sex & drug addiction, he turned to self-discovery (12H) & is now one of the leaders in yoga & new wave spirituality. Who would have thunk it? That’s the power of this Jupiter ruled Lilith.
Today, we have Ariana Grande taking up the torch as our Lilith in Pisces pop star native! Again, maintaining an extremely girlish feminine persona, her whistle tone & light voice is almost hypnotic to the listeners. Her love life is— dynamic— to put it lightly. This placement has to battle the “do you love me for me or do you love the idea of me” more than any other sign.
🎵Teenage Dream- Katy Perry
“You think I'm pretty without any makeup on
You think I'm funny when I tell the punch line wrong
I know you get me, so I let my walls come down, down
Before you met me
I was alright, but things were kinda heavy
You brought me to life, now every February
You'll be my Valentine, Valentine
…
You make me
Feel like I'm livin' a teenage dream”
🎞 Memoirs of a Geisha
👑 Honorable Mentions:
Elizabeth Taylor
Ariana grande
Madonna
Keke Palmer
Ana Delvey (she “scammed” very far w projection ALONE)
Pam Grier
Caitlyn Jenner
Drop a mermaid 🧜♀️ emoji below because you are a such a sexy siren!
Author’s Notes: Thank you all so much for checking this out. I hope you found this information insightful & helpful as you continue on your journey of sexuality, sensuality & seduction. Always remember, we have different styles, but each is as effective as the next. There is no right or wrong way to be a woman or to be sexy! Embrace whatever your given gifts are and make them work for you. I tried to be as inclusive w examples as a could be, but if you have anymore you’d like to add, please feel free to share them in the comment section. This piece took me several weeks to research and over 10-hours to write. I am more than happy to listen to honest feedback & criticism, HOWEVER, I will not tolerate non-sense. If you don’t have nice things to say, I will not hesitate to hit that block button and keep it pushing. It will be sad for you if you like this kind of content, because I have some really cool ideas that you’ll miss out on. So please think twice about what you say, but more importantly, think twice about how you say it! I want this page to be an open dialogue and a safe space for people to share their journeys and stories! I’m open minded and I hope to attract open minded people. I just put too much work and effort into my craft to be disrespected and I won’t have it. Not even a little. Thank you for the support! I hope we keep rocking & rolling! Let me know what you think!
I hope it is okay that I share this excerpt from my Newsletter this month. It feels right/good to share this on Jupiter’s day.
Often times, I feel stuck in one place. I don’t know how to move on from tasks or I struggle with even starting my day. I wanted to take the time to create an outline of options/ideas/tasks I can do based on the ruling planet for each day of the week. I think that once upon a time, College made me decide that Sundays were the days to get so much done, organize, plan, “catch up” etc- Friday and Saturday’s were for indulging and forgetting about responsibilities, monday’s were pure panic.
Had I attuned to the energy of the days (and diving in deeper, planetary hours, which we will talk about next time) I may have navigated the days and my energy a lot better. Now I am a social worker, mental health practitioner and (baby) astrologer, trying to find the balance between self and others; solitude and socialization; responsibility and creativity; structure and response; Spirituality and Practicality; physical energy and mental energy and emotional energy; work and being still.
The purpose of this ‘outline’ is to provide guidance, inspiration and direction on how to intentionally use our time, more so our Day to our energetic/celestial benefit. Stick around as I go over the days of the week.
Monday-Lunes (Moon)-
Wake up late (if you can)
Express gratitude (aloud or in a journal/safe space)
DEEP stretch (to your ability, if you experience a disability/limitation, I encourage DEEP breathing, belly breathing)
Use ‘Herbs’ (Whatever this means to you) and slow, smooth music (Alternative, R&B, Country, Blues, Jazz, Instrumental, Waves, Sound Bowl if you have one)
Drink your coffee/tea/tonic/elixir/etc in one spot. Don’t move until you are finished with your cup.
Take a drive for no reason or take the scenic route to your destination/appointment/work/home/etc.
Either have comfort food or light eating (Whichever your body calls for that day)
IF you have a healthy relationship with Home: Call Home or friend or anyone you can be safe with.
Water, water, water, water, water, water, water, water, water, water
Snuggle up with a comfort item. Practice affirmations. Tell someone you love them (or something of the sort)
Tuesday-Martes (Mars)-
If you are able, take a walk; pilates; yoga; Tai Chi; dance. If you experience limitations or live with a disability, move to your capacity (bobbing your head to music, stretching upper body, deep breathes, chair exercises, rotating feet/ankles, whatever you are comfortable with. I am able bodied so may be ignorant to the options here-PLEASE educate me if you can think of anything further that those limited can engage in Mars like energy).
Earthing
Face Masks/Steaming/Scrub
Hair Masks/Deep cleaning/Salt scrub
Tend to yard work (if applicable and if able)
Laundry (ALL OF IT, that means cleaning, drying and folding too LOL)
Any tasks you have been putting off, focus on these first.
Create a to do lists, categorized by home; office/work; spirit; business, etc.
Clean your Spiritual tools
Clean the space you spend the most time in
Work or be outside if you can. Just get out of your usual environment if possible.
Brainstorming.
Go to bed early if you can.
Wednesday-Miercoles (Mercury)
Read 10-30 minutes (Of course more if you have the time and/or attention span😉)
Journal 10-30 minutes, let it flow if you can.
Create or engage in Minor to do lists
Create a grocery list
Fill out calendar for appointments or obligations- review your planner/calendar/schedule in general
Work on your budget
Respond to/Send emails-Respond to/make phone calls
Work on/Send out Newsletter(s)
Take notes on your readings
Delete emails, clear voicemail box, go through paper mail
Schedule meetings on this day
talk to Spirit
Ask questions-exchange information
Watch a documentary or informative series
Grab dinner or a drink with friends
Paying attention to car maintenance may work well on this day as well (schedule an oil change/car wash/fill tank/etc)
Learn something new
Interact with/engage with your environment (if possible, for ex: walk around your neighborhood, smile at a neighbor; if you have the space work in your kitchen/living room instead of your office; if you’re working in an office, see if there is a conference room available instead of your “cube”)
Get a massage/self massage (if possible/applicable)
Turn your phone off, or notifications off before bed.
Thursday-Jueves (Jupiter)
Sleep in if you can
Express Gratitude (out loud or in a journal or safe space)
Pray
Charge and/or cleanse crystals
Take a salt bath/shower
Soak your feet (if you can, get an Ionized foot bath)
Take one risk today, walk by faith not by sight today
Get out of your comfort zone (this will look different for everyone)
Buy something you’ve been saving for or start saving for something
Try something new
Water your damn plants and/or talk/sing to them
Play games (board games, phone games, computer games, video games)
Watch a comedy
Spell work and rituals
Try a new tea or elixir
Consult with a friend, guide, therapist, energy worker, etc
Friday-Viernes (Venus)
Make up, moisturize, hair spray/gel, rings, necklaces, perfume, heels, slacks, corsets, glasses, nail polish- WHATEVER you have to put on your bodythat'ss an extra step than usual-Do it!
Indulge in your first (or last) meal today
Walk (or drive) somewhere scenic/beautiful
Watch the sunrise or sunset. Or catch the moonlight
Practice your love language with yourself or with others
“Love” yourself (hint hint, wink wink)
Make your “space” pretty (this can be your bedroom, living room, kitchen, garden, car, this can be social media platforms, journals)
BUMP or BLAST some music
Make a playlist
Aromatherapy, cleanse or charge your Tools, talk to friends/family, set boundaries and don’t do anything you don’t want to today (if possible 😉)
paint, draw, read, shop, write
Take a picture (of you or something/someone beautiful)
Saturday-Sabado (Saturn)
Start a to do list for today and especially for the week ahead
Take care of house (whatever this means to you)
Meditate
Study
Fast (If able/applicable)
Journal (esp related to your long term goals, worldly affairs/responsibilities)
Clean your space and get rid of what is no longer needed (clean out fridge, throw out papers, take out garbage, pull weeds, etc)
Clean your car (if able/applicable)
Ask Spirit and Ancestors “What work needs to be done?”
Use sound bowl (if you have one), binaural beats, instrumental music
Water water water water water water water!
Sunday-Domingo (Sun)
Practice your skills/Review your skills
Perform service (whatever 'service’ means to you)
Post on social media/Establish social media presence
Socialize, actively engage with others and/or your surroundings (if able/applicable)
Journal (check your Ego, gas yourself up or practice humility)
Review/Activate spells and rituals
Pray
Express gratitude
Choose something specifically for you today
Aura cleansing (if able/applicable)
I hope this is guiding and helpful to at least someone. I experience such guilt around how I spend my time during the day and this outline/list has helped me attune to the energy of the day and generally make the most out of it. This is a light hearted, intuitive post meant to guide and validate how we can use our energy. I try to be mindful that not everyone has the resources, space, freedom, privilege, ability or circumstances to engage in such activities, my only hope is that at least one thing on this list can be activated in your days.
''What Saturn in Aries is about is survival. It is a Saturn that disposes of what cannot be carried because it senses that it must remain light on its feet and mobile. It’s an adaptable Saturn. It seeks to cram the family inheritance, all of the troubles and hopes and memories, into a backpack... Saturn in Aries can be a Saturn that is cruel to itself. It is a survivalist and survivalists don’t luxuriate. However, to survive is to hold space for failure. To survive means that you give yourself enough time to live. Saturn in Aries—Saturn in fall—is a Saturn that knows how to survive and, joyfully, is also learning that it knows how to live.''
🟤Outer planets [Uranus, Neptune, Pluto] conjunct or making tense aspects with Moon make the native feel disconnected from some members of their family. They may feel like strangers at times and may find it difficult to have a long conversation with them, they may even prefer to distance themselves from them. They often find family ties in other people, and may feel like they don't have a thing called home. They may have ideals, behaviors or desires to be different from some members of their family. Due to this feeling, these people can have a hard time becoming very attached to someone or a group of people, so they have a tendency to prefer solitude or spend much of their time on their own.
🟤Mars making hard aspects with Saturn makes the native very hard on themselves. They have a hard time accepting compliments, and wish they could do more, they hardly value their efforts. Ironically they value and point out those of other people. It is difficult for them to see themselves with eyes of love, but they do not realize the greatness and talent they possess. They are strong people, who struggle daily with the negativity of their mind, with the demands of that voice that lives inside them.
🟤Uranus-Moon/Venus tense aspects are common in people who received inconstant affection from people who loved them. This oscillated between periods of great appreciation and others in which it seemed that they did not exist. From a young age, they were able to face fickle affections not only from family, but from friends. All this makes these natives seek stability in a partner beyond other superficial factors. They yearn to find a person who gives them constancy and continuous attention.
🟤 Earth sign in the 9th house or Saturn in the 9th house is very common in people who tend to be pessimistic. They are people who feel that life has not been the sweetest for them, so they do not know what to expect from it. But on many occasions those expectations are negative. These people prefer to believe in hard work and do not believe that things magically happen to them if they want it badly. They hate when people are too positive when it reaches an unrealistic point. They like to have a realistic mindset.
🟤Saturn in Leo may have felt deprived of approval, recognition and admiration when they were very young. Based on this, natives with this placement tend to care a lot about what others say or feel about them when they are young or immature, but once they grow up, they have the ability to develop a very strong sense of identity that is incapable of being broken by other people's comments. It can be a difficult path for them to separate themselves from what others think of them, but eventually they get it. They are people oriented to success and do their jobs in a formidable way, so in the work area this placement can augur much appreciation for them and they can become well-known.
🟤People with Saturn making hard aspects [conjunct, opposition, square, quincunx, semi-square & sesquiquadrate] with Moon may have felt that they were not appreciated in their childhood. They could hardly have heard any compliment or reminder from someone telling them that they were doing a great job. That is why they do not know how to react to compliments and have difficulty accepting them.
🟤Saturn in Cancer may have felt the lack of support, love and compassion from their family. They are melancholic people with a tendency to look at the past and wonder what would have happened if everything had been different. They may have expressed vulnerability as youngsters and faced criticism or disgust from others seeing them this way, so they learned to deal with their emotional problems on their own. They struggle with the idea of being intimate with someone or being completely transparent. Over time, they can become very successful if they learn to accept their needs and stop holding them back. This placement can be a great indicator to be able to leave a legacy or a mark that transcends with time.
🟤Fire Venus have a thing for independent people who seem to be fine without them. Very clingy, cloying and dependent people annoy them. They prefer a person who gives them a lot of love but who gives them their space and freedom. For them it is essential to find in their partner a person with whom they can bring out the extensive variations of their personality. I have noticed that they tend to prefer calm and relaxed people who are a stability for their chaoticism, but of course, that the person is able to follow the joke and has a similar sense of humor.
🟤Semisextile couples in Sun, Moon, Venus and Mars are more common than it seems. Many people might think that they are incompatible, somewhat brusque with each other and that they become energized when they are with each other, however, in private it is quite the opposite and these people can be a great support for each other. Once they overcome their differences, it is very likely that they will enjoy a very stable and beautiful relationship. I have noticed it more in Aries-Taurus (Sun), Virgo-Libra (Sun and Venus), Sagittarius-Capricorn (Sun and Venus) & Aquarius-Pisces (Sun & Moon).
🟤Saturn in Pisces may feel that they have to carry the emotions, problems or desires of others, they may feel that the world lacks compassion, especially with them or those most in need. They are people that others could take advantage of because of their enormous heart and generous disposition. They have to learn to discern between what their needs and wants are and the wants and needs of other people. Many times they wonder what will be the best good for all, but they rarely ask themselves what would be the best for them.
🟤Hard aspects between Neptune/Pluto - Sun/Moon are a great incentive for trust issues. Neptune is key in these issues, due to its kind nature, people could have taken great advantage of the native, which caused a gradual development of distrust, that feeling of never knowing clearly the type of person with whom you are dealing. While Pluto’s nature gives us a somewhat fatalistic perception, thinking that anyone can betray them if they are very vulnerable. Hence the native's need to appear powerful, unbreakable and somewhat intimidating.
🟤Aries Saturn people feel anger or annoyance when a person is unable to do their job well, especially if there is only one person. When people are irrational, when they are unable to come up with quick deductions on their own, and when they are lazy. It is one of the most demanding placements on Saturn.
🟤Water houses show us parts of our personality that we repress for some reason. The 4th house tells us the traits we hide from the world but only show with those we trust. The 8th house can be traits of our personality that we refuse to accept about ourselves or for fear of the repercussions it may have on other people. 12th house are the traits we try to repress out of fear or shame but end up showing more of on a subconscious level to other people.
🟤Neptune shows us the way we evade reality. It is not surprising that many people (many of us, in fact) avoid reality by using the internet or playing video games, since Neptune, being a generational planet, is in the sign of Aquarius, related to technology. People with Neptune in the 1st house, for example, evade their reality by daydreaming about their ideal life and ideal self. 5th house Neptune with their hobbies, going on dates constantly. 12th house Neptune sleeping, and so on.
🟤Saturn in Gemini may have been treated as naive, making them think that their way of seeing things and thinking was insignificant or that their opinions did not count. These natives may have problems interacting with other people because of this belief. However, this placement of Saturn is quite good, since it favors a good intellect, an incredible ability to retain information and learn, this more than anything because Saturn is in its triplicity. If they overcome their fears of interacting with other people, they can stand out as amazing communicators, writers, and speakers.
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💖FIRE SIGNS IN THE 12h: you need to decompress.
aries 12h= making sure you don’t overheat at night so having the temp exactly how u like it or having the ac on, trying to feel a sense of ambition throughout the day, doing affirmations about how great the next day will be before bed, looking for excitement in the day, working out or a lot of physical activity at some point throughout the day, getting chores out of the way or just the “heavy lifting” of the day, massaging your scalp and brushing your hair, lighting a candle during your night time routine, having a hot drink (maybe some tea), wearing red or purple pajamas or sleep sets if you wear any haha, it can be anything even a big tee. 💕☁️✨
leo 12h= getting a back massage, making sure to appreciate yourself throughout the day, having a bed that’s higher off the floor, doing something that nurtured your creativity during the day, feeling proud of yourself at the end of the day, having an aesthetically pleasing headboard, pillows, blankets etc (that gives royalty vibes) haha, making sure it’s warm enough in your room, wearing yellow or gold colors. 💕☁️✨
sagittarius 12h= having a BIG bed, having some kind of instrumental music on or soothing music in another language or from another culture, wearing burgundy or maroon colors, if you’re religious or spiritual then having some kind of routine before you go to bed like a cleansing or praying, having little adventures throughout the day (it can be just taking a different way home or trying a new restaurant for lunch etc etc). 💕☁️✨
💖WATER SIGNS IN THE 12h: you need security.
cancer 12h= wearing the color gray, taking long & warm baths or showers before bed, having enriching conversations with family members and loved ones throughout the day, taking moments to process your emotions if frustrated, making sure you’re reinforcing your boundaries throughout the day so when you got to sleep you don’t feel like you’ve been playing the martyr all day, having a moon icon nearby idk haha maybe like a moon lamp or plushie/ pillow?? Having something or someone to cuddle. 💕☁️✨
scorpio 12h= nurturing your passion throughout the day (whether it’s hobbies or your personal relationships), wearing the color black, purple or dark red, getting a s*xual release haha in whichever way you prefer, needing to feel emotionally and physically safe before bed maybe shutting & locking your door if that makes you feel better, using music and art as forms of therapy before bed, being perceptive throughout the day but not letting it become paranoia, not going to bed feeling lonely or like you held stuff in the whole day & speaking up. 💕☁️✨
pisces 12h= wearing tie dye colors or pastel, meditating before bed, having moments of rest and isolation throughout the day when feeling overwhelmed, trying not to be on your phone too much before bed or absorbing/ reading negative things online or bad news so you don’t stress yourself out, setting boundaries throughout the day so you don’t start overthinking at night, allowing yourself to day dream haha before you drift off to sleep, doing something creative before bed. 💕☁️✨
💖EARTH SIGNS IN THE 12h: you need to feel grounded.
virgo 12h= breathing exercises before bed, making sure not to stress yourself out too much at work throughout the day or just not bringing work home with you, wearing neutral or earth toned colors, having your pets sleep close to you, making a to do lists for the next day, allowing yourself to relax without making yourself feel guilty about it, enjoying your hygienic routine before bed, journaling/ writing motivating sticky notes or affirmations, don’t have any big meals before bed (this is common knowledge for everyone haha but I feel like Virgo should b even more careful). 💕☁️✨
capricorn 12h= wearing gray or brown clothes to bed, having a darker room, having good conversations with the older people in your life in the day, doing self reflection, having a room that is very dark, making sure to stay very hydrated throughout the day, don’t make commitments just to fulfill other people so don’t over work yourself, investing in amazing sheets, pillows etc, even if they’re a bit expensive, treat yourself as much as you’re able to!! :) they can also last much longer if its better quality, having or wearing a turquoise stone throughout the day, & not forgetting to brush your teeth and making it a relaxing routine before u go to bed. 💕☁️✨
taurus 12h= wearing orange or green, taking walks in the day or gardening, making sure you’ve treated yourself throughout the day & have enjoyed your small comforts, having a very soothing and relaxing nighttime routine, candles that smell good, drinking tea or anything else that is relaxing but also very yummy, feeling like you have properly established your self worth, making sure your bedroom is cozy & also aesthetically pleasing. Nurturing your senses throughout the day, haha your sense of taste and smell, not having sensory experiences you dislike or make you uncomfortable. 💕☁️✨
💖AIR SIGNS IN THE 12h: you need mental stimulation.
aqua 12h= making sure the room is decorated to your own unique tastes, wearing neon colors to bed, watching a documentary or an educational/ interesting video as you drift off to sleep or to make you sleepy (haha not saying it’s boring but anything that requires you to learn/observe). maybe playing a game that requires mental intelligence or quick thinking. Talking to your friends throughout the day, spending time with intelligent people, feeling like you spoke your mind/ proved your intellect throughout the day, Using technology such as mediation or relaxation apps and toning down the brightness. 💕☁️✨
gemini 12h= if you’re taking classes then immersing yourself in the material throughout the day, wearing a variation of colors to bed, keeping up with current events, journaling before bed, feeling if you’re overthinking about something then making sure you get it off your chest so you don’t stay up with it bothering u & talk or vent to the people you trust, feeling like you were able to express yourself throughout the day, doing activities that require you to use your brains and hands (whether it’s a game you enjoy, knitting, a puzzle, reading a book, etc). 💕☁️✨
libra 12h= feeling like you’re on good terms with your friends and partner, making sure you feel appreciated by your partner throughout the day and having a convo before bed, wearing the color pink or having cute pink pillows or plushies, taking your time with your bedtime routine and going through the small details and enjoying them (aka enjoying the warmth of your blankets or taking your time to when doing your skin care routine before bed), organizing and fluffing your pillows, making sure u can relax properly before bed & not letting anyone rush you. Putting on classical or instrumental music or any type of music that is calming to you. 💕☁️✨
🌤️ Heart-shaped faces/heads. Hair! Wide smiles. Fair skinned or come from a lineage of fair skinned people. Confident persona with big gestures. Leads with heart...wears heart on sleeves.
🌤️ They aren't self-centered or the attention seekers they may get painted. With a (Libra 3H) they're mindset and mode of communication is centered around building relationships. They desire fairness and harmony when connecting with others and often go out of their way to please people when making those connections.
🌤️ This often appears contradictory to the way they behave when actually in a relationship. With an (Aquarius 7H), they may behave aloof and distant. But that isn't necessarily the case. Aquarius here may cause the native to desire freedom from the constraints of a traditional relationship. These individuals may prefer relationships and partnerships that are unconventional and go against the norm...requiring changes that bring excitement.
🌤️ In their (Cancer 12H) there is a strong desire to nurture their spirituality and their connection to the collective. While it may not be evident based on their house of relationships (Aquarius 7H), this really does go hand-in-hand because Aquarians are humanitarians. (Cancer 12H) also indicates psychic abilities.
🌤️ Although it may come across cold, these folks work hard and give a lot. They are no strangers to hunkering down and getting sh¡t done (Capricorn 6H). There may also be knee, ankle, or general bone issues that arise from this placement.
🌤️ On the same note...having a (Virgo 2H) lends to a very meticulous way of acquiring their needs. These folks tend to be pretty business savvy and have a very admirable work ethic and way of obtaining money. These are the people at work who just seem to know how to organize and categorize things for efficiency.
🌤️ There may have been some sort of trauma experienced in the early home life (Scorpio 4H). Secrets and things hidden or swept under the rug is very likely in the family. May come from a lineage of women with psychic abilities or occult practices. Lots of intense and transformational experiences derive from this placement.
🌤️ Depending on placements in the natal chart, we typically see this show up in their (Leo 1H) as a fierce loyalty toward becoming their best selves. There is a natural expression of confidence, courage, and creativity that they exude. Just like the Sun, people can't help but to see them.
🌤️ We also see this come thru in their (Taurus 10H), where here there is a natural ability and expression of beauty and making things aesthetically pleasing. This is usually specific to their career and public image. Here we may find them work methodically in fields such as interior design, jewelry making/design, or a form of physical labor related to beauty or creating beautiful things, such as wood working, pottery, or glass making.
🌤️ Unless there are planets in the natal that restrict it, these beautiful people are incredibly social (Gemini 11H), and often find themselves with lots of friends and associates. They tend to be leaders among groups they are involved. These are also people who create groups or organizations that are geared toward sharing information...think Facebook and other social media platforms.
🌤️ And they enjoy it! Running those groups or being an admin or moderator is something they do as a hobby. This is rooted in that (Gemini 11H) where they really enjoy sharing all the knowledge they gather through their social connections, personal research and travels (Sagittarius 5H). And people love them because they are able to convey messages with their wit and charm. These folks are funny and flirty by nature.
🌤️ Having a (Pisces 8H) grants these individuals with great intuitive gifts. It is also makes these natives quite empathetic towards the dark, shadow aspects of others. They often possess a natural tendency towards healing themselves and others with spiritual practices that aren't widely accepted or recognized.
🌤️ But what society thinks is the least of these individuals' concern. Their overview of the world is filtered through the eyes of Self for these people (Aries 9H). Their philosophies are geared toward independent thinking, carving one's own path, fighting for what is fair and just, and championing for the underdogs (Aries 9H + Libra 3H).
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-Hey yall!!
-I am back with yet ANOTHER series talking about the North Nodes through the SIGNS. This post we will discuss what it is like to have a North Node/South Node in the signs of ARIES-VIRGO. But of course, like everything else on this blog, let's talk about a little background of what nodes mean.
-In astrology the North Node is also known as the lunar or Moon Nodes. This is because (from my research) that the Nodes are the two points of the Moon that intersects with the ecliptic (also known as the Sun's path, but realistically it's the path of the Earth's orbit around the Sun). These are two opposing axes that intersect this path, so in astrology that is why your natal South Node is automatically opposite of your North Node in sign and house.
-Also, the North Node is what we should aspire to for our highest purpose in this life while the South Node is what we should lean away from, as that energy will hold us back. The North Node can even go as far as telling what kind of career you can take up that may be your life purpose in this life. Reaching the energy of your North Node is harder than we think sometimes, esp since I have read that the South Node is the energy we had from a past life (according to karmic astrology), meaning it is easier to lean on the energy of the South Node. I will link the source that talks a bit of that below.
-So, we will talk about the North Node/South Node axes in this form: what you are tasked with achieving vs. what you need to lean away from. Without further ado, let's get started!!
ARIES NORTH NODE/LIBRA SOUTH NODE:
With an Aries North Node, you are tasked with achieving:
Autonomy.
Forging your own path.
Possibly being the first to achieve something (could also be in respect to your family)
Being confident in your own decisions.
Learning to defend yourself and stand on your own two feet.
Taking more risks in life to get what you want.
Developing your leadership abilities.
Not taking shit from anyone.
Not needing anyone to make things happen for you.
Making yourself be heard.
Possibly being self-employed or a boss in a company.
With a Libra South Node, you need to lean away from:
Being too dependent on your relationships.
Being too passive about your boundaries.
Being too accommodating and putting your needs on the back burner.
Focusing too much on how you may come off to others.
Always trying to negotiate and use respectability to get what you want. Sometimes you just need to put your foot down and let it be that.
Shying away from leadership positions.
TAURUS NORTH NODE/SCORPIO SOUTH NODE:
With an Taurus North Node, you are tasked with achieving:
Living with material comfort.
Finding a sense of stability in life.
Not letting people pressure you to make decisions before you're ready.
Possibly may have a career that involves the arts or is very sensual to you.
Living as simple as possible.
Not dealing with others who try to change you.
Focusing so much on the metaphysical and focus on what is right in front of you.
With a Scorpio South Node, you need to lean away from:
Not being worried what others are doing or who may or may not be against you.
Focusing so much on the metaphysical and focus on what is right in front of you
Using resources from others (since Scorpio is the natural ruler of the 8H) to minimize people trying to hold that over your head.
Possibly occult practices (you may just feel this rather than actively trying to move away from it)
Trying to overanalyze every situation that you are brought into. Not every situation is a means of "I am now going to go through a tumultuous 6 month process of thinking of what this situation meant for me and how should I painfully grow and learn from it." Learn to just be :)
GEMINI NORTH NODE/SAGITTARIUS SOUTH NODE:
With a Gemini North Node, you are tasked with achieving:
Learning through means that may not be from traditional academia.
Always wanting to learn more about the environment around you and staying curious.
Using your knowledge and intelligence in your day to day life.
Making great connections and learning the purpose of community in this life.
Not being afraid of changing your thoughts and opinions once you learn something new.
Being lighthearted, comical, and carefree.
Exploring multiple paths in this life and not feeling tied down to one path. Possibly may have multiple careers.
With a Sagittarius South Node, you need to lean away from:
Overtalking others and/or not respecting their philosophical beliefs.
Winging it in your everyday life settings.
Not being concerned with the details.
Not being as open to beliefs that may challenge your own (Sags yall kinda infamous for this)
Trying to be a know it all before you do know it.
Being concerned with things going on outside of your immediate environment (as you may have already felt like you have been there done that in a past life)
CANCER NORTH NODE/CAPRICORN SOUTH NODE:
With a Cancer North Node, you are tasked with achieving:
Finding a sense of stability, especially in terms of making peace with your childhood and early life.
Possibly having a career that involves domestic activities (childcare, homemaking, etc).
Making sure you are always aware of your aura and making sure you are energetically okay. Have a NN ruled by the moon means your path could be sensitive to how you feel energetically. You need to be in a good space as much as possible.
Loving the people are the things around you.
Being empathetic and in touch with your emotions. It's okay to feel and you're meant to show the world that.
Understanding that your privacy is important (Cancer is ruled by the 4H = privacy)
Putting your feelings first before nurturing others.
Not letting people put a cap on your emotional capacity.
Loving being in your own comfort zone.
With a Capricorn South Node, you need to lean away from:
Being worried about how the world may perceive you.
Not leaning on your support system. They are there for a reason.
Being so harsh on yourself.
Feeling like life should always have such strict rules and regulations to live.
Being more concerned with your professional life. Dedicate more energy to your private life.
Not feeling your own emotions.
LEO NORTH NODE/AQUARIUS SOUTH NODE:
With a Leo North Node, you are tasked with achieving:
Being seen!!!
Loving who you are aloud and all the way.
Surrounding yourself and aligning yourself with best in life.
Having relationships that make you feel good.
Having an extremely high sense of self-worth.
Loving life and not letting people dim your shine.
Knowing that presentation is key.
Possibly being a performer as a career in this life.
Being influential (if you desire that). At the very least learning to be okay with taking center stage and being loved in public.
Not letting people tell you who the fuck you are.
Being offended when people don't appreciate your power.
Being extravagant, extra, and not dealing with people who mean you no good.
With an Aquarius South Node, you need to lean away from:
Trying to rebel.
Feeling like you need to be "different."
Being more concerned with the greater good ( you may already feel this as this was probably your past life)
Not following the trends. It's okay to fall into the hype, at least for your time.
Always picking about what is "wrong" with society.
Being detached in your relationships.
Doing things so unexpectedly (Aquarius = Uranus = the unexpected)
VIRGO NORTH NODE/PISCES SOUTH NODE:
With a Virgo North Node, you are tasked with achieving:
How to be more analytical and discerning.
Applying the knowledge that you learned in this life into your daily life.
Having a life purpose that involves service to others.
Being more critical with what life has to offer you.
Being more organized and serious to your approach in life.
Leaving chaos behind.
Caring more about your health.
Not missing the details in life.
Possibly take up a career in the sciences or writing.
Being more careful with the steps you take in life.
With an Pisces South Node, you need to lean away from:
Not having strict boundaries.
Losing the balance of being practical AND spiritual.
Feeling a burning desire in your solar plexus to break out in dance or song or just express yourself but being mad scared af bc it's illogical or thinking ppl will judge you or misunderstand your expression.
Feeling embarrassed after expressing your true thoughts and feelings.
Stifling your creative process by rationalizing it and over analyzing.
"Tasting" different interests but never really pursuing them to the fullest.
Never really experiencing the full depth or breadth of emotion or of creating.
Learning to be a kid again.
Learning to un-suppress who you really are deep down.
Overcoming the fear of your own emotions.
Wanting to be friends with everyone but actually having like no friends.
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