A letter to the fans that think the show is horrible now because of the implications about Pearl and Rose’s relationship
Even if your worst fears about Rose and Pearl’s relationship were true, and Pearl was essentially a slave, with exactly as little agency as Blue and Yellow Pearl, even for the thousands of years she was with Rose after the war ended, her entire character arc up through and including “Mr. Greg” and “Last One Out of Beach City” was about her learning to have agency and truly be an independent gem now that Rose is gone.
In “Sworn to the Sword,” we saw her realize that the way she had devalued her own life for Rose’s sake was an unhealthy relationship dynamic. In “Friend Ship” we saw her learning that she shouldn’t use her status as a pearl as an excuse to just give up and that she does have control over her own destiny. In “Mr. Greg,” she openly expresses a desire to finally “move on” from Rose, and “Last One Out of Beach City,” she shows that she has.
And, THE SHOW’S NOT OVER.
More to come in future episodes…
More on this in future episodes!
We still have yet to see how Pearl will change in response to her secret becoming public knowledge. In “Sworn to the Sword” we saw Pearl learn through Steven and Connie that the way she had been devaluing her own life was unhealthy. Now that Pearl will be able to discuss the true nature of her relationship with Steven, and Garnet (who has very strong feelings about how love and relationships should work) she’ll finally be able to get a fresh pair (or trio) of eyes on her relationship. I very much doubt the coming episodes are going to contextualize Pearl and Rose’s relationship as a perfect fairy-tale romance.
I don’t understand why you guys are so convinced that this relationship is going to be handled in the worst possible way. It’s not like the crewniverse just came up with the ideas for how diamonds and pearls work and then, just this Monday, decided to put Rose and Pearl in those roles without realizing the implications of it.
“When you see a lot of media for kids, especially media directed at little girls, it’s very heavy with the message that, ‘You will find another person who will validate you, and being in a relationship will make you know that you’re a worthwhile person.’ And Pearl is an exploration in what a terrible message that is, and how it can just ruin someone completely… She feels like all of her worth is tied to her relationship with someone else, and without that someone else her worth is zero.”
- Rebecca Sugar, Official “Steven Universe” podcast, Vol 2, Ep 4: “Pearl
Of course her servant mentality played a role in her allegiance to Rose, how could it not.
This was the plan since before “Gem Glow” aired. And we’ve seen this show do a good job (I think) of tackling issues like toxic, abusive relationships (Malachite), and bad allyism (Rocknoldo) before, and I don’t think we’re going to see it stumble across the finish line now.
I hope you’ll all keep watching. You might just be pleasantly surprised.