🌿✨ A Personal Message From Me ✨🌿
Hi everyone. I want to talk openly and honestly for a moment, because some things have been said about me that simply aren’t true, and it’s been really upsetting to see people assume things about me without actually getting to know me. I’ve recently been accused of being a proshipper, and even told by someone the reason why no one is talking to me and treating me horribly is because people believes I'm this user Penmar, and I need to say clearly that
I am not that person. I do not behave like that, and I never have.
I want to explain who I really am, because if people had taken the time to talk to me instead of assuming things, they would know this already. First, I want to make something very clear
I do not take other people’s OCs and write stories about them without permission. I respect the work and creativity people put into their characters. I know how personal OCs can be, because I feel the same way about mine. I especially would never write anything grotesque, inappropriate, or disturbing about someone else's character. That goes completely against the kind of person I am and the kind of space I try to create.
If you had actually gotten to know me, you would know that I am a kind, respectful, and safe person in fandom spaces. I try to be someone who listens to others, respects boundaries, and supports creativity rather than tearing it down. I’m not here to hurt anyone or make people uncomfortable. I’m here because I love stories, creativity, and connecting with people who enjoy the same magical worlds. I’ve also seen people assume that I’m obsessed with talking to one specific person, which honestly doesn’t make sense either. I have friendships where we sometimes don’t talk for months at a time, and that’s completely normal to me. Life gets busy, people drift in and out of conversations, and that doesn’t mean anyone is obsessed with anyone. I don’t cling to people or demand constant attention. I respect when people need space, and I understand that friendships don’t have to be constant communication to still matter.
What hurts the most about all of this is that no one came to me first.
No one asked me questions.
No one tried to understand me.
People just assumed things about me and talked about me instead. That’s honestly exhausting and really discouraging. I’m very tired of being judged based on rumors or misunderstandings instead of who I actually am. If people had simply taken the time to talk to me, they would have learned a lot about me as a person.
For example I’m someone who genuinely loves simple, comforting hobbies and peaceful moments in life.
I love baking and cooking. The smell of cookies in the oven or bread baking in the kitchen is one of my favorite things in the world. I love trying new recipes and sharing food with people I care about.
I love gardening and caring for plants. Watching something grow because you nurtured it is a quiet kind of magic.
I enjoy reading, writing, and journaling. Stories are a huge part of how I process emotions and explore ideas.
I love music that sparks imagination and emotion. Sometimes a song makes me imagine entire scenes or stories.
I enjoy cozy spaces candles, warm drinks, blankets, rainy afternoons, and quiet moments to think or write.
These are the kinds of things that make me happy. As a person, I try to be warm, kind, and understanding. I care about people’s feelings and I try to be someone who creates a safe and welcoming environment I’ve also had my own struggles in life. I know what it feels like to be ignored, left out, or abandoned, and those experiences have made me more compassionate. I try to treat people the way I wish I had always been treated with patience, kindness, and respect. That’s the kind of person I try to be online too. I want my blog to be a safe space where people can share ideas, creativity, stories, and imagination without fear of being mocked or attacked. I want people to feel like they can talk about their OCs, their writing, their interests, or even just their day without being judged. This is also why I care so deeply about my own OC and the stories I create.
My OC is something I’ve put a lot of heart into. Creating stories and ideas for them is something that makes me happy and helps me express my creativity. I love imagining how they would interact with the world of Reverse Enchancia, what friendships they would form, and what little adventures or emotional moments they might experience. But my OC is also personal to me, which is why I would never disrespect someone else’s character the way I’ve been accused of doing. I know how much that would hurt someone. At the end of the day, I’m just a person who enjoys creativity, storytelling, cozy hobbies, and connecting with people who share similar interests.
I’m not here to cause drama.
I’m not here to hurt anyone.
I’m not here to harass or obsess over people.
I’m here because I love imagination, magical worlds, and the joy of creating stories. If anyone ever has concerns about me, I truly wish they would come talk to me directly instead of assuming the worst. Communication solves misunderstandings. Silence and rumors only make things worse Please remember that there is a real person behind this blog. I have feelings, I have hobbies, I have struggles, and I’m just trying to share the things that make me happy.
Thank you to anyone who took the time to read this and understand where I’m coming from.
It really does mean a lot. 🌷
