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If I put a go fund me or something up to try to raise money for the $7,000 in eviction fees and legal fees I’m being sued for because my piece of shit ex left me with the apartment and all the debt we had, would anyone donate or would it be mostly a waste of time

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Some background: I dated a girl in like 2012-2013 and it turns out she was actually the worst person

Long story short, she thought I was cishet when we started dating, reluctantly said she was fine with me being transgender before moving here, moved here and we soon found out that was not the case lol

So she cheated on me, I was actually incredibly cool about it all things considered: kept her on my health insurance, let her keep my car for a bit so she could keep her job, kept her on my cell phone bill, etc.

Annnnnd about a month after she cheated on me, all of her stuff was gone, including an 800 dollar computer and my car? So she bounced with my car, my computer (both of which I needed to sell) and before she left she took what she wanted out of my makeup, dumped a bunch of my HRT and I found some of my cutest undies stuffed between the washer and dryer with GUM stuck in it? Like seriously?

So yeah she left me with all of the bills and loans, which I defaulted on: credit card that I took out to buy that computer, Verizon account that was forcefully closed and most importantly, the lease on our apartment which was 6 months from being over.

So I did full service, in person sex work for a while to try to keep my lights on, while trying to not kill myself or get killed by my dates, but eventually Roxie (the only person that gave a shit about me, who was just my friend at the time) convinced me to stop putting myself in danger and just deal with the fall out as it happened. It was absolutely the right choice and she and I have rebuilt so much since then: paid off the credit cards (1.5k) the Verizon balance (1.5k) and done so much personally that it’s weird to think it all looked so grim

So the final chapter in this shitty book is that I got a summons from the landlord of the apartment I was evicted from for a $7,000 lawsuit summons and because they’re not interested in tracking her down, I’m the only one they can reach and so I’m going this alone, essentially. I could really use a fucking break at this point because I’m trying my absolute best to not have to do anything stupid for money and still rebuild my life after all of this

So anyway I made a venmo (@tvsxe) and I have paypal info if anyone wants to donate

Please message me if you can afford to donate anything, I’m just trying to not have everything ruined

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Here, to make it easier I’m gonna link my Venmo and you can also donate to us via Paypal.

Honestly anything you can give means so much, and if you can’t spare anything please reblog this post. If anyone wants proof before they donate, I’ll send you a picture of the summons with the amounts owed, just ask me for it. I know a lot of people try to scam others, but I’m really just trying to rebuild my life.

lchurley

I had the displeasure of knowing the person who did this to Tara and can attest to what a shitty terrible person they were and to all of this. Please help Tara out if you can

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remember even if you can’t donate right now, anything helps and reblogging this even if you’ve reblogged it already makes an enormous difference

Thank you all so much for your support, this is truly amazing

#help someone in need #signal boost

Ion: School Update

Hi guys! ^^ I’m still alive lol

... I just have been burnt out from school tbh. I can’t do any posts for now because I need to start preparing for exams, final steps for projects, etc. I don’t really feel like doing any posting for now. I’m really sorry about that.

I will probably come back around March, mid-March at latest. For now, I apologise for the inactivity and will be back soon enough.

~ Ion

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I AM SO MAD RIGHT NOW. I MADE THIS QUIZ AND I STILL GOT YOOSUNG. I DUG THIS HOLE FOR MYSELF.

Quiz: Which Character From “Mystic Messenger” Should You Date?

#Mod Ion #reblogged #I got Jaehee ayyyyy

ellynoise

From here.

I’m pretty sure Seven gave Yoosung the idea, Zen taught him how to pose, and V lent his shades but isnt getting them back if he isnt hired

Elizabeth 3rd is the head of HR because anyone who likes animals must be a good person and therefore hired.

#Mod Ion #reblogged

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Winter Set WIP Sketch Drafts ♥

I kinda like how my style changed since my Autumn Set WIP last November *o* I’m polishing my artworks a bit more because ….. mmmmm IG users that follow me probably … kinda know why hehehehehe :D

♥ ♥ ♥

#Mod Ion #reblogged

Hey, can I ask for a matchup? I’m an ISFJ Libra, I can be very shyat first but after I’m cheerful. I depress and cry easily though, I have BDP + depression/school phobia/anxiety, so I'm hard to handle, really ><. I’m very pessimist but I'm really affectionate, I love hugs/kisses/cuddles. I love sad things like stories, fanarts etc. I don’t know "real" happiness and it scares me, because I feel like it's gonna break one day and it'll hurt. I love writing fanfics, Harry Potter, cat and jellyfishes

ISFJs are very supportive, willing to help people as much as they can if possible. They are also loyal and hard working, dedicating themselves to their works/friends.

However, they tend to repress their feelings and overload themselves too much as they struggle to meet everyone’s expectations. Doesn’t help when they don’t talk about it, so people don’t really know how to help them.

I match you up with Jaehee!

Jaehee notices your awkwardness. She tries to be close with you, talking about the others, but it’s still really awkward. It takes the whole RFA to open you up and they’re really happy to see you really cheerful right after that. You are one of them, so there is nothing like “hard to handle” because when you think about it, everyone is kinda hard to handle – it’s everyone as a team which makes RFA such an amazing group. (That and everyone is really patient.)

When you’re going through depression and BPD (I think that’s what you mean? I don’t see an illness with BDP… ^^;), Jaehee will quickly notice a change with you although you tried to hide it from her. She will slowly talk to you, trying to calm you down. It’s okay that you’re crying and such – If you need alone time, she’ll give you. If you need any affection that you love, she will keep giving them to you.

“Your happiness depends on what makes your soul sing. Things break all the time but that does not mean it can’t be healed or recovered. It’s okay that you don’t know what is “real” happiness – we all are finding it too, so let’s find it together.”

#Mod Ion #match-up

tinytako

aa yoosung is sooooooO~~~~ romantic

HAH

some ppl asked for this so here u go

#Mod Ion #reblogged #it's okay you're still amazing Yoosung HAHAHA

could i please have a matchup? ^^ i'm 4'9 with long straight black hair. i love music and memes a lot, i can play 5 instruments. i crack a lot of dirty jokes and prank my friends a lot. i have a self-deprecating type of humour and i always act really happy but tbh im kinda sad all the time. i love sleep but i rarely get time for it and i find affectionate sappy romantic stuff so cute!! im really cold at first but im nice and funny once you get to know me. thank you for your time!! 💜

I match you up with Saeyoung!

What do you mean? You two are meant to be together at the start when you joined RFA. You willingly joined in the prank and managed to trick Yoosung about the coffee syndrome. By that time, it was you yourself who opened up to them, cracking your icy wall down without realising. You two almost meme’d with each other and every chat room with you two together will always be noisy with laughter.

However, when either is sad, the other will keep cheering them on. It’s a loop that keeps going, since Saeyoung wants you to be happy, but he himself can be sad at times too. It gets frustrating (or funny? Idk) when you two are sad at the same time, when you two will cheer each other up and then cause the other to cry, and then other will try to cheer up but only to cry again. It’s just a crying mess, but it’s still something that you two share.

When Saeyoung is doing some other work (that doesn’t involve hacking), you will play instruments as a pastime. Every time he hears any music, he just dashes out of his room to listen to you playing. After you play finish your instruments, he will always go and lift you up before hugging you, although it’s a bit awkward at times because you’re 1.5m while he’s really tall, around 1.75m.

Not like he cares, anyway. He’s gonna shower as much love as he can to you.

#Mod Ion #match-up #asks

Match-up! ENTP/ENFP. I'm 5'3 with kinky hair. It's hard for me to come out of my shell to others, and I usually come off as cold and uncaring but I love talking. I'm mature but I also can't take anything seriously, like anything I don't care about anything. I enjoy being kind and respectful to others and expect them to act the same, and I also enjoy sleeping, watching movies, learning languages, art, acting and watching period drama movies. I value honesty and loyalty

Requests are closed :(

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sakuraihum

Here comes Spring Festival,trying to draw a cheongsam…I wish everyone A Happy Spring Festival!! Rooster CN:Elizabeth 3rd

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Happy Lunar New Year! :D

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I know you need this in your life :P <3

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match up? i have brown hair/eyes. im 5'3" im an intp, taurus and an ambivert. im like creating stuff like short original videos as well as doing other creative things like photography. im really funny that people are so over it but im very supportive and understanding person. i love dogs. i like anime lol. i like aesthetically pleasing things/objects/scenery/etc. yeah thanks in advance!

INTPs are imaginative and open-minded, creating as many original products as possible from their minds. They are also honest and straightforward – they don’t go around hurting people, but sometimes the truth helps people to heal.

INTPs are however really private and withdrawn. They struggle to talk to people at times, usually shying from social settings if possible. [But with you being an ambivert, I feel it still apply at times, but you don’t completely shy from social settings – You can deal with them.] Also, they are absent minded at times, missing the main point if it’s not even about what they like. It’s pretty normal for them to even skip meals and sleep to think through their thoughts.

I match you up with Zen!

It was never really highlighted, but Zen loves aesthetics. He loves beauty and enjoys seeing them come to life. Seeing your videos and photography makes him very happy and appreciates the stuff you do.

You two started talking normally – You being an ambivert makes you a good person who can both speak and listen well. However, when he starts talking to you about his new role, he appreciates you for really listening and still talking to you normally! He’s pretty cool about it.

When you’re talking about anime, he struggles to understand at times, but he still listens to you about it. However, certain genres of the anime (such as romance) will get him really, really interested! He wouldn’t mind watching it with you when he’s free from work.

When Zen had issues due to Echo Girl, you always helped him out. It’s amazing and he’s so thankful for how you are still with him. You were always with him when things get tough and he wants to help you back as much as he can so he can be as supportive as you were that time.

Knowing you like seeing the scenery, when everything was all over, he decides to bring you to his secret place to see the scenery. He is just so thankful for everything as he sees you taking photographs of it.

If only you know the true beauty he wishes you can photograph is you yourself instead.

(To be honest, I low key wanna do V, but I don’t really know how to write V’s character well. I would match you up with V if I had more confidence but hopefully, you’re happy with RFA members only)

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male matchup please? i'm a 5'2 female with long golden brown hair. I have a very sweet disposition, and I'm always putting others before me. on the other side, i'm a bit too realistic, and i don't sugarcoat anything. i tend to avoid overly rambunctious and loud people, but I love people who enjoy intelligent conversation and are loyal no matter what. i can't stand animal abuse (i love cats) or tardiness. i've been a dancer for a long time and I want to be a meteorologist!

I match you with Jumin!

It’s not that you don’t like the others – It’s just Seven and Zen are so loud. Yoosung is okay, but he sometimes felt you are a bit too realistic and sort of hurt his feelings at times. He understands what you’re talking, but he rather not faces reality for now. He wants to continue playing games for now.

Which leaves Jumin – Jumin is accepting with your realist side and yet how you are able to be so sweet. It’s a charm, a charm that he somehow cannot resist. He also can keep up with your intelligent conversations. He also feels that animal abuse is bad – He wouldn’t want anybody to ever hurt Elizabeth the 3rd.

Knowing that you’re a dancer and wanting to be a meteorologist, Jumin is willing to pay the fees required. He wants you to do whatever that makes you happy. However, the only problem is that you two are always trying to give in to each other at times – You trying to put Jumin before yourself, but he wishes you to be as selfish as possible. It creates really weird situations at times, but hey, you two are happy together still.

#Mod Ion #matchup