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EXPECTATIONS
cherry valley forever
Jar Jar Binks Fan Club
Claire Keane
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Misplaced Lens Cap
occasionally subtle
shark vs the universe
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Today's Document
romaâ
$LAYYYTER
he wasn't even looking at me and he found me
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New idea
Pink academia: A Little Princess, learning french, sweet smelling candles lit while studying, classical music, ballet flats, the Victorian Era, LadurĂŠe boxes, satin robes and slippers, Audrey Hepburn in Roman Holiday, notes written in cursive, rewarding yourself with macarons when you ace a test
notes: toasted rice, freesia, mandarin, cherry blossom, coconut milk, jasmine, nectar, vanilla, skin, musk, tonka bean
laduree
STRAWBERRY MOON
forgive the version of you that didnât know any better
forgive the version of yourself that knew better but did it anyway. forgive every version of yourself. we are constantly learning from our mistakes.
forgive the version of you that didnât know what to do and could not have foreseen what the right choice was, if there even was one. forgive the version of you that made a choice and regretted it.
Dreaming by Robert Fowler (1850 â 1926)
You gotta understand that some people never really grow. They never learn their lesson. They never recognise their mistakes, they never acknowledge their faults, they never admit they were in the wrong. You will never receive an apology from them, and you will never see their behaviour change.
if youâre in the notes saying âthis is wrong and cruel because everyone is capable of growthâ youâre not understanding the post.
yes, everyone is CAPABLE of growth and change. everyone has the RIGHT to growth and change. but no, not everyone will CHOOSE growth and change. some people are not interested in and cannot be made interested in self-improvement or self-reflection. some people will go their entire lives refusing to admit they might be wrong or examine their own behaviors. some people will never, ever accept responsibility for the effects they have on people and the world around them. humans are varied; some are just always gonna be like this.
it is VITAL to understand this if youâre the kind of person who tends to pour energy into helping others, especially if there are already people knowingly hurting you who consistently show absolutely no interest in changing that behavior. you canât forcibly make them want to change who they are. you arenât going to find a way to convince them to suddenly care that their behavior is hurting someone.
the motivation to change and grow comes from within. others may inspire us, but WE have to decide we want to be better and work towards that. until they decide that for themselves, nobody else can do it for them. and they might never. people are mortal. we are a finite series of choices. it is entirely possible to make mostly selfish ones.
everyone CAN grow, but not everyone will. not everyone wants to, and nobody can force the desire to grow as a person on someone else.
Sculpture by Will Cotton.Â
I don't understand the "nobody helped me so nobody deserves help" attitude. I'm sorry but every time I suffer an injustice my first thought is, "something should be organized to prevent this!"
Why wouldn't you want that?? It might be you again sometime. Don't you want to help build a world where we take care of each other?
sometimes you just fuck up too much for redemption to be a viable option for the people you hurt. you can change your life, change your views, and change the way you treat others, and still have those people hate you and refuse to believe that youâre a better person.Â
itâs not your job to convince them that youâre different now. if they want to look for a change, they will. but if they donât, then donât worry about it. they arenât worth your time, because you arenât worth theirs.
move on. donât waste your time wishing you could have done things differently. donât make long apologies that they arenât going to read. just be better. focus on making yourself into the person that you should have been then. but donât do it for them. do it for yourself, and do it for the people that youâre going to meet. do it so that theyâll get to meet the better you, instead of the person you used to be.Â
donât look back. only look forward.
agent provocateur
Please donât take your pets for granted. Even if youâre frustrated that your dog has been barking all day or your bird has been screaming for attention, remember you are all they have in this world. Give your fish that extra water change. Give your dog or cat that tummy rub theyâve been begging for. Chop up some fresh fruit as a treat for your rodents or reptiles. Just spend some time with them. Be compassionate to your animals. They are living creatures that are alive simply because you wish them to be. They may only be a small part in your life, but to them, you are their everything.
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