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why the fuck is tumblr showing pro ana shit āin my orbitā lmao fuck off
just my 2 cents here but I feel that you shouldnāt be allowed to lecture someone about how immoral they are when youāre telling them to die
this is a straight couple. itās straight. youāre in a heterosexual relationship. there is nothing remotely āqueerā about this in the slightest whatsoever. jesus h christ
this is why i hate āreclaimingā queer
Are you fucking kidding me do you hate bisexuals that much that youāre willing to go along with terfs for a dunk on the bihets? Is that it now, is that the community? Is shitting on queer people so important to you that youāll throw away all your standards?
We also donāt know if these people are binary but letās judge them at a first glance and base their identity on their presentation because thatās so progressive!
I love how people are all āBisexuals are JUST as much a part of the LGBT+ community as Gay peopleāā¦
And
āTrans šPeople š Donāt š Need š To š Passš To š Be š Respectedā
But yet are totally willing to throwout bisexuals and trans people and other sexualities.
Because it feels very good to outwardly judge people we donāt know anything about their identity or lifeās experiences - because thatās not at ALL the exact thing that non-lgbt+ people do to tear down the community. No.
This is my husband and I. I am sure if you saw us on the street you would assume we were a cishet couple.
News flash: we arenāt.
I am a bisexual who has been in relationships with only women. He is a Transguy who has been on T for over a decade. We have been together for 18 years. We both identify as queer. We are out. We are active in the LGBTQ+ community.
But all of you calling that couple above straight, you just keep judging people on a photo alone and pretending you know who they are and what their stories are.
Us queers in relationships you judge will keep being happy and healthy and living our best life while you choke on your bullshit.
āthis is why i hate āreclaimingā queerā *has a violent homophobic slur in their url*
anyway itās ok to enjoy l0li sh0ta or whatever and kill1ng stalk1ng and anything else and thereās been creepy shit in F I C T I O N since we invented writing systems so get over it and fight against something that actually matters like the pedophiles in positions of power (cause I promise you, what ur doing is helping no one, itās just giving you an ego trip. ur as gross as the rest of the general population so get over it)
nevermind i donāt care anymore
Something that makes me worried for young antis is when they genuinely express fear of/or unsafety. Especially ones who maybe spend most of their time on cellphones/computers and on the net. Because if strangers on some corners of the internet make you actually feel unsafe, just by being there or doing their hobbies - that is an actual issue. As a person, Iām serious - if you feel threatened by fandom folk or communities who donāt even personally know you, put down the phone. Log off the computer. Remind yourself that you are safe, in your physical space, and that no one will do anything to you. Create your moderated safe corners. Only give personal info to people you really trust. No one is out to get you, or to use personal things against you. You will keep living your life even if you donāt touch social media in days.Ā Online, you can easily cut off or block people. If discourse is triggering or unhealthy to you, if talking to or seeing someone of the opposing side makes you feel unsafe - please donāt engage in discourse. Donāt keep discourse blogs, make private/locked accounts/spaces you can go to if you need. Even if you feel that itās an important cause, itās not worth deteriorating your mental health for. Talk to an outsider about it. Being anti the things you are is okay, itās your valid opinions, but putting too much emotional energy and focus on it, to the point you feel unsafe or the need to lash out, is not good. Stay safe.
the whole ādonāt ship this donāt ship thatā this is so damn weird to me because itās LITERALLY only a few years old. Old fandom this was never an issue. And now ppl are acting like āuwu iām against shipping adults w minorsā is woke when itās not.
itās stupid. congrats youāre easily manipulated from people playing off your insecurities and adopting views not because you agree with them, but because they fit the look youāre going for.
youāre adopting conservative christian views while still claiming to be a leftist. guess what? if you value freedom and art that means allowing the things you hate. That includes gross gore and weird drawings of kids. you can criticize it sure. but trying to outlaw it is the furthest thing from leftist
idk what iām saying. if anyone feels bad just remember that the world agrees with āanti antisā for the most part and would look at these purity weirdos like theyāre freaks.
Pedophilia is bad should not be a radical statement.
No really, please reblog this if you can, because this site in general, but fandom spaces especially bad for this, to the point where people are genuinely afraid of harassment they may face for saying āPedophilia is a bad thing and you probably should not encourage itā or for calling it what it is. Fandom spaces are also especially bad for screaming about how itās ājust fictionā when we know damn well that fiction impacts reality.
Actual, real-life pedophilia is bad. People dealing with their personal pain by writing about it, in a fictional setting where tags and opt-in measures allow others to avoid it, are fine; in fact, a very effective way of working through oneās issues. Oversimplifying the process fromĀ āpedophilia is badā toĀ āall people who write fiction about it are badā is policing in its worst form.Ā
Actually, trauma survivor here,Ā these people are in fact still furthering the normalization of the trauma they are working through, while also actively hurting other survivors!
If you feel the need to write it to process it, I understand that completely. In fact Iāve DONE that as a part of processing my own trauma in the past! However, you do not get to publish it into public spheres, including online, where all it will do is hurt other people. Likewise, this form of trauma processing is not, in fact, helping you!
These people include other survivors who may have been trying to avoid it and were unable to, people who are being groomed for abuse, people who are already being abused, and do not recognize that abuse for what it is, and the person writing it (assuming they ARE in fact a trauma survivor, because the vast majority of the people shipping siblings, minor/adult relations, and other abuses, are not in fact survivors of this. They just get their jollies off to it!).
Likewise, this is not, in fact, a coping mechanism, and it is not fine. This is retraumatization and self harm in many cases, being written off as ācopingā. When you publish that, particularly the people who are writing it as āromanceā, you hurt other survivors. In fact itās predominantly survivors calling this shit out.
When you have a dozen people telling you āif you need to process it through these means, you cannot publish it because this is normalizing it and hurting all of us and people who will be hurt by itā, then you need to recognize that what you are doing is hurting someone and then saying āIāM JUST COPING!!!ā which makes you an abusive piece of shit.
Now, consider the fact that you essentially just said āpedophilia is bad BUT FICTION IS OKAY!! FICTIONAL PEDOPHILIA IS ALWAYS FINE AND EFFECTIVE FOR HELPING PEOPLE SO YOU CANāT CALL ANYONE OUT ON IT EVER!! YOUāRE POLICING COPING!!!ā
Like, no. Most of those people writing hebdophilia, abuse, incest, and pedophilia fics on AO3 in some fandoms are NOT coping with a goddamned thing and pretending they are and saying ābuuuuut fictional pedophilia/hebdophilia/abuse should never be policed!!ā is only going to create MORE victims. (like, I am in one of these fandoms. The people shipping the 25year old with the 14-17 year olds are not ācopingā, they are fetishizing. Their argument is not āItās my coping mechanismā itās ābut itās just fiction!!ā).
And yes, coping SHOULD be policed. If you are hurting others, normalizing abuse, and retraumatizing/hurting yourself, itās a bad way to cope, and isnāt coping but self harm, and you need to let it go and find something healthier. You should be helped through this process, definitely, but you should also be working on it, particularly if your ācopingā is being read by actual pedophiles, attracting them to your work.
Yes, changing how you cope can be hard, but it is hardly impossible, and acting like people using these things to cope should be allowed to without ever being challenged in that is actively preventing their recovery too. It was when I gave up self harming and found better ways to deal with stress (baking, video games, a long bath, a bad movie, a favourite comedy show) that I began to heal and recover.
I was hardly perfect, it was hard work, but if you actually care about survivors you should consider listening to us when we say that what youāre talking about still hurts us, doesnāt help us work through our trauma, and is not being primarily produced for or by us and therefore continues the normalization of the abuses we faced while failing to display healthy relationships and thus draws in more future victims who do not know the difference between āhealthyā and āabusiveā due to the excessive normalization both in fanfiction and in published fiction and other media, and society at large encouraging hebdophilia already especially.
Also listen to us when we say we are tired of our abuse being fetishized for the consumption of others, particularly by people who are writing/drawing it and have never been in that situation themselves, and they and their readers ignoring us saying these things. As these people are often also fetishizing mlm and wlw relationships weāre especially tired that they are portraying us as hebdophiles and pedophiles when weāre already accused of this by the outside world too.
Ah ok, so we have to listen to the survivors you agree with, but not the ones you disagree with. Good to know! Iāve been wondering which survivors Iām allowed to listen to.
How To Appeal A Post When You Donāt Have The Appeal Button
Since the 17th about 12 of my posts where flagged as adult content and when I went to try and appeal it there was no appeal button. I went through their help and read the whole article. I even contacted support who then copied and pasted their help page not even trying to assist me.Ā All I know is that there was supposed to be a button for the original creator to click and allow up to appeal but there wasnāt.
On my computer:
On the app:
See no button for appeal.
It has taken me days to figure out this work around and I thought some other people out there might be having this issue.
Now here is how you appeal your post when you donāt have the appeal button
Now go through your blog and find all your pages with censored posts clicking on them to take you to the original post.
Take a look at the url.
See that number there? Copy it!
Open up a new page and type in this:
https://www.tumblr.com/dashboard/blog/your url/
At the end paste that number.
When you hit enter you will get this:
The appeal button is finally there! Click it!
Youāll get this message and then youāll click appeal again.
Your post is now being appealed.
You can check that it was fixed just by refreshing your blogs page.
And thatās it! I know it is stupid and ridiculous to do such a ridiculous back method but unfortunately itās the only solution Iāve come up with.
Also no you canāt just use the weird sidebar dashboard to find it as any flagged posts donāt actually show up at all in it.
Anyways I hope this helps you guys.
This only works if you are the original poster. If you reblogged someone elseās post and it is flagged, you must contact them directly and they must follow this process to submit an appeal. I do not know what happens to your reblog if they win their appeal.Ā
Yes. Yes we do.
as a former australian expatriate in the united states, I am here to tell you all that ranch dressing on anything is a collective delusion and you are all willingly ingesting garbage
I mean, I could say the same of Vegemite, soooooā¦
lookā¦fair
Iām sorry yāall are microwaving water?
microwaving water is way faster iām not gonna wait for water to heat up on the stove just so i can have some oatmeal š¤
do you ever want 95% of a fandom to shut the fuck up
I started looking thru the tags/comments because I was curious to see how many people tagged the jjba fandom (surprisingly none) and then started taking a tally of the most popular fandoms that people want to shut the fuck up:
As of 17,186 notes here are the top specifically mentioned fandoms that people want to shut the fuck up:
Voltron: Ā 66
Steven Universe: Ā 39
Yuri on Ice: Ā 15
Sherlock and Undertale are tied at 13
Hamilton: 11
Supernatural: 10
RWBY: 8
The Adventure Zone, Phandom, and Homestuck are tied at 7
Dr. Who and Overwatch are tied at 6
Kpop in general: 5
I dunno what the voltron fandom did but holy fuck lol
āI dunno what the Voltron fandom didā
So an anon sent me these screenshots that an anti posted themselves of DMās they had with Barlee, and wanted the rest of the fandom to see what she was saying
Barlee discourse just feels so retro after the past few days š¤£š
That saidā¦.why would she do this? Did she develop amnesia about the way her followers turned against her when she pandered to drew some post S6 Sheith art? Why would she even want to encourage that rubbish?
to anyone thatās turned on by their trauma, you arenāt gross
being turned on by your trauma doesnāt make what happened to you any less terrible
your trauma was not a good thing
and you are not gross for being turned on by your trauma
Backup Your Blog NOW
On December 17, 2018, our Community Guidelines will change and adult content will no longer be allowed on Tumblr.
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Backup tools:Ā
Tumbl3 (Iāve used this one; itās easy, but I donāt see a simple way to get the content back out of it into something else.)
Tumble-log (havenāt tried it)
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Use at least one. Trying all four is not a bad idea.Use them even if your blog has NO ADULT CONTENT WHATSOEVER, because they wonāt be looking at blogs - theyāll be running algorithms to decide whatĀ āadultā content is. If youāre not familiar with that game, be aware that itās going to catch a whole lot of queer content, and a whole lot ofĀ āwtf who thinks this is adultā content.
hereās all the old pcest art i/tumblr deleted
mega link here
just a warning most of this is nsfw. plenty of tyrone in there too B)
some of this stuff is hard to look at it and i remembered why i deleted it lol, but ay maybe some people who arenāt me will still be into it
Dear people who ship taboo relationships
Such as in///cest and ped///ophilia
Do NOT harm yourself. That doesnāt help, and asking you to do so doesnāt help.
Instead? Tell your parents. Tell your family, tell your friends, your teachers, your employers, EVERYONE you know and interact with, that you support and even romanticize abusive content. Tell them that you think itās harmless.
Well?
Weāre waiting.
I do tell a lot of people. My mom, for example. Sheās a writer too and she knows that I enjoy writing dark stories. I said people were mad at me on the internet over a ship and she immediately guessed which (very problematic) ship it was and was shocked that people had told me to die over something so ridiculous. I recently told my therapist that I write and enjoy darkfic sometimes, specifically mentioning the sort of sexual content they involve. His first impulse was to worry that I might feel guilty about my harmless interest. I told my previous therapist that I get off to violent fictional media and she said it was fine because she knew Iād never hurt a fly in real life. Iāve told my coworkers about the sort of movies I like (horror) and they didnāt care at all. Turns out people who work at libraries know how fiction works. My childhood best friend has known Iām a sadist for as long as I can remember and it never seemed to bother her. I still have a reputation as a very polite and helpful person, and my friends feel comfortable telling me secrets and asking for advice.
You know what always shocks people? When I tell them about the hate Iāve recieved online for my ships. My mom regularly says sheās proud of me for standing up for myself and others online, and my therapist considers it a very positive act. I donāt tell EVERYONE I interact with about my problematic ships (hi Iād like a number 1 combo with cheese also I think Thor and Loki should kiss), but I donāt hide it at all. The worst Iāve ever gotten is people being mildly surprised that someone as silly and positive as me loves horror.
Does... does op know that a lot of us DO tell our friends and family about this stuff? We talk about our interests and our writings (a lot of us are writers!!) and yeah sometimes our weird ships come up in conversation.
Like idk how to tell you this but outside of the weird purity thing tumblr is doing, people DO NOT CARE about what fictional shit youāre into.
Iām sorry OP that you were raised in a stifling environment that taught you video games cause violence and all that, but shipping two characters literally affects nothing. I hope in the future you can heal and grow.
IF YOU SHIP SANGWOO AND BUM...
Know that is perfectly okay and valid. Hope you have a wonderful day!
You, the shipper are not horrible for shipping it but please know that it is VERY UNHEALTHY, and not āperfectlyā okay and valid.
1. You are 12. You not only should not be on this site (the allowed age is 13+), but you shouldnāt be reading 18+ material like Killing Stalking. 2. You are 12. But even if you didnāt, you still would not have any place into telling anyone what is healthy or not for a bunch of total strangers, especially if the only thing you have to go off is their shipping. 3. Killing Stalking is literally about the relationship between those two characters. If the creator can ship it to the point they made the story, so are fans allowed to. 4. You are fucking 12. What the hell are you doing getting into KS discourse? Get out of my blog.