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Nope! That makes her a goddess!
Also, because then I get the “O” when I want it! 😈👍❤ - Pinupsrock
Being allowed to make you wife or girlfriend cum hard is a privilege, and her getting an orgasm when as often as she wants is her prerogative. I take great pleasure from giving her pleasure.
Anti-Coronavirus-Boredom treatment #45B: From April 2018, a video with a younger visitor zipped and belted into my canvas sleepsack. His struggles against his restraints are fun to watch. With so much padding on the table (4 inches) you might see how the ropes tend to give a little here and there.
Life In Chastity
Wearing a chastity device is not like any other sex toy. It’s not a toy at all. It’s a piece of bondage equipment that locks up your dick. Your dick isn’t just physical. As you know it’s hardwired to your brain. All those hormones, sexual drive, ability to orgasm — locked away. And then there’s just doing normal life activities in a chastity device. Think of working, pissing, types of clothing, etc. It’s a lifestyle. Here are a few considerations.
Never Being Able to Get Off
How often do you jerk off? If you’re like most guys, you’ve shot off quite a few loads in your life. In a chastity device that all but goes away. Here’s the thing, you still get aroused but can never let loose. Imagine being horny all the time but with no way to have an orgasm. Many guys will watch a few minutes of porn and then do their thing. In a chastity device, you can actually watch the whole porn movie.
Because there’s no way to orgasm, you have to manage your sexual energy differently. Many people, for example, use that energy to exercise more. Many men report a new found vigor and increased strength after being in chastity. They also report increased mental focus, better sleep (after they get used to sleeping wearing a cage around their dick), and more creativity. Everyone is different. But there are some advantages to not jerking off.
Milkingslave dripping
You may have seen or heard about guys cumming while wearing a chastity device. The most common way to do that is by prostate milking. That’s massaging the prostrate gland, which may trigger a release of cum. For those that don’t know, the prostrate is massaged through anal penetration (such as finger, dick, dildo). There’s definitely a technique to it. But keep in mind, you still can’t get a full erection if you’re being milked. So it’s not the same as an orgasm.
There’s some evidence that ejaculating has some positive health effects and never ejaculating may cause some health issues. Milking is one way to allow a chastity wearer to occasionally cum without breaking the chastity period. Of course, your Key Holder may allow you to jerk off on special occasions, if you’ve been good.
Prprecumecum
You probably don’t give precum too much thought. However, once you’re in a chastity device, you will think about it all the time. It will be become a new hygiene routine you will need to learn to deal with. Most guys in a chastity device precum a lot. I mean a lot. When you get horny, you will leak lots of precum. And when you’re not horny, you will still leak out some. It really can get messy. It usually starts a day or two after you’re locked up. Over time it decreases. You will have to make some lifestyle adjustments. No more sleeping nude…
Cleaning
The point of wearing a chastity cage is to restrict your access to your dick. One of the issues is trying to keep your dick and the device clean. Things will get nasty if you don’t. Showering will take extra long to try to work your way in there to get everything clean. And drying is not so easy too. Some people use a hair dry (low heat). Using is q-tips is a common technique for cleaning too. Try taking more baths. But dick and cage cleaning will become a new routine in your life…
Pissing
Pissing won’t be quite so easy in a chastity device. You are probably already familiar with splash back when pissing. Now you have something diverting the urine flow. The spread can be wide and unpredictable. Imagine your thumb over a water hose and think what that does to the direction of the water. Pissing standing isn’t as feasible anymore — not to mention who might look over and see you in a chastity cage. You’ll probably be sitting on the toilet to take a leak from now on.
Additionally, the quick shake and off you go isn’t going to be your reality anymore either. Urine can get trapped in the device. You need to be sure it’s all out and clean.
Public
Chastity devices come in different sizes and shapes. Generally, they can be hidden under
From 2013 MTV Music Awards From 2013 MTV Music Awards normal, everyday clothes. But there’s some things you will need to be conscious of. Wearing anything too tight might show the cage. Anything that would have shown your bulge before will also likely show the cage. Most cages have a lock. The lock can move, making noises or be seen. People sometimes wrap a rubber band around it so it doesn’t bang against device. In any event, it has to be managed.
If you travel, there’s the issue of airport security. If there’s metal in the device or lock, it will set the metal detector off. The body scanners will also pick it up, even if everything is plastic. Your best bet is to ask for a pat down and let the security guard know it is a piece of body jewelry. No matter how you slice it, awkward.
If you workout at the gym, the locker room becomes an issue. Showering there would be pretty embarrassing. Best to avoid the locker room altogether, if possible.
Be careful of hugs. Getting too close may reveal your dirty little secret. Just go back to the days of being a teenager when you always hug leaning in from the chest but keeping the hips away to avoid your constant hard on being revealed. Now it’s to prevent your chastity device from being revealed…
Pubic Hair
You’ll want to keep your pubes trimmed close or shaved. The hair can get caught up in the device and pinch. And it always happens when you least expect it. Like in a meeting or at dinner with family and friends. You get the point…
Life of Obedience
Being locked in a chastity device puts you in a submissive role, especially if you have a Key Holder. Based on your relationship, you may be expected to do things or act in a certain ways. The Key Holder usually has the discretion to decide when you get out, which is often times tied to your obedience. You may have to do extra chores, provided photo proof of lock up at random times, perform sexual tasks, etc. Unlike voluntary submission, there’s a consequence to failing to comply — a longer sentence for your cock.
Is It Worth It?
For some, you may not have much of a choice. Your partner or Master, if it’s that type of relationship, may require you to wear one. If that’s the case, it is what it is. If you do it on your own, it is definitely worth experimenting and seeing what it’s like. However, understanding it’s a lifestyle and not just a sex game is important to getting the most from the experience.
Suck on my fingers like you would my strap on, then beg me to fuck you.
This is exactly how it goes. First a command for an act then an order to beg for said act and another order to say how much you love said act. Later Miss says I just gave you what you aSked for . And so the vicious cycle begins
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Just a friendly reminder
I know there’s a lot of really heavy and intense things on Tumblr that reflect a fantasy world of BDSM. There’s a lot of people out there that will tell you that you have to obey without question. That you have to endure somebody treating you like shit because you’re a submissive. That you have to be an object.
I want to remind you that isn’t true. Most of the captions written on Tumblr would never be said in real life. I guarantee you that these people don’t have the balls to walk up to somebody and say that to them out of the blue. They thrive off of anonymity. It allows them to forget their Humanity.
Trust me, I understand there’s a time and a place for humiliation and degradation. But no human being deserves to be treated like that 24/7. We are social creatures. Our emotional and mental health needs affirmation at times.
Basically I’m trying to remind you that submission is a gift. To those of you that are new, you don’t have to put up with being treated poorly simply because somebody tells you that’s the way it is. It isn’t that way.
People can dismiss me. They can call me overly romantic. But here’s the thing about being a dominant, you have to in some form care about the other person. Otherwise you’re just a fraud.
This is very true. Please take note. A S&M relationship isn’t and shouldn’t be abusive. Your Owner should place so much value in you.
Dom Rights
The dom is in control. And yet – doms are just humans too. Having bad days, and needs, and problems. And sometimes this gets lost in the “role” / stereotype of the dominant. In the idea that doms always have to be strong and always in control. And absolutely no one can do that. So here are a few reminders that doms have rights too: Doms have the right to have limits Of course. We are all individuals. Just like every sub has a different set of kinks, so does every dom. And you’re not less of a dom because you’re not doing kink x or kink y. I recently witnessed pickup play negotiation that ended with the sub loudly declaring to the room that “they’re not a real dom, every real dom does (kink in question)”. It’s just as abusive as the “you’re not a real sub, a real sub does…” pattern. And yet the shocking thing was that while the “not a real sub” pattern would have raised red flags with everyone, the reverse thing didn’t. And it should. This even also inspired me to write this. Doms have the right to feel “not up for it today” Everyone accepts that subs can have days where they’re not up to play. And so do doms. For intense play I need to achieve a zen state, where I leave the rest of the world behind, because I don’t want to bring the anger over the latest news into the play. And there are a million other reasons why you might not be up to play, be it physically, mentally, or emotionally. Or why you’re not up for certain kinds of play. And that’s okay. Yes, you want to play. You know your sub wants to play and was most likely looking forward to it. And yet, if you don’t feel up for it, listen to it. It’s absolutely okay. Keep yourself and your sub safe and play another time. And for the subs – give your doms the space. Don’t beg or annoy them. And don’t guilt trip them if they don’t feel up to play with you. No matter how much you were looking forward to it. Doms have the right to use safewords Yes, of course. So you are playing and you realize that for whatever reason you don’t feel up to be in control. It’s okay to safeword and end the session. And it’s absolutely okay to get aftercare from your sub afterward. You are a human being, not a kink dispenser that just has to function. Doms have the right to negotiate first Just like subs. Just because someone is a dom, doesn’t make them your dom. This starts with small things. Maybe just using honorifics. Or invading playful situations. The big no is of course forcing the dom into a position where they have to take responsibility over someone without negotiation. An example is just joining a trance without asking. I once gave someone an intense trigger on a hypno munch, when I noticed that someone else was (hiding) behind the armchair I was sitting in and trancing along. So I had to tell my hypnotee to stand by for a moment so I could modify the trigger for the other person and make it usable by their dom. And I didn’t want to leave that particular hypnotee alone and it made me feel like I failed them. Alternatively I would have left an unsafe (for them) trigger in the other person. A lose-lose situation for me. This is extremely insidious, because it plays on the instinct of good doms to keep subs safe. The sub brings themselves in a vulnerable position, forcing the dom to either take the responsibility and do something with them, or feel like a completely irresponsible asshole. This is really bad emotional blackmail. Doms have the right to feedback And that includes negative feedback too. Kink is always communication and interaction, and that never works out absolutely perfectly. And honest and open feedback is what keeps those little things from growing and at some point becoming big things. And yes, it’s not easy for a sub to criticize their dom. But withholding that information from them is really unfair. Of course good feedback – including the good and the bad – also helps the dom to become better in controlling that particular sub. Doms have the right to emotional support This is another case where the stereotypes / roles collide with reality. Everyone accepts that subs have bad days, and that it’s natural for the dom to take care of them and fuss over them and make them feel better. Guess what – doms are human and have those kind of days too. And being the one who needs the care sometimes doesn’t make you one bit less dom, forget those stupid stereotypes. Being able to recognize your needs and being able to communicate it and let your sub take care of you is clearly a strength. Doms have the right for aftercare The scene is intense on both sides, so why wouldn’t doms have the same right to aftercare? In most cases the aftercare for the dom is giving aftercare to the sub. It’s a reconfirmation that it’s symbiotic, and that you’re doing it for the sub. So if your dom wants to give you aftercare – let them. And if they need a hug or cuddles or whatever – give it to them. And of course never forget:
They need discipline!…
If he feels he needs to tell her he is sorry, then a spanking should follow.
I need one too, but stronger
I’d love to be in his place!
This was supposed to be up last thursday, but I could only do that now.
Well, this means that this week we’ll have two comics =D
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Early in the week I was really horny and was asking my wife to stroke my cock just so I could feel some kind of pleasure.
We are both laying in bed naked, we both always sleep this way. I ask for permission to touch her nipples and slowly caress her body with my hand making sweeps across her body and little circle around her nipples. She has nipples like marbles and I just love the way they feel between my fingers. After a few minutes of doing this, I then ask permission to touch her pussy. I don’t want to ask too early for fear that she might say NO. She allows it this time. I always feel so happy, excited and get even hornier when she allows this. I really enjoy giving her orgasms. I slowly stroke one finger up one side of her pussy and down the other side making circles. After she starts to get wet I start to slide my finger inside her and slowly start to fuck her with my finger. I can tell she is enjoying this by the way she is breathing. Moving the palm of my hand and putting pressure on her pubic bone. I start to move a little faster fucking her with my finger and rubbing her clit with the palm of my hand. She is getting closer and closer. She starts moving her hips like she is fucking my hand. After a few minutes she explodes into orgasms and pushes my hand away.
By this time I am rock hard and my cock really needs attention and I’m begging to fuck her. My heart sinks when she tells me no. But she does tell me she will stroke my cock but no cumming is allowed. As she starts to grab my cock I can’t help but try to fuck her hand like it was the best pussy I ever had. I then lay back and she starts pinching my nipples which send shocks all the way to my toes. With every stroke and every pinch my body shakes as she is driving me closer and closer to the edge. Just when I think I really can’t take any more I tell her to stop. But I can tell I let it go to far, I try to hold back I really did. It’s to late there is nothing I can do. Even though she stopped stroking. I just had my first ruined orgasm. All I can think about is how sorry I am and beg for forgiveness.
I know a submissive boy who could use a really good hard spanking right about now…
Instruction
