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@rileyletzin
reblog if you’re a girl and it’s okay for me to message you when i’m horny
Reblog if…..
Desperate for one ……
Oh yes!
Yes I do
Come get me 😀
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Anyone in essex?
I already have 0ne who loves to wear with me
Yes I do in fact I will be making a post this week
Anyone from Westchester, NY?
RKS Recommends!
Looking for a good read to feed your kinky side? You’re just in luck! The Rochester Kink Society has compiled a list of our favorite informational BDSM books and alternative relationships!
*- Available to all RKS members in our Lending Library at the space!
General BDSM
Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns by Phillip Miller, Molly Devon, William A Granzig
The Loving Dominant by John Warren
Playing Well with Others by Lee Harrington, Mollena Williams
Living M/S by Dan Williams, Dawn Williams
Different Loving by Gloria G Brame, Jon Jacobs, William D Brame
*SM 101 by Jay Wiseman*
*Bondage on a Budget by Alison Tyler*
For the Top
The Control Book by Peter Masters
The Topping Book by Dossie Easton
*The New Topping Book by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy*
For the Bottom
Learning to Kneel by Master M Hatter with Cheshirecat_MMH
Conquer Me by Kacie Cunningham
The New Bottoming Book by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy
*The Bottoming Book by Dossie Easton*
*Erotic Surrender by Claudia Varrin*
*Female Submission by Claudia Varrin*
Rope Bondage and Shibari
A Little Guide to Getting Tied Up by Evie Vane
Shibari You Can Use by Lee Harrington and RiggerJay
More Shibari You Can Use by Lee Harrington and RiggerJay
Two Knotty Boys Showing You the Ropes by Two Knotty Boys
Complete Shibari Volume 1: Land by Douglas Kent
Complete Shibari Volume 2: Sky by Douglas Kent
*Jay Wiseman’s Erotic Bondage Handbook by Jay Wiseman*
Polyamory
The Ethical Slut by Janet W. Hardy and Dossie Easton
The Jealousy Workbook by Kathy Labriola
Polyamory in the 21st Century by Deborah Anapol
*Opening Up by Tristan Tairmino*
*Open Marriage by Nena O’ Neill and George O’ Neill*
The RKS Library also has many pieces of erotica, BDSM nonfiction, and works dedicated to specific fetishes. We also have various DVD videos available!
Check us out on Fetlife. Awesome family <3
Here’s information about sexual/romantic orientations and gender identities that I put together! I..I don’t do graphic design, so this isn’t that great. Also, I’m very sorry if I missed your orientation or identity or got some information wrong. Sources: (1)(2)(3)(4)(5)(6) Flags: (1) Top photo: (1)
I hope this helps some of you out!
This is very informative…I hadn’t thought about it before but I’d say I was Abro-(hetero/homoflexible) and of course intergender ^-^
An Anxious Little
Little: Daddy, *looks down at feet* I worry a lot...
Daddy: I know babygirl, that's why I'm here.
Little: But Daddy, I don't want to make you feel bad by telling you all my worries...there's a lot...and you work so hard and don't need more stress just because I'm feeling down or anxious or dissatisfied.
Daddy: Princess?
Little: *looks up at Daddy*
Daddy: Are you listening to Daddy?
Little: Yes, Daddy.
Daddy: You will always tell me everything. You will do this because I love you and you are not alone, babygirl. I want to know everything that goes on in that little head of yours. I want to be here for you even if only to listen sometimes. I want us to continue to share our lives together. I want my princess to feel safe, loved, and happy; do you understand?
Little: *teary eyed from relief and the overwhelming amount of love* Yes Daddy, I understand *wraps arms around Daddy's waist and buries head into his chest*
Daddy: *Squeezes his Little tight and strokes her hair* You are mine, babygirl, and I am here for you.
Why being a Daddy, Mummy or Little is WRONG...
Imagine the young couple in the park on a hot sunny day. Sat there on their picnic blanket feeding each other yogurt, playfully giggling, boldly touching each others noses with the messy spoons.
Aren’t they just having fun and being silly?
Imagine those loving couple scenes in movies. You know, the one where the boyfriend fills the girls hot water bottle stuffy for her and fetches her a cup of hot chocolate before tucking her in and snuggling up next to her.
Isn’t that just providing care?
Imagine the couple in the bar who look so in love. Giggling together, him calling her his ‘baby’, kissing all over each other as he pulls her in his lap.
That’s sweet and cute right?
Imagine the couple you sat next to in the restaurant. The guy helping his girlfriend find something she liked on the menu and then ordering for them both.
That’s just being nice isn’t it?
Imagine those scenes in movies where one partner holds the other when they’re stressed, sometimes rocking them to comfort them.
It looks so calm and relaxing doesn’t it?
Imagine the grown up guy who collects star wars figures and comic books and the girl who lives in the next apartment who wears cute frilly socks and dungaree dresses.
That’s not a big deal, right?
Imagine that random couple you observed in the clothes shop. That shy girl asking her partners opinion on the dress she fancied. His nod of approval sending her happily skipping off to the check out beaming with excitement.
Wasn’t that just adorable?
Imagine the guy who likes trains and fast cars and builds model planes in his spare time.
That’s a pretty ‘normal’ hobby, right?
Imagine all the middle aged men and women who watch cartoons and wear character clothing.
No one takes a second look, do they?
Imagine that warm, fuzzy, ‘I am loved’ feeling you seek when you’re sick. The feeling that comes from when someone is there to care for you. To bring you drinks, check your temperature and remind you to take your meds. It feels just like when you were young and your parent/guardian provided the same care.
That’s just what partner’s do, right?
That’s all perfectly fine… isn’t it? All that stuff is sweet. It’s cute. It’s fun. It’s adorable, loving, appealing. I mean, who wouldn’t want that sort of relationship?
Now imagine this……
Imagine people exist who actually seek all of those things in a relationship and imagine those people who like to take care of others label themselves as caregivers/Daddies/Mummies and those who like being taken care of label themselves as babygirls/babyboys/littles….
Then suddenly you all judge. Why? I’ll tell you why….
Because being a Daddy or Mummy or little is wrong and disgusting and sick and vile…(eye roll)
Because you all WRONGLY assume that being a Daddy/Mummy/Little is about incest or abuse, when really, you couldn’t be further from the truth. Being little is all about feeling safe, protected, loved and cared for and being a Mummy/Daddy/Big/Caregiver is all about providing that much needed love and support to a little one.
Don’t judge based on titles.
Genuinely nice decent people in this community have no time for abusers and often we know too well the damage that abuse causes so don’t label us as something we’re not. Just accept us for who we are and how we label ourselves.
Let us be proud to be us.
(Please feel free to reblog) :)
This needs to be everywhere on the internet! Like now!
Been reading ur blog. U need to stop calling urself a dom. All this lovey crap makes real doms sick. A sub is not for respecting and loving. A sub is for using and thats what they like. Its fine that u love ur girl, just dont call urself a dom. Real doms show dominance, use there sub and leave her laying like the cunt slut she is. Bein all sweet, and all that does is give her power over u, which makes u not a dom.
Hi there, Anon. I almost didn’t even dignify this with a response, but I think you’ve actually given me a good opportunity to say something that new doms need to know, so kudos to you.
First and foremost, let’s establish something right here and now: You don’t get to tell me what I am, and you are damn sure not the leading authority on what does and does not constitute a dominant. For the record, I didn’t wake up one day and decide to be a dom. I never even thought of myself that way until I met belovedsangi 10 years ago. I always had the characteristics of a dom, sure, but I didn’t ever put that title on myself. That title was given to me by my submissive. SHE is the one who wanted to call me Master, and Sir, and sometimes Daddy. I never told her to do these things. But of course, you probably think I am making your point for you and that if I were a REAL domly dom, I would’ve demanded those things.
And that’s where you have a fundamental issue understanding the meaning of the title. So let me help you with that.
A dom does not demand respect. He conducts himself in such a way as to be worthy of respect.
A dom does not bark commands. His presence is such that he can seduce and command with nothing more than a glance.
A dom does not raise his voice. He is the kind of man who gets what he wants without needing to.
A dom is not a braggart. He is possessed of a calm, quiet confidence that is evident in his demeanor, the way he walks, the tone of his voice, and all other aspects of him.
A dom understands balance. He knows that while a firm hand and discipline are critical in this type of relationship, knowing when to be gentle and understanding is every bit as important.
A dom is a gentleman first and foremost. That doesn’t necessarily mean that he is a fancy man who values the finer things in life, but he does understand manners and protocol. He opens the car door for her. He orders for her if she is having trouble deciding. He treats strangers with courtesy and respect.
A dom is a protector. He makes sure that his submissive feels safe and protected at all times. This means so much more than just telling her you will protect her. A dom shows her. He keeps a hand on her shoulder or on her waist in crowds so she doesn’t get nervous. He sleeps on the side of the bed closest to the door so that he is always between his submissive and an intruder. He walks on the side of the sidewalk closest to the street so that an errant vehicle will hit him before his submissive. If anything or anyone should threaten his submissive, he must be prepared to fight for her with the ferocity of an alpha wolf.
A dom earns her submission. It is not a thing to be demanded, expected, or assumed. And he continues to earn it, each and every day.
A dom values her submission. Fully submitting your will and trusting your body and well-being to someone takes a kind of strength most can’t imagine, and a dom never loses sight of that.
A dom understands that being a dominant is 10% privilege and 90% responsibility. He is literally taking her life into his hands. He is accepting the most sacred and important thing she has to give. He is taking her burdens and bearing them as his own, always, every day.
A dom is consistent. He understands that he can’t just be her protector, lover, confidant, master, etc. when he feels like it. There will be days when a dom is tired. There will be days when he is stressed. There will be days when he is broken. On those days, it is more important than ever for a dom to show his submissive that he is still everything she needs him to be.
So what does it mean, then, to be a dom? I get the feeling that you, anon, would say that it’s all about making her kneel, having your way with her, shouting orders and using her. Helpful hint: Any jackass can buy himself a whip and bark commands. That’s not a dom. Don’t get me wrong, I do absolutely have my way with belovedsangi. I love it when she kneels. I love the kinky, rough, mind-blowing sex we have. I love to dominate her in the bedroom. But for every moment of that, there are a hundred moments of holding her, of talking to her, laughing with her, gaming with her. There are a hundred moments of making her feel safe when she is afraid, giving her confidence when she is unsure, comforting her when she feels troubled. Those are all things that a dominant does too.
I love my submissive more than I love oxygen. I love my submissive with a fire that can never be extinguished. I value her and respect her in every way. I treat her like a queen and fuck her like a slave. These things don’t make me weak. They don’t make me less of a dominant. These things make me stronger than you can possibly imagine. There is nothing quite so formidable as a dominant who has found the perfect submissive to fuel his fire. Never will you see anyone love so strongly or fight so fiercely.
Bottom line, Anon, is this: you sound like a boy playing at being a man. You decided one day that you were sick of women having willpower and a voice of their own, so you decided to call yourself a dominant and seek out some weak-willed submissive who wouldn’t talk back to you or stick up for herself. You are not a dom. You are a jackass with a whip. Classic case of toodomforyou.
-LMS
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@daddy-turtleprince
This needs a repost every time!!!
Reasons Why Little Girls Need Rules:
1. Rules give structure which is very comforting to a submissive mind. To be able to see what is expected, and what is forbidden, allows a little girl to navigate the relationship easily, and with less stress.
2. Rules remind a submissive who is in charge. Whether she is obeying them, or breaking them, Daddy put them there, and she is reminded that every time she navigates around them, or takes one off the shelf and breaks it.
3. Rules are useful tools to improve your submissive’s life, and make her a better person. Don’t like that she keeps a messy room? Make a rule that changes that. Don’t like that she eats sweets before bed, and that it makes it hard for her to fall asleep? It must be rule time. Rules help Dominants take care of their littles, because we can’t expect them to take care of themselves all the time.
JD🌹
So this! Applies to any little or submissive as well.
@sjenkins81
House for hamsters
@dottykitten
Awmg!!! <3 <3 <3
Day 3!
Morning! third day of the challenge today. I actually have a busy day around a lot of people today so that’s gonna be fun! I have a two weeks supply of diapers. I’m going to be posting challenge updates every day (just like this one!) for every 50 notes these challenge updates receive thats an extra day have to wear diapers 27/7 for a day
So far previous posts have gained 287 notes That means five days of me wearing 24/7! and this post only needs to gain 13 notes to make it into 6 days!
My challenge can also be extended past the two weeks by buying nappies from my wishlist . 1 day = 3 nappies. No additional notes required to extend it this way :)
My list of rules during the challenge are:
Baby Bug’s Rules
Nappies must be worn at all times, other than showering and changing.
No big girl playtime without Mummy’s permission. Mummy can specify how you play too.
You are expected to use your nappies for wetting only. Although you are to have one messy nappy during this.
Nappies only, drynites are not allowed to be worn unless you ask permission. I will always grant it for when you have to go anywhere that wearing a nappy would be difficult. You still have to ask permission though.
Anyone can ask about the state of your nappy at any time, you have to answer honestly.
You must honestly answer or reply to any questions or asks sent to you, no matter how embarrassing (within reason, super personal questions are off limits of course).
Maximum 3 nappy changes per day.
. Whilst at home you must only drink from a baby bottle. In addition to this, you have to drink at least 3 bottles of water a day.
Always carry a spare diaper if you leave the house.
These rules can be added to. Any ideas message my mummy @littlefallenprincess
(There will be a limit to how long this challenge can be extended due to work reasons. If if gets close to that limit I’l post a warning)
More reblogs and likes needed!
24/7 challenge
Okay! So I have enough nappys to wear 24/7 for two weeks. For every 50 notes this post recieves I will wear 24/7 for one day. If any one wants to extend the challenge past two weeks there are nappys on my wishlist 3 nappys = 1 day.
Amy @littlefallenprincess is designing a bunch of rules for the challenge. If you want to suggest any. Message her! :)
If at any point you want proof Im wearing you can request a photo and I'l post one as soon as possable.
As soon as this reaches 50 notes. Challenge starts :)
Time to reblog!!! Tumblr we need your help!
I’m having a day out with a vanilla friend tomorrow. If 15 people like this by tomorrow morning i’l go out padded. If 25 like it mummy can choose my outfit and I’l post pictures :)
Need more likes and reblogs!
I am nothing but a nappy-wetting, helpless little baby who doesn’t know whats best for her.
@littlefallenprincess is the bestest mummy in the whole wide world. She treats me like the helpless little baby I am. She changes my very very very soggy nappies, because I can’t help wetting myself. Obviously I belong in nappies!
Who else agrees with me that I’m nothing but a little baby and that mummy should keep me as one?
And this is what happens when you go shower when your girl friend knows your password!
Wha? Me? I’d never do something like this! We all know you’re just a little baby, you were just being honest about it!
@sjenkins81 - I’m sure mommy wouldn’t evvvvvvver do anything like this.
Adult Sissy Dress, Adult Baby Dress, ABDL Dress Up, Adult Tinkerbell Dress, Crossdresser dress Up, Cosplay, Lolita, Custom made to measure
I found a dress for you @krone6
@sjenkins81 OHHHH I want it sooooooo much! Buy me it please ^)^
75 notes and I'll wear a diaper under my cap and gown at graduation.
Ends May 25.
Everyone needs to reblog this ASAP. Cato is the cutest baby in the world and all dressed up in a suit with his diapies underneath would be the absolute cutest outfit ever
Big baby bouncer in the middle of my Little’s space.
That is a nice toy…:)
Be even more fun for the diapered boi in IT to be plugged :)
Plugged with at least a 2 liter enema in him.