祝这涟漪经久不息

rin. she/her. 🇸🇬 a multi-fandom/whatever I'm interested in blog. spoiler-positive. EN/中文. I watch dramas (cdramas / lakorn) and movies. gets too invested in some of them and makes gifs occasionally. • currently: full-time 奖励 jiangli observer and commentator 鹤唳华亭 royal nirvana 莲花楼 mysterious lotus casebook • shoujoinvestigation / my tags

[rinbylin]

"what is the image of the ideal person..."

[rinbylin]

遊 as losing the self

[wormnextdoor]

i love queerplatonic relationships where one of them is aroace and the other isn't. i love when the allo character has a crush that fades over time. i love when they don't care what they are to each other as long as they're together. i love when romance is an option that they don't choose. i love when both aros and allos feel fulfilled without romance or sex.

[vincentpriceofficial]

I think for a lot of people “I am completely helpless and powerless” and “I am completely powerful and in control” are both basically comforting fantasies because most of us live our lives in an in between place where we have enough agency to be responsible for our actions but not enough agency to have true control over our lives and the tension between power and powerlessness in the day to day is psychologically wearing and exhausting

[mystgourmet-deactivated20200102]

[velvetys]

Is this fandom annoying poll give me your hand and listen to me. every fandom is annoying and being a fan of anything is evil

[kira-kui-n]

"get him pregnant" well thats not my thing but to each their own

"get her pregnant" *takes up my sword and shield* i wont let you do that to her. ......................

[burtlancster]

“I like to find out how the camera works, then I can try for the best effect in what I’m doing. I want to know the director’s angle on things as well. I know it’s difficult. But I’m like that, restless and strung up inside when I’m working. I am searching for something and I haven’t found it yet.”

— Burt Lancaster

[chateauofmymind]

some are saying the big one fucking the little one is trite and overdone but ☝️ hear me out, what if the big one is the little brother

[fleshia]

“ perverts “ — filet crochet by me

[bluering8]

listen to me, this is so so important: you've gotta get used to really giving it your 60% as a default. like don't half-ass it necessarily but try not to go over 70% or so of an ass. you'll feel better and live a happier more fulfilled life, and on the rare occasions where you do need to lock the fuck in you'll be able to pull off bullshit that the sad miserable wretches giving it their 100% can never dream off, because they're busy draining themselves dry and you have energy reserves to spare.

[smokingchagga]

This is actually what I was adviced to do at the work rehabilitation program I went to. Hasn't left my mind since. 10/10 solid advice

[cal3ris]

is this gonna get me fired you think

[bigtittygothmom666]

[rinbylin]

谁敢看这对情侣

[killxbunnyyy]

i be like “it is what it is” then be pissed off for like 4 years

[angelsaxis]

It's bad that women are expected to wear make up btw

[spelldealer]

whoops i forgot to do everything in the world

[fairyinthetrees]

going with the flow in a face down in a river kinda way