the generation born to push equality all around the world. they're meant to dismantle outdated systems and bring everyone together regardless of their race, ethnicity and cultural background. this generation was the first to revolutionize race relations and practice fairness in relationships. their major downside was their codependency and lack of defiance.
✴︎ pluto in scorpio (1984-1995)
the generation born to expose the hidden darkness of the world. they're meant to show the harmful influence of drugs, s*x and corruptive power have on the youth. the issues in this timeline were pushed to the extreme and refused to be swept under the rug. this generation reclaimed power through normalizing taboos and breaking free of generational trauma.
✴︎ pluto in sagittarius (1996-2008)
the generation born to spread awareness on global issues. they're meant to travel and learn more about the world around them. the issues birthed in this timeline are solved through using knowledge and philosophy. this generation is the first to prioritize higher education and exploration. their downside is lack of critical thinking, accountability, and moral empathy.
✴︎ pluto in capricorn (2009-2023)
the generation born to bring back structure and tradition in a world lost in what it wants to be. they're meant to go back to the basics and teach the youth how to survive through drive and ambition. this generation is going to be the first to rebuild society and invent new systems that will improve the economy beyond anything we've ever seen before.
✴︎ pluto in aquarius (2024-2043)
the generation born to bring forth a new world through innovation and humanity. they're meant to push technology to its absolute limits. this generation is going to be the first to exercise the importance of nature and climate change. their possible downside could be their neutralism and not knowing if their influence will ultimately be good or bad.
☆Pluto in 1st: Your appearance, your aura, the entirety of you, who you are, what you do, everything actually!
☆Pluto in 2nd: Your earnings, your opinion about something or someone, what you find right and wrong, your belief, people may actually want to inspire themselves, or aware themselves from your opinion actually, your voice. Your self esteem, your confidence, people may want your attention.
☆Pluto in 3rd: The way you think, the way you can think from a third, out of box perspective, unconventional thinking and opinion
☆Pluto in 4th: Your past experiences, things you don't talk about, your privacy, your family and who you are friends with, your social circle, your true feelings about someone or something
☆Pluto in 5th: Who you are dating, what people are talking about you for, what are you receiving attention for, what new stuff are you making, thinking or creating
☆Pluto in 6th: What you actually do for a living maybe, may be what are your whereabouts, where do you live, what is you lifestyle like
☆Pluto in 7th: your partner, people who you spend time with, people who you give attention and emotional support to, your business ideas, what are you buying or investing in
☆Pluto in 8th: A very secretive placement and actually very attractive, and obsessive. People may be crazy about you or may be an unexplainable attraction, you do not know what it is but it just lures you in. Fantasizing about you. Very possible people from your past obsess over you!
☆Pluto in 9th: Your beliefs, worldview, and cultural experiences. People may be fascinated by your ability to challenge norms, your travels, and how you interpret life's big questions. Your advices are likely to be taken by people with seriousness regardless. You may have attention from your teachers and professors for either good or bad reasons.
☆Pluto in 10th: Your public image, career, and success. How you do and what you do. People may be drawn to your authority, ambition, and how you hold power in the professional world, obsessing over your achievements.
☆Pluto in 11th: Your friendships and social influence. People may obsess over your ability to connect with others, who you make friends with. You may be extremely desirable as a friend, attracting secret admirers often, especially in friend groups. It reminds of this lyric "if I let you in my circle you're a winner"
☆Pluto in 12th: Your secrets, inner world, and spiritual depth. Much like the 8th house in pluto, this also draws people in and they may not quite understand why. People may have dreams about you, without you interacting with them that much. There is a healing energy, as if you can give people what they want, you can fulfill them in some ways.
I finally bit the bullet and launched an astrology account. Hope it resonates :)
Fifth house moons are lighthearted, joyful, and emotionally spontaneous. They can put others in a good mood, and people typically enjoy spending time with them. Romantics. Could enjoy the early stages of dating, romance books/movies, and talking about their love life or the love lives of people around them. Might quickly develop crushes or enjoy the feeling of having a crush. Their mother could have been dramatic, theatrical, popular, creative, volatile, or childish (depending on the sign/aspects.) She also could have given them a lot of freedom growing up. If they choose to have children, they may have a gentle, nurturing, intuitive, and supportive parenting style. Good with children in general.
Scorpio rising/Leo midheaven finds career success in the public eye, but they can fear being exposed. Others can see them as naturally glamorous, intriguing, and charismatic, but they feel shy. “Thrust into the spotlight” energy. Pressure to gain comfortability with being vulnerable/seen by others. (Ex. Jackie Kennedy) If they pursue art/a creative field, they may feel hesitant about putting themselves into their work, but it can actually bring them a lot of success. There could also be a subversive or even campy quality to their public image.
Capricorn Mercuries are witty, articulate, insightful, and earnest. Good listeners and advice givers. Mentors. They do what they say they’re going to do. They usually know exactly what is going on with the people around them and can deliver crazy reads.
Cancer Mercuries are sweet and typically soft-spoken. Emotionally intelligent. Melodic voice. Thoughtful. Could be shy, or people could talk over them. (Ex. Taylor Russel)
Gemini/Cancer energy is so messy but so entertaining. They are gossips that everyone loves. (Ex. Andy Cohen)
Taurus Mars' approach to work can echo “an object in motion stays in motion, an object at rest stays at rest.” It may be hard to get started. Actively maintains passiveness/tries to push away change or unpredictability. Will try to stay in a situation after they outgrow it because they find comfort in familiarity. Habit-forming. Values career stability, material comfort, and diligent effort. Set in their goals and values once they determine them. It can be difficult for them to back down from an argument or admit when they’re wrong.
Pisces Mars’ passivity is different—they can have a tendency to go wherever the wind takes them. Goes along with other people’s wants and won’t put up much of a fight. Cries when angry, and anger can be felt more as hurt or disappointment. Being too in their head can stop them from standing strong in what they want/taking action towards it. Creatively ambitious. Capacity for artistic talent. May have a rich inner world and daydream about their goals. Focusing on practical, actionable steps can help this placement ground and realize its creative potential.
Third house suns are sassy, witty, curious, street-smart, and socially skilled. Great communicators. Could be drawn to writing or journalism. Likely to maintain a strong immediate community—tight-knit relationships with childhood friends, roommates, siblings, etc. Could be well-liked and fit into lots of different groups. Convincing liars. Typically popular in high school, or at least involved in clubs, organizations, and group activities. Capacity to achieve recognition within their community.
Tenth house moons set the energy in a room. When they’re upset, people can usually tell. Their mood can influence the moods of others, and people may find them sensitive because their emotions appear amplified/projected. Their friends will care deeply for them and want to protect them. People may be jealous of them or project ideas/character traits onto them. Others may see them as compassionate, shy, melancholy, or reserved. They want a job that emotionally fulfills them, and their emotions are heavily tied into or impacted by their job. They can be especially sensitive to criticism at work. They are emotionally invested in their goals, which cultivates a strong sense of ambition—above all else, they don’t want to disappoint themselves.
Scorpio risings are hard to read, cool, alluring, and intimidating. Others perceive them as difficult to impress, which may be offputting to some, but makes others want to try even harder to befriend them. There can be a sense of exclusivity around who they choose to spend their time with, their inner circle, etc. Typically won’t say much about themselves when you first meet them, although people sense their depth/assume there’s something more to them. Their quietness can be interpreted as secretive, withholding, or judgemental—but they’re probably just shy.
the black moon lilith or true lilith is not a physical body in the sky but an abstract, geometrical point, like the ascendent or vertex. the true lilith spends approximately 10 days in one sign, taking around 120 or so days to fully travel around the earth. astrologically, the true lilith symbolises the parts of us that are hard to let go of and change; the things about our being that feel difficult to face and continually challenge us in our lives.
in love, the true lilith extends beyond the personal moon-venus energies into more subtle yet intensely essential dimensions of our lives – our sexual relationships. this energy may be akin to plutonic or martian energy whereby our innermost insecurities are intensified through the partners we choose, and the experiences we go through thereafter. the sign and house of our true lilith identifies the parts of us that are suppressed, misunderstood, and thus subconsciously rejected for the sake of fitting in, but forcefully expressed through our relationships for the sake of healing our traumas and bad habits. much of this lilith energy is karmic – whatever you choose to ignore, will follow anyway. this is the beauty of the karmic cycle! there is a strong set of lessons to be learned with the true lilith. the end result in healing our true lilith is purer self-expression.
it must be noted that the true lilith is especially potent along the cusps (houses 1, 4, 7, and 10) because of the karmic significance of these houses.
this introduction is copied from an ask submitted some time ago; if you're interested, you may read it here:
ask: what's the difference between lilith and true lilith (h13)?
true lilith in aries or the first house –
with the true lilith being in aries or in the first house, there may be significant issues revolving around the personal identity or sense of self. for one, these natives may have experienced a continuous rejection of who they are growing up, possibly having to fit some ideal archetype formed by others, thus losing their sense of individuality and, consequently, feeling as though they will never belong with any group of people. whilst there is a deep desire to be themselves, these people seem to continually try and fit in and be "normal" amongst others. this placement is a highly personal one because this placement, if very negatively aspected, can be hugely indicative of a feeling of never belonging anywhere, thus feeling uncomfortable in their own skin, purpose, etc...
in some manifestations, this placement could be indicative of obsessively striving for autonomy, leading to problems in partnerships. through tasting personal freedom and truth, there may come a bratty behaviour towards anything that seems to tie these natives down. whilst yes, their lesson will largely revolve around standing up for themselves and claiming their individuality amongst others, they must do this in a way that is responsible and fair. in its general expression, this placement is sexually devious, using its sex appeal to bend the perception of others. this can be unfair and exploitative, but can be a very reflective symptom of deep insecurity and a rejection of the self from within. in saying that, their desperate attempt to swallow others' personality explains the void they have within their own bodies; the lack of self-assurance they have from inside them that prompts them to get so involved with others to the point they become someone else to try and make up for their own lack of self.
the overarching lesson with true lilith in aries or the first house will be in claiming their autonomy and turning their being into something more powerful and authoritative, rather than trying to capture someone with these traits, and thus manipulating them as if they were them. these natives must claim and transform their sense of identity into something they can confidently confide in, rather than trying to desperately fit in with others. through using their intuition, these natives will further align themselves with the values, standards, boundaries, beliefs, and etc., they must live by to live their most genuine selves. relationships will heal and fix themselves once these natives recognise the power in their own identities – who they truly are, and what they want out of life; they must stop endlessly searching for the things that exist within them already.
true lilith in taurus or the second house –
with the true lilith being in taurus or in the second house, there may be significant issues revolving around personal values, money, and possessions. firstly, with the second house associating itself around personal values and self-worth, a jeopardised lilith in the second house can suggest the tendency to undermine the self because of how others treat them. betrayal or rejection from others may subconsciously cause them to betray or reject themselves (they don't accept me, so why should I accept myself?). the issue lies in relying on the validation and acceptance of others to the point they bend over backwards in assisting others, yet denying any sort of assistance for themselves. these natives may naturally assign value to things other people assign value to, rather than following what they feel is important/valuable in their own lives. thus, a myriad of issues follow: rejecting the health, beauty, and natural self-expression of the self. by rejecting their value system, they continue engaging in destructive behaviours that further compromise their mental, emotional, physical, and even sexual health.
wanting to achieve a certain form of stability, security, and consistency in the self may cause the hearts of these natives to ache as they are caught in limbo between following their own path and the path others have established for them. their lack of personal values can inevitably destroy their relationship with money and their possessions, thus tending to the validation of others to guarantee their own security and stability. this can be through a misuse of sex in many cases. nonetheless, the internalised shame or fear comes from enabling their own strength in following their desired values, goals, and ultimate desires out of life; they fear being self-sufficient because of what it means to change their habits, ways of thinking, and so on. in many cases, this placement is indicative of enduring sufferance rather than changing what it means to suffer. thus their lack of self-esteem and shame in their insecurities are masked by their sex appeal and seemingly charming personality. it may be the case that these natives enter relationships for the security love may give them; they may have no real desire for love, but be mesmerised by the safety of the money, possessions, and love their partners have for them. also, they may be the type to date or marry according to their tradition of culture, even though they feel very unhappy about doing so. thus, in relationships they may find themselves yearning for more genuine love, but feeling powerless all the same, because they feel stuck in their ability to change their circumstances.
the overarching lesson with the true lilith in taurus or in the second house will be in claiming their own set of personal values and following their own path rather than the one established for them. furthermore, they must recognise the real potential in their beauty, sexuality, and physicality. they must use the strength of their beauty to their advantage, though in a way that is responsible and not exploitative of other people's possessions, money, security, and whatnot. lastly, they must recognise just how much they truly need to rely on themselves, as they are all they truly have at the end of the day.
true lilith in gemini or the third house –
with the true lilith in gemini or in the third house, there may be significant issues revolving around communication and the mental capacity for information. firstly, the issue of communication comes up thoroughly when the 3h is concerned in a reading. with lilith in gemini or in the house of communication and information, there may be a total misuse of speech and thinking. there may be a tendency to gossip, lie, or mislead others in order to seem more superior than others. the power of their tongue is used to spread misinformation and to hurt people rather than using it for the benefit of the self and others. much of this behaviour stems from a deeper rooted insecurity from within; the fear of being perceived as somebody stupid or quiet. if in the case these natives are not gossipy at all, they may feel as though they are social outcasts. secondly, they may feel as though the world is too big and confusing for them; they may feel as though the world at large is crueler than what it really is. thus, they may have a misconstrued perception of how the world functions and how others engage with one another. whilst the desire to learn is there, they feel shameful in their intelligence or mental capacity for whatever reason.
many a times the emotional self is rationalised through this placement because of its leniency on realism or logic. their intuition may be rejected in fear of it being nothing significant; likewise, they may reject their impulses thinking they are insignificant also. the idea of being bound to a certain thought, idea, value, or belief system is common with this placement because of the innate rejection towards discovering new information. so, there may be a total rejection of new ways of doing things because of the instability it may cause. lastly, there may be a myriad of experiences wherein the social self was overlooked or rejected in some way, primarily by friends and siblings, where the native felt unwelcome, stupid, and insecure in their ability to make and maintain friends. this may cause them to not talk or converse their feelings in relationships; they may go completely mute upon being asked for their opinions or feelings on a matter. this lack of communication is what breaks down the security in their relationships, for they feel overly stupid to say anything, or they don't feel compelled in communicating their honest thoughts and feelings. despite wanting to feel connected to somebody, they still reject the things they need to change for something new to happen. they may attract partners who don't communicate with them just for the sake of prompting these natives to bite the bullet and communicate, just to feel ignored and stop communicating thereafter. it's a vicious cycle that never seems to end.
the overarching lesson with lilith in gemini or in the third house will be in claiming their mental autonomy and using it to search for the answers they wish to search for. in using the power of their tongue responsibly, they may find the friends they subconsciously yearn for; the closeness of "family and siblings" they have always desires, and all the various wonderful things they want to learn from their relationships with others. by rejecting that the mental or intellectual self is a fixed state, they may further realise the real extent of their intellectual capabilities and actually use the strength of their mental mind in achieving great heights of intellectual power and knowledge AND mental understanding and reciprocation from others.
true lilith in cancer or the fourth house –
with the true lilith in cancer or in the fourth house, there may be significant issues revolving the home, the intuition, and the emotional self. family may have played a significant role in the development of these natives' lives. in some instances, it may have been a case where significant trauma or abuse was suffered in the home, with these natives experiencing some level of neglect or rejection from family. in others, it could have been the case where there was a lot of hatred, dislike, and overall resentment within the family. in many negative aspects, lilith in the fourth house is descriptive of a mother being full of resentment or negative feelings. she may have been an explosive character that disliked a certain member of the family. whilst this does not have to be the mother – it could be anyone! – it oftentimes is. in any case, these natives may have grown up shy and fearful of expressing themselves within the home. they may have been forced to fit some archetype within the home and, in the case where these natives did try to express their real selves, they may have been punished for it. what's more, the feelings of shame and internalised rage will come from experiencing so much turmoil from the home these natives lose sense of family until they are forced to eject themselves from the home and learn what it means to create their own family.
the common experience with this placement is needing to leave the home in order to maintain personal individuality and wholeness. in general, the experience with this placement will be in experiencing power struggles where, although other members of the family are experiencing a troubling dynamic, the child is accordingly affected through having their perception of family skewed. thus there may be a final rejection of family and children altogether; men, too, perhaps, and in the case where men have this placement, they may be very hesitant towards women or maternal energies. they may be cold towards their partners due to shame or fear of feeling vulnerable. they may feel compelled to date or marry for security and with no feelings involved whatsoever, and still secretly hope for real love from deep within. this placement yearns to be cared for and loved, but seems to attract people who use and abuse their feelings. to remedy this, these natives may have to establish stronger values and boundaries to live and abide by. they must build security from within rather than relying on others to give this to them.
the overarching lesson with lilith in cancer or in the fourth house will be in recognising the strength of their emotional and intuitive self. there is great capacity for becoming a powerful parent or becoming a protector of children and woman with this placement, and thus these natives may feel compelled to heal through their own children or establishing their own family. nonetheless, through trusting their own intuition and establishing their own emotional networks with others, they may find the emotional and physical wholeness and success they earnestly look for. by quitting the tendency in suppressing their emotional selves, they realise the real potency of their emotional and spiritual bodies and how their genuine self-expression can be truly healing, particularly in relationships, where they may feel the most emotionally awkward.
true lilith in leo or the fifth house –
with the true lilith in leo or in the fifth house, there may be significant issues revolving around the self-esteem, self-expression, and sense of play and joy. this can be a hugely depressing placement because of its association with children; more specifically, these natives may have been ridiculed or rejected for expressing their real personalities, thus becoming very shy and reclusive in childhood. naturally, they may have been the loner type but, unfortunately, in some instances, the great deal of shame put on who they are may have forced them to shift towards expressing themselves the way others may have wanted them to express themselves. sometimes this placement can be indicative of a stolen youth wherein the child's sense of play was rejected or the child was abused and traumatised in some form, especially by a parent. this "stolen childhood" is what haunts these natives because they lose their sense of whimsy and creativity later in life, believing they are worth what others assign them as, rather than who they believe themselves to be. thus the tendency to avoid what's fun or playful may stem from the feeling of guilt and shame in expressing who they really are. having a low self-esteem, inner resilience and worth, are all common with this placement.
in relationships, these natives may subconsciously choose partners that validate their need for love and attention. as their own self love is nonexistent, these natives may demand others to go above and beyond in proving their feelings and love to these people. deep inside, these natives want to be loved and admired, but they do it in the wrong way. they must have stronger values and boundaries, and to dignify themselves by instilling a stronger confidence from within. they cannot compensate their own lack of a self-esteem with the validation of others. if they do that, they will never live the truly happy and authentic lives they want to live. life will feel like a game wherein they must pretend to be something they are not, thus feeling like an imposter, instead of naturally flowing through it as the main character. thus, many of their relationships will end in these partners realising these natives are simply not worth pursuing because of their neediness and codependency.
the overarching lesson with lilith in leo or in the fifth house will be in claiming their sense of play and embracing their childlike qualities to heal and move forward in their lives. they may look forward to being more creative with their hobbies and activities to pour their inmost feelings into rather than swallowing somebody to feel validated from within. they may be interested in music or writing because of how they can articulate their feelings; painting, maybe, for all the colours that can communicate their feelings. drama, perhaps, for how these natives may express their inmost emotions. in any case, these natives must realise the real potency in their leadership qualities and their sense of worth. through working on their self-esteem, they will naturally re-discover who they really are and how they can express themselves accordingly, allowing themselves to live the creative and romantic lives they truly desire to live with themselves and their partners.
true lilith in virgo or the sixth house –
with the true lilith being in virgo or in the sixth house, there may be significant issues revolving around these native's sense of responsibility, duty, sexuality, and individuality. for one, there may be a total rejection of the sexual self in order to maintain the personal individuality. there may be feeling of sexual rejection by others where, in some cases, these natives may lack the sexual confidence they require from within because of their low self-esteem and previous experiences. they may see sex and relationships as a critical thing rather than something to enjoy; unfortunately, this obsession with perfection and cleanliness can cause these natives to not only mislead others into thinking they are "cleaner" and "purer" than what they really are, but to also treat themselves as unworthy unless they can follow a certain order or way of living. their sense of shame will revolve around never feeling good enough no matter how hard they work, where they work, how good they look, and how attuned they are to others' needs. on a lesser note: these natives may be very insecure about their status in society.
in some instances, this placement can be so self-critical they forget the power in their autonomy. they may critics themselves to the point of subconsciously begin relying on others for validation, but these relationships may also be taken very critically. they may project onto others because they, again, want to seem stronger or more organised than they really are. there's an imbalance between wanting commitment/autonomy and social contact/retreat. because these natives tend to be ashamed of their work ethic, discipline, or sense of routine, as well as their self-esteem, skills, and mental capacity, they may overwhelm themselves and fall into a continual spiral of victimhood wherein nothing is ever good enough, and that they are never working hard enough. they may indirectly project this mindset onto others where they date those who "have it figured out" because it validates their own needs for security and balance, OR they pursue those who have nothing figured out because it makes themselves feel better about their own circumstances. in general however, these natives must assess just how much they bend over backwards for others, how many times they put their own needs aside to serve others, and just how much "life" they lack because of their perception that they must live a certain way for the security it brings. they may justify their lives with working and serving others, which may be very harmful in relationships. they need to have stronger values and principles; they must also fix their relationship with money and material things, and to pursue their intuition and spirituality more often, to live a more fulfilling and mentally/spiritually balanced lifestyle.
the overarching lesson with the true lilith in virgo or in the sixth house will be in finding a balance between their physical and sexual bodies, realising the strength in embracing their emotional and spiritual sides. through allowing themselves to be more vulnerable, these natives will learn the essence of imperfection and just how little it matters to conform to something that has nothing to do with them. they must not justify their lives with work or duty; rather, they must seek to balance all aspects of their lives to live the lives they truly desire. in saying that, it may be a common observation with this placement experiencing a multitude of teachers who change their perception of themselves; if in the case their younger childhood underwent serious drama or chaos, and perhaps some trauma or abuse, these teachers will teach the art of letting go, and embracing more healthy ways of living.
true lilith in libra or the seventh house –
with the true lilith being in libra or in the seventh house, there may be significant issues revolving around personal values and romantic relationships. most notably, the key issue with this placement is the emphasis on others' companionship. these natives struggle being alone for the lack of positive self-esteem and confidence from within; to some extent, these natives lack a solid foundation of values, boundaries, and standards they may relate to when it comes to their individuality and them in relationships. to make up for their lack of ego/personality, they often seek others to embody the confidence, strength, and resilience they innately desire within themselves. they may feel misunderstood or shameful in their relationships because of how much sexual confidence they lack from within. whilst there is tremendous potential for a strong and seductive sex appeal, it may be the case these natives exploit their sexuality and use it in a way that does more harm than good.
in some instances, having the true lilith in libra or in the seventh house can prescribe conflict with women. in its most ideal expression, this placement is a defender of women. it's supportive of laws that curtail abuse or sexual crimes, too. being so justice-oriented, this placement holds inane potential for being highly powerful and extremely well-positioned for dealing with people experiencing difficulty within their personal lives – again, those who are suffering some form of abuse, neglect, and so on. but in relationships, the prominent lesson with this placement seems to be instilling justice in their own lives, where they must fight for their autonomy and right to be individual, rather than relying on others for attention and validation. they need to be crueller with their words, as they tend to hide from harshness of any kind just to appease the notion of peace. they may avoid certain discussions that are too difficult in nature; this must be fixed also. in general, they need to have better values and a stronger self-esteem that prohibits them from being taken advantage of by others. their kindness may be seen as a strength but also a weakness to those who simply don't care. their tendency to overlook bad behaviour will enable bad behaviour to keep happening. their fear of laying down their boundaries is what will restrict them in feeling truly loved and appreciated for their kindness and desire for love.
the overarching lesson with the true lilith in libra or in the seventh house will be in balancing their personal autonomy and their relationships with others. their internalised shame may come from lacking certain values and thus lacking a coherent personality to relate to and express to others but this must be developed into something more solid. as with all air sign or house true liliths, the potential of being bad-mannered, gossipy, and so on, are common here, especially because the power of the tongue may be used to cause ill onto others. nonetheless, in striving towards their own independence and claiming their own sexuality, these natives will guarantee the inner peace they so earnestly crave from others.
true lilith in scorpio or the eighth house –
with the true lilith being in scorpio or in the eighth house, there may be significant issues regarding sexuality, relationships, intimacy, and personal transformation and healing. most commonly, natives with this placement are somehow ashamed or fearful of their sexuality. they may avoid sex or intimacy with others due to an irrational fear of losing themselves in others. the instinct is to protect themselves from what makes them feel vulnerable or powerless. in some instances these natives may be quite dishonest or misleading when it comes to others; they may be hard to read because they intentionally misdirect others to avoid being fully seen and understood by others. it may also be the case these natives view relationships as deranged when it comes to who holds power within the relationship. all of these feelings may have originated from childhood where significant trauma or abuse was experienced, oftentimes sexually or in similar form, though this is not always necessary. there may have been other influences present, such as a certain way of living (religion) or just general inexperience with intimacy. there may have been a possible (near) death experience during childhood, leading to the native adopting a perspective that death is an inevitable part of life.
whilst natives may feel compelled to have deep and meaningful relationships with others, they feel mentally and spiritually restricted. due to seeing their own sexuality or sensuality as taboo, they limit themselves in experiencing wonderful things with others. their relationships may feel very dynamic, possibly up and down, because of how emotionally intense they are. these natives may approach relationships with a need to validate their own sexuality or love. they may fully inject themselves into their relationships, completely losing their individuality, and becoming very obsessive and controlling over others. they may become emotionally intrusive, i.e. become emotionally demanding and intense to others. they may be fiercely protective, but this may do more harm than good. in general, relationships seem to be very transformative for these natives, so long as they treat them as temporary experiences, rather than a vocation. these natives must be careful so as not to drown in what it means to love and transform through love/sex. to some, they may feel misunderstood in expressing their emotional selves. they may completely numb themselves emotionally for the sake of sexual gratification. in that case, they must remedy their emotional instability and try live more according to their intuition and genuine capacity for love.
the overarching lesson with the true lilith in scorpio or in the eighth house will be in releasing their stored traumas, beliefs, and misconceptions and allowing healing to occur from within. they pose tremendous leadership abilities and great psychological regenerative abilities. they may undermine themselves in fear of coming off as overly egotistical or strong; contrarily, these natives should believe more in their intuition and just how strong intimacy, love, sex, and the willingness to learn from experience with others can change their perspectives, beliefs, and overall self-esteem, as well as their opinion on the darker sides of life. whilst the eighth house also deals with money, the alternative interpretation here may be in being insecure over financial and material things; in that case, these natives should work on their courage and learn to harness the power of their authoritative personalities in order to achieve the success they desire.
true lilith in sagittarius or the ninth house –
with the true lilith being in sagittarius or in the ninth house, there may be significant issues revolving around spirituality, personal truth, and purpose. in many instances, these natives may live life based on the guiding principles based on the judgment of others. they may believe making certain beliefs or assumptions is dangerous, thus tending to follow what has been pre-established for them. in some cases, they may have faced some form of religious prejudice or discrimination based on their nationality, race, and so on, during childhood or in their present lives, thus leading them to living life on a very spiritually shallow level. they may be insecure in following their own personal truth based on the opinions others have forced upon them and on their personal experiences. in some way, these natives may keep their personal philosophies secret if they choose to pursue a different spiritual direction to others. their internalised fear comes from feeling purposeless in the world; not feeling as though they have accomplished something good and productive in their lives, and thus feeling as though they have nothing to contribute spiritually to others. they may feel misunderstood by others because they misunderstand their own purpose in the world and what they could be made for. many of the perceptions, opinions, and beliefs they are tied down to are only restricting their personal freedom and movement.
these natives may feel insecure in their relationships due to the instability relationships bring to their sense of freedom. in some instances, these natives may pursue relationships for the sake of experience. they may treat them as something more temporary than something to commit themselves to. they may lose their purpose in relationships. they may find purpose in their relationships by assigning a huge importance to their partners, thus making love a vocational thing, rather than a pursuit of genuine and divine love. this may be especially common in instances where natives marry according to certain beliefs, traditions, or cultures. relationships may be seen as a transactional thing for these natives, but they must drop this notion that relationships are necessary at all, and that they should be followed according to a certain belief or tradition. they must pursue love as an experience of discovering the self. in terms of karmic cycles, they may find themselves repeating cycles revolving around expanding their opinions on love to be more divine and truly loving, rather than something as established in a certain value, tradition, or culture.
the overarching lesson with the true lilith being in sagittarius or in the ninth house will be in establishing and following their own personal truth rather than following what has been established for them. if in the case they feel scared or insecure in moving, i.e. travelling, exploring the world, and learning more about themselves through EXPERIENCE, they must let go of all the conditions they have been taught, and all the restrictive beliefs imposed on them by others. thus, they must follow their own set of values and boundaries that align with their personal truth and overall sense of purpose.
true lilith in capricorn or the tenth house –
with the true lilith being in capricorn or in the tenth house, there may be significant issues revolving around career, personal values, discipline, status, and overall success. first and foremost, these natives may feel unstable in their societal status; they may crave to be something – or somebody – bigger and greater. achievements and status may be important to them, as is material success and stability, so there may be great insecurity regarding these, such as feeling useless without financial, material, and societal success, or wanting to obtain something to feel more secure within themselves. maybe they want a more inclusive purpose where they are involved with society in some way. anyway, their insecurities definitely influence their approach to their relationships as their values become based on their financial and material emphasis. they may feel insecure in their physical and sexual selves because they may put so much emphasis on the material they miss out on how valuable being emotional and sexual with others is. perhaps to some extent a lack of control within themselves is projected through looking for autonomy for themselves but not granting it to others. their internalised shame or fear, conclusively, revolves around what and how much of it they have, their power over others, and their overall purpose in the world.
the overarching lesson with the true lilith in capricorn or in the tenth house will be in balancing the material and emotional aspects of their lives, rather than alienating one because of the lack in the other. in order to feel happy and successful in their career and personal lives, these natives must allow themselves to extend beyond the material and financial meanings to everything. yes, they can put in more work to achieve what they ultimately desire; but they must only do it themselves, for their own sake, rather than for the validation of others, and in a way that is emotionally and spiritually intuitive to them. in saying that, their relationships with only bloom when they realise relationships are not all transactional but do have some emotional and vulnerable elements to them also.
true lilith in aquarius or the eleventh house –
with the true lilith in aquarius or in the eleventh house, significant issues revolving around friendships, community, and the wider society may emerge through these native's lives. these natives may have experienced significant rejection or betrayal within their friend groups, thus resulting in them alienating themselves from their community/wider society. the result is, then, a very insecure approach towards friendships. they may feel shameful or fearful of making friends because of how inexperienced they are with them. along with that, they may feel somewhat odd or unusual amongst their community or friends; they may feel misunderstood for their values, perceptions, opinions, ways of expressing themselves, and so on. so, the issue lies in finding it difficult to make friends, but also in maintaining them and feeling as though they belong in their community of people. thus they may express themselves as very elusive and difficult to read. the scope of rejection and betrayal can vary, such as from feeling odd and different to others during childhood to experiencing difficult situations wherein these natives were betrayed or rejected by their friends later in life. social anxiety or nervousness can be prevalent here, too.
the types of relationships these natives may attract could include a myriad of issues that challenge their ability to commit and communicate with their partners. they may feel unable to fit in because they don't make their opinions and feelings known and heard. much of their shame will revolve around how, no matter the extent they go to fit in with their partners, they still feel odd and unusual. they may feel sexually exempt because of their inability to communicate their genuine feelings and opinions, and because they naturally have a disposition to refuse to commit to things that challenge them to be more vulnerable.
the overarching lesson with the true lilith in aquarius or in the eleventh house will be in claiming their autonomy and what it means to be different. they may have a tendency to act a certain way according to what's normalised in society – but they must learn to embrace their unique or "weird" qualities others overlook or undermine. relationships may be pursued in a way that is nonconventional, but they must be confident in this, rather than suppressing their real romantic and sexual desires for the sake of societal approval. they must follow their own lead rather than that of others. they must also work on their communication skills to allow for clearer and more concise communication and understanding with their partners.
true lilith in pisces or the twelfth house –
with the true lilith in pisces or in the twelfth house, there may be significant issues revolving hemes of abuse and trauma, alienation, loneliness, and spirituality. most typically, natives with this placement have an emotional wounding buried deep within that originates from early childhood or from a particular series of events within their lives. these natives may base their worth on their experiences or past relationships with others and thus feel loveable or unloveable depending on just how wounded they are deep within, and just how much rejection or betrayal they have suffered throughout their lives (they can't love me, so why should I?). through experiencing difficulty, they often embody these difficult emotions as a punishment rather than as a lesson to grow. it's difficult to accept, but so much easier to just go with the flow – this mentality can be very dangerous to these natives! things will pass them by over and over again as they sit in their own victimhood and refuse to grow alongside their experiences.
their internalised fear, shame, or insecurities may come from their past experiences that have altered their perception of themselves and the wider world. perhaps they absorb negativity so potently to the point they barely recognise themselves. they may find it hard to be optimistic. they may also find it difficult to move on or unlock their more loving, creative, and joyous qualities in fear of being neglected, abused, or taken advantage of. this mentality damages the quality of their personal lives but, most importantly, the relationships they have with others. their relationships may have an element of abuse or trauma wherein these natives let themselves be taken advantage of by others; they may naturally bend over backwards to serve others and putting their own needs aside (the typical "I can fix them" mentality). a lack of real identity and values will inadvertently cause others to walk all over them and, in the end, these natives will wallow in their victimhood and wonder where everything went wrong, totally ignoring the fact that they have the power to change their circumstances. if they feel compelled to heal and fix others, they must do this in a way that is balanced. if they lack a balance between endurance and leadership, they will lack the power and authority to instil stronger values and boundaries to protect themselves from harm, but will be willing to endure hardship for the validation it brings these natives. this is a pristine example of just how much these natives may wallow in a victim mentality that feels very difficult to break out of. it is also an example of what will follow them throughout their relationships until they learn to fight for themselves and their own individuality.
the overarching lesson with the true lilith in pisces or in the twelfth house will be in claiming their hurt and trauma and using it in a way that is much more transformative. through healing their pain, they gain a completely new perspective on what it means to suffer and learn, and can thus become advocates for those in similar positions, if this is something they are interested in. nonetheless, their regenerative ability is extremely powerful; they hold a lot of potential within them for deep karmic healing, and oftentimes these natives come into the world with a mission to heal the karma and wounds of themselves and others. this healing, however, must be done in a way that is mutually beneficial; they must not set their own needs aside for the sole improvement of others. generational trauma or childhood trauma may be used as leverage to learn and grow, and thus achieve the real success they innately desire for themselves.
Virgo Sun: I feel like a lot of Virgo’s confidence comes from the way they’re able to articulate themselves and speak. This can maybe even be extended to how and why they win discussions and arguments.
Sagittarius Sun: Majority of Sagittarius suns‘ confidence comes from the ability to realize themselves. They usually have a specific aesthetic and lifestyle in mind so the closer they get to that vision board they created the more confident they become.
Pisces Sun: A lot of Pisces suns get their confidence from having their gut feeling and intuition being proven right. They told you so and that’s what’s making them confident.
Gemini Sun: Gemini suns can get a lot of confidence from “outdoing“ their family. Usually that’s linked to academics but it can also be linked to hobbies or sports, generally speaking achieving things other family members tried to but failed.
Capricorn Sun: A Capricorn sun‘s confidence usually comes from failure and getting up, becoming better. With each step they get closer to whatever goal they set for themselves, the more confident they get.
Aries Sun: a lot of Aries suns get their confidence from friends, family or teachers. They grow through external validation and literally being told they’re doing great.
Cancer Sun: Cancer suns can experience confidence boosts through the most random things. A study project they did very well, a successful relationship or even their family‘s background.
Libra Sun: usually confidence for Libra suns comes from experiencing success in all kinds of forms. Helping a friend pass an exam, getting accepted into their dream university or winning a medal in a sport they practice. It can also be through social media numbers & followers.
Taurus Sun: Taurus suns get a lot of their confidence through things that can be quantified. That means through grades for example, a nice car they saved up for, or even their dream weight.
Leo Sun: I feel as though majority of a Leo suns confidence comes from their family. Whether they were encouraged and praised as a child for their accomplishments has a lot to do with how they see themselves and how confident they truly are.
Scorpio Sun: outgrowing their old self is what makes Scorpio suns confident. Now, this is usually an uncomfortable or painful process because it comes with loss, such as losing friendships, outgrowing your home town or your job, but at the end they tend to be rewarded with confidence.
Aquarius Sun: this is a tricky one, because Aquarius suns usually don’t have one particular thing that can boost their confidence. They want to be at a specific point in life to feel comfortable and confident in who they are, which is why they might lack confidence while they’re still in the process of becoming what they envisioned, but get a major confidence boost once they realized what they have accomplished.
Based off of personal observations and/or repeated descriptions by others!
Sagittarius moons tend to be really moody and their moods can fluctuate easily. Although they can be very bright and cheerful, they can be easily reactive. Not necessarily as impulsive as an Aries moon, but more blunt when they’re feeling a certain way.
Irregardless of the chart, Taurus moons brings a sense of comfort and stability. Not necessarily making the individual ‘stable’ themselves, but people generally feel safe around them - at least when they’re close/get to know them.
People might often overlook Taurus moon though, in a sense that they feel as if they can fool around and always return to this individual.
Pisces moon are avoidant, moreso than Aquarius moon. I’d say the main difference is that Aquarius moon makes the individual more naturally detached from their feelings, not actively trying to avoid them, whereas Pisces moon struggle with boundaries, overwhelming feelings etc. which can cause them to push these feelings aside/avoid dealing with them.
Cancer moon individuals aren’t big crybabies imo. They’re often quite resilient and can be more ‘combative’ than other moon signs - at least intentionally. Whether it is passively or not.
Also, it’s funny how people assume that Aries moons are the most volatile and impulsive of the Fire moons when most serial killers have their moon in Sagittarius? As a Sagittarius sun i attract these people like the plague, and even with my Aries moon I tend to be intimidated by their sudden moodiness/reactiveness.
Imo, I think mutable moon signs are the most volatile. That might js be me though..
Aries moons are very similar to Scorpio moons, possibly because they’re inconjunct. They both feel things very deeply, though the difference is that the Aries moon tend to find an outlet to these feeings or get over them quicker, whilst Scorpio moons can hold onto them.
With Aries moons it’s more like they react and later on they realise they weren’t even mad and probably should’ve just shut up - even if they felt like everything was falling apart in the moment.
As the Sun ⨀ in our birth chart is one of the most important parts of our identity, I wanted to dive into the Sun in each of the 12 houses and things I've noticed with each of these placements. The Sun in a birth chart can represent the area of life that we most identify with, and where the majority of our ego and identity will be expressed. This will be a bit longer than some of my other posts! <3 Lolo
1𝐇 𝐒𝐮𝐧: Very shameless people, and I say that in the nicest (and most jealous) way possible. They are very confident in who they are, what they say & do, and are unapologetically themselves. Ex: Björk, Doja Cat, Nicolas Cage. They all bring something unique to the table, and that is the best way I can describe these people. They can be household names in their line of work because they can truly and easily dedicate themselves entirely to something. Ex: Michael Phelps, Brad Pitt, Pamela Anderson.
2𝐇 𝐒𝐮𝐧: Very conventionally attractive and charismatic people, for one. Ex: George Clooney, Audrey Hepburn, Bella Hadid. They can have a very dry sense of humor, owing to their down-to-earth persona. These natives are genuinely grateful for their success and hold their loved ones very close. Ex: Ryan Reynolds, Frank Sinatra, Stevie Nicks. They are also known for having great singing voices.
3𝐇 𝐒𝐮𝐧: This is my natal placement, so I'm definitely biased towards these individuals. It's rare to see a 3H Sun, in my experience. These individuals are often pillars of the communities they come from. They have a lot of knowledge about the world around them. They are also trend-setters in their community. Ex: Charli XCX, Britney Spears, Mick Jagger!! They have a pension for speaking and writing, and are very good at storytelling. Ex: Edgar Allen Poe, Francis Ford & Sophia Coppola, and Hans Christian Andersen. They are also very indecisive individuals, and can be prone to telling white lies often.
4𝐇 𝐒𝐮𝐧: These people hold their home and their family very close to them. They are very protective (and sometimes clingy) individuals. They are kind of controlling over their personal space and their loved ones. Ex: Woody Allen, Conor McGregor, Bill Cosby. On the other hand, they are very hands-on for caring for their loved ones and consider it their primary responsibility. Very close with their siblings, if they have any. Ex: Julia Roberts, Dua Lipa, Norah Jones
5𝐇 𝐒𝐮𝐧: Obviously, there is something performative about these people 24/7. These people are always trying to have fun and seize every moment. They are great friends to have because they excel in creative endeavors and enduring negative moments with positivity. Ex: Beyoncé, Timothée Chalamet, Dolly Parton. They can tend to want to outdo their friends and lovers, and they take pride in their status and accomplishments. This is especially true when it comes to the native's children, and they are always striving to be the best parents possible.
6𝐇 𝐒𝐮𝐧: These people are the backbone of society. They are very hard workers, and they can have a resentful attitude toward those who don't do their fair share of responsibilities. Ex: Barack Obama, Steve Jobs, Underrated "emo" placement, for sure. These individuals strive to provide order to the world around them, Ex: Joan of Arc, through their work and their logical minds. They are huge health nuts, and usually spend a lot of their time working on their bodies, Ex: Serena Williams.
7𝐇 𝐒𝐮𝐧: These natives are exceptional networkers and unifiers. They are exceptionally good at connecting with others, making them care about their goals and their personality traits. Ex: Princess Diana, Zendaya, The Rock. They are also very good at reading other people and have heaps of interpersonal intelligence. They are good at getting what they want from others. Ex: Sigmund Freud, Carl Jung, Ayn Rand.
8𝐇 𝐒𝐮𝐧: These natives are exceptional alchemists. They can consistently overcome bad situations and come out stronger. The caveat here is: sometimes these natives seek danger just to overcome it. These people are somewhat performative in their darker nature. Ex: Lana Del Rey, The Weeknd, and Jared Leto! There is something very enticing about these individuals, and they attract a lot of people unwillingly with their energy. Ex: Prince, JFK, Demi Moore. Because of others always being in their business, they are excellent secret-keepers.
9𝐇 𝐒𝐮𝐧: There is something about these natives that is always searching. They are a bit reckless in their plans, but that's because these natives are experts at bouncing back and keeping an optimistic outlook on life. Ex: MLK, Robin Williams, Brooke Shields. Much like their Axis counterpart, 3H Suns, these people can be prone to being reckless with the truth and can sometimes be liars. They are often taller than their peers and have big smiles. They are also very humorous individuals and really enjoy a good joke. Ex: Jennifer Lawrence, Michael Jordan, Dakota Johnson.
10𝐇 𝐒𝐮𝐧: Somewhat like 9H Suns, these natives are always searching. However, this searching is more about finding success. These natives are almost born into successful careers and public life. Ex: Donald Trump, Al Pacino, Jeff Bezos. These natives face a lot of external pressure from others to succeed, and they put a lot of pressure on themselves to be productive. Ex: Napoleon, Nicki Minaj, Tom Brady. These people can also be somewhat disconnected from their family, either physically or emotionally.
11𝐇 𝐒𝐮𝐧: These natives, much like 3H Suns, are community pillars, just on a much larger scale. These individuals really excel at making friends and have many people in their corner. Ex: Angelina Jolie, Kim Kardashian, Victoria Beckham. They tend to operate with a very modern mindset and get mad at themselves for not being up to date on the latest trends.
12𝐇 𝐒𝐮𝐧: I often hear that 12H Sun natives deal with past-life karma, which can make this placement heavy for them, and I'm not denying that. However, sometimes these individuals are simply lazier than others. They tend to sleep a lot, and it may be hard to gauge the plans or feelings of these natives if you're not close to them. Very secretive people. Ex: Frank Ocean. They are also known for being incredible artists, Ex: Madonna, Taylor Swift, and George Michael. They can have a distant relationship with their father figure.
In astrology, the moon represents where our emotional states lie and where we seek emotional harmony in our lives. One's moon sign is very important, but a lot can be deciphered by looking at the house placement of the moon about the native's emotional state, and relationships with women in one's life. <3 Lolo
1𝐇 𝐌𝐨𝐨𝐧: The native's emotional landscape is mostly decided by their immediate environment and their relationship with their mom/female figures. This placement usually indicates a close bond between the native and their mother, but sometimes she can be domineering over the native. The native is very open with their emotions, because they kind of have to be. They can't hide how they feel about stuff. These people are excellent at portraying and deciphering complicated emotions. Ex: Audrey Hepburn, Avril Lavigne, Jay-Z
2𝐇 𝐌𝐨𝐨𝐧: The native's emotional landscape is largely shaped by their material possessions and sense of self-worth. The native's mother is primary concern is meeting her child's physical and material needs, and perhaps not as emotionally attached. These people can have issues with their weight and food. The native’s self-worth can become entirely based on their material wealth as they get older, and they could have a lifelong battle with their self-worth. Ex: Drew Barrymore, Coco Chanel, Karl Marx.
3𝐇 𝐌𝐨𝐨𝐧: The native's emotional landscape is largely shaped by the words they say and by what others say to them. The native's mother is perhaps involved with the local community to some degree, leading to serious standards for the native's behavior in these places. These people love to talk, even if no one is listening to them. They can suffer from putting their foot in their mouth a lot. They can get really upset with people who talk to them in a certain way. They're very big on policing other people's words. Ex: Tom Cruise, Napoleon, George Bush.
4𝐇 𝐌𝐨𝐨𝐧: The native's emotional landscape is mostly decided by their home, their family, and their relationships with their parents. This placement indicates a very close bond between the native and their mother. She could be a very traditional caretaker towards the native. The native could seek more privacy than others, mostly regarding their emotions about things. They have a harder shell than most people would think, and don't let a lot of people see them hurting. Ex: Khloé Kardashian, Elton John, Leo Tolstoy.
5𝐇 𝐌𝐨𝐨𝐧: The native's emotional landscape is mostly decided by the praise they receive, what they create, and how much fun they have. The natives mother is perhaps very loud and proud about who she is, and also could be an indication that one has a very self-centered mother. The natives can take on those show-off traits. These people tend to rely on their friends and romantic partners for happiness. They have a lot of creativity and express their emotions through art, as well. Ex: Lady Gaga, Megan Thee Stallion, Ben Affleck.
6𝐇 𝐌𝐨𝐨𝐧: The native's emotional landscape is mostly shaped by the work conditions they are in and how useful they feel to others. The native's mother could be devoted to caretaking or to healthcare (I've seen a lot of these people have mothers who are nurses.) These natives become caregivers as well, oftentimes without being asked. Their mother could also suffer from health issues, which the native can help manage. These people can have constant health or weight issues. Ex: Adele, Vincent Van Gogh, Serena Williams
7𝐇 𝐌𝐨𝐨𝐧: The native's emotional landscape is mostly decided by their one-on-one (mostly romantic) relationships. The native's mother is likely focused on seeking and confirming her romantic relationships, leaving her less time with the child. I see this placement in a lot of children of divorce. The native can be very influenced by their parents' relationship in their romantic relationships. They can seek out romantic relationships because they need attention they didn't get from their parents. Ex: Beyoncé, Aaliyah, Charlie Sheen.
8𝐇 𝐌𝐨𝐨𝐧: The native's emotional landscape is mostly decided by their intimate relationships and toughest experiences throughout life. The native's mother is perhaps a negative figure in their life, and seeking a positive or healthy relationship with her is difficult. This placement can give the native a negative view of female authority figures in general. These people can keep their emotions under wraps a lot, out of fear of retaliation. :( Ex: Nicki Minaj, Bill Clinton, Azealia Banks.
9𝐇 𝐌𝐨𝐨𝐧: The native's emotional landscape is mostly decided by traveling, exploration, and new opportunities. 9H Moon natives have a great deal of natural optimism. Their mother is perhaps a very wise, social, or reckless person. Another thing this placement can indicate is having a very religious mother. These people love to travel and think that almost every problem can be solved by getting a change of scenery. They can be very emotionally reactive, but get over things much quicker than others. Ex: Robert De Niro, Lorde, Hozier.
10𝐇 𝐌𝐨𝐨𝐧: The native's emotional landscape is mostly decided by their public persona and their career. Their mother is perhaps the more dominant parent in the native's life, or fulfills both roles. This can also indicate that the native is similar in looks/personality to the mother. This can also indicate having a superficial relationship with the mother, or it could be icy. These people are entrusted with a lot of emotional responsibility when it comes to others; they keep a lot of people's secrets. They're very emotionally expressive and make great actors or artists. Ex: Meryl Streep, Charles III, Kris Jenner, Olivia Rodrigo.
11𝐇 𝐌𝐨𝐨𝐧: The native's emotional landscape is mostly decided by their friendship conditions and their social life. Their mother is perhaps a little different and very active in her community. She always made sure that the native was involved in a hobby or organization when they were younger, which made the native care a lot about these subjects. The native can be somewhat disconnected from their family, because the native’s mother may reject emotional responsibility and attachment to the native. These people can feel emotions that belong to their friends and their families; they can empathize very deeply when it comes to people they care about. Ex: John Lennon, Kamala Harris, LeBron James.
12𝐇 𝐌𝐨𝐨𝐧: The native's emotional landscape is mostly decided by their dreams, their unconscious mind, and esoteric subjects. Their mother could perhaps be absent from the native's life in some way, either physically or mentally, or maybe she's an unconventional parent. Sometimes this placement occurs in people who use their mother very young. Either way, this makes the relationship between the native and the mother somewhat foggy, which can hinder their relationships with other women. Ex: Mick Jagger, Kendall Jenner, Jerry Seinfeld.
when u look at your jupiter aspects it can be an indicator of the kinds of people in your life who help you. for ex: if you have moon-jupiter aspects maybe u achieve success or fortune (jupiter) by appealing to women (moon). maybe they are a big part of your audience.
^ maybe being emotionally open or nurturing helps you build trust and receive support
with mercury-jupiter, maybe you receive blessings (jupiter) through your words ideas or social connections (mercury) your friends siblings or people you talk to regularly are the ones who help you win or your success comes from being smart curious or just saying the right thing at the right time (I always sayyyy that ppl with this aspect should always speak what they want out loud be delulu speak it into existence)
with venus-jupiter you gain success (jupiter) through your beauty charm art or aesthetic (venus) people are drawn to your looks or energy and want to give to you what u desire!! lovers or people in love with you are part of why you end up thriving
with mars-jupiter you receive support (jupiter) from the ppl around u that take action, maybe ppl that inspire u, those making their coinssss or that are already successful, athletes or anyone in any martian kind of career or role, or people who know how to push through (mars). the more assertive or passionate you are the more people want to back you!! being bold (mars) is what gets you blessed (jupiter)
sun- jupiter and you gain support (jupiter) through being seen for who you truly are (sun). you attract people who admire your confidence or leadership and your sense of self (sun) is what opens doors for you (jupiter)
^ and speaking of that this is where the actual aspect between jupiter and the planet really comes into play because just because it’s a harsh aspect (like a square or opposition) doesn’t mean the blessing won’t happen it just means it might happen in a different way
the way i see it:
trines and sextiles = when it happens it feels smooth it doesn’t feel like you had to push for it
squares and oppositions = it still happens but it either catches you off guard or comes from a situation that feels more complicated or intense
so with trines and sextiles it's like the opportunity just slides into your life!! it happens and you’re like " oh wow that was easy"
^ think of cindy kimberly she has a sun jupiter trine (i think it's a trine or maybe a sextile its one of those tho) and she literally blew up off one post from justin bieber. he posted her photo (sun = her face her essence) and boom her blessings came in (jupiter)
she’s still thriving to this day and that whole thing flowed to her without her trying to “make it happen” she just existed (sun) and got blessed (jupiter) NOOO IM Not lucky im blessed yes clap for the heavyweight champ meee
anyhoomsts, with squares and oppositions it’s more like 1) wait wtf how did this work or 2) you were trying to do one thing and it turned into something way bigger than you expected
like remember when i brought up kylie jenner’s sun jupiter opposition. her massive success with her lip products and makeup empire (jupiter) came from her just trying to fix an insecurity with lip fillers (sun = identity)
did she think “oh this is gonna start a billion dollar business and change beauty culture forever”? no probably not. she just wanted to adjust how she felt about her looks. but that insecurity became the launch point for a whole empire.
^ and that’s such opposition energy the thing you feel weird about ends up being the thing that makes you rich. oppositions always remind me of a tennis match
and also adding to this i said in another post before if you have sun square jupiter or sun opposite jupiter just because people are not reacting in a welcoming way doesn’t mean you should stop
i have sun square jupiter lololol and my ex used to say all the time that i talked too loud and would literally make fun of my laugh lmfao he was my biggest hater fr
^ which is also funny because i have sun in the 7h so my partner= 7h literally being annoyed (square) with my personality (sun) like god forbid a girl likes to fucking cackle? god forbid a woman raises her voice above two decibels!
but the point is if you try to tone yourself down or constantly adjust who you are to make others more comfortable you’re literally working against your own energy and it’s gonna backfire so bad
this is so basic and corny but its real. if you’re not being yourself (sun)
you will block your own blessings (jupiter)
jupiter is big energy that’s why it rules things like overindulgence gambling, excess but also massive wealth and once in a lifetime gains. it’s loud it’s extra it expands whatever it touches. and sometimes that kind of energy rubs people the wrong way but that’s just part of life. the right people in your life won’t care if you’re too loud too opinionated too passionate or too much of anything. if anything the right people want to invest in it!!
but back to the other point in conclusion that’s how i see it trines and sextiles = smooth and natural blessings squares and oppositions = blessings with tension or surprise but either way something expands if you’re open to it
ok lets continue with saturn-jupiter you get help (jupiter) from mentors, elders, serious people ok, or authority figures (saturn). you’re rewarded (jupiter) after proving your consistency or maturity (saturn) People respect your grind and give you opportunities because of it!! with this aspect the success comes in slowly but trust that it was worth the wait.
with uranus-jupiter your blessings (jupiter) come from all the weirdos in ur life that inspire u hehe or ur own weird ideas!! (uranus) unconventional friendships or strange turn of events are actually how you level up. The more different you are the more people want to help you bc they are drawn to it
with neptune-jupiter you receive support (jupiter) from artists, spiritual ppl, dreamers or people who just intuitively feel connected to you (neptune) people help you because they see you as someone spiritual or inspiring even if they can’t explain why (bc neptune energy can feel foggy). u also could be the artist urself of course!!
with pluto-jupiter you’re helped (jupiter) by powerful intense people or those who have survived something hard (pluto) maybe shared transformation is what bonds you to the people who help you succeed maybe someone with power saw your depth and intensity and still wanted to invest. with squares and oppositions I kinda see this as the underdog placement like dont count me out bitch im coming for all u hoes 🫵
with chiron-jupiter the people who support you (jupiter) are wounded, healers or outsiders or people who relate to your pain (chiron) maybe your vulnerability is what makes people want to help you or your biggest blessings come when you show the parts you thought were unlovable. this also reminds me of ur biggest insecurities becoming then ur greatest assets and not necessarily bc of the physical of it but bc of the ways u respond to it
this series is not meant to diagnose, label, or define anyone. astrology does not cause addiction. it reflects nervous system patterns, coping styles, emotional vulnerabilities, and survival strategies. these placements do not mean someone will struggle with substance use or compulsive behaviors. they describe how stress, pain, and emotional overload may be processed when support, safety, or regulation are missing.
addiction is not a moral failure. it is not a lack of willpower. it is a nervous system response to overwhelm, trauma, unmet needs, and the absence of safe emotional containment.
this content is meant for reflection, self-awareness, and compassion, not judgment. if anything in this resonates, it does not mean you are broken. it means your system has been doing the best it can with what it was given.
this is not a substitute for therapy, medical care, or professional treatment. if you are struggling, you deserve real support. healing is possible, and you do not have to do it alone.
★ ARIES RISING | 12TH: PISCES | 8TH: SCORPIO ★
12TH | PISCES
your nervous system is porous in a way most people never notice. you absorb moods, unspoken tension, grief, and collective emotional noise without realizing it. you feel everything, but rarely know where it came from, so your body stays in a constant state of emotional static. when stress builds, your system does not fight, it dissolves. escape becomes instinctual. you reach for anything that softens reality and blurs the edges: smoking before eating, before sleeping, before leaving the house. drinking alone to quiet your thoughts. zoning out with music, videos, or fantasy until hours disappear. sleeping through the day because being awake feels too sharp. psychedelics, dissociatives, and substances that alter perception feel comforting because they finally lower the volume of the world. you may struggle with dissociation, emotional leakage, people pleasing, and losing yourself in other people’s pain. you don’t feel separate from what hurts you. addiction here is not about pleasure or thrill, it is about anesthesia for a nervous system that was never taught how to feel safely while awake and present in its own body.
8TH | SCORPIO
your pain does not fade, it intensifies. you do not just feel, you spiral. emotions become consuming, magnetic, and obsessive, pulling you toward extremes. power struggles, trauma bonds, jealousy, emotional dependency, and control dynamics live here. you may chase substances and experiences that make you feel powerful, untouchable, or numb: stimulants to feel dominant, opiates to disappear, nicotine to regulate anxiety, reckless sex to feel wanted, gambling to feel alive, emotionally volatile relationships to feel something real. there can be cycles of secrecy, emotional manipulation, self-sabotage, or staying in destructive situations because intensity feels like truth. you may unconsciously equate suffering with depth and chaos with authenticity. addiction here is not escape, it is domination. an attempt to master pain, to control it, to prove you can survive it. healing begins when you allow vulnerability instead of power, and let pain move through you without turning it into a battleground.
12TH | ARIES
your nervous system holds rage it never learned how to release. not explosive anger, but a low, constant pressure that lives in your chest, shoulders, and jaw. you were taught to push through, stay productive, stay “useful,” and keep moving instead of admitting you are tired, hurt, or overwhelmed. rest feels unsafe because stillness makes you aware of how much anger and grief you’ve been carrying. when stress builds, you do not collapse, you burn. you move faster, react sharper, and reach for anything that hits quickly. this can look like chain-smoking, vaping nonstop, energy drinks on an empty stomach, pre-workout as a mood stabilizer, mixing alcohol with caffeine, scrolling until 3am because your mind will not slow down, driving too fast when upset, snapping at people then disappearing out of shame. substances that activate and distract feel regulating: nicotine, alcohol, stimulants, even anger itself. you use momentum to outrun emotion. addiction here becomes a pressure valve for a system that was never shown how to pause without fear of what might surface.
8TH | SAGITTARIUS
your shadow hides inside excess and self-justification. you chase escape through “freedom” behaviors that look exciting on the outside but feel hollow afterward. binge drinking, partying until sunrise, impulsive trips you cannot afford, reckless sex, thrill-seeking, gambling, crypto obsession, spiritual bypassing, spending money you do not have just to feel alive again. you may call it adventure, growth, or experience, but underneath is avoidance of emotional weight and vulnerability. you fear being tied down to your own pain. sobriety can feel like a cage because you associate depth with heaviness and loss of freedom. you crave expansion because stillness feels like suffocation. addiction here disguises itself as living fully, but it is really running from the parts of you that want grounding, honesty, and emotional presence. true freedom begins when you learn that you do not have to escape yourself to feel alive.
★ GEMINI RISING | 12TH: TAURUS | 8TH: CAPRICORN ★
12TH | TAURUS
your body absorbs stress like sediment. it settles into your muscles, your stomach, your chest, until you feel heavy, tired, and slow without knowing why. you may wake up already exhausted, even on days where nothing “bad” has happened, because your nervous system is holding years of unprocessed tension. when life feels unpredictable, your instinct is not to react or express, it is to sedate and stabilize. comfort becomes survival. you may smoke before eating, before sleeping, before leaving the house, telling yourself it helps you “relax.” you binge sugar late at night, order food you cannot afford, snack even when you are full, or eat until you feel physically weighed down because it creates a sense of containment. shopping becomes emotional regulation, even if guilt follows. staying in bed watching the same shows on repeat feels safer than facing the world. substances that slow you down feel like medicine: cannabis, alcohol, sedatives, sleeping pills, melatonin overdoses, heavy food. addiction here is a self-soothing trance for a nervous system that equates safety with numbness, routine, and physical stillness.
8TH | CAPRICORN
your shadow survives through control and self-denial. you learned early that collapsing was not an option, so you replaced feeling with functioning. your identity becomes built around responsibility, endurance, and being the one who holds everything together. when pain surfaces, you do not break down, you tighten up. work becomes a drug. you overwork, micromanage, obsess over money, schedules, performance, your body, and your output. caffeine replaces rest. adderall replaces boundaries. restrictive eating becomes “discipline.” you push through illness, burnout, and emotional exhaustion and call it strength. vulnerability feels like failure, and slowing down feels unsafe because it forces you to feel what you’ve buried for years. addiction here is not about chaos or escape. it is about proving you can survive anything, even if it slowly costs you your body, your softness, and your sense of self.
★ CANCER RISING | 12TH: GEMINI | 8TH: AQUARIUS ★
12TH | GEMINI
your nervous system never truly turns off. your mind runs on a constant low-grade static that you’ve lived with for so long it feels normal. thoughts overlap, conversations replay, imaginary arguments loop, what-ifs stack on top of each other until your body feels wired and exhausted at the same time. you may struggle to feel present because your attention is always split. when stress builds, you do not drop into your body, you escape into your head. mental stimulation becomes your drug of choice. doomscrolling turns into hours lost, tabs stay open for days, playlists and podcasts run in the background just to avoid silence. you fall asleep with videos playing because being alone with your thoughts feels unbearable. substances and behaviors that stimulate or distract feel regulating at first: nicotine, caffeine, adderall, microdosing, energy drinks, binge watching, compulsive texting, late night internet spirals, oversharing in messages you later regret. you may tell yourself you are “processing” or “staying informed,” but it is avoidance through overstimulation. silence feels unsafe because it brings you face to face with grief, loneliness, and emotional fatigue you never learned how to sit with.
8TH | AQUARIUS
your pain hides behind detachment and intellectualization. when emotions become overwhelming, you dissociate instead of collapse. you become distant, ironic, hyper-rational, or “above it all.” connection can feel threatening because it exposes how much you actually need people. the shadow expresses through escapism that separates you from your body and from intimacy. this can look like abusing stimulants, psychedelics, dissociatives, tech addiction, gaming, virtual worlds, online personas, emotional affairs, or obsessing over future plans to avoid the present. you may convince yourself you are independent, different, or too evolved for emotional messiness. but underneath is a deep fear of vulnerability and loss of control. addiction here is not about pleasure, it is about distance. you numb through ideas, substances, and systems that make you feel separate from your pain. healing begins when you allow yourself to be human instead of untouchable.
★ LEO RISING | 12TH: CANCER | 8TH: PISCES ★
12TH | CANCER
your nervous system learned early that love is inconsistent and conditional. care came and went, safety felt temporary, and emotional closeness was never guaranteed. you carry emotional memory in your body like a bruise that never fully heals. you instinctively scan rooms for other people’s moods and needs, placing yourself in the role of emotional caretaker without being asked. you hold grief, fear, and longing for everyone else while quietly neglecting your own. when stress builds, you do not explode, you withdraw. you retreat inward and self-soothe through emotional numbing and comfort loops: drinking alone at night, smoking to fall asleep, overeating when you feel rejected, rewatching childhood shows, scrolling old photos, fantasizing about the past, isolating instead of speaking. substances that soften emotions feel safe: alcohol, weed, sedatives, sugar, sleep aids. you disappear into nostalgia and caretaking roles to avoid the pain of the present. addiction here is a grief response to unmet emotional needs and the belief that your feelings are too much to be held.
8TH | PISCES
your shadow seeks total escape. pain feels too vast and overwhelming to contain, so you dissolve instead of confront. you may romanticize suffering, chaos, or brokenness as if they give your life meaning or depth. this can show up as binge drinking, mixing substances, chasing emotional intensity, spiritual bypassing, or staying in unhealthy relationships because the pain feels familiar and strangely comforting. you may lose yourself in fantasy, music, drugs, savior roles, or toxic attachments that mirror old wounds. boundaries blur easily, and you absorb other people’s darkness as if it belongs to you. addiction here is not about pleasure, it is about disappearing completely. you crave silence from the world and from yourself. when unhealed, this placement seeks annihilation instead of transformation, until you learn that release does not require self-erasure, only compassion and emotional containment.
★ VIRGO RISING | 12TH: LEO | 8TH: ARIES ★
12TH | LEO
your nervous system carries a deep, quiet wound around visibility. you learned early that being praised, noticed, or celebrated was conditional. love came when you were useful, competent, or self-sacrificing, not when you simply existed. over time, you learned to shrink your desire to be seen and replaced it with productivity, humility, and relentless self-criticism. you tell yourself you don’t need attention, yet your body aches for it in private. when stress builds, the ache is not just exhaustion, it is invisibility. you feel unseen even when you are doing everything right. this is where numbing behaviors creep in quietly. binge eating late at night while telling yourself you’ve “earned it.” drinking alone while scrolling through other people’s lives and imagining a version of yourself that feels admired and chosen. impulse shopping for things you do not need because it briefly makes you feel worthy. weed or alcohol to dull the resentment of always being the responsible one. you may fantasize about being recognized while publicly dismissing the idea that you want it. addiction here is about silencing the pain of feeling overlooked while convincing yourself you are above needing validation.
8TH | ARIES
your shadow is fast, impulsive, and destructive when overwhelmed. when emotions finally break through your controlled exterior, they do not trickle out, they erupt. you go from composed to reckless in moments. the pressure that builds inside you demands release, and when it comes, it is sudden and intense. this can look like binge drinking after holding it together too long, impulsive sexual encounters, picking fights just to feel something move, rage quitting jobs, driving too fast when you are angry, pushing your body past its limits, stimulant abuse to feel powerful again, or self-harm behaviors that momentarily restore a sense of control. you don’t want chaos, but your system equates intensity with relief. stillness feels unbearable because it forces you to sit with emotions you were never taught how to hold safely. addiction here is not about pleasure or escape. it is about immediate release from internal pressure and reclaiming a sense of power when you feel emotionally trapped.
★ LIBRA RISING | 12TH: VIRGO | 8TH: TAURUS ★
12TH | VIRGO
your nervous system is built around hyper-vigilance. you learned that being good, useful, efficient, and correct was how you stayed safe and avoided rejection or conflict. mistakes feel dangerous. rest feels undeserved. your inner world is loud with self-criticism, mental checklists, replayed conversations, and a constant sense that you are failing in ways you cannot fully name. you monitor yourself the way someone else once did. when stress builds, you do not collapse, you obsess. your coping turns into control rituals: over-cleaning, organizing to the point of exhaustion, body checking, calorie tracking, restrictive eating followed by binge cycles, compulsive productivity, doom-scrolling for “fixes,” caffeine abuse to stay sharp, supplements stacked like armor, prescription misuse to feel functional. you may secretly rely on stimulants, nicotine, energy drinks, or adderall to silence the fear that you are falling behind. addiction here is disguised as self-improvement. it is a way to avoid sitting with the belief that you are never enough unless you are constantly correcting yourself.
8TH | TAURUS
your shadow clings to stability even when it becomes suffocating. you fear loss, abandonment, and financial or emotional insecurity, so you hold on long past the point of health. you may stay in stagnant relationships, tolerate emotional neglect, or accept less than you deserve because the unknown feels more terrifying than the pain you already know. this can show up as hoarding money or possessions, binge eating for comfort, drinking to soften anxiety, using weed to stay emotionally grounded while avoiding necessary change, or numbing through physical pleasure and routine. you tie safety to consistency, material security, and familiar comforts, even when they quietly trap you. indulgence becomes anesthesia. addiction here is not about thrill or escape, it is about refusing to let go. healing begins when you trust that safety does not have to mean staying stuck, and that change does not have to equal loss.
★ SCORPIO RISING | 12TH: LIBRA | 8TH: GEMINI ★
12TH | LIBRA
your nervous system is wired around relational tension and emotional equilibrium. you learned early that peace had to be maintained, even if it meant erasing parts of yourself. you scan constantly for imbalance, reading tone shifts, micro-expressions, and subtle changes in energy before anyone else notices them. you anticipate needs, soften edges, and edit yourself to avoid conflict or rejection. anger feels dangerous, so you swallow it. grief feels inconvenient, so you repackage it into politeness. when stress builds, you do not rage or collapse, you dissociate politely. this is where quiet vices slip in. drinking socially even when you don’t want to, just to feel normal and accepted. smoking before interactions to calm your nerves. scrolling endlessly through other people’s relationships, romanticizing unavailable partners, replaying old connections that never truly met you. overindulging in beauty, shopping, or fantasy versions of connection because they feel safer than real intimacy. substances that blur emotional edges feel comforting: alcohol, weed, anti-anxiety medication, sleeping pills. addiction here is about avoiding relational discomfort and preserving the illusion of harmony, even while your inner world quietly fractures from unmet needs.
8TH | GEMINI
your shadow is mental compulsion and nervous overstimulation. your mind does not rest, it loops. thoughts multiply, stories branch, and anxiety feeds on constant information. when emotions become intense, you analyze, narrate, or joke instead of feeling. this can turn into addictive patterns around stimulation and distraction: nicotine, stimulants, caffeine, adderall misuse, constant texting, doomscrolling, gossip, obsessively researching worst-case scenarios. you may talk about pain endlessly without ever truly processing it. silence feels threatening because it allows buried emotions to surface. there can be secret habits around late-night scrolling, substance stacking, or bouncing between highs and crashes just to feel mentally alive. addiction here is not about pleasure or escape. it is about avoiding stillness. healing begins when you allow yourself to feel without narrating, explaining, or drowning your inner world in noise.
★ SAGITTARIUS RISING | 12TH: SCORPIO | 8TH: CANCER ★
12TH | SCORPIO
your nervous system holds intensity like a locked vault. you learned early that showing weakness, fear, or emotional need was unsafe, so you internalized pain instead of expressing it. emotions do not move through you lightly, they burrow and linger. resentment, jealousy, grief, sexual shame, and anger you were never allowed to show get stored in the body, tightening your chest, stomach, and jaw. you may appear calm or detached on the surface, but inside there is a constant undercurrent of emotional pressure. when stress builds, you do not seek comfort, you seek control over the pain. this is where hidden addictions form. secret drinking. smoking alone to feel something sharp and grounding. pornography, compulsive sexual fantasies, or obsessive attachments to people who trigger emotional extremes. substances that both intensify and anesthetize feel seductive: alcohol binges, nicotine chains, weed used to drop into dissociation, experimenting with substances that promise catharsis or emotional depth. you may be drawn to darkness because it feels honest. addiction here is about privately managing intensity so no one sees how much you are truly carrying.
8TH | CANCER
your shadow is emotional dependency disguised as loyalty and caretaking. you crave safety, attachment, and reassurance, but often seek it in ways that keep you emotionally trapped. you may use substances or behaviors to recreate the feeling of being held: comfort eating until you feel numb, drinking to feel emotionally open, smoking to soften abandonment fear, staying in emotionally enmeshed or codependent relationships long after they have become unhealthy. your moods strongly dictate your habits. when you feel unloved, rejected, or unsafe, you soothe immediately. there can be cycles of giving everything to others, neglecting yourself, then collapsing into binge behaviors when resentment builds. addiction here is not about thrill or rebellion. it is about recreating emotional safety externally because you never learned how to generate it internally. healing begins when you learn that comfort does not require self-erasure or emotional merging.
★ CAPRICORN RISING | 12TH: SAGITTARIUS | 8TH: LEO ★
12TH | SAGITTARIUS
your unconscious runs on excess as a coping mechanism. when life feels confining, controlled, or heavy with responsibility, your nervous system looks for expansion at any cost. you carry a quiet restlessness that never fully shuts off, a sense that if you slow down you will feel trapped inside expectations that are too heavy to hold. you do not melt down quietly, you flee internally. this shows up as escapism masked as “freedom,” “growth,” or “self-discovery.” binge drinking to feel loose enough to laugh again. mixing substances socially because sobriety feels too small, too serious, too honest. impulsive trips you cannot afford, chasing new environments to avoid sitting with yourself. spiritual bypassing through psychedelics, astrology, philosophy, or constant meaning-seeking to escape emotional pain. you may overconsume media, podcasts, or ideas late into the night, chasing insight instead of rest. weed to make boredom tolerable. alcohol to make connection feel effortless. the addiction pattern here is not about numbness, it is about avoiding containment. stillness feels like suffocation, so you keep moving mentally or chemically. your shadow believes that if you stop expanding, you will collapse under the weight of your own expectations.
8TH | LEO
your shadow craves power, validation, and emotional intensity when you feel unseen. beneath your composed exterior lives a hunger to matter deeply to someone, to be chosen, desired, and admired without having to prove your worth. when that need is not met, compulsive behaviors surface. attention becomes a drug. this can look like dramatic relationship cycles, addictive sexual dynamics, flirting as emotional self-medication, chasing desire to feel alive again. substances that amplify confidence and charisma feel tempting: alcohol to feel magnetic, stimulants to feel important, risky behaviors to feel special and noticed. there can be a pattern of emotional theatrics followed by shame, withdrawal, and self-judgment. you may oscillate between extreme self-control and indulgence, pride and collapse. addiction here is about reclaiming a sense of importance when you secretly fear you are only valued for what you produce. healing begins when your worth is no longer tied to performance, attention, or emotional intensity.
12TH | CAPRICORN
your unconscious learned that rest is unsafe. somewhere early on, stillness became associated with guilt, failure, or falling behind. your nervous system stays tense even when nothing is wrong, as if you are always bracing for the next responsibility or consequence. you feel safest when you are useful, needed, or carrying weight for others. when stress builds, you do not fall apart outwardly, you harden inwardly. this is where quiet, socially acceptable addictions take root. overworking to the point of dissociation. staying busy so you never have to feel. using caffeine all day and alcohol or weed at night just to regulate the swing between hyperfunctioning and collapse. taking on responsibilities that are not yours because usefulness feels like survival. checking emails late at night, planning tomorrow before today is even finished. numbing exhaustion with sleep aids, melatonin, or zoning out instead of true rest. you may pride yourself on discipline while secretly resenting how much you carry alone. addiction here is not chaos, it is self-erasure through endurance. the shadow believes that if you stop holding everything together, everything will fall apart, including you.
8TH | VIRGO
your shadow manifests through obsession, control, and self-punishment. when emotional intensity surfaces, you try to fix it instead of feel it. this becomes compulsive. tracking, restricting, micromanaging your body, your habits, your intake. disordered eating patterns masked as “health” or “discipline.” stimulant use to stay sharp, productive, useful. abusing prescriptions in a way that looks responsible but functions as emotional avoidance. compulsive cleaning, organizing, or endless self-improvement spirals to avoid sitting with grief, anger, or desire. anxiety itself becomes addictive because it gives you something to manage. you may shame yourself for cravings while secretly relying on them to feel in control. addiction here is not indulgence, it is perfection as a coping mechanism. healing begins when you allow mess, emotion, and imperfection without immediately trying to correct them. control is not safety. presence is.
★ PISCES RISING | 12TH: AQUARIUS | 8TH: LIBRA ★
12TH | AQUARIUS
your nervous system lives slightly ahead of your body. your mind rarely shuts off, even when you are physically exhausted. you pick up on collective anxiety, social tension, future threats, and unspoken dynamics long before others name them, so you are often carrying emotional weight that does not even belong to you. this creates a constant low-grade overstimulation that never fully resolves. you may feel wired, restless, or detached from your body without knowing why. when stress builds, you do not seek comfort, you seek disconnection. zoning out for hours online. disappearing into forums, playlists, group chats, or scrolling until your eyes burn. using weed, stimulants, or dissociatives to float above your feelings instead of staying inside them. sleeping at odd hours, reversing your schedule, feeling safest at night when the world quiets down. you may intellectualize your pain, analyze it, and give it language, but avoid actually inhabiting it. addiction here is about escaping embodiment. substances and compulsive digital habits become a buffer between you and a world that feels too loud, invasive, and demanding of your presence.
8TH | LIBRA
your shadow forms through relational dependency and emotional outsourcing. you struggle to sit alone with discomfort, so you merge with others to regulate yourself. connection becomes a way to avoid your own inner tension. this can look like serial relationships, emotional triangulation, staying too long in unbalanced dynamics, or using substances socially to feel desirable and accepted. alcohol to smooth interactions. weed to avoid conflict. sex, flirting, or validation as a drug. people become coping mechanisms. you may reshape yourself to maintain harmony, then secretly resent how much you give and how little you receive. boundaries blur, and you lose your sense of self trying to keep the peace. addiction here is not about substances alone, it is about dissolving into others to avoid facing your own emotional needs. healing begins when you learn to tolerate emotional friction without rushing to fix it. intimacy does not require self-abandonment. connection is safer when you can stay inside yourself.
People with Jupiter in an earth sign (Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn) usually only become successful in their later years of life. This is because growth happens steadily, but slowly, and their efforts only pay off later.
People with Sun-Neptune aspects tend to be extremely creative and idealistic, especially in their childhood. As children they spend most of their time daydreaming and appearing lost in thought, constantly exploring creative pursuits.
Usually people who have a huge following online have prominent 3rd house and/or 11th house placements (especially with Sun, Moon, Mercury and Venus) or their 10th house ruler in 3rd/11th house.
Having Venus trine Pluto makes a person have amazing depth in their personality with hardly any chaos. For example, they will love very intensely but they won’t be destabilized by it, or wear rose tinted glasses.
Moon conjunct Saturn natives often are criticized for coming across as unemotional or never sharing how they really feel, however, this is just their instinct when it comes to handling emotions, keeping them private makes them feel the safest.
Sun sextile Moon individuals usually have a healthy self-concept and naturally have confidence within themselves. They know how to regulate their emotions and can balance them better than most people. They usually have a “me, myself & I” mindset.
Venus in Fire signs (Aries/Leo/Sagittarius) don’t like to admit it but they need excitement in their relationships because the longer they spend bored and unfulfilled in a relationship, the more likely they are to see potential in other people and break up.
Neptune-Mercury aspects read in between the lines a LOT and while they are great at symbolism, poetry, visual thinking etc this can lead to miscommunications with people and misinterpreting other people’s words.
Having your chart ruler in the 10th house (especially conjunct MC) means that you were made to be seen and visible. Even when you don’t want it, attention will be on you. Unfortunately if the planet is malefic or poorly aspected this can lead to negative attention like stalkers.
When Transit Moon opposes your natal Pluto, old coping mechanisms may stop working for you, and although this transit can bring deep healing it feels heavy and emotionally disarming. After it's over, you may feel like you’re emotionally stronger now, even if you didn’t want that growth to happen in the first place.
When Jupiter is transiting close to any personal planets in your chart (especially Sun, Moon and Venus) life feels easier and more relaxed. Opportunities come easily, you feel more confident and challenges feel more manageable. It's the opposite effect when it transits close to your Saturn, Pluto or IC.
Venus conjunct Uranus natives love in unconventional ways. Their attraction to people can spark up fast, but die just as quick. They need their partner to respect their freedom or they will feel overwhelmed. Often, with this placement there is something unusual about their relationship, eg. having kids past the age of 40, choosing not to get married for some reasons they have, etc.
People with Sun conjunct Mercury need to express themselves to feel understood. They often tend to be articulate.
Venus opposite Pluto natives struggle in relationships as they crave something intense, but this can lead to them falling for partners who hurt and damage them.
Moon square Venus natives often overcompensate in relationships or undercompensate, no in between. They also tend to idealize their partners and try to look past their flaws or red flags, and get disappointed when they see their partner’s true nature.
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Neptune in 1st -> You have a photogenic face. You always adapt to your changing environment. You may juggle between identities...every day. You are a people pleaser by default. May have short attention span or ADHD. At times, you go with the flow too much. You have a blurry sense of self.
Neptune in 2nd -> You may compare yourself to others and feel like you are not good enough. You def fake your confidence 8/10 times. Some with this placement may flex their life online...kinda like influencers who go to extreme steps to show they're wealthy. This makes you to prove yourself to an invisible audience.
Neptune in 3rd -> You are the kid who daydreamed in class instead of listening. Some with this placement can be really bad at math. You focus on something too much and stay completely oblivious to your immediate environment. You trust people easily just bcoz you know them for a long time. You may struggle to explain yourself clearly. Your ideas mostly get lost in your imagination.
Neptune in 4th -> You may daydream about leaving home or living somewhere else. Your family expectations vs personal vision is completely different. You may crave a different life and can be detached emotionally at home. You may feel stuck and could be weighing options. One parent may step on your boundaries and leaving little room for privacy.
Neptune in 5th -> Your dreams may feel out of reach and some with this placement may dream of becoming famous or marrying someone famous. In love, there is a lack of self-confidence. When trying something new, you are often worried that you will embarrass yourself in front of a crowd. Self-sabotages creativity and joy.
Neptune in 6th -> You are sick of routine, and you procrastinate by calling it self-care. Scattered focus. You can be the person to take smoke breaks at work. Burns out easily. Sometimes you experience brain fog and can zone out at the wrong time. Your body takes a long time to recover, and you may sleep too less or too much.
Neptune in 7th -> This gives co-dependent vibes. You can have a lot of "Are they for real?" or ""too good to be true" moments. You confuse chemistry with compatibility. One the surface, the relationship can feel magical but messy on the inside. One of them is more involved than the other. Prone to attract unavailable, toxic partners.
Neptune in 8th -> This placement gets a reality check later in life. Some with this placement can be either celibate or can be with the wrong people. You may feel powerless in a relationship. You may feel like your partner hides stuff from you. You def fake being stable and composed when you're not.
Neptune in 9th -> You may be into conspiracy theories or even follow fake gurus and get into MLMs or shady things without knowing. Sometimes, you can't even trust your own judgement. Your travel plans never lands or cost you more than you planned. You search for meaning in life but always distracted.
Neptune in 10th -> You yourself don't know your next move. People may struggle to get your vision. Your reputation can be fragile, and your higher-ups can make you feel invisible. Your patience is tested endlessly. You feel like in order to achieve something, you need to make sacrifices that many won't. However, a good placement for actors, models, influencers, etc. You may dress like you are living in a different era or whatever it takes to not blend in with the crowd.
Neptune in 11th -> Some friends can be fake, and you may encounter a lot of snowflakes. Support can disappear at any point. May stay in a toxic group and can be influenced by them without even realizing. You overcommit to people and wonder why you're a backup plan/ second choice for them. An undeveloped Neptune here can be clout chasers.
Neptune in 12th -> You keep secrets from yourself. You're smart but isolated. You are scared of messing up and less likely to make big moves. You are sarcastic when alone and can make funny faces / moves/ poses or sing badly on purpose. You pretend you don't care what others think but you do...and it spirals you if it's negative.
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1st house: strong, slightly provokative vibe. Feeling like your body isn’t actually yours, body image issues, body dysmorphia.
2nd house: experiencing a lot of guilt when you need to rest. Might drag out a flu because of no sufficient rest. Constant worrying about stability (emotionally & financially)
3rd house: feeling the most confident when speaking about topics that are taboo or no one else dares to address.
4th house: struggling to accept your roots, your culture. Feeling out of touch with where you come from and what defined your childhood.
5th house: usually blessed with talent but experienced a lot of anxiety around being seen and expressing yourself freely.
6th house: sensitivity around health. Struggles to accept people who don’t match your drive and ambitions.
7th house: attracting emotionally unavailable or very complex partners. Anxiety revolving around rejection and betrayal.
8th house: superficial friendships are unsatisfying but hard to leave. Opening up and being vulnerable doesn’t feel like a relief, but like putting yourself up for a heart break.
9th house: anxiety around leaving your comfort zone and home country and searching for a place that feels like home.
10th house: a deep urge to take charge and control your life. Might experience anxiety when it comes to criticism and potential failure.
11th house: feeling as though you don’t fit into your community. A lot of anxiety and stress when it comes to being authentic and active.
12th house: feeling guilt for taking up space and struggling to prioritize yourself over others. Feelings of being invisible and lonely.
~ moon signs & how your early upbringing influences your emotional state in your adult life ~
♈️ Aries Moon 🌙
Your early environment likely pushed you to be independent and assertive. You might have been encouraged to be bold, sometimes even before you were ready. Growing up, there may have been an urgency around emotions and conflict could have been direct, so naturally, you learned to process things quickly, often moving on before the deeper feelings had time to settle. Your instinct is to act first and reflect later, making it harder to slow down and sit with the more uncomfortable emotions. This moon’s early conditioning teaches resilience but it can also create a pattern of seeing vulnerability as a weakness that needs to be overcome rather than explored.
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♉️ Taurus Moon 🌙
For a Taurus Moon, the early years were all about creating a sense of comfort and physical security. Stability was everything, and whether that meant a consistent routine, reliable meals, or a sense of physical presence from caregivers, your emotions were likely wrapped up in the tangible. You learned to find safety in what you could touch or hold, equating love with reliability and steadiness. You learned to take a slower, more methodical approach to emotions, but you might struggle with change or letting go of things, as the need for stability can turn into a fear of the unknown. Your nurturing likely taught you that emotions are best handled gradually and steadily.
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♊️ Gemini Moon 🌙
Gemini moon’s were probably encouraged to talk about feelings, but maybe not fully feel them. The focus was often on analyzing, explaining, or intellectualizing emotions… making sense of them through words rather than letting them be. As a child, you may have learned that having the right words could solve most problems, which shaped your habit of trying to think your way through feelings. You’re incredibly adaptable in social and emotional situations, but connecting deeply to your own feelings can be a challenge. The tendency to move from one thought or emotion to the next quickly can leave you feeling disconnected from your deeper needs.
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♋️ Cancer Moon 🌙
A Cancer Moon indicates that your early environment was probably emotionally charged and highly nurturing. Or, emotions were central, whether they were positive or not. You were taught to be sensitive to the feelings of others, learning quickly that emotions were important and needed attention. This upbringing created a deep emotional intuition, but it also means you might have taken on more emotional responsibility than was healthy as a child. You crave emotional closeness and security, sometimes feeling overwhelmed by your own needs or those of others. Vulnerability feels natural, but only if it’s reciprocated in a safe and caring environment.
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♌️ Leo Moon 🌙
You were likely praised for your self-expression and creativity from a young age. Your caregivers might have encouraged you to shine and be seen, instilling a strong sense of pride and desire for recognition. However, this also taught you to seek validation from external sources, making emotional wounds particularly sensitive when you feel ignored or unappreciated. You tend to thrive when you’re acknowledged and seen, but your challenge is learning to validate yourself without always needing the applause of others.
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♍️ Virgo Moon 🌙
Virgo Moons often grew up in environments where practicality and order were emphasized. You may have learned early that emotions were things to be fixed or improved, not simply felt. This created a habit of analyzing your feelings, always looking for the root cause or a solution, rather than just allowing them to be. You tend to overthink your emotions, feeling responsible for making things better, even when it’s not your job. You’re often hard on yourself, feeling like vulnerability needs to be earned or justified rather than naturally expressed.
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♎️ Libra Moon 🌙
Libra Moons were likely conditioned to be peacemakers from a young age. Your early nurturing was probably centered around maintaining harmony and balance either because conflict was actively discouraged or because you felt responsible for keeping the peace. This upbringing taught you to value relationships deeply, sometimes at the cost of your own emotional needs. You’re highly attuned to others, but you may struggle with people-pleasing or seeking validation only when things are “good” in your relationships. Conflict can feel threatening, making it hard to assert your true feelings.
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♏️ Scorpio Moon 🌙
With a Scorpio Moon, your early environment may have been emotional intense, carry some secrecy, or even power dynamics. You were likely taught to protect your vulnerabilities, learning that not everyone can be trusted with your feelings. This moon sign creates a deep need for emotional honesty, but also a strong instinct for self-protection. You crave deeper connections, but you might also struggle with letting others see your deeper emotions. There’s a tendency to hold onto emotional wounds longer than necessary, making healing feel like a battle rather than a process.
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♐️ Sagittarius Moon 🌙
Sagittarius Moons probably grew up in an environment that emphasized freedom, exploration, and truth. Your caregivers might have encouraged you to seek meaning and look beyond immediate feelings, teaching you to find lessons in emotional experiences. While this helped you develop a broader perspective, it might have also made you feel that emotions needed to be rationalized or justified. You tend to move on quickly, but your challenge is learning to sit with the discomfort of deeper feelings, not just search for their purpose.
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♑️ Capricorn Moon 🌙
If you have a Capricorn Moon, you were probably raised to be responsible and self-sufficient from an early age. There may have been an expectation to be strong or capable, even before you were ready. This moon sign teaches resilience and discipline, but it also creates a habit of suppressing vulnerability, as emotions might have been seen as a distraction or weakness. You are highly capable and grounded, but you might struggle to let down your guard and trust others with your emotional needs. Your challenge is learning to see vulnerability as a strength that deepens your connections.
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♒️ Aquarius Moon 🌙
Aquarius Moons grew up in environments that valued individuality, logic, and objectivity. You were likely encouraged to be unique, but there may have been less emphasis on expressing or processing emotions in a traditional sense. This creates a tendency to detach from feelings, preferring to analyze them from a distance. You’re great at understanding the broader context of emotions, but it’s a challenge to really connect on a personal level, especially when it feels highly vulnerable.
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♓️ Pisces Moon 🌙
With a Pisces Moon, your early nurturing may have been centered around empathy, compassion, and a lack of boundaries. You might have grown up feeling responsible for others’ emotions, often absorbing the feelings around you without knowing where yours ended and others’ began. This moon creates a highly intuitive and empathetic nature, but it can also make you prone to emotional overwhelm. You need strong boundaries to maintain your emotional health, but you might struggle with distinguishing between your own feelings and the energies you absorb from others.
DISCLAIMER: These are just my personal observations and are meant for entertainment purposes only; it may not resonate with everyone due to the nuances of astrology. Please respect my work and avoid copying or stealing it. Enjoy reading!!
🌷I've noticed that having a 1st house moon often points to a childhood where the mother’s emotions dominated the environment. Her moods were not just intense, they were UNPREDICTABLE. As a child, you learned to stay alert all the time because her feelings always seemed bigger, louder, and more urgent than yours, and you weren't sure which version of her you were getting today - would she be sweet? Is she going to be moody? Is she going to be annoyed? God knows. That kind of upbringing honesty wires a person for hypervigilance and anxiety early on, and it persists through adulthood.
🌷 Moon square Saturn is honestly such a painful aspect to have in your natal chart. It frequently shows parents who were emotionally disconnected from each other or constantly in conflict. Even if fights were not always LOUD and OBVIOUS, the emotional coldness or tension was felt deeply by the child. Growing up in this kind of atmosphere almost always teaches the child to suppress their needs, self-regulate too early and carry an emotional weight that was NEVER meant to be theirs. Probably shows up as crying in the bathroom and coming out being completely fine because crying or expressing how you felt was frowned upon.
🌷Sun conjunct Pluto is an extremely heavy placement in my opinion. People project their issues onto you a lot. Even when you mean well, you somehow end up being seen as the villain. This placement attracts power struggles and extreme reactions. When it’s unhealed, it can show up as being controlling, because power starts to feel like the only way to feel safe.
🌷I've also seen this a lot and personally experienced it too, with strong Aries and Scorpio placements (sun/moon/venus/mars), especially in women, it can make traditional femininity feel a bit…complicated. There’s usually more of a pull toward more stereotypically “masculine” things like liking video games, sports, lifting, dressing tomboyish, being extremely competitive, or just being very blunt (That’s not to say people without these placements don’t experience this too, but it’s something I’ve seen show up more often with ppl with these placements). I know a lot of women with these placements say stuff like they feel more masculine around other women, be it through their looks or personality and being assertive, intense, and independent comes WAY more naturally than being mellowed down or passive. It can honestly mess with your head sometimes, and not because you aren’t feminine, but because your way of being feminine doesn’t match what people expect or what society teaches.
🌷I feel like Capricorn placements are often so misunderstood. People think they’re emotionally cold, but Capricorn Suns and Moons usually feel things very deeply. They just don’t express it outwardly. Instead, they carry it all inside, replaying situations in their head, overthinking, and trying to “handle it” alone. That’s why they can get mentally drained, stressed out, or stuck in their own thoughts even when they seem calm on the outside.
🌷Never ever try to hurt, cheat, or betray someone with Saturn in the 1st houser. The way karma comes back is unreal and it does not take long either. Saturn does NOT play about its own.
🌷 How each element reads astro post in my opinion lmao:
Fire signs immediately jump to their own placements, probably only read theirs, and scroll past the rest without a second thought 😭😭
Water signs are definitely checking their crush’s placements and getting lost in synastry and composite charts for hours 😭😝
Air signs probably skim the post, laugh a little, then get stuck on one line and start questioning everything. Half the time they’re like “this is so me” and five minutes later “actually… I don’t relate"💀💀😭
Earth signs probably read it with a raised eyebrow, lowkey judging the accuracy. If it sounds even a little off, they’re out. If it actually makes sense, they’ll admit it in their head and keep it moving😭
🌷Aquarius being ruled both by Saturn in traditional astrology and by Uranus in Western astrology, is just sending me lmao. The planets are polar opposites 💀💀😭 It makes sense why Aquarius placements come across as so "unique" or "different," because they’re constantly figuring out if they want stability or chaos and how to blend both. Uranus pushes them to break the rules and innovate, while Saturn helps give those ideas a structure so they don’t collapse into pure randomness. Really fascinating imo.
🌷All Scorpio placements are paranoid as hell. Like, no baby, your coworkers are not out to get you, your group chat isn’t secretly plotting against you, and just because your partner didn’t reply to your message instantly doesn’t mean they’re cheating 😭😭
🌷Aries placements’ love language is rage-baiting 😭😭. They’ll lowkey piss you off on purpose because it’s basically their way of saying “I’m into you” 💀😭. (Not always, but honestly, most of the time yes 🙂↕️)
🌷My friend has Saturn in the 3rd house, and the third house is associated with driving. Saturn really loves teaching lessons the hard way, so she’s crashed into a compound wall not once but twice 😭 Might take some EXTRA practice, but eventually discipline and consistency are what help you out💯
Disclaimer: It’s possible to have these placements and not resonate with the below observations! Degrees, elements, aspects and other planets in the house matter. I use both Placidus and Whole Sign so be sure to check your chart using those systems •ᴗ•
TW: mention of abuse for Pluto in the 12th house
౨ As stereotypical as it is, Sag-dominant individuals really do have large/nicely shaped butts, and having 10th house placements that aspect the planet in Sag can help individuals make money from their butt.
Kim Kardashian with Sag ascendant and 1st house ruler in the 10th. Also Nicki Minaj with Sag stellium in the 10th
౨ It's also true that people with prominent Pisces and Neptune placements can have a foot fetish. If there is a connection with the MC, they can make money from their feet.
˚ Jack Black (Pisces Moon), Ricky Martin (Pisces Moon) and Big Boi (Venus and Jupiter in Pisces in the house of pleasure aka the 5th house) have openly admitted to liking feet
˚ Blac Chyna (Neptune in the 5th opposite 10th house ruler, Pisces Moon in the 6th square MC) has posted her toes on OnlyFans and was photographed in public having her toes sucked
౨ 6th and 10th house placements can show you individuals likely to have a momager or a parent in charge of their career. Particularly Moon (mother) and Sun/Saturn (father/disciplinary parent) in the 6th, 10th house ruler in the 6th, and Moon/Sun/Saturn/Jupiter conjunct or directly on the MC/Nadir. 4th and 5th houses that are connected to the 10th house can also indicate individuals that manage their children's career.
˚ Kim Kardashian → Saturn conjunct MC, Jupiter conjunct MC, moon on the Nadir opposite Saturn, 6th house ruler in the 10th. Kris Jenner is her manager
˚ Kris Jenner → 5th house ruler (Jupiter) in the 10th conjunct MC, 4th house ruler in the 10th. Manages her children full-time
˚ Brooke Shields → Moon conjunct MC and moon square Saturn in the 6th. Mother was her manager
˚ Brandy → Moon in the 6th, chart ruler (Neptune) conjunct MC, MC opposite moon in the 6th. Mother was her manager
˚ Michael Jackson → Saturn conjunct MC. Father was his manager
˚ Beyonce → 10th house ruler in the 6th (Saturn), Saturn conjunct Jupiter in the 6th. Father was her manager
౨ Fire sign Liliths (Aries, Leo, Sag) can be prone to attracting obsessive lovers and stalkers, possibly more so than Scorpio placements.
˚ Christina Grimmie - Aries, 11th
˚ John Lennon - Aries, 12th
˚ Ronald Reagan - Sag, 11th
˚ Sandra Bullock - Sag, 6th
˚ Rihanna - Leo, 5th
˚ Harry Styles - Aries, 6th
˚ Colin Farrell - Aries 3rd
౨ Having Lilith in the upper hemisphere of the chart can also show how your suppressed desires, shadowy aspects and sexual magnetism show up in the outer world, which then attracts obsessed fans and stalkers with these shadowy aspects. 10th (social visibility, reputation), 11th (social networks, the collective) and 12th (self-undoing, mental health) house placements seem to be the most common.
˚ Paula Abdul → Virgo, 12th
˚ Taylor Swift → Scorpio, 10th
˚ Jodie Foster → Libra, 10th
˚ Miranda Cosgrove → Pisces, 8th
౨ Neptune in the 1st and 6th house individuals often have intolerances, allergies and weaker immune systems. They are also more likely to be born with rare diseases.
˚ Ariana Grande → Neptune conjunct ascendant, allergic to shellfish, banana and tomatoes
˚ Scarlett Johansson → 1st house, allergic to wheat, cheese tomatoes, corn and chocolate
˚ Bill Clinton → 1st house, allergic to chocolate and gluten
˚ Margot Robbie → 6th house, allergic to chicken egg whites
˚ Drew Barrymore → 6th house and opposite ascendant, allergic to coffee, garlic and bee stings
˚ Selena Gomez → 6th house, lupus
˚ Morgan freeman → 6th house, fibromyalgia
౨ TW: Pluto in the 12th house can indicate uncontrollable addiction to substances (recreational drugs, alcohol, prescription meds) and generational patterns of abuse. It can also indicate generations of mental illness or genetic predispositions to depression/schizophrenia/BPD, and being in a psychiatric hospital.
˚ Marilyn Monroe → Marilyn struggled with substance abuse and bipolar disorder, and was institutionalized. Her mother Gladys Pearl Baker had bipolar disorder, schizophrenia and was also in a psychiatric hospital for most of Marilyn’s life. Marilyn's grandfather was an alcoholic, had dementia and was also institutionalized
˚ Dax Shepard → Dax had an alcoholic father and struggled with substance abuse in his teen years
˚ Judy Garland → Judy was forced by her mother and TV producers to take amphetamines to control her weight as a teen, and suffered from drug addiction as well as alcoholism by the time she was 17
˚ Brooke Shields → Brooke's mother was an alcoholic and her grandfather Francis Xavier Shields was an abusive alcoholic
TW: mention of s*xual abuse of minors
౨ Unfortunately, people with prominent Scorpio and Pisces placements may be subject to emotional or s*xual abuse. This is due to the watery nature of both signs which dissolves boundaries and unconsciously invites criminals who violate these boundaries. Pluto/Neptune in the 8th, 12th house ruler in the 8th, Pluto/Neptune in the 12th, Pisces on the 8th house cusp, 8th house ruler in the 12th, and Scorpio on the 12th house cusp can indicate being a victim of predatory behavior, and can indicate s*xual abuse of minors. The following celebrities have been vocal about childhood s*xual abuse and inc*st faced in their childhood:
Oprah Winfrey - Pluto in the 8th
Sharon Stone - Pluto in the 12th
Dorothy Dandrige - Pluto in the 12th
Teri Hatcher - 8th house in Pisces
Tyler Perry - Neptune in the 12th in Scorpio
Fiona Apple - Pluto in the 12th
Rita Hayworth - 12th house ruler in the 8th
Throughout life you could've noticed that your personality came off as "too much" for other people. Maybe you had a family member or a close acquaintance that tried to suppress your true personality and instead force your self-expression into a specific box. Or maybe people just simply didn't take time to understand you and instantly shamed your original self-expression. What your Chart Ruler is trying to teach you is to never hide your true personality for anybody else, and instead for you to show up as your authentic self no matter what
─ ★ Chart Ruler in the 2nd house
You could've grown up with the idea that your worth was measured by something else but you. Maybe you lacked money in your early life, and that made you harbour an obsession for luxuries and assets so that you look valuable in the face of society. Or maybe you always lacked confidence because there was always someone out there to affect your self-worth. What your Chart Ruler is trying to teach you is to learn how to build and value your own confidence, outside people's norms or opinions. You are a worthy person, and you should know and stand by that no matter what
─ ★ Chart Ruler in the 3rd house
Throughout life you could've felt misunderstood or unheard. People around you could've ignored or even dismissed your ideas when you spoke up about them because they wouldn't even try to understand you. You could've constantly been brushed off because you either spoke too loud for other's comfort, or you spoke too quiet for others to even pay attention to you. What your Chart Ruler is trying to teach you is to never underestimate your voice and your intelligence, even if people don't see them at first. Your thoughts matter and your perspective deserves to be heard
─ ★ Chart Ruler in the 4th house
Chances are family dynamics burdened you so much until you had no choice but to grow up faster than others. The dynamic with your family could've been cold/hostile, or the expectations and traditions that your family demanded from you have almost killed your spark. What your Chart Ruler is trying to teach you is for you to build your own emotional security from within. You are able to create your own sense of safety, comfort and home regardless of your early roots
─ ★ Chart Ruler in the 5th house
Maybe you've learned early on that joy, self-expression or creativity had consequences for you. Chances are your inner child is wounded because you were shamed for being dramatic, romantic or simply "taking up too much space" since an early age. What your Chart Ruler is trying to teach you is to reconnect to joy without any shame. You are allowed to find safety in pleasure, and you are allowed to embody love without feeling like you need to earn it
─ ★ Chart Ruler in the 6th house
You may have tied your worth based by how productive you are, how useful you are or how much you can give to others. Because of this perhaps you are a perfectionist who feels guilty trying to rest since you feel like you didn't do "enough" to earn it. What your Chart Ruler is trying to teach you is for you to make the balance between productivity and pause. You can and should take care of yourself. You can honor your accomplishments without working yourself to the bone
