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how do you react to a non black guy bringing up how black men treat us? Whether it’s stereotypical things like domestic abuse, leaving pregnant women or things that are issues such as the bashing

fuckurapproval

don’t let that shit get too far, fuck how true it is, make sure he respects us, and u as well!

theblkguru

just make sure he know it’s not really his place

robotpickles

Uhh why should she lie, she should explain to them so he knows that black men bash us and those men are coons for it.

robotpickles

Don’t let black men make you think men of other races won’t respect you or only see you as fetishes. Black women are beautiful and just because those black men don’t have common sense to realize this doesn’t mean others won’t

I'm baaaack

#and messy af

earthshakinlove-deactivated2018

Shoutout to Chris Brown for being an idiot and proving Aziz’s point lol

robotpickles

Idiot

tessathompsons

lynnsgunn

dont ever tell me fifth harmony cant sing

bantugal

Wtf lol

kevinwada-deactivated20230323

Laughs on the X-Yacht

archatlas

something about garden design?

Ok, here is something about garden design, some of the most impressive gardens from around the world:

Dumbarton Oaks Washington, D.C.

Villa d'Este Tivoli, Italy

Château de Versailles Versailles, France

Butchart Gardens Vancouver Island, British Columbia

The Master-of-Nets Garden Suzhou, China

Powerscourt Gardens Enniskerry, County Wicklow, Ireland

robotpickles

Why can’t black guys just date white girls and be done like why do they have to bash black women in the process

ogmoaneymoan-deactivated2018120

Because dating white women is apart of their hatred for black women. (Not all but a great deal)

Girl, I agree with you. MOST black men are trash. I was with a dark skin black man for five years, he and his entire group of friends exhibited anti blackness and self hate on a daily basis. All of them included him constantly talked about wanted light skinned gfs and liking "Latinas" when all of they mamas looked like James Brown. These were high educated black men too, my ex is now a doctor. My own brother told my mother he wanted to marry a light skinned girl for lighter kids. Smh.

Giiiiiiirl! That's the damn other thing like even the black guys that do date us STILL ain't got any respect, and they just stand by and watch other black men talk shit about us. That's why when these niggas tell me "not all black men" I'm like but do you have our backs when you hear this shit? Because 90% of the time they don't, we have to watch out for each other I just want black girls to unite and support each other

bantugal

Do Black men have nothing better to do?! Date your non-Black women I don’t care but can ya’ll just honestly leave us alone

robotpickles

Girl stop stressing over it, just date non-black guys they don’t care about this foreign/colorism bullshit as much. If they date a black I a black woman it’s because they like us, unlike black men which will leave the second a foreign girl even looks at them.

bantugal

Idk…I mean I’ll open my mind more to interracial dating but I won’t go out of my way for it

criesinmelanin

They doing all this just to have foreign father in laws who won’t even like them…

bantugal

😂😂

itsjocetheboss

And we not gon act like non black men don’t also promote colorism and or fetishize us. Research shows hatred of black women comes from everyone, nonblack men and especially black men. @ebonybyg don’t feel pressured either way. If you want a black man you will find one eventually. Hopefully we’ll both find one.

robotpickles

@itsjocetheboss It's different when it's your own. Plus non black men that do like us, treat us with more respect when they have us because they don't see us as a step down or other non black women as a step up. Black women are the most abused in relationships I highly doubt they give a damn about us

futureblackwakandan-deactivated

Son like sometimes black men really got black women out here looking like we're morons

I was arguing with one of my Jewish friends named Tony and for the most part he gets the whole white supremacy thing but he’s still learning and whenever he trying to formulate an opinion on something he’ll come and press me about it and we got into a really heated debate a few days before our finals started and he was like how he’s always on Twitter and Facebook and all he sees is black men disrespecting black women and he’s like asking me how I deal with it and I’d already explained colorism to him so he gets it and he’s like really puzzled as to how I, a dark skin black woman, can deal with all this negativity but then he said some wild shit and basically was like"how can black men be screaming about the white man this and that and then disrespect black women all the time"

And I got tight and I was like “Tony you better watch what the fuck you say next” and “how dare you make that comparison” and he apologized but still in the back of my mind I knew he was fucking right. I literally cannot stand the hypocrisy. I don’t wanna hear about these ignorant niggas complaining about white supremacy and racism and they’re treating their own women like we’re a burden to them. Like its annoying as hell. We’re out here looking like fucking durlicks. This is probably why all the other races/ethnicities are laughing at us and don’t respect us. Cuz we’re letting these bum ass niggas play us and we STILL end up marching for them like wtf???? Like do we have Stockholm syndrome or something? I can’t deal with this right now tbh.

umushingwe

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I hate this

Do Black men have nothing better to do?! Date your non-Black women I don’t care but can ya’ll just honestly leave us alone

robotpickles

Girl stop stressing over it, just date non-black guys they don't care about this foreign/colorism bullshit as much. If they date a black I a black woman it's because they like us, unlike black men which will leave the second a foreign girl even looks at them.