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Dialogue Masterpost
Dialogue prompts are my favourite kind. So little context, so much creative space to have fun with. So here is a my masterpost full of dialogue prompts.
Romantic Dialogue
Flirting Prompts - Oblivious and flirty
Teasing Prompts
More Teasing Prompts
Romance Dialogue - Bubbly + Reserved
Dramatic/Break-up Dialogue Prompts
More Break-up Dialogue Prompts
One-sided affections dialogue
Unwanted Attention Prompts
Unrequited Love Prompts
Push and pull romantic prompts
Jealousy Prompts
heartbreaking.
First Kiss Prompts
Things said during sex Prompts
Awkward Post-Sex Dialogue
Smutty Dialogue (Masterpost)
One-Liners Dialogue - Romantic, Smutty + Physical (Masterpost)
Romance Dialogue Prompts – Uncomfortable with affection
Grumpy Affectionate Dialogue
Grumpy + Sunshine Dialogue
Inexperienced with romance Prompts
Love Confessions (Masterpost)
Romantic Date Dialogue Prompts
Asking out on a date
Anniversary Dinner Dialogue
Secret Relationship Dialogue
How to write Enemies to Lovers + Dialogue Prompts
Oblivious Enemies to Lovers Prompts
Enemies to Lovers: Apocalypse AU
Exes to lovers dialogue
Friends to lovers Dialogue
Best friends to lovers Dialogue
Childhood friends to enemies to lovers Dialogue
Enemies to friends with benefits Prompts
Enemies to friends Prompts
Fluffy
Fluffy Dialogue Prompts Part I
Fluffy Dialogue Prompts Part II
Fluffy Sentence Starters
One Hundred Compliments
Shy Compliments
Hidden Pregnancy Dialogue
Sleepy Starters
Cooking/Baking Dialogue Prompts
Friends and Family
Silly Drunk Dialogue
Bar Conversation Starters
Rekindling Friendship Dialogue
Not Wanting to Rekindle Friendship Dialogue
Reconnecting Friends Prompts
Supernatural/Crime/Co.
Hero x Villain - Snarky Dialogue
Hero + Villain Dialogue
Angst Villain Dialogue
Supervillain Roommates
Life & Death Prompts + Dialogue
Demons Dialogue
Angel/Demon Dialogue
Angel/Human Dialogue
Human/Ghost Dialogue Prompts
Assassins Banter Dialogue
Showing aliens the human world
FBI mentor and mentee prompts
Heist Prompts
Hurt/Comfort and Angst
Hurt/Comfort Dialogue Prompts
Angsty Dialogue (Masterpost)
AUs
Bodyguard Dialogue Prompts
Patient and Doctor Prompts
Neighbors to Lovers Dialogue
Coffee Shop Prompts
Matchmaking at Work Prompts
Royalty Dialogue
Princess x Loyal Companion
Prince/ss x Commoner
Princess x Guard
Arranged Marriage Dialogue
Royal Arranged Marriage Dialogue Prompts
Royalty Forced Married to Actual Lovers Prompts
Royal x Royal Ball Dancing
Grad Students Prompts
High School Popular Kid + Outcast Dialogue
More
Dialogue Responses Masterlist
Drabble Prompts Masterlist
Three Word Sentences
Four Word Sentences
Five Word Sentences
Six Word Sentences
short & impactful
powerful.
"I can't…"
Reactions to… (Masterpost)
Asking for permission
Random Questions Prompts
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Get To Know Me Uncomfortably Well
PLEASE DON’T LET THIS FLOP AHHHH
1. What is you middle name? 2. How old are you? 3. When is your birthday? 4. What is your zodiac sign? 5. What is your favorite color? 6. What’s your lucky number? 7. Do you have any pets? 8. Where are you from? 9. How tall are you? 10. What shoe size are you? 11. How many pairs of shoes do you own? 12. What was your last dream about? 13. What talents do you have? 14. Are you psychic in any way? 15. Favorite song? 16. Favorite movie? 17. Who would be your ideal partner? 18. Do you want children? 19. Do you want a church wedding? 20. Are you religious? 21. Have you ever been to the hospital? 22. Have you ever got in trouble with the law? 23. Have you ever met any celebrities? 24. Baths or showers? 25. What color socks are you wearing? 26. Have you ever been famous? 27. Would you like to be a big celebrity? 28. What type of music do you like? 29. Have you ever been skinny dipping? 30. How many pillows do you sleep with? 31. What position do you usually sleep in? 32. How big is your house? 33. What do you typically have for breakfast? 34. Have you ever fired a gun? 35. Have you ever tried archery? 36. Favorite clean word? 37. Favorite swear word? 38. What’s the longest you’ve ever gone without sleep? 39. Do you have any scars? 40. Have you ever had a secret admirer? 41. Are you a good liar? 42. Are you a good judge of character? 43. Can you do any other accents other than your own? 44. Do you have a strong accent? 45. What is your favorite accent? 46. What is your personality type? 47. What is your most expensive piece of clothing? 48. Can you curl your tongue? 49. Are you an innie or an outie? 50. Left or right handed? 51. Are you scared of spiders? 52. Favorite food? 53. Favorite foreign food? 54. Are you a clean or messy person? 55. Most used phrased? 56. Most used word? 57. How long does it take for you to get ready? 58. Do you have much of an ego? 59. Do you suck or bite lollipops? 60. Do you talk to yourself? 61. Do you sing to yourself? 62. Are you a good singer? 63. Biggest Fear? 64. Are you a gossip? 65. Best dramatic movie you’ve seen? 66. Do you like long or short hair? 67. Can you name all 50 states of America? 68. Favorite school subject? 69. Extrovert or Introvert? 70. Have you ever been scuba diving? 71. What makes you nervous? 72. Are you scared of the dark? 73. Do you correct people when they make mistakes? 74. Are you ticklish? 75. Have you ever started a rumor? 76. Have you ever been in a position of authority? 77. Have you ever drank underage? 78. Have you ever done drugs? 79. Who was your first real crush? 80. How many piercings do you have? 81. Can you roll your Rs?“ 82. How fast can you type? 83. How fast can you run? 84. What color is your hair? 85. What color is your eyes? 86. What are you allergic to? 87. Do you keep a journal? 88. What do your parents do? 89. Do you like your age? 90. What makes you angry? 91. Do you like your own name? 92. Have you already thought of baby names, and if so what are they? 93. Do you want a boy a girl for a child? 94. What are you strengths? 95. What are your weaknesses? 96. How did you get your name? 97. Were your ancestors royalty? 98. Do you have any scars? 99. Color of your bedspread? 100. Color of your room?
This is powerful❤️
-Every woman has a past. Some were physically abused. Some had violent parents. Some had pubertal issues. Some had sexual abuse as a child from their own family members. Some had messed up love stories. Some had been forced into sex in the name of love. Some had been drugged. Some were date raped. Some had been viciously photographed on bed. Some had been blackmailed by their ex-boyfriend. Some were in an abusive relationship. Some had menstrual problems. Some had a broken family. Some had a divorce. Some had an obesity issue. Some had financial droughts. Some had drug or alcohol addiction. Some had a few unsuccessful suicide attempts.
If you see a woman, who went through any of these but had already wiped her tears, tied her hair up, masked her sorrows with a divine smile, stood tall and strong, started walking towards her future because she still has some hope left inside her and has not given up on the concept of love that still exists in this world, do not stab her with her past. Do not confront her. Do not slap her with more abuse. Give way for her and walk beside her. May be hold her hands and walk for a while. You'll know how sweet that soul is and how strong her hopes are! You'll be amazed at how she carries herself after all her energy has been sucked out.
She need not always be only the woman next door or from a different home. She could be your own friend, your own sister, your own girlfriend, your own wife, even may be your own mother.
She is a warrior.
Be kind, uplifting, and supportive .
She's earned that..
Powerful. Ladies, if you relate to any of these, grant yourself grace to forgive yourself bc it was never your fault to begin with. Grant yourself time to find your peace. And when you’re ready, grant yourself permission to open yourself to love again. You are beautiful. You are a gift. You are worth it. 🩷
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100 Sex Questions
1. What was your first time having sex like?
2. Are you into BDSM?
3. Do you watch porn, and if so what kind?
4. What’s the weirdest porn you’ve watched?
5. Have you ever watched porn with another person?
6. Do you prefer professional or amateur porn?
7. Add a link to your favorite porn video.
8. What was your first experience with masturbation like?
9. How often do you masturbate?
10. What’s your favorite way to masturbate?
11. Have you ever had shower sex?
12. Have you ever had period sex?
13. Have you ever had sex in someone else’s bed that didn’t belong to anyone involved? (Not including shared spaces like hotels, Airbnb, etc.)
14. Have you ever had sex in a public place?
15. What’s the weirdest place you’ve had sex?
16. What’s your most embarrassing sex story?
17. Have you ever been caught masturbating or having sex?
18. Do you have any sex toys?
19. What is your favorite sex toy?
20. Are there any sex toys that you really want to try?
21. Have you ever tried anal, and if so do you enjoy it?
22. Have you ever used a sex swing?
23. Have you ever had sex standing up?
24. Have you ever recorded yourself having sex or masturbating?
25. Have you ever taken a nude and sent it to someone?
26. Write out a real or made up sexting conversation. (At least 4 lines)
27. What was your first time giving oral like?
28. What was your first time receiving oral like?
29. Do you like giving oral?
30. Do you like receiving oral?
31. Do you prefer clitoral stimulation, penetration, or both?
32. Do you enjoy penetration?
33. Have you ever masturbated in front of another person?
34. Have you ever masturbated with another person?
35. Have you ever masturbated in a public place?
36. Do you enjoy voyeurism? (Being watched or watching other people)
37. Does cross-dressing turn you on?
38. Do you have any kinks that you’re embarrassed about?
39. Have you ever had a sex dream or wet dream? If so, pick one and describe in detail what it was about.
40. Have you ever cheated? If so, do you regret it?
41. Are you into cuckolding?
42. How many orgasms do you typically have in one session?
43. Do you enjoy edging?
44. Have you ever had a ruined orgasm? Was it intentional?
45. What’s the longest you’ve gone without an orgasm?
46. When was the last time you masturbated? Describe what you did in detail.
47. Have you ever gotten injured during sex? If so, what happened?
48. Have you ever contracted any STIs?
49. Have you ever had unprotected sex and accidentally gotten pregnant?
50. Do you prefer to have sex in the morning, afternoon, or night?
51. Have you ever woken up in the middle of the night to have sex or masturbate?
52. How often do you wake up horny?
53. Have you ever had sex with a complete stranger without knowing anything about them?
54. Have you ever done anything sexual while driving?
55. What is your favorite thing about quickies?
56. Have you ever had a sex dream about someone unexpected and freaked out about it? If so, who was it?
57. Have you ever fantasized about having sex with one of your teachers?
58. Do you usually have sex with your eyes open or closed?
59. Have you ever had a threesome? Do you want to?
60. Have you ever had group sex? Do you want to?
61. Have you ever masturbated with a group of people?
62. Do you enjoy dirty talk? If so, give an example of something you would say or would want to hear.
63. Have you ever given a blow job to someone who was wearing a toy?
64. Have you ever had someone give you a blow job while wearing a toy?
65. If you had to choose, would you rather be a dom or a sub?
66. Have you ever done anything sexual with an animal?
67. What is your favorite sex position(s)?
68. What is the weirdest object you’ve masturbated with/humped?
69. What’s the worst place you’ve ever gotten an erection? (Bonus: What’s your most embarrassing story of getting an erection?)
70. Have you ever been so wet that you soaked through your clothes?
71. Do you get really wet, an average amount, or not wet enough?
72. Have you ever had trouble getting it up?
73. Have you ever squirted or made someone squirt?
74. What’s the naughtiest fantasy you’ve ever had about a stranger?
75. Have you ever been so horny in an inappropriate place that you’ve had to excuse yourself?
76. How many fingers do you prefer inside you?
77. Are you loud or quiet?
78. Do you like it rough or gentle?
79. Do you enjoy being on top or bottom?
80. Have you ever dry humped someone while being fully clothed until you had an orgasm?
81. Have you ever had sex while drunk or high?
82. Do you have a specific playlist for sex?
83. Have you ever role played? If so, tell the story.
84. Have you ever kept going even when you were too sensitive?
85. Would you rather have your hair pulled or be spanked during sex?
86. Would you rather be handcuffed or blindfolded?
87. Would you rather cheat or be cheated on?
88. Would you rather get caught masturbating by your parent/guardian or your crush?
89. Would you rather have an obvious orgasm every time you meet someone new or never have an orgasm again?
90. Have you ever had sex with someone who couldn’t satisfy you?
91. What’s something you’ve always wanted to ask about sex but was too afraid to ask?
92. Describe what you would do sexually if you had different genitals for a day.
93. How many dates do you typically need to go on until you feel ready to have sex with someone?
94. In your opinion, what makes someone good in bed?
95. What’s the most flattering thing someone has said about your naked body?
96. Do genital piercings turn you on?
97. How long was the longest orgasm you’ve ever had?
98. What’s the most sensitive part of your body?
99. Is there anything you won’t do in bed?
100. Ask any question you want!
Reblog if you’re brave enough 😈
A list of ideas and activities for dominant women to use on their submissive male partners… to tease, humiliate, discipline, punish, and torment him.
Ways to Tease Him
Tease Your slave to get him to the point where he’ll “Do Anything to please You”
Make him strip naked while You keep Your clothes on.
Have him kneel before You and kiss Your feet.
Have him address You as ‘Mistress’
Have him kiss Your ass…make him beg to kiss Your ass.
Tie his hands and have him undress You with his mouth/teeth.
Don’t let him masturbate or touch his cock without Your permission at any time.
Tie his hands behind his back. Have him kneel with knees spread naked in front of You while You read or watch TV, occasionally nudging his balls or penis with Your shoes.
Either order him to stay erect, or don’t give him permission to have a hard on… either way, punish him if he fails!
Use some strong string (kite string), tie a slip noose in the end and tighten it around the head of the penis, tug on it, pull it shake it, lead him with it, whatever You please.
Show Your slave Your panty crotch, make him smell it, but no touching without permission.
Tie Your slave spread eagle to the bed and tease him for hours. Make sure he has a big hard on, but once he does only touch it when he needs just a little more encouragement, don’t let him cum.
Put on his favorite lingerie and tease him with Your beauty.
Scratch him with Your finger nails.Tickle him. Pinch his nipples.
Sit on his chest and find out what he would do to be allowed to kiss Your nipple. Let him almost kiss it but pull away, make him beg.
Take a break, put some worn panties over his face and leave the room for a while and let him think about what else You might do.
Squat above his face, make him reach with his tongue to taste the crotch of Your panties…get more promises
Blindfold him and make him lick You to several orgasms. Take a break, cum back and do it all again.
Rub his face against Your pussy or sit on his face, but gag him with Your panties or a gag so that he can’t lick You.
Tie his balls off to something behind him so he has to tug on them to smell Your panties or kiss Your ass…stay just out of reach.
Masturbate in front of him. Use a dildo or a vibrator.
Put the base of the dildo in his mouth and make him satisfy You with it. Do it so his nose presses between Your ass cheeks. He’ll be Your little brown noser and love it.
Make him lick the dildo clean.
Tie him down to the bed and tie his hands to his penis but do not give him permission to cum with harsh punishments for disobedience.
Put Your worn panties over his head so he can smell your odor.
Make him wear a cock ring (a watch strap or cat collar works well)
Ways to Humiliate Him
Make him wear Your panties or lingerie, dress him up as a little girl or a French maid.
Make him do housework naked or dressed in women’s clothes.
Have him pamper You, have him:
give You a foot/back/full body massage
give You a pedicure/manicure,
paint Your finger/toe nails.
bathe You/shave your legs.
cook and serve You a nice dinner.
Make him hand wash Your panties and lingerie.
Make him polish Your shoes with his tongue.
Make him wear a collar and lead him around with a leash, like a dog.
Attach a leash to his balls or cock ring, and lead him around with that.
Tie it off in front of the sink while he does the dishes.
Ride him around as Your pony boy…spurs? a riding crop?
Dress him up like the slut that he is, wear a strap-on dildo and make him beg to suck it. fuck him. (don’t forget the fuck-me red lipstick!)
Make him wear Your panties or lingerie under his regular clothes when he goes out or goes to work so that he will think of his Mistress constantly.
Make him masturbate for You, make him beg for permission to cum, don’t let him, punish him if he does.
Make him screw himself with a dildo.
Make him earn his rewards; for example:
Allow him to kiss Your ass after the dishes are done.
1 minute of pleasure for him for 10 minutes of Yours. 5 minutes of pleasure for him after he makes You cum 5 times. Spank him 10 times for each minute it takes him to make You cum.
If You think he’s earned an orgasm, make him cum on Your feet or Your ass and then make him lick You clean.
Order him to bring himself to the edge of orgasm and stay there until You give him permission. When You give the command he must cum within 5 seconds or he will be punished and/or not allowed to cum at all. (keep him that way for 30 minutes, an hour…or as long as You want)
If he’s really horny and bothering You, You may want to curb his interest by ordering him to jerk off 5 or 6 times in a row. Use it as skin conditioner… 3 times on each foot, have him spread it around and lick them clean after each time.
Always make him lick You clean after sex.
When You go out, order him to tie himself up, be naked or dressed up as a girl and be kneeling at the door for when You arrive.
Lock a padlock on his balls.
Give him a golden shower.
Make him think of a new way for You to humiliate him. Punish him if You don’t think it’s good enough. Make him post it to the net (and send it to me to add to the list)
Ways to Discipline and Punish and Torment Him
Spank or whip him. (wooden spoon, hair brush, belt, ruler, ping pong paddle, riding crop, switch, cat-o-nine tails…)
Tie him in an uncomfortable position.
Tie his ankles together and attach his balls to them.
Hog tied. (wrists and ankles tied together)
Hanging from the ceiling by his wrists.
In a chair with his knees pulled up to his shoulders – good for spanking and everything is exposed and vulnerable.
Tie up his balls and cock with a long leather thong, clothes line, or boot lace. Use a long piece, and wrap the base and balls repeatedly. Do each ball separately. Tie tight loops around his shaft from base to tip then tie the end off back between his legs and up to a belt or to his handcuffs.
Make him wear a chastity belt or cock cage.
Attach clothes pins or nipple clips to his nipples, balls, cock or wherever.
Put a butt plug in his ass. Or get out the strap-on.
Enema.
Double up on his domestic chores, make them more difficult: tie his hands; make him use a toothbrush to clean the toilet, tie his ankles with a short chain and make him wear extra high heels.
Deny him orgasms for a long period of time.
Have him lick You clean after you pee.
Put Ben-gay or icy-hot on his penis and nipples.
Drip candle wax on him.
Make him do exercises (jumping jacks, leg spreads, squats, aerobics, yoga…)
Humiliate him in public…take him shopping for panties/lingerie
Again, too many good ideas to not reblog.
Great list had to reblog it!!
Lots of these sound like so much fun!!!
Updated Library For Kinksters
I completed some major changes to the Library For Kinksters. Here is the update…
Aftercare
Aftercare 101
Aftercare For Dominants
Coping With Emotional Subdrop
Dom Drop
How To Make A Sub Drop Kit
Online Aftercare
sub/Dom Space, sub/Dom Drop and Aftercare
Subdrop and Aftercare
Subspace and Aftercare
Consent
Consent & BDSM
Guide to Consent
Doms, Daddies & Masters
7 Fundamental Characteristics of A Daddy Dom
12 Characteristics Of An Ideal Submissive
25 Things Daddies Should Do For Their Littles
30 Rules For A Modern Gentleman
45 Things A Girl Wants, But Won’t Ask For
50 Rules for Daddies
100 Sweet Things You Can Do For Your Princess
101 Things To Do To Make Your Slave Feel Owned (loved)
Alternative Names For “Daddy”
Alternative Domme Titles
Aspects Of Control
Asserting Ownership - Rules
Daddy Up!
Defining A Daddy Dom
Dominants Need Training Also
Fun Tasks Daddies Can Give Their Littles
Help For New Doms
How (and Why) To Go Down On Your Submissive
How To Be A Good Dominant
How to Find a Submissive
Knowing when to be a Dom and when to be her Man
New to DDLG - A Daddy Dom
Observations On Doms By A Submissive
So you want to be a Dom?
So Your Girlfriend Wants You To Dominate her
Some Little Rules All Daddies Should Know
The Dom Commandments
Things for Daddies to Keep in Mind
What Being A Dom Is About - A Submissive’s Perspective
What does the title Daddy mean?
What is a Daddy Dom?
What is a Daddy Dom Mentor?
What It Means To Be A Dominant
What Makes A Good Dominant
Littles, Subs & Slaves
6 Questions Every Submissive Needs To Ask Her Potential Dominant
7 Common Types of Submissives
10 Tips For Living With A Sadist
10 Things A Dominant Needs From A Submissive
11 Red Flags Of An Abusive Dominant
26 Baby Girl Jobs
50 Things You Can Do For Your Daddy
A Bottom’s Responsibility
A Dominant’s Advice To His Submissive
A Man Who Knows You…
A Good Dom vs. A Bad Dom
Acid Test For Subs
Ask A Million And One Questions
Attraction to DD/lg: A Little’s Perspective
Baby girl or little? A brief introduction
Care and feeding of Daddies
Characteristics Of A Good Daddy
Coaxing The Daddy Dom Out Of Your Partner
Feminist Submissive
Finding Your Dominant
Good Rules For Middles and Littles To Live By
Guide For Young Newbie Sub Girls
How a Dom Behaves Shows How He Will Behave Towards You.
“How do I find Daddy?” A guide to help you safely find the Daddy you’re looking for.
How Does A Submissive Ask for Something from Their Dominant?
How To Find A Dom
How to Take Proper Care of Your Dom
I Solemnly Swear I Will Not Do This To Daddy
Novice Submissives
Physical abuse of littles - it is never OK
Signs Of A Fake ‘Dominant’
Stuff no one tells you about submission, until the spreader bar is on and you are trapped.
Submissives, Learning to Trust Your Instincts
Submissive Pride
Submissive Traits - Intelligence
Things My Dream Daddy Would Say To Me
What is a Little?
When newbie subs, with asinine “doms,” need to run away.
Why I call him Daddy
Your Rights As A Submissive
Long Distance Relationships
10 Ways To Survive A Long Distance Relationship
Getting The Most Out Of A Long Distance Relationship
How To Make Long Distance Relationships Work
Long Distance Relationships - Tools To Cope
Long Distance Relationships (LDR) Contemplation: Sticking with plans
The Long Distance D/s Relationship
Mental Health
BDSM practitioners ‘healthier and less neurotic’ than ‘vanilla’ peers
Body image & BDSM
How to Get Over Feeling Sad
Is BDSM normal?
Love your Vulva – a self-esteem guide to your sensitive bits!
Managing bipolar disorder in a D/S relationship
Meditation And Mindfulness
On Cutting
Steps For Letting Go of Painful Memories
Things to Do When You’re Anxious, Scared, or Just Need a Distraction
Tips for Recovering from Codependency
What Are Anxiety Disorders? (Infographic)
Why Do I Feel Unloveable?
Relationships
10 Habits of Happy Couples
10 Top Communication Mistakes
10 Types of Emotional Manipulators
12 Relationship Truths We Often Forget
50 Best Ways To Say “I Love You”
BDSM Breakups: All Good Things Must Come to an End
BDSM: Control Goes Both Ways
Collars and Collaring - A Personal Perspective
Communication Is Key
Concept Daddy Dom/Little Girl Relationships
Daddy Doms and their little girls
Daddy Doms, Baby Girls, Little Boys And More
Date Night In A Jar
DD/lg In Public
D/s and Domestication
Factors That Make A Relationship
Finding Love When You Least Expect It
Finding Others with Common (Adult) Interests
How To Be Present In Your Relationships
How To Build A Healthy Relationship
How To Get What You Want In A Relationship
How To Know When You’ve Found “The One”
How To Take Your Relationship To The Next Level
Importance Of Confidence In RelationshipsImportance Of Trust In A Relationship
Key Ingredients of a Happy and Healthy Relationship
Needy Girls Are Daddy Dom Bait
Relationship Advice To Follow, And What To Ignore
Searching for a D/s partner?
Self-Fulfilling Prophecies In Relationships
Stop Arguments Before They Start
The Rewards of a Submissive
Types Of Relationship Insecurity
Well-Balanced Power Exchange Relationship
What Is Real Love?
When He Doesn’t Call
Why Love Makes A Night Of Kink Even Better
Safety
Another life ruined because of the morality police
Bondage Basic Safety: Crops, Paddles & Bondage!
Kinks, Risks, How To And Why Sometimes You Shouldn’t
Limits in BDSM
What is Emotional Abuse?
Self Improvement
10 Tips for Creating a Happier Life
10 Steps To Self Care
10 Ways To Be Happy
10 Truths To Live By
Guaranteed Ways To Be More Attractive
How to be Yourself
How To Deal With Your Enemies
How To Ignore Haters
How to Recognize a Toxic Friend
How to Stop Being a People Pleaser
Slut Shaming Explained
Tips for Healing a Broken Heart
What are the Signs of a Jealous Friend?
Sex
50 Cunnilingus Tips from Women
Basics of Breath Play
D/s or Kinky Sex?
Fetishes Explained
How To Make A Girl Squirt
How To Tell Your Son About Sex
Intersection of BDSM and Queer Heterosexuality
Sensual Biting
Sex: Myths & Stereotypes
Sex: Practical Details
Sex: Pregnancy and Birth Control
So You Want To Try Anal? A Practical Guide For Women
Squirting Educational Video
Squirting Notes
Toys
Advice on Dildos and Buttplugs
BDSM on a budget
Bondage Rope: How To Choose Yours (And More)
Training
10 Considerations for Inexperienced Subs
30 Things You Can Do For Your Human Kitten
40 Very Important DD/lg Facts
Age Play: A Short Guide
BDSM for Beginners: Safe and Affordable Play
DEFINED: SSC (Safe, Sane & Consensual) & RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink)
Etiquette in BDSM Part 1
Etiquette in BDSM Part 2
Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 1 - Beginnings
Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 2 - The Dominant Mind
Glossary of BDSM Terms
Guide To Blood Play
Guide To Bruising
Guide To Talking Dirty
Guide To Wax Play
How Do I Get Started In BDSM?
How to Make a Blanket Fort/Cuddle Nest
How To Make A Comfort Box
Introduction To BDSM
Newbie’s Guide To Vaginal Fisting
Punishments in BDSM Relationships
Red Flags For Online BDSM Relationships
Some Thoughts On Rules
The Leash Has Two Ends - Responsibility
The Need For Rules and Discipline
Topping from the bottom
An amazing library of resources!
I don’t normally reblog these long posts but they talk alot about things that I hadn’t read about previously on Tumblr.💝
soft asks to get to know people
what song makes you feel better?
what’s your feel-good movie?
what’s your favorite candle scent?
what flower would you like to be given?
who do you feel most you around?
say three nice things about yourself (three physical and three non-physical).
what color brings you peace?
tag someone (or multiple people) who make you feel good.
what calms you down?
what’s something you’re excited for?
what’s your ideal date?
how are you?
what’s your comfort food?
favorite feel-good show?
for every emoji you get, tag someone and describe them in one word.
compliment the person who sent you this number.
fairy lights or LED lights?
do you still love stuffed animals?
most important thing in your life?
what do you want most in the world right now?
if you could tell your past self one thing, what would it be?
what would you say to your future self?
favorite piece of clothing?
what’s something you do to de-stress?
what’s the best personal gift someone could give you (playlist, homemade card, etc.)
what movie would you want to live in?
which character would you want to be?
hugs or hand-holding?
morning, afternoon or night?
what reminds you of home (doesn’t have to mean house… just things that remind you of the feeling of home)?
Ladies I have another question for you....
What’s one thing you wish guy did while he was going down ?
Actually suck on the clitoris instead of flicking it with his tongue like how a cat drinks water.
I have so much to learn thelifeofbunches
Go slow. Not everything has to be fast paced and crazy all the time
Hold my thighs. Like grip them, just firm enough…
Yasss that clit flicking shit is not the wave.
What about sucking on the clit ? thetennesseehoneyy
Fingering at the same time is always nice, but not in and out, find that gspot and massage it why you lick and suck the clit. I will die.
Touch/grab my thighs, my ass, slowly touch down my spine, everywhere, somewhere. Tease me good before you go down & while you’re down there.
Deadass with the thigh thing Kiss those inner thighs too Pretend you’re passionately kissing the kitty Not a cat drinking water Also don’t even do it if you a)don’t like doing it b)you’re going to do it for 2 seconds
I couldn’t hit reblog fast enough.
Don’t be to shy to open it up and really get the clit. Like if dudes really spread the lips and focused on the clit I would lose my mind
slow down on the flickering thing, that rapid shit isnt pleasurable, slowly running your tongue back n forth tho? Yes.
thigh kissing is nice, ass grabbing, thigh gripping, a little passionate teasing takes you far and honestly gets her wetter by the minute
slow down, take your time at first, dont just dive in, enjoy your meal
that rapid flicking thing doesnt do much for me (i cant speak for every girl) but slow runs across the clit are lovely, just focus on the clit, let your fingers do some work if you get tired or something
I dont know about every girl but that mimic-my-dick-with-my-tongue technique doesnt do shit
Notice how they’ve all basically said the same thing? I hope you men pay attention. Every woman is different but here are the basics to pleasing us.
1. Stop the fucking flicking shit.
2. Focus on the CLIT. Suck it, circle it. Engulf it. If she moans, keep doing that.
3. But pls, do visit thighland. Inner thigh licking and kissing will set us on fire.
4. What is this fingering shit? Massage the gspot or get out. We feel nothing with that little stabbing motion. Also, stop sticking your 2 inches of tongue in there. Come back up to the clit.
5. LONG stokes with the tongue.
6. Stop humming. Most of us use vibrators so that little humming trick you learned from GQ will pale in comparison.
7. Speaking of vibes, the reason you’re in our bed is because you can do 1 thing our wands and rabbits can’t do. And that’s grab us. Grab us, squeeze us, we want to feel your hands on our body.
8. If you can reach, grab a titty.
9. Some women are self conscious about how they look/taste/smell down there. Or worry about taking too long to orgasm, so let her know you’re enjoying it. Moan, groan, sound like you’re eating a plate of ribs
10. Do it til we cum or GTFO!
Oh damn 😳😳💕💕
Why aren’t things compiled and published like this more often??
And more importantly, why aren’t we being told this stuff while down there? Esp those of us who love doing it and doing it right….. feedback, ladies, when we’re there. Please?
I don’t often post shit like this but all of this is important. Guys, you want the goods? Learn to earn it. And please enjoy yourself. If you do it right you’ll enjoy the sheer fact that SHE’S enjoying it.
Taking notes for when I feel like putting some natural facial hair growth serum on my face.
Reblogging for awareness…
Don’t be rubbin on the clit like you trying to shine a shoe, it’s very sensitive. To that end, no dry cat-tounges. Slob it down.
If you think blowing on it or in it or anywhere near the pussy does anything for anyone, punch yourself in the face right now
Great facts and mad humorous. Shoot I love what I do and always have a drenched beard. And little to drink but always good to learn new tricks if there where some.
BEST!!!
ladies make this post the study guide for any nigga tryna eat. quiz him lol. if a nigga can’t eat it right after these gems he don’t deserve to lol.
its also good to see that not all of these are the same
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Yasssssss can’t say enough, eat pussy.
I live in Maryland I’m still trying to get someone to handle all the stuff everybody asking for i aim to please
THIS. WHOLE. POST. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
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Informative information for y’all 🙌🏽😌
Reposting for those who have missed a thing or two😜
Read and learn, after all these years, I’ve learned, slow and steady wins every time
Take notes
For those in my inbox asking how to do it right…. here ya go.