love bites 𓆩♡𓆪

18+, Robbie, 22, I use any pronouns, bi, MN Fansly: Curvykittycat (for pics and vids ;))

[kuromichans-deactivated20241105]

I want to wake up to the feeling of them fucking me, laying on my stomach with my panties pushed to the side and their body on top of me, their weight holding me down and their cock thrusting in and out of me, still being too sleepy to understand what is happening to me, just knowing that it feels so good

[oatmeal-cutie-piee]

[innocentlittlepet]

Rape me like you’re trying to make me fall in love with you

[roughribo]

I want to share something someone told me when I first started out as a dom because it was kind of a lightbulb moment for me as an emotional sadist. At the time I was doing aftercare but I didn't understand what psychologically recovering from a scene really meant. Then someone put it into dom terms and it just sort of clicked. So I thought I'd share in case anyone else needs to hear it.

As a degrader and a sadist it's so hot that some subs will be as pathetic as you want them to be... so don't fuck around with their emotions outside of that, that sub is already literally playing with and altering their emotions for your benefit and pleasure. You're overstressing the emotion muscle if you do and rest is essential to any healthy exercise.

You're not giving their feelings any time to rest and recover if you cause emotional distress outside of playtime and you're not giving them the safety and security to play with their emotions again. If you consistently play with humiliation, degradation, or other forms of psychological sadism, you need to be aware of this and plan accordingly.

Avoid big talks or heavy topics immediately after, and do things that will lift your partner's mood in the days following an intense scene even if their mood doesn't need a lift. While you can't see it, by doing that, you've essentially put an emotional ice pack on a sore muscle.

For physical injuries lift the area affected so it can circulate and heal better. For emotional ones it's the same process, lift their mood so positive feelings can circulate and help the recovery along.

[roughribo]

A little addendum I think bears mentioning since this post has been blowing up my notes lately:

It's easy for doms to understand that some subs are turned on by embarrassment, shame, humiliation, degradation, objectification, etc. That is an easier concept to grasp. But I think that's a bit of a simplified way of putting it and a more accurate way to explain what's going on is that some subs experience embarrassment, shame, humiliation, degradation, objectification, etc from their dom and are turned on by it.

I think putting the emphasis back on the painful emotion the submissive is putting themselves through is such an important distinction that needs to be made more often. Sometimes the fact that the sub is still experiencing these very powerful negative emotions during sex or scenes (for your benefit by the way, doms) gets lost in translation when someone says "it makes me horny when you humiliate me."

But they're NOT just horny when you humiliate them, they're still also humiliated. And for those of you saying "well duh, of course" please just trust me when I say, as a dom myself who went through learning this and has helped so many other doms learn this, that most doms are absolutely not making this connection at all and that's why my post above has been reblogged a bunch of times by both doms and subs.

As a dom, what we are incorrectly assuming is that the input is 'humiliation' and the output is 'horny' based on what we see and how our sub reacts when we play like this. We are not registering that they are also still humiliated because in the moment they're acting horny. It's an easy logical error to make due to faulty observations and this mistake isn't just limited to male doms in my experience. A lot of folks from all walks of life don't quite grasp this at first. And once you do grasp this you can give better aftercare.

The reality is that the output is both horny and humiliation and your aftercare as a dom better contain ways to treat the emotional pain you inflicted on your sub. In this case, reassurance (I'm so proud of you/of how much you took for me) and positive affirmations (you make me so happy, you're so beautiful/smart) are a hell of a drug for making sure their psyche stays intact and recovers properly.

[romanticmasochisst]

Did you guys know I just posted a vid of me giving my friend head and him slapping me on my fansly? You should probably check it out 🙄 🫣

[romanticmasochisst]

I’ve noticed a pattern recently during my sexual encounters that’s basically just like. It’s so hot when I’m yapping it up with a guy telling him about my interests or my life and maybe we’re cuddling or sitting leaning on each other while I talk and he reaches his hand around to fondle my tits, pinching my nipples causing me to pause what I’m saying because fuck it feels sooo good. And then when his hand slips lower and he says “keep talking, what happened with (x)?” While he starts to slowly rub my clit and apply heavenly pressure and I’m just left stuttering and blushing and nearly drooling as I try to give him the answer he was promised. Maybe he’ll slow down to let me catch my bearings again, but as soon as I get back into it he just bears his hand down with even more pressure, rapidly rubbing my clit and maybe even fingering me while I moan and grab his shoulders and whimper and desperately try to talk. Idk. Just so fucking hot when they give me a command and they actively try to hinder my success with it hehehe

[romanticmasochisst]

Wow you guys are really vibing with this one huh hehehe

[traumszenario]

[junesangell]

i don’t mind if you slide it in while i’m sleeping

[accountingforprincess]

"my daughter turned out fine."

Your daughter rubs her pussy raw dreaming of the day she gets to wake up to find a man violating her unconscious body and using her as a fucktoy.

[space-feminist]

i feel like "feminist" anti-kink sentiment is very tail-wagging-the-dog. like male doms playing out bdsm scenes of abuse are not oppressing their female subs that's acting. you're mad at acting. you're those aliens from galaxy quest. same with fearmongering about "booktok". however an eroticized version of patriarchal dynamics being a popular kink DOES speak to the pervasiveness of sexism, bc eroticizing the oppression is a way of coping with living under it. it's women creating a fantasy world where men being menacing to them is sexy and not scary like it is irl, or where it is still scary but in the fun way like a horror movie bc you can tap out at any time by using a safe word or putting the book down. acting like this sort of kink is oppressing women is like if you assumed the thermometer controlled the weather outside. it might be depressing to look at the thermometer and see the impact of climate change, but it's not the thermometer's fault

[cutelove69]

[mastersoverminds9]

You dream of being a gloryhole fleshlight, don't you? You want nothing more than to be a set of holes in a wall that can provide gratification for anyone who happens by.

Don't worry, I won't tell anyone about your fucked up little fantasies. You've got an image to uphold, after all! As long as you keep me happy, of course...

[crowttore]

Being put through the mattress until they're at the brink of exhaustion and collapse on top of you.. crushing you beneath their weight.. lazily rolling their hips against yours while their cock softens and mumbling into your neck that you can survive a few more seconds

[lvmimis]

guy who is trying really hard not to be weird about you but failing miserably

[deltamel]

cock warming but they press a vibrator to your clit, making you cum over and over and over again until they end up cumming from the sensation of your muscles pulsing and spasming around them alone.

[neutralkink]

possessive doms having angry jealous missionary sex…..,,,, grabbing your face and forcing you to look at them….. looking back at them all lovestruck and them getting even more possessive because they want to be the only one to see you that way..,,,,…. aaaaughhshdhff

[bbworld00]

need to feel cock inside me + stretching my pussy to accommodate it + the head dragging along the inner walls of my pussy + pressing on the spot that feels best and throbbing + slowly moving out (usually what makes me squirt btw) + plunging back inside + bursting with fresh hot cum and filling me + and im ovulating

[romanticmasochisst]

I’ve noticed a pattern recently during my sexual encounters that’s basically just like. It’s so hot when I’m yapping it up with a guy telling him about my interests or my life and maybe we’re cuddling or sitting leaning on each other while I talk and he reaches his hand around to fondle my tits, pinching my nipples causing me to pause what I’m saying because fuck it feels sooo good. And then when his hand slips lower and he says “keep talking, what happened with (x)?” While he starts to slowly rub my clit and apply heavenly pressure and I’m just left stuttering and blushing and nearly drooling as I try to give him the answer he was promised. Maybe he’ll slow down to let me catch my bearings again, but as soon as I get back into it he just bears his hand down with even more pressure, rapidly rubbing my clit and maybe even fingering me while I moan and grab his shoulders and whimper and desperately try to talk. Idk. Just so fucking hot when they give me a command and they actively try to hinder my success with it hehehe