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flythesail

You should automatically get time off work until the light returns to your eyes and you feel like a real person again

it was crazy humid so i only got like 2,5 hours of sleep last night </3

#dear diary #atleast theres literally no customers at work today so i kinda get to chill

dozydawn

#jewellery

books0977

Portrait of Mlle. De Gillespie, “La Dame de Biarritz” (1912). Giovanni Boldini (Italian, 1842-1931). Oil on canvas.

This portrait is one of only four important commissions for the artist during 1912. While Boldini had initially conceived the portrait of Madame de Gillespie as a full-length composition, the final format was employed in other works after 1900. The portrayal of the sitter glancing to one side recalls the celebrated portrait of Cléo de Mérode. This, combined with her beauty and the striking cyclamen hue of her loose dress provide the same impact as many of the more elaborate compositions.

#art

papayajuan2019

batshit normal

creekfiend

in general I find that "why did someone behave this way" is almost always answered by "behaving otherwise was too difficult and frightening for them at the time," and then you have to dig into why that is. people behave in ways that feel 1. easy for them (do not require much thought or effort) 2. accessible to them (patterns that have worked many times before) and 3. safe for them (apparently predictable outcome)

this is true even for behavior that is absolutely horrific and totally unacceptable. which can be a tough thing to accept, I think.

risk-repeater

this job market is a fucking nightmare

inmyskin2002-deactivated2025082

being mutuals isn’t enough we need to eat breakfast in the garden together

ismaelguerrier-deactivated20210

Nightgown #1 - Pen version

(Pen on paper)

Instagram: ismael.guerrier.art

#art

valtsv

my problem is if i enjoy something enough i will be nitpicking. i Will have things to say about where and how it failed. out of nothing but love straight from my heart. unfortunately this often makes me indistinguishable from a hater who has never experienced joy or kindness. such is the amateur critic's burden.

my autism fixation meal rn is literally oatmeal which feels like some kind of omen abt the type of person i have become

#dear diary

sailermoon

having unwashed hair will have you believing shit like i can’t be saved

my manager is retiring after this summer and i lowkey think she's planning on handing the mantle over to me but i dont know how to tell her that im not planning on coming back (unless i get real desperate) after this season 😭

#dear diary #also i'd legit kms if i was made manager over this fucking place

update on my finger injury is that its healing well but i def have nerve damage so im gonna have to do rehab on it 👍

#dear diary #im not completely numb in the finger but my range of motion is somewhat limited

marxism-ex-silium

A lot of people have gotten too comfortable with the 'the person most likely to abuse or rape a woman is her immediate friends and family' statistic for my liking.

The female body is one that is seen as always open to some level of violation and assault. Femaleness alone is enough to make ones body vulnerable even when not compounded with other vectors of oppression (which naturally heighten and intensify this vulnerability to various extremes). This includes in public. And this includes by strangers.

Women are constantly scrutinised, ever piece of their body, clothing, grooming, display of emption etc. is seen as acceptable to comment on to try to mould it to the viewers in question preferences. and this scrutiny and entitlement DOES translate into assault and mal treatment in public by strangers. Women are groped on trains and buses, on busy streets and night clubs. In pubs and at museums. They are shoved into on the streets and knocked out of the way by busy men angry that any woman dare be in their path.

The world is, to put it simply, constantly attacking and violating the boundaries of women's bodies. This includes in public and by strangers.

And while the worst, most frequent, and extreme abuse is preformed by the people who have the highest access to and power over the woman in question (bosses, colleagues, boyfriends, fathers, friends etc.), the fact that the recognition of this in many circles had lead to so many people dismissing entirely WHY some women feel some level of discomfort in public places, why some women don't like going out alone as them 'giving in to fear-mongering' and being 'true-crimed brained' and not accurately reflecting 'the evidence/statistics' is an example of misogyny in and of itself.

To see all examples or conversations around the frequency of female bodily violation in public by strangers as inherently 'reactionary' means glazing over a key part of how patriarchy seeks to violated and subordinate women in their day to day lives.