THIS IS NOT A TEA BLOG.

anonymous roleplay discussion.

[rpc-coffee]

BUT YOU CAN STILL SUBMIT HERE IF YOU WANT. What can you submit?

productive rpc commentary

confessions

questions

advice seeking and giving

missed connections

positivity

poll requests

interest checks

What else do you need to know?

WHY? - anonymous discussion spaces are powerful. what if they could be good, too?

WHO? - everyone's anonymous - no aliases, discords, or site names, ever.

WHAT? - tea, venting, call outs, cancellations, and endorsements of prejudiced or abusive ideologies will not be posted here.

[rpc-coffee]

i haven't rped in a while but I do love when all our characters are just vibing and having fun. Very good, would recommend. As much as I like action plots and angst, it is also fun to have calm rps :)

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[rpc-coffee]

Do we vent at the coffee table?

The coffee poll went well enough that I think I can ask your opinion on something. Some of what's sent in errs on the side of venting - all still following the rules of anonymity and thankfully no one or no site is ever implicated so far. While this isn't a "positivity blog", I've been asking myself whether venting could be considered productive commentary or a confession, and whether or not it would change the tone of this blog to something more tea-adjacent.

Do we vent at the coffee table?

Venting about the rpc is okay, as long as it's not specific to a person/site.

Venting is something I'd rather not see here.

A more nuanced opinion is forthcoming in the comments or inbox.

Voting ended onDec 25, 2023

This poll will last for a week- the only other option is to make it last a single day. After about half a week I'll check this post and see what the majority vote is. Until then, a few asks in the inbox will sit tight.

[rpc-coffee]

i wish tumblr or hybrid buzzes were more popular. joining a discord feels like a commitment and it's always awkward when/if the site turns out to not be a good fit. please let us see previews and who the staff/other buzz participants are so we can find our next rp home *and* coexist in this hobby with people we don't vibe well with!

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[rpc-coffee]

i'd give anything for a vampire site. high fantasy, court intrigue, urban fantasy, sci fi, apocalypse, idc i'm tired of witch centric supernatural and fantasy sites

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[rpc-coffee]

it's time for a posture check, try to change your position if you haven't in a while. stay hydrated, make sure you've taken your meds and especially vitamin d or some time outside in the sun, this time of year! have a wonderful day ⛄️🤍

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[rpc-coffee]

i think it's really cute when rp friends match handles/urls or profile pics tbh. wish someone would do that with me someday :')

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[rpc-coffee]

I really want to get into rp again but I’m worried I got a ‘rep’ in the past for being a slow poster or flaking and I might not be given the chance to start over/might struggle to find people willing to plot and write with me now. What should I do? // every hobby especially rp will always have flakes. it's not a cardinal sin. just make sure to consistently communicate with your writing partners about your posting frequency and interest level

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[rpc-coffee]

how do poll requests work?

you can request one for a site interest check or anything else you can think of, and i'll put it up like this:

how do you take your coffee?

with cream & sugar

with sugar

with cream

nothing added

i don't drink coffee

Voting ended onDec 20, 2023

you can only vote once and it's completely anonymous. it'll close and show results in a week.

[rpc-coffee]

i'd love more niche sites! i want more niche sites, more passion projects, more creativity. i wish people weren't afraid to do all that, but i know the idea of putting all the work in just to shut the site down a few months later isn't ideal. i would join your passion project niche site, though. i'd join all of them. i'm even making my own! and you should, too!

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[rpc-coffee]

I really want to get into rp again but I’m worried I got a ‘rep’ in the past for being a slow poster or flaking and I might not be given the chance to start over/might struggle to find people willing to plot and write with me now. What should I do? // i'd recommend starting off with your best foot forward. if you feel bad about letting your writing partners down in the past, try to show that you've changed (assuming you have). the people you'll want to write with will give you a chance.

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[rpc-coffee]

i went through all this trouble to join a site, and now i don't even want to apply... smh

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[rpc-coffee]

i'd love to start a new site, but i'm afraid it'll be too niche in terms of worldbuilding...

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[rpc-coffee]

i'm frustrated that there aren't any active supernatural creatures sites out that i like

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[rpc-coffee]

I really want to get into rp again but I’m worried I got a ‘rep’ in the past for being a slow poster or flaking and I might not be given the chance to start over/might struggle to find people willing to plot and write with me now.

What should I do?

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[rpc-coffee]

to all my old rp friends who probably will never see this and haven’t opened tumblr since the summer of 2015: i miss you.

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[rpc-coffee]

It's frustrating when a group is otherwise wonderful, but the admins seem to constantly forget that not all of their members live in the US timezones. I understand that's where the majority of rpc live, but some consideration for the rest of us would be lovely too.

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