Do I really need a pinned post? Perhaps not but here it comes anyway.
Who am I?
Name: Alex. No, that’s not what is on my birth certificate, nor is it what I’m known as anywhere else but it’ll do for this platform.
Age: Closer to 50 than 40.
Gender: Trans woman (post-op). Started off male, started transitioning to female in my late 20s. GRS in 2013.
Are you a sissy: No. See above. If you refer to me as one I will laugh at or insult you before blocking you.
Orientation: I prefer women. I’m probably bi but childhood trauma means that it is unlikely that I will ever become sexually involved with men.
What am I in to?
Quite a lot. Primarily bondage, objectification and dehumanisation but this blog contains a wide range of things fetishes and kinks as well as items which may be considered vanilla.
What aren’t I in to?
Anything underaged (not that this should need to be said) or role playing as underaged. Blood. Edging. Financial domination. Needles. Scat. Snuff.
Orgasms
No one is denying me but since I have a low sex drive I don’t feel the need to play with myself particularly often. For personal interest I’m going to see if I can keep track of how many I have in 2025. The impetus for doing this is this post about having a cum budget for the year. I suspect a figure I’ll end up somewhere around an average of 2 a month but having never counted before I don’t actually know.
2025 count:
#1 - Feb 22nd
#2 - Mar 15th
#3 - Apr 13th
#4 - Apr 19th
#5 - May 1st
#6 - June 15th
#7 - June 27th
#8 - August 20th
#9 - October 19th














