should work for either f/o(s) or s/i(s) to answer! (please ignore weird grammar to include the plural 'partners'). some questions may be kind of similar but I felt like they were different enough to include.
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💋 - How do you let your partner(s) know you're in the mood? How do they communicate it to you?
🍒 - What is your favourite physical feature of your partner(s)? What's their favourite physical feature of yours? (does not have to be anything considered typically sexy)
🍓 - What's the funniest or most embarrassing thing that's happened during sex?
🦂 - Has the mood ever been totally killed midway through? What happened?
🪵 - What time of day are you most sexually active? Is there a reason you prefer that time of day? Does it match your partner(s)preferences, or do you have to come up with compromise somewhere?
‼️ - Has anyone ever walked in or interrupted you? What happened? Or have you ever had sex in a situation that risked being interrupted?
🌶️ - Is there anything your partner(s) does that will always get you flustered, guaranteed? Do they know it has this effect on you, or is it something accidental that leaves you needing them? What about the other way around, what gets them flustered every time?
🪭 - What is the sexiest outfit your partner(s) wears? Do they know how you feel about it? Have they told you any of your outfits frequently turn them on (or have you noticed their behaviour change when you wear certain things)?
🪩 - What are your favourite positions? What are your partner(s) favourites? Do either of you have reasons for your choices?
🏹 - How does your partner(s) satisfy you in ways no one else has before?
🥀 - What makes your partner(s) utterly crumble, what are their weak spots? What are yours?
♥️ - What was your absolute favourite sexual experience with your partner(s), and why? What about theirs with you?
🎶 - Are there any particular ways you like the bedroom to be set up? Your lighting preferences, do you like there to be sound (music, ambience, etc) in the background while you have sex? Do any of your preferences contradict your partner(s), and how do you compromise on it?
🎻 - How vocal are you and your partner(s)? Is there anything specific that makes you louder, or quieter, than usual?
🥥 - Your body counts? And how much does it matter to you and your partner(s)?
🌰 - What are your sex drives like? Are you similar in how often & when you want sex?
🥊 - Do you and your partner(s) ever have sex while in arguments/fights? And is make-up sex common for you both?
🍫 - How outwardly emotional are you and your partner(s) during sex? Do either of you cry often? Do you frequently say 'I love you' during sex?
💭 - When your partner(s) isn't around, what makes you feel like touching yourself? Are there any ways you connect with them while they're not around? Photos, their clothes, other belongings of theirs... how do you use them? And do you tell them about it later?
🍪 - On a scale of vanilla to kinky, where do you and your partner(s) sit?
📜 - Are there any kinks your partner(s) has that you don't, but you'd be willing to try? Is your partner(s) willing to try any of your kinks that they don't share? If you've already tried them, are there any you're now into because of them?
🧯 - Are you more dominant, submissive, or somewhere in between? What about your partner(s)? And how does that dynamic usually play out between you? What are your favourite parts of the dynamic?
🖍️ - Do you and your partner(s) use any toys or gear during sex? How often?
🎞️ - How do you and your partner(s) feel about porn? Audio, visual, something else, or none at all? Have you ever considered making your own?
🍎 - Praise or degradation (or a mix of both)?
🥠 - Orgasm denial & edging, or overstimulation & making them cum so many times they can't think anymore?
🍷 - Have you or your partner(s) ever considered bringing someone else into the bedroom? How specific was the consideration (did you know who you wanted involved, or have any specific scenarios in mind)?
🚩 - What would you say is the kinkiest thing you've done with your partner(s)? Or what are you yet to try with them, but would like to?
🧨 - If you have a safeword, what made you choose that word specifically?
🤎 - How does aftercare look for you? What are your partner(s) favourite ways to be looked after, and what are yours?
⏳ - Are you and your partner(s) satisfied with your sex life? What, if anything, would you both change about it if no other factors limited the change?
