They tell you–
When a person loves you or you want to be love by someone, you don’t have to change yourself. If they really love you, they will accept you for who you are.
Let me tell you something.
It’s a lie.
You will always have to change yourself.
There will always be something to change.
Your attitude, the way you speaks, your manners, your heart.
Turn yourself to someone better inside.
No people can tolerate bad attitude or ugly heart,
Believe me.
So if you want to gain love, change yourself. And let the changes come from deep within.
Your heart.
May Allah give us strength to change ourselves to be a better muslim.