Child of the Skye

The life of a young flower child trying to make it through this world

[rybear91]

Transition has gone a long way and I'm almost two years in! <3

[nevermindtheb0ll0cks]

[chachibetch-deactivated20141214]

Heavy…. heavy,

[phoenixresurrected]

Woah

[icecream-noodle]

But also: Pension, Elderly supplement and assistance for disability, retirement pension. These things do also matter to them and are under threat in Australia. The same people who threaten these also threaten youth here.

[rybear91]

And what if I live to be 100? that's 35 years, more than half your life at that point. The elderly have as much right to a comfortable life in the present and future as does everyone.

[sandandglass]

Source

[factoseintolerance]

Just…. there are no words.  What?

[rybear91]

If not for the message before I was thinking it was a joke....

[rybear91]

Everyone hide, Isis is literally going to kill all 300 million Americans!

[rybear91]

After a week of working out I'm feeling little better. My mind is a little clearing and body a little cleaner. I'm getting back into my rhythm and most of all I'm dam sexy!

[rybear91]

Monday was the start of a new healthy me. I have a long way to go. Today I’m starting to workout. I am making it a morning ritual for me to wake up and exercise. No matter how good or bad I feel or how the weather is, knowing I did one thing for myself puts a smile on my face. I have faced so much in my life, being bullied for years on end. Through all of it training for and racing triathlons has saved me. I’ve struggled a lot with mental illness since coming out as transgender. For me getting back into the routine of working out is the one thing I can start doing to for myself. My current goal is to run a 5K at the Thanksgiving day race in my town I also plan on running a 10K next year as well before I have gender confirmation surgery. I need this for myself to finally have a sense of self worth once more. I have faced severe mental illness but I will rise above, do the best I can and then some!

[niknak79]

[rybear91]

I'm terrified

[mtfconfessions]

7296) I still wish my friends never turned on me after I came out and was subsequently hospitalized after an aborted suicide attempt. I dealt with their abuse all of last year and it was the most agonizing and painful experience of my life.

[rybear91]

The feels dude

[hollowoutmybody]

Amnesty International just got real.

[rybear91]

I was bored waiting for my friend to get off the train....and dammit I gotta get my eyebrows done!

[rybear91]

Can trans guys please stop posting in various trans girl tags unless it is completely relevant?

[rybear91]

I'm feeling pretty today :3

[lvcidrabbit]

I think the saddest people always try their hardest to make people happy, because they know what it’s like to feel absolutely worthless and they don’t want anyone else to feel like that.

Robin Williams (via obvicado)

[lugubrious-bitxh]

Uh huh huh huh

[straightwhiteboystexting]

[rybear91]

largeandlovely:

the method to the madness

At least he knew what he was doing

[hermionegranger]

Real Time with Bill Maher: 6.6.14 — Anthony Weiner, Jim Geraghety, Nicolle Wallace

[rybear91]

And that is why I will never vote for those fascists again. The republican party lead by the fascist tea party is a hateful, cissexist, homophobic, racist party. They HATE everything this country stands for. We do not need them again!

[lavenderprivilege]

Look, I fixed it.

[4ever-fiending-for-the-sunshine]

More like fuck right off. Being a feminist, and enjoying BDSM can be done together! ACTUAL BDSM CAN BE QUITE A LOVING EXPERIENCE DONE RIGHT. And by telling women that they’re brainwashed or being abused because they as FELLOW WOMEN enjoy participating in BDSM is NOT being a feminist. Let them do whatever the fuck they want, its their fucking right! They enjoy it, they FUCKING WANT IT. and if they don’t? THEN IT DOESN’T FUCKING HAPPEN YOU, HYPOCRITICAL NIPPLEDICK. NOT TO MENTION WOMEN CAN BE THE “ABUSERS” TOO SO FUCKING STOP.

[cunicular]

The basis of BDSM is violence. BDSM is built around violence. Violence isn’t love. You shouldn’t hurt the people you love, no matter how much they ‘consent’ to it. Consent is not the be all end all of sexual violence. As hello-missmayhem has said, “you can’t fantasize about pedophilia, play-act pedophilia, and then get mad when people call you a pedophile. Same applies to all bdsm. I don’t care if it’s consensual. People can consent to all sorts of things. One guy literally consented to be killed, cooked, and eaten. that doesn’t make it right, or okay, or free them from criticism. and it didn’t save the cannibal from prison. Maybe because consent is NOT the end-all-be-all of the kink conversation, or any conversation. If I consent to let you shoot me in the face, it’s still murder. If a woman consents to let a man abuse her, it’s still abuse…. what you don’t seem to understand is that your “kinks” don’t just stay in your bedroom, and they don’t only affect you. Actual women are actually being robbed of justice because of your kinks. You’re prioritizing the way you have orgasms over justice for rape victims.”

Maybe get an understanding of socialization and conditioning before you start defending things. Kinks aren’t innate. They are socialized into us. Women are not born with the innate want to be hit, subjugated and humiliated. We are groomed into wanting that by a patriarchal society.

Also, female doms are still an issue. And male subs are too.

Normalizing violence against women is NOT a feminist act. You don’t just claim to be a feminist. It has to be reflected in what you do. Otherwise, any misogynist can (and they do) claim to be feminists and gain the trust of women, only for those women to be mistreated.

Love, a woman who used to be involved in violent sex and started to critically analyze her behavior and unlearn the things that ultimately (in the long run) didn’t help me and made me feel worse.

[catgirlconspiracy]

"Only have boring sex and don’t try to get kinky in the bedroom. It is linked to systematic oppression and killing feminists. Penis in the vagina and that is it!"

[rybear91]

As a woman I love kinky sex! I love being tied down, spanked, whipped, etc. I love being dominated, it is the sexiest thing I can think of. I love it because I trust my dom/me. I love feeling connected with them and to put it all on the line and to be pushed as far as I can and then some. BDSM is all about trust and consent. If the scene goes too far and anyone is too uncomfortable then it is STOPPED! We do not push each other way beyond what we can handle. Before one can consider having kinky sex limits need to be placed, what can and can't be pushed, a safe word to use just in case a hard limit is reached and most importantly aftercare is a must! We must diligently care for ourselves and if we don't then it can easily turn abusive. Plus it is hot and I know at the end of it all they'll be sweet as can be, hold me gently and tell me how awesome and sexy I am!