Saddleupshawty

I'm Chelsea. Twenty Five. Horse lover. CT to MO to back to CT. Western, Hunter/ Jumper, Dressage. Healthy and Happy.

[just-shower-thoughts]

You spend your childhood trying to get your own bedroom and you spend your adulthood trying to find someone to share it with

[sophie531896273240810891]

let me relax……………will comment later…………………..

[xx-daggerfemme-xx]

[saddleupshawty]

Haven't been on here in a while and for some reason I feel the need to open up a little. I've been single for the past like 4 years, maybe a little less. I've dated a lot, I've found a lot I don't like and a lot I do. I have also found out a lot about me and found a lot more about me to love. I may be that crazy horse girl, but I have come to terms with that and if a guy can't handle that. They aren't the guy for me. I know I'm obsessed with horses which are my hobby as well as my job, I love dancing, I love running, and I push myself to be better every day. I know I have to or I'll sulk around when I have time, but who am I kidding I don't have much extra time. If I make time for someone, I care. If I make food for someone, I care. If I push off shopping or cleaning to hang out with someone, I care. I like that I've been single this long to really have to look for what I want and not settle. I'm happy with my life as it is and when I find someone to make it better, then I know it's right.

[sprousetwinsblog]

[catchymemes]

[64-bitsims]

[justbadpuns]

I wrote a book about a marching band. It had a lot of cymbalism behind it.

[17blcak]

Reblog if I can go on your page and write stupid things in your ask box whenever I'd like to.

[masterwhy42]

Feel free. There is a good chance I Don’t have anything better to do.

[luvkaylz]

Please?

[waywardavenger]

I would genuinely love this

[wolfjillyjill-deactivated202101]

Have fun. I’m a diagnosed moron, so I love shit like that.

[slow-pokess]

p l e a s e

[fancyeliza-deactivated20200804]

bisexual people aren’t more likely to cheat in relationships but we are more likely to cheat at cards, while lesbians are most likely to cheat at jenga, and genderqueer people often cheat at mario kart

[moulinluge]

how the fuck do you cheat at jenga

[fancyeliza-deactivated20200804]

ask a lesbian

[triplepoints]

[tempusfuckingfugit-deactivated2]

this is never not funny

[frognonbinary-deactivated202412]

[feshpince-deactivated20201109]

[sevenate]

Ah! Hes the same guy who provides women selfies that they could use if they feel threatened!

[sevenate]

[uvm-si-mba]

[adventurer-c]

The most dangerous phrase in the language is, “we’ve always done it this way.”

[pluginduck]

“Come on, let’s mix it up!” The heart surgeon says.

“B-but we’ve always done it this way!” The other replies, “this is how you replace a heart valve.”

“That’s the most dangerous phrase in the human language!” The first surgeon replies haughtily as he inputs a fruit loop into the patient’s heart. “This will be his valve. He will be a fruit loop in a world of Cheerios.”

[lokicolouredglasses]

(taken from this post on the experiments of Harry Harlow)

This is serious business, because this is a large part of how sexism, racism, homophobia, rape culture, ethnocentrism, etc. continue to happen.

[the-attagirl]

The reason we do heart surgeries the way we do is not “because that’s what we’ve always done.”  It’s because that’s how year of scientific research says will give the best results.  One of the best uses of the scientific method is to test common practice, and either eliminate it or give it legitimacy. Don’t do things because “that’s what we’ve always done,” do them because that is what evidence and research say we should do.

[bidootdoot-deactivated20190601]

Saying “we’ve always done it this way” justifying maintaining a harmful societal norm is dangerous. We can do better.

[tempest-caller]

I honestly can’t believe someone saw a post about how it’s bad to justify bigotry or other hardships with “that’s the way it is/has always been/etc” and decided to debunk that with an example of heart surgery as if that’s in any way comparable or the point of this post. 🙄

But honestly, even if the post was talking about things like that? If science found a better way to do heart surgery, and after tons of study and research it was undeniably the best way to do it, and surgeons said “Nah, we have always done it our way so we are going to keep doing it our way; who cares what the science says” that would be a problem.

[aerospace-agenda]

…If we did surgery “the way we’ve always done it”, it’d be being done in a small theater complete with live audience, with sawdust on the floor, no, or extremely addictive, anesthetic, unwashed hands, and unsterilized tools.

Probably other stuff, too, that’s just stuff formalized in (western) medicine from the past hundred-fifty years, give or take, off the top of my head. Pretty much any changes to that got pushback from the establishment from what I’m aware, specifically because guess what way things had always been done…!

Surgery is a spectacularly poor example to use to try and disprove that “the way we’ve always done it” thing.

[1337n00b-deactivated20210119]

also did that commenter imply that it’s common practise to put cheerios in people’s hearts

[catchymemes]

Life hacks

[guy]

ancient relics

[teaboot]

Kid grabbing my arm in the store: How old are you?

Me: Five hundred and twelve. I watched the Hindenburg burn

Him: Did you see the titanic sink?

Me: No, it was in the middle of the ocean

[macktheiceman]

Actually me to children

[feminismandmedia]

[offensivegan-deactivated2018111]

I love how the ‘LADIES PICTURE THIS’ implies that men are extinct and that’s why everything works now

[anxietyproblem]

[thegoodvybe]

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