Sexploratorium

[dominantlife]

Updated Library For Kinksters

I completed some major changes to the Library For Kinksters. Here is the update…

Aftercare

Aftercare 101

Aftercare For Dominants

Coping With Emotional Subdrop

Dom Drop

How To Make A Sub Drop Kit

Online Aftercare

sub/Dom Space, sub/Dom Drop and Aftercare

Subdrop and Aftercare

Subspace and Aftercare

Consent

Consent & BDSM

Guide to Consent

Doms, Daddies & Masters

7 Fundamental Characteristics of A Daddy Dom

12 Characteristics Of An Ideal Submissive

25 Things Daddies Should Do For Their Littles

30 Rules For A Modern Gentleman

45 Things A Girl Wants, But Won’t Ask For

50 Rules for Daddies

100 Sweet Things You Can Do For Your Princess

101 Things To Do To Make Your Slave Feel Owned (loved)

Alternative Names For “Daddy”

Alternative Domme Titles

Aspects Of Control

Asserting Ownership - Rules

Daddy Up!

Defining A Daddy Dom

Dominants Need Training Also

Fun Tasks Daddies Can Give Their Littles

Help For New Doms

How (and Why) To Go Down On Your Submissive

How To Be A Good Dominant

How to Find a Submissive

Knowing when to be a Dom and when to be her Man

New to DDLG - A Daddy Dom

Observations On Doms By A Submissive

So you want to be a Dom?

So Your Girlfriend Wants You To Dominate her

Some Little Rules All Daddies Should Know

The Dom Commandments

Things for Daddies to Keep in Mind

What Being A Dom Is About - A Submissive’s Perspective

What does the title Daddy mean?

What is a Daddy Dom?

What is a Daddy Dom Mentor?

What It Means To Be A Dominant

What Makes A Good Dominant

Littles, Subs & Slaves

6 Questions Every Submissive Needs To Ask Her Potential Dominant

7 Common Types of Submissives

10 Tips For Living With A Sadist

10 Things A Dominant Needs From A Submissive

11 Red Flags Of An Abusive Dominant

26 Baby Girl Jobs

50 Things You Can Do For Your Daddy

A Bottom’s Responsibility

A Dominant’s Advice To His Submissive

A Man Who Knows You…

A Good Dom vs. A Bad Dom

Acid Test For Subs

Ask A Million And One Questions

Attraction to DD/lg: A Little’s Perspective

Baby girl or little? A brief introduction

Care and feeding of Daddies

Characteristics Of A Good Daddy

Coaxing The Daddy Dom Out Of Your Partner

Feminist Submissive

Finding Your Dominant

Good Rules For Middles and Littles To Live By

Guide For Young Newbie Sub Girls

How a Dom Behaves Shows How He Will Behave Towards You.

“How do I find Daddy?” A guide to help you safely find the Daddy you’re looking for.

How Does A Submissive Ask for Something from Their Dominant?

How To Find A Dom

How to Take Proper Care of Your Dom

I Solemnly Swear I Will Not Do This To Daddy

Novice Submissives

Physical abuse of littles - it is never OK

Signs Of A Fake ‘Dominant’

Stuff no one tells you about submission, until the spreader bar is on and you are trapped.

Submissives, Learning to Trust Your Instincts

Submissive Pride

Submissive Traits - Intelligence

Things My Dream Daddy Would Say To Me

What is a Little?

When newbie subs, with asinine “doms,” need to run away.

Why I call him Daddy

Your Rights As A Submissive

Long Distance Relationships

10 Ways To Survive A Long Distance Relationship

Getting The Most Out Of A Long Distance Relationship

How To Make Long Distance Relationships Work

Long Distance Relationships - Tools To Cope

Long Distance Relationships (LDR) Contemplation: Sticking with plans

The Long Distance D/s Relationship

Mental Health

BDSM practitioners ‘healthier and less neurotic’ than ‘vanilla’ peers

Body image & BDSM

How to Get Over Feeling Sad

Is BDSM normal?

Love your Vulva – a self-esteem guide to your sensitive bits!

Managing bipolar disorder in a D/S relationship

Meditation And Mindfulness

On Cutting

Steps For Letting Go of Painful Memories

Things to Do When You’re Anxious, Scared, or Just Need a Distraction

Tips for Recovering from Codependency

What Are Anxiety Disorders? (Infographic)

Why Do I Feel Unloveable?

Relationships

10 Habits of Happy Couples

10 Top Communication Mistakes

10 Types of Emotional Manipulators

12 Relationship Truths We Often Forget

50 Best Ways To Say “I Love You”

BDSM Breakups: All Good Things Must Come to an End

BDSM: Control Goes Both Ways

Collars and Collaring - A Personal Perspective

Communication Is Key

Concept Daddy Dom/Little Girl Relationships

Daddy Doms and their little girls

Daddy Doms, Baby Girls, Little Boys And More

Date Night In A Jar

DD/lg In Public

D/s and Domestication

Factors That Make A Relationship

Finding Love When You Least Expect It

Finding Others with Common (Adult) Interests

How To Be Present In Your Relationships

How To Build A Healthy Relationship

How To Get What You Want In A Relationship

How To Know When You’ve Found “The One”

How To Take Your Relationship To The Next Level

Importance Of Confidence In RelationshipsImportance Of Trust In A Relationship

Key Ingredients of a Happy and Healthy Relationship

Needy Girls Are Daddy Dom Bait

Relationship Advice To Follow, And What To Ignore

Searching for a D/s partner?

Self-Fulfilling Prophecies In Relationships

Stop Arguments Before They Start

The Rewards of a Submissive

Types Of Relationship Insecurity

Well-Balanced Power Exchange Relationship

What Is Real Love?

When He Doesn’t Call

Why Love Makes A Night Of Kink Even Better

Safety

Another life ruined because of the morality police

Bondage Basic Safety: Crops, Paddles & Bondage!

Kinks, Risks, How To And Why Sometimes You Shouldn’t

Limits in BDSM

What is Emotional Abuse?

Self Improvement

10 Tips for Creating a Happier Life

10 Steps To Self Care

10 Ways To Be Happy

10 Truths To Live By

Guaranteed Ways To Be More Attractive

How to be Yourself

How To Deal With Your Enemies

How To Ignore Haters

How to Recognize a Toxic Friend

How to Stop Being a People Pleaser

Slut Shaming Explained

Tips for Healing a Broken Heart

What are the Signs of a Jealous Friend?

Sex

50 Cunnilingus Tips from Women

Basics of Breath Play

D/s or Kinky Sex?

Fetishes Explained

How To Make A Girl Squirt

How To Tell Your Son About Sex

Intersection of BDSM and Queer Heterosexuality

Sensual Biting

Sex: Myths & Stereotypes

Sex: Practical Details

Sex: Pregnancy and Birth Control

So You Want To Try Anal? A Practical Guide For Women

Squirting Educational Video

Squirting Notes

Toys

Advice on Dildos and Buttplugs

BDSM on a budget

Bondage Rope: How To Choose Yours (And More)

Training

10 Considerations for Inexperienced Subs

30 Things You Can Do For Your Human Kitten

40 Very Important DD/lg Facts

Age Play: A Short Guide

BDSM for Beginners: Safe and Affordable Play

DEFINED: SSC (Safe, Sane & Consensual) & RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink)

Etiquette in BDSM Part 1

Etiquette in BDSM Part 2

Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 1 - Beginnings

Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 2 - The Dominant Mind

Glossary of BDSM Terms

Guide To Blood Play

Guide To Bruising

Guide To Talking Dirty

Guide To Wax Play

How Do I Get Started In BDSM?

How to Make a Blanket Fort/Cuddle Nest

How To Make A Comfort Box

Introduction To BDSM

Newbie’s Guide To Vaginal Fisting

Punishments in BDSM Relationships

Red Flags For Online BDSM Relationships

Some Thoughts On Rules

The Leash Has Two Ends - Responsibility

The Need For Rules and Discipline

Topping from the bottom

[kamikazesoundsociety]

[kamikazesoundsociety]

We have always been here. 

Vintage MLM love photography post

Vintage WLW love photography post

Please add more if you have them <3 

[reddietrashmouth]

❤️

[bigyoikes]

Pictures from back in the gay

[thefingerfuckingfemalefury]

GAYMAZING :D

[samdolan]

[samdolan]

She has been a follower for a few years now and I have enjoyed seeing her beautiful body multiple times. This time though, she felt like sharing her beautiful ass with more people to see. She is naughty that way. I know this was a sun burn, but it still makes me think about how it would look like to have this cute sexy butt on my lap as I give her the spanking naughty girls like her deserve and crave.

[samdolan]

Incest (why is it a taboo?)

If you have been following me for sometime, you might already know that when it comes to sex, I have very few inhibitions or limits. I am not going to talk about what my limits are here, but I wanted to talk about something that is a limit, a taboo and/or something unquestionable nor imaginable to some, yet turns other people on like no other.

So… Why would it be a turn on to fuck your dad, mom, sister and/or brother?

Well, why wouldn’t it? they are two human being, with minds, bodies and desires just like any two other people.

Maybe it’s the domination.. maybe you want to feel more dominant by watching your mom spreading her legs and begging for you to fuck her.

Maybe it’s the submission.. and you want to feel more submissive by being daddy’s girl and getting on your knees and rubbing his cock against your face.

Maybe you just want to be naughty and dirty, and fuck your brother or sister in one of those family meetings then go out and have dinner with a big smile that no one knows what’s behind it.

Maybe you just want to take the closeness you feel towards a family member a step further and get physical.

Or maybe you are just so horny and want to fuck the first person you have your eyes on.

(I don’t mean to exclude other combinations and/or reasons.. just giving examples)

“But they are family, for god’s sake!” – I can hear it in your head already :) yeah, maybe being a taboo is making it even more appealing! ;)

“But that’s just sick!” – says who? Is there a respected study that classifies it as a disorder?

“But that's harassment!” – Seriously?! You can’t make a difference between child molesting and rape on one hand and sex between two consenting grown ups on the other hand?

“But it’s against the law!” – Not everywhere ;) And anyway, we make the law! law doesn’t make us. Remember how law treated people from different sexual orientation or different ethnicity years ago?

“But it’s not normal!” – and what exactly is normal? Is it what the majority does? Is it what feels right? Is it what the pope says is right? Is it what mommy and daddy taught you?

Just for your information, In the middle-east, sleeping with and getting married to cousins is “normal” and till a couple decades ago, it was favored over strangers. In the western world, that’s incest (some might be saying now .. well, kind of) and against the law to get married to your cousin too. So are the millions in the west “normal” ? or the millions in the “east”? And if it’s just something cultural like many other things… then what’s the big deal?

“But it will harm their relationship!” – Who are you to decide? Would you want me to tell what to do with your boyfriend/girlfriend? Do what you want and let people do what they want without framing, judging or stereotyping them.

“But it’s against religion!” – Oh, please!!! :D

“But no one does that!” – because you haven’t seen someone who does? Well, how many people have you seen masturbating? How many thoughts did you have, sexual or not, and no one knows about? ;)

“But still, even if it happens it’s something not common!” – So we need to judge what’s good and what’s not based on the frequency of it happening? and what is the satisfying ratio for you then? Studies say that the percentage of gay people in any given society range between 5% and 10%. Should we say they are good or bad? is 3% bad then? is 15% good?

“But I can’t picture it!” – It’s ok, I respect that. I am not asking you to fuck your mom or dad. I just wanted to say that we should be open and accept the fact that other people can have different choices and that doesn’t make them bad, sick or disgusting.

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Would like to hear from you all. Feedback, reflections, hate ( It doesn’t hurt, assholes are everywhere anyway! ) or whatever :)

[samdolan]

Why I created "Sexploration"

Why did I create this blog?

Sex is something that is always undermined, something that people don’t openly talk about, something that men brag about and women are called sluts for. I’d like to change those norms.

Lots of people have deep fantasies and desires that you are afraid of saying them out loud even to themselves because of social pressure. I wanted to show these people that they are not alone, a lot have these fantasies and tastes out there as well!

I have a rather high sex drive and need lots of sex, yet at the same time i don’t prefer one night stands. So most of the time I would prefer to masturbate rather than fucking a stranger. Yet again, if I am masturbating i prefer to share it with someone even virtually to make it feel better.

I travel a lot because of work and even though this is great, the down side is that it’s almost impossible to be in a long-term relationships. so sometimes I end up in places with no friends and till I make friends I would prefer to get my sexual tension out virtually rather than just picking up any girl (I admit though that sometimes I do that)

I am also a trainer on sexual health. I teach people how to love themselves and love others.

I love people, love meeting them in general. I love exploring the sexual sides of them, sharing fantasies and maybe acting them virtually if I feel like it with the person I am talking to.

Finally, I am an exhibitionist at heart. I love showing my body and if I am not worried about my work, I would have showed much more of myself.

How to get in touch with me?

You can contact me here.

I trust that you will respect the fact that I protect my own privacy as I see fit. Yet still I am quite a tease and an exhibitionist.. so I can’t fight the temptation to post a couple pictures of myself here. I am mentioning this upfront to let you know that I share as much as I feel comfortable about. I have a real life too and no matter how tempting it can be, I want to keep it separate from this blog as much as I see fit. That’s the compromise that I decided to make to be able to openly share all my fantasies yet still make sure this won’t harm my professional life for example (sensitive job, etc.)

If you are more into my pictures, don’t feel shy either and click to check them.

Tell me what do you think about the blog, please?

[samdolan]

Why I created "Sexploration"

Why did I create this blog?

Sex is something that is always undermined, something that people don’t openly talk about, something that men brag about and women are called sluts for. I’d like to change those norms.

Lots of people have deep fantasies and desires that you are afraid of saying them out loud even to themselves because of social pressure. I wanted to show these people that they are not alone, a lot have these fantasies and tastes out there as well!

I have a rather high sex drive and need lots of sex, yet at the same time i don’t prefer one night stands. So most of the time I would prefer to masturbate rather than fucking a stranger. Yet again, if I am masturbating i prefer to share it with someone even virtually to make it feel better.

I travel a lot because of work and even though this is great, the down side is that it’s almost impossible to be in a long-term relationships. so sometimes I end up in places with no friends and till I make friends I would prefer to get my sexual tension out virtually rather than just picking up any girl (I admit though that sometimes I do that)

I am also a trainer on sexual health. I teach people how to love themselves and love others.

I love people, love meeting them in general. I love exploring the sexual sides of them, sharing fantasies and maybe acting them virtually if I feel like it with the person I am talking to.

Finally, I am an exhibitionist at heart. I love showing my body and if I am not worried about my work, I would have showed much more of myself.

How to get in touch with me?

You can contact me here.

I trust that you will respect the fact that I protect my own privacy as I see fit. Yet still I am quite a tease and an exhibitionist.. so I can’t fight the temptation to post a couple pictures of myself here. I am mentioning this upfront to let you know that I share as much as I feel comfortable about. I have a real life too and no matter how tempting it can be, I want to keep it separate from this blog as much as I see fit. That’s the compromise that I decided to make to be able to openly share all my fantasies yet still make sure this won’t harm my professional life for example (sensitive job, etc.)

If you are more into my pictures, don’t feel shy either and click to check them.

Tell me what do you think about the blog, please?

[avaadore1992-deactivated2016090]

The Beginning

               I did not become a cuckold overnight, but I think there was a clear moment when it became official.  Ava and I had been dating long enough to begin exploring things together.  We were very open about fantasies and gradually I introduced her into some things I had encountered.  I would say I was more experienced in the world of kink, but she was ready to catch up! While I had thought about cuckolding already, I was slow to tell her all of my desires.  So, my first step was opening her up to a MMF threesome and gradually admitting my fantasies further.  We eventually discussed that I would enjoy her making me watch, tying me up, etc. After a few months of talking through things and deciding we both wanted to try this out we began the search.  She is very picky, and she should be, so there were countless guys that did not make it past a first email.  Eventually we got an email from someone she already knew. I had never met him, but she knew him from around town, so she decided we should pursue him as an option.  He responded to our ad for mmf fun and was fully aware of what we were into, but as things got more real he started to back down.  I understood. This was not something we had done either, so the thought of actually being there with another man did make me anxious.  This is where I think I went from a man that likes sharing his wife in a swinger way, to being a cuckold.  She texted him here and there over a few weeks, and eventually she let me know he wanted to be with her alone the first time.  At first I thought no way, but then the thought of it finally happening, being this close, took over.  I got turned on thinking about her being with another man, even if I was not present.  

Finally, a time presented itself.  I had to travel for some business, so she was home alone.  I’ll never forget texting her as I rode out of town. There was a sense of excitement and a sense of disbelief.  She claimed it was going to happen, that he was planning to see her that evening.  As I got closer to my destination the texts got more serious.  Suddenly, he was asking her about rules.  He asked if kissing was alright, and I told her it would be better to leave that part out. She sent me screenshots of some of the texting, and it became even more real.  They had set a time, and she was going to text him to come over.  I arrived at my hotel and waited for her to respond.  Her answers became shorter and shorter as the night went on.  I asked if he was on the way and she responded, “Just texted him.” In my mind I was still safe, it was not real.  Another man was not actually coming to fuck her right?

Her responses started taking longer to come.  My mind wondered if she was already with him.  Then she would send a short text, but nothing about if he was on the way or there.  We chatted back and forth, asking if she was drinking to loosen her nerves, asking if she was ready, etc.  Then she sent me her texts she had with him…”Hey I’m ready,” she tells him.  He says, “What’s your address?”  And there it was…  She sent him our actual address.  It suddenly took a turn into more reality and less doubt.  His response was simply, “be there soon.”  I texted her trying to get more updates, but she must have been busy. The last text she sent was “I love you.” It was nice to read, but my mind was going wild and my cock was throbbing from the anticipation.  I cannot remember, but it must have been an hour before I heard back.

“I did it omg”.  My stomach dropped.  My cock pulsed.  A million thoughts rushed through my head.  “Is he gone???,” I asked.  “No he hasn’t cum yet.”  I thought if he had left I could calm down some, but to hear he was still there and not even finished just made my whole body shake.  I had so many emotions.  Jealousy, fear, arousal, excitement, nervousness…  Was he better than me?  Did they kiss?  Did she suck him?  Is he going to fuck her more?  What if she likes this so much she does it more without telling me?  I could go on and on.  I asked her how it was and she seemed to enjoy it more than she thought she would.  I still could not believe what was happening.  I asked for pics, but she told me she had not taken any and she was smoking.  I asked if she was doing more and she said yes.  Then I asked if he made her cum, and another yes.  I was jealous.  I was practically ready to cum.  Then I did not hear back from her for a while.  I wondered what she was up to.  Was this even real?  She could easily have just pretended, even if she did “show” me the texts with him.  There was a bit of comfort in thinking it was all just a story made up to turn me on.

Then out of nowhere, with no warning, came the pic…HER face…HER tits…and another man’s cum dripping down HER collarbone!!! I think I felt 100 emotions at once.  My stomach dropped, heart beat a thousand beats a minute, cock pulsed, precum dripped out.  Then she asked if I wanted her to do more.  I asked if she wanted to and she said maybe.  Then she went on to tell me details.  How she told him to cum on her chest.  How she didn’t get to suck him much, but she wanted to show him how good she was next time.

I asked her to tell me what happened first.  She told me how he came in and first started to kiss her, but she stopped him.  I felt a bit of relief, but was aroused that they did kiss.  (This was the only time that was a rule.  Since then I have come to desire her to kiss her lovers.  It makes me all the more jealous.)  She told me they went to the bedroom and he got on top of her, pulling her shirt off, then her bra, and then grabbed her tits. Then they took their clothes off and she started sucking his cock.  He was laying down while she went down on him.  She told me she could not take the his entire cock and she was starting to get wet then.  So, she got a condom and pushed his cock inside her.  She said it felt deep and slid right in, that it hurt a little bit but in a good way.  She went slowly at first, moaning, telling him how deep he was.  Then she turned around and rode him reverse cowgirl while he grabbed her ass.  Another man was in MY bed, grabbing MY girlfriend’s ass, shoving his cock deep inside her wet pussy!  Next, he was on top of her and she told the angle was perfect for his length.  She told me he went very hard and it felt “Sooo good.”  I was dying. My cock would have exploded with just a touch.

She went on, telling me how he fucked her like that for a while and then bent her over and fucked her rough and deep.  After that she got back on top and orgasmed.  I love making her orgasm, and now someone else was in my bed watching her face as she moaned with pleasure!  Then he got back on top and fucked her for a very long time.  She said he was getting worn out so they took a break. Apparently that was when she sent the first text that she had done it.

Then she said she went back in and rode him for a while.  This must have been when she stopped texting again.  She said he could tell that she was tired, so he took control, pushing her over the edge of our bed and slamming into her. After some time she told him she wanted him to cum on her chest, so he did, shooting up to her face and hair. That was the end of the story and I assume she went to the bathroom where she took the picture to send to me.

Looking back it is obvious this was when I became a cuckold.  My girlfriend had fucked another man.  She wanted more.  I wanted more.  I jerked off in my hotel bathroom imaging her with him.  I felt high.  My orgasm was intense.  I could not wait to get back home to her.  I felt closer to her, more in love with her.  She had made a fantasy a reality, and this was just the beginning.

[samdolan]

I always appreciate accounts explaining feelings and emotions and not just about how his much bigger cock was way better and such ...

[samdolan]

Where polyamory gets it right, in my book, is when jealousy is accepted as just an emotion with no moral imperative, and it is embraced as an opportunity to identify, express, and meet one’s own needs better. Those needs can range from wanting to have more time with a partner, or more sex, or more help with kids, and so on

Emma Dixon

[samdolan]

Thank you for the submission.

Your ass is sexy and spankable, and your asshole is beautiful and lickable :)

[samdolan]

Only pics I see of you are two that are covered up by something, how do I see your penis!?

I share very very little publicly. We will need to know each other for a while so I can consider sharing more.... if ever. So first step would be to come off anon, I always reply privately when not anon.

Thank you, though :)

[samdolan]

Would you ever mess around with anyone under 18 if you guys had a good relationship with eachother already and you had their consent?

To me the only question is making sure no one is hurt in the process. This includes consent, emotions, physically speaking, society, law... etc.

As I said before age is just a number.

[samdolan]

If you have any questions you would like to ask me or if you want to get to know me, I would prefer using emails rather than the tumblr ask box. Email me directly at [email protected] I also enjoy chatting whenever I have time for that. I enjoy sharing. If you feel the same and think we will enjoy talking together, I would love to hear from you then. Feel free to message me, submit your photos or fantasies or check more personal pics of me. You can mention that your question or submission is private and not to be posted and I will respect that. I reply privately to all non-anonymous questions.

Just a kind reminder that I enjoy hearing from and communicating with readers :)

[samdolan]

Can you please fuck me for the night

If I do... are you still going to keep those silly glasses on, Mr(s) grey rounded face?

[samdolan]

Love your blog page....love your cock💛

Thank you :) And sorry that I am not posting more often. I only post when I feel like writing something about an image or video that I see, and I haven’t felt that way for some time.

[40s-bitch-and-beau-deactivated2]

Sick of my questions yet? Here is a couple more :) What about men? Did you ever share with your husband your desires towards a man you know in real life? If you haven't, who would you pick from the men you know to be the guy in your threesome fantasy? and why?

@samdolan I’m never sick of your questions…. I find thinking about and responding rather enjoyable, and I hope you enjoy my responses as much as my husband. So…what about men? Have I ever told my husband about my desires toward a man in real life? It wasn’t until recently I’ve had such a conversation with him about something so naughty. I have an amazing husband and would never want him to doubt my love and desire for him. But, he’s indicated he likes my responses and has made me feel safe to respond. And…yes, I have had thoughts and desires about men…. Mostly, my fantasies are fleeting images of nameless, faceless men taking me from behind, filling my asshole as my husband thrusts hard into my wet pussy. Thinking of it now makes me tingle, and I can feel myself becoming wet.

But, I know who I’d want if given the opportunity. Quite honestly, I wish you were destroying my ass hole, fucking me hard with you cock, pulling my hair, and biting my neck as I watch my husband watch me shudder in ecstasy, my hungry cunt spasming around his rod and causing my whole body to move rhythmically as wave upon wave of pleasure exhaust my body until I am completely spent and satisfied beyond all comprehension.

[samdolan]

I am quite flattered :)

But that’s not why I liked your answer the most. I like the fact that does sound like an honest, daring, sweet and slutty answer... all at the same time.

You are lucky to have that understanding between the two of you. Even if all of that lives only in fantasy land. It is still a few steps ahead of most other couples.

I enjoyed picturing the scenario you described. a lot. I hope you don’t mind that in my version, as I pushed my thickness deep inside you for one last deep thrust before exploding inside you, I leaned forward and whispered to your ears “what sexy and slutty wife you are”.

[samdolan]

If a man is flirting on me on chat for years, showing only his body (including his cock and ass) almost evrytime we talk and making promises of commitment, but still can't show his face to me. What do u think he wants from me? I dont have any idea what comes in his mind. What is your opinion bout that?

You will never really know what is the truth nor what he wants. With virtual connections, there is always a certain degree of uncertainty. This uncertainty can be both a bless and a curse. It all depends on what you want and how you take it.

I hardly ever share pictures of myself online to stay anonymous. And when I do, it is mostly my body and hardly ever my face ( only very very few times that I ever did ). But I never give promises I can’t make and always try to make it clear about what can be expected from my side.

My personal opinion is: If anyone - online or in real life - was ready to make a promise to me, they should meet my expectations of what this promise meant. If not, I would express my dissatisfaction and If I stayed unsatisfied, I will move on.

Saying that, being unsatisfied in a relationship of any kind does not make any of those involved good or bad. It only means that it wasn’t a good fit, for a reason or another.