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welcome to the fort, critters !

enjoy your tour ✮⋆˙

important psa!!

#intro post #sanctuary speaks #sanctuary screams #sanctuary solves

inspired by every time soda overworks the body and we all come to front just laying on the floor and he goes “thoda?” and points at himself to act confused😭😭

#sanctuary speaks #- thistle #system sillies

”why didn’t you crop out the end of that”

BITCH WE NEED TO SHOWER

"systems are so scary"

the system in question

#sanctuary speaks #- soda #- mikey #- rylee #system stuff #system sillies

I get bored and make these constantly so I’m just gonna throw one out here bc you aren’t catching me on tiktok I am so not in the mood to get harassed on that website

tumblr probably ate the quality but wtv

dont mind if i do...............

#HEHEHEHAHA #sanctuary solves #i love that image #- mikey

disabled-dyke

one of the most frustrating things about being disabled and chronically ill is that everyone around you is allowed to be worried or scared for you. but the second you yourself say you’re worried or scared, suddenly it’s “you can’t be so negative, think positively, you might be totally fine in five years”

but i have to placate everyone when they’re telling me multiple times a day that they’re scared for my health??

#“im so worried you just barely get up or eat or do anything”#oh my god me too!!!!#did you ever think of that genius

onika4endos

listening to all of korn out of spite

🪷 and 🍡 for the ask game :3

EEEEEEEEEE OH MY GOODNESS WE'VE NEVER ACTUALLY HAD ANYBODY DO THESE BEFORE YIPPEEEE

i dont remember the order its in but

for roles/labels our main things are brainmade/fictive/factive and a lot of us are partial fictives, for roles we use a lot but our most common are soothers, caretakers, (blank) holders, and protectors!!! but everyone has a list of roles if you ask them

and do we cofront and is it difficult?

its nearly constant we cofront now that weve worked through communication and stuff in our system, also since i rarely leave front its a lot of co-hosts and and other sorts of headmates coming in to assist in whatevers going on (ex mikey our anger holder and main protector and advocate comes out a lot when someone does stuff that i wont speak up abt) our cofronts can be passive or active but its only passive when we're blended or blurry

our sys formed a lot to assist the host rather than taking over for the host so thats why cofronts are like that for us!!

THANK YOU SO SOOSOSOSOSOSOOOO MUCH

#we still definitely have full switches but they only rlly happen when we're major MAJOR stressed #p-did things i suppose #also that stress can come from inside or outside the system #we definitely have some brain guys who like to stress us out to front alone but we're working on it #sanctuary solves

plural-vrz

PLURAL ASK GAME!! ⋆˙⟡

⊹ ࣪ ˖͙͘͡★ get 2 know ur sys!!

!! this post is for everybody! u may use this regardless of origin/beliefs, just remember to follow ur own dni

🌸 - how many alters do u have? do u consider yourself to have a high headcount?

🧩 - do u have any subsystems? if so, how do they work?

🍧 - are there any alter(s) who u would consider the “core”? if so, are they the host?

💞 - do u have an innerworld? how complex is it?

💧 - how does fronting work for your system? do u have a “front room”?

🍀 - how do u communicate with ur headmates?

🍡 - do u use alter roles/labels? which ones do u use?

🌺 - who fronts the most? who fronts the least?

❄️ - how often do ur hosts/fronting patterns change?

🥝 - how often do u switch?

🪷 - do you co-front with other alters often? is co-fronting easy or difficult?

🌷 - how long does it take for u to switch?

🌨️ - do ur alters have specific voice claims for what they sound like in headspace?

🌱 - do u have any introjects? what are their sources?

💐 - do u have any hosts? co-hosts?

🍃 - if u have an innerworld, can u see into while you’re fronting?

💗 - do u use any origin/-genic terms? what are they?

🌿 - do u have any npcs in your headspace?

🍬 - has ur system created any rules ur alters are expected to abide by?

#oooo ooo ask game

obsessivelycompulsiveblog

As a caregiver, I'm tired of people asking,"Do you wipe ass for a living?"

This isn't inherently because it's disrespectul to my job, though it is and us caregivers do SO much more than that; we're taking care of people. That's 10% or less of the job.

It's the genuine DISRESPECT of my clients that bother me.

Do NOT speak about my client like they're a dog. "Do you wipe ass for a living?" You could not have phrased that in a more insensitive, ableist, and dehumanizing way.

Incontenience care is NORMAL.

It is NOT gross, weird, immature, or anything else besides normal.

My clients have felt ashamed for normal things like needing their briefs changed or having to do toiletry and everytime I reassure them they're completely fine and not doing anything wrong. It breaks my heart to see them so embarassed over a normal bodily function, esepcially when they still feel so even though I signed up to do this.

Maybe the elderly or disabled wouldn't be so ashamed of basic things that ARE normal if people didn't make it sound like it was the most absurd, repulsive, and gross thing ever.

Please be mature. If you are an adult and cannot comprehend someone needing toilet assistance without making it weird or sound gross, then you really really need to grow up.

I don't really like making aggressive sounding posts or scolding posts, because every single person is learning and we all make mistakes, but gosh guys, this really bothers me.

Stop making people feel bad and THINK about what you're saying when refering to another human being before you say it. I will NEVER tolerate this disrespect for these people I'm taking care of who trust me.

EDIT: Thank you SO much for the overwhelming sweet responses! They make my heart so happy<3 Thank you for the inbox thank-yous and stories as well! As of now, I will ask any thank yous, stories, or experiences be privately messaged or commented<3 I love all the appreciation, but my blog is about writing characters with OCD and other disorders/disabilities and I don't want to clog my blog up with replying to everyone :)<3

kunaigirl

Me: "Damn people are REALLY BAD at knowing when to tag their eyestrain art/images...either that or they just don't care about photosenitive epileptic people like me. I feel really sad now." Person: "But Allison, what if they just don't know or understand what qualifies as eyestrain and what doesn't?" Me: "You know what? That could be a factor...While it is always better to be safe rather than sorry (so YES people should always tag eyestrain even if they're unsure if it "counts" or not) maybe you've got a point?"

Anyways! HERE'S YOUR HANDY GUIDE TO WHAT CAN COUNT AS EYESTRAIN! I'm pulling this straight from the Artfight rules page about what needs to be labeled and filtered as eyestrain because it's VERY helpful and VERY accurate! I also know not everybody has an AF account and might not always have access to this handy guide, and this is an important resource; That's why I'm sharing it here! (under the cut)

PLEASE TAKE THIS SERIOUSLY!!! THIS IS ABOUT THE HEALTH AND SAFETY OF OTHERS!!!

rightdownright

by the way this is medical. this could save somebody from a migraine all the way to a seizure. this has always been serious. treat this seriously.

green-enby

[PT: all-caps Please take it seriously!! This is about the health and safety of others!

Picture ID below the cut:

wretcheddthing

everybody give it up for this brand of green. round of applause for most under appreciated green

#my favorite colors #- thistle

lvmimis

tbh i love hear me outs but i also love the opposite of hear me outs where it’s like nearly everyone thinks they’re fuckable except you

#i call these block me outs #block me out of that IMMEDIATELY #he is an untouchable wretched excuse of a sexy man

writingdose

insane to me how, to some people, this is not a common sense

catchafalling-star

reblogging twice because omfg

graceless-goddess-deactivated20

My mom sent me photos of my great-great grandmother. I asked “wasn’t this when women were only allowed to wear dresses?” And my mom said “she did whatever she wanted to do. She was wild”

theconcealedweapon

When it happens once, it's treated as a feel-good story.

So why can't we make this the norm?

Instead of using taxpayer money to hire police to arrest poor people and hope that one helps instead of arresting, why not just abolish the police and instead use that taxpayer money for the direct purpose of helping poor people?

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