Hello!!

I'm Lexi, or Bee 🇧🇷 29 years of young. TME. Pronouns are it or he, stick to one. I love my queue <3 May post drawings and rambles sometimes.

[sanguineshade]

Hello! This is my pinned post. Here are all the reasons you might want to block me:

Adult

Perisex

White (Brazilian - so "latino" globally I guess)

Transexual. Transmasculine (I'm a dude when I'm feeling gender), that is, transmisogyny exempt (TME).

I don't believe surgery and hrt should be a requirement for me to be a man (one should be allowed to get whatever body modifications), that is, the lack of them doesn't make me a woman.

I don't agree with "transandrophobia". There is no targeted bigotry against transmascs (all our problems also apply to enbies or transfems or dykes, we don't need a word for "transphobia when man")

I don't care if a (trans) woman hates all (trans) men and wishes them dead (or even wishes me dead personally). It doesn't hurt my fee-wees that I'm not the specialest goodest boy in the world who everyone should love unconditionally

Feminist and transfeminist

Anti list: anti-imperialism. Anti-usa. Anti-cops. Anti-censorship. Anti AI generated content.

Atheist and not in the poser way

Pro listening to the people affected by issues I don't have before I open my mouth (notice where I've been verbose?)

Anime fan (idk gotta cover the basis for landing on a blocklist I guess)

uh that's all I can think of but I will update if anyone gives me more reasons. Anyway if none of those were enough to shoo you away... okay then. Shrug emoji.

[ardri-na-bpiteog]

no matter how normalised it gets I will die on the hill that it is rude to record strangers in public without their consent

[crabussy]

every time a trans man who does not want to be called a twink gets called a twink I will personally go out into the world and rend 1 parked car to shreds with my teeth. cut it out

[crabussy]

walk with me for a moment. let's think for a sec. I'm not upset but I do want people to understand. do you think assigning a label associated with feminine features, hairlessness, skinniness/lack of muscle tone, and high pitched voices is something that most trans men would feel comfortable being associated with? why or why not?

[crabussy]

of COURSE there are trans men who don't mind it, or trans men who actively enjoy being called a twink. but I am not hairless by choice. I WANT fat and muscles and body hair and a deep voice. and a lot of trans men that get called twinks DO HAVE THESE THINGS, yet they get called "twink" anyway. why do you think that might be?

it's okay if you've done this in the past. maybe just check in before you call your friend or acquaintance something with so many specific, potentially disheartening associations!

[crabussy]

I wonder if the inverse occurs with trans women getting called "butch" too. because there are many wonderful butch trans women!!! but if you call trans women "butches" for traits like short hair or body hair despite otherwise feminine presentation, maybe think about why that is? is she really a butch? or is that just her body? just ask first!

nonbinary people too. are they really "masc presenting" or is that just their body? are they really "fem presenting" or is that just their body? let's all try to be a bit more cognisant of the language we use to describe the trans people in our lives, yeah? [: it's worth thinking about. don't worry yourself into a hole about it, of course! but it's something to check every now and then.

[decompose1]

it's actually crazy like kind of unbelievable how much racism ppl just expect you to put up with to be polite. like i have so many little experiences where a friend-of-a-friend said something awful and racist to me and i am very clearly hurt and upset and then the friend just expects me to be polite and not say anything not react not even be angry. like when ur not white ur never allowed to be angry. if ur angry ur being too aggressive. you never get to expect an apology, either. expecting an apology for the racist way people hurt you is always asking too much. you never get an apology. you never get to be angry. you never get to say it hurt you. you're just supposed to pretend you didn't hear it, didn't read it, didn't notice. you let things go because it's the only way to have friends.

[decompose1]

🤪 LITERALLYYYYYYYY. ive learned being schizophrenic and native is not a good combination you get this rancid ass combo of like Wise Spiritual Noble Savage or Scary Dangerous Insane Person and u are always one of these things and it will change on a dime depending on ur mood and how much the person talking to u likes u lol

[scorndogs]

Girls, I am no longer asking, I am begging. Install shinigami eyes. It is absurdly effective and the team behind it has almost never had a false positive in flagging someone as transphobic, transmisogynist, or otherwise unsafe. you put yourself at risk not knowing who you are reblogging from. you are putting your brothers and sisters and siblings at risk by reblogging.

Something that often goes unsaid but is true: Shinigami eyes does not only protect the transmisogynized. It protects all of us. Falling into hateful rhetoric and hurting the people around you benefits no one, especially not you.

You have to root out hateful ideology at its base, and being unaware of tools designed to help you do that in this day in age is allowing harm to spread when so much energy and money is directed towards attacking trans women.

seriously. it's free, it's non-intrusive, and sometimes it's actually funny because of the random political figures marked green/red.

Shinigami Eyes is a browser extension that highlights known trans-friendly and anti-trans pages/users on social networks with different colo

[storyweavingspider]

"But I keep seeing people talking about being mismarked and how shinigami eyes is awful and not upkept and misandrist!"

I've been using it periodically for like 2 years and I've seen ONE truly mismarked blog, who was a Black transfeminist I knew personally. Basically every other blog I've seen marked red I can find out why within a minute or less on their blog and block them. If someone is saying they've been "wrongly marked" by shinigami eyes, they're like 99% lying their ass off and have been caught balls deep in transmisogyny multiple times but try to be crypto.

Also like, as a "bigger blog" who almost entirely uses tumblr from my phone, I basically just use it from my computer every like two to three weeks for 10-15 minutes to clear out potential problems. And I really can’t stress enough that it takes me <10-15 minutes to block recent transmisogynists. Today I blocked seven and not a single one took me more than a minute on their blog to determine they were blockworthy.

Here’s what I do.

1. Go to activity and select only replies, mentions, asks, and reblogs with content

2. Click scroll wheel on your mouse and scroll at medium speed (fast enough it’s not tedious but slow enough you can identify colors as they go by)

3. Stop at any red and open in new tab, scroll down their blog for about 30 seconds to judge most recent stuff, then search “Transandrophobia”, “TERF” or “SWERF”, or “TRF”/“Trans rad fem”/“trans radfem” or similar and see how many posts are basically “those bitch women/feminists” or implying trans women are men type posts. You will almost always find multiple within 30 seconds of normal scrolling.

4. Block them. If you’re feeling froggy and have spare time, can use their profiles as free blocklists.

5. Repeat step 1, but select only “reblogs without content”. This selection is almost always larger activity-wise and TERFs/TMRAs will often reblog stuff without comment so others of their ilk can target the posters they reblogged.

6. Repeat step 2.

7. Repeat step 3.

8. Repeat step 4.

9. Do same thing for follower/following lists.

You truly don’t have to do it very often. If you’re suddenly getting more harassment or have a controversial post pop off, it can be useful to do this a couple days later because it’s also likely these are some of the people harassing you. It’s so quick and easy and will improve your experience on here so much.

[ilonano]

best thing in tbe world having people that like your ocs

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[rabbitkinglune777]

hear me out

(he/him)

[rabbitkinglune777]

black boys can be anime too

(moe even)

[empress-runner]

I love you Bamf but that was just dumb

[undergroundwubwubmaster]

I need people to understand my old woman yuri vision.

[crabussy]

senior/elderly nonbinary people. I adore you and you make the world a better place. whether you've known for multiple decades or you just found out last year. thank you for just Being. so much love from me.

[crabussy]

GAUGEHAHAH????

[tlirsgender]

We need to do something about straight women's misery in their hetero relationships they're largely just resigned to living in I'm so serious. Can we try women's lib again can we liberate the women

[sioltach]

I was miserably hot taking these pictures but the day was perfect under the shade of oaks and box elders

[samandriel]

my rooster doesn’t crow when the sun rises, he crows when he hears humans wake up, like you can literally just roll over in bed and he’s like “hoLY SHIT THAT’S A PEOPLE THE HUMAN ISAWAKE AHHH AHHH AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH”

[samandriel]

the same rooster - god guys he’s so cute - he always lets hens eat treats first and won’t have any treats until they’ve had as much as they want, unless it’s a blueberry. shit, blueberries are like serious fucking business for Pharaoh. he’s a gentleman until the damn blueberries come out and then he don’t play no fuckin games

[samandriel]

in case you were wondering this is him

[glowcowboy]

grief is so crazy like what if i forget what her laugh sounds like. does she know i loved her. i miss her so much. i catch myself doing things she used to do. i wish i could call her. i miss her so much. i do a crossword puzzle. i cry while washing the dishes. does she know i loved her? my heart feels like a hummingbird. i miss her so much. what if i forget what her laugh sounds like. what if i forget.

[glowcowboy]

i talked ab this feeling in therapy yday and my therapist asked me, “would it really be so bad if your memories changed? if they softened and faded or looked different over time? why does that frighten you so much?” and i said, “i don’t want the love to disappear.” and she looked at me for a long moment and then she said, “it won’t. it doesn’t work that way. even if the memories soften or change, it doesn’t mean the love does. that love keeps going backward in time, forever, because you love her still. all is not lost.” i just thought i would share that in case it resonated w anyone else too.

[fox-bright]

do not taste plants if you don't know what they are

do not identify a fruit as edible just because it tastes sweet

hope you didn't eat any fucking seeds, bro

[fox-bright]

And today, we have this winner:

I saw the photo in my feed and went ohh, dude, no, we do not handle yellow rocks with our bare hands until we know for sure what they are. And I know that orange...

In comments, they continue:

and that's where I started cussing at the computer monitor. But someone else had got there first:

So just as a reminder, folks. If you don't know what it is, don't put it in your fucking mouth!

[fox-bright]

YOU GODDAMN STUPID MOTHERFUCKER

[theriverbeyond]

i think "turning into a pumpkin" is my new favorite way to articulate the state of things when I am at a function and very overstimulated and it feels like my brain is melting. it's like no i can't be a person anymore i have to leave i'm turning into the pumpkin. the time is up yeah i gotta go. yeah see u later. pumpkin time.