Yuri

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[thealternates-deactivated202511]

Can perisex people actually shut up for 2 seconds instead of invalidating, harassing and denying intersex people the simple basic function of acknowledging intersex isn't RARE. Every time one of you calls us "DSD" or similar words an angel should come down and throw a bag of hammers at you. Acknowledging PCOS is under the intersex umbrella does not mean we're calling you broken women, it doesn't mean we're calling you men, it doesn't mean you're disordered now, it doesn't mean you aren't cis. intersex people can be whatever they want, cis, trans, both, neither, etc.

You don't have to personally identify as intersex for you to let others exist with the term and community. I'm going to combust! focus on other things that isn't chanting your intersexist views!

"Woah you're so aggressive" whenever we try to be calm, gentle and patient we get verbally stomped on or straight up told we shouldn't exist. i think its time we got mean - 🪽

[sapphicfailure]

I swear the only reason they think we’re rare is because they think intersexism is only one specific type and any variation outside of that isn’t actually intersex

[fukounagrl-deactivated20250217]

"intersex people are trying to co-opt trans language" MOTHERFUCKER AFAB/AMAB AS TERMS LITERALLY ORIGINATED IN INTERSEX COMMUNITIES??? IF ANYTHING Y'ALL ARE CO-OPTING OUR LANGUAGE????!

(refering to the stupidest fucking dyadic/perisex person i've ever seen throwing a fit about afab transfems)

[sapphicfailure]

i’m sorry but i’m confused by what you mean by “good faith identities” in your dni? what does that mean?

For me that means things like male lesbians or female gays etc, i wouldn’t harass anyone or tell them they’re invalid or something, but due to personal reasons id rather them not interact with me :) i hope that makes sense

(edit: my intro is also personal use that i use outside of tumblr so for outside of tumblr im more referring to my personal dms, ppl that identify with good faith identities are definitely allowed to interact with my posts etc, as long as it isn’t brought up in like comments or asks, and as long as they don’t personally dm me)

[status-quo-hater]

Hello perisex trans people

While trying to obscure the fact you are trans, if you are telling cis people..

You have a "hormone disorder" or "hormone imbalance"

You "never hit puberty"/"had the wrong puberty"

You are a cis man with gynocemastia/hypoandrogenism/AIS/etc

You are a cis woman with hirsutism/hyperandrogenism/PCOS/etc

You are lying about being intersex, or at the very least misleading people with the intention of making them believe you are intersex. (Though, the person in question may only know of intersexuality by its medicalized language).

This for one, further separates intersex variations from the word intersex in the minds of people you tell this too. Many people know of intersex variations but only as disorders. Doing this directly furthering our erasure. It's basically just telling random fucking cis people that intersex conditions are disorders/medical problems/etc.

And onto the main defensive of this behavior I see;

"I believe trans people can do whatever they want to keep themselves safe"

Why the actual fuck do you believe being percieved as intersex is safer than believe percieved as trans?

Seriously. Examine your fucking bias. Do you seriously believe bigots just allow us to exist outside of their binary? Why do you believe we aren't hated? Targeted? Harassed? Assaulted? Murdered? Intersex people are systematically mutilated en masse with full support of the law for the sake of making us fit the sex binary. Do you deny this? Do you deny our marginalization? Our wishes and voices and bodily autonomy means nothing in cisnormative society. And you SERIOUSLY think telling people you are intersex is safe?

[sapphicfailure]

I thought we all agreed lesbians can be enby and date other enbys and gays can be enby and date other enbys UNTIL a lesbian and gay person have a crush on eachother….. like yes im a tfemmasc lesbian and my crush is tmasc gay, sue me.

Like i see this happening way too much, why are we focusing on the others sexuality… 😭 Like im not attracted to their SEXUALITY, let me be..😭

[sapphicfailure]

throws a rock at you

throws lesbians at you

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[status-quo-hater]

More queer people need to know that discrimination against intersex people isn't just bigots being bigots. It's rooted in the fact we live in a world that rejects our existence at a fundamental level.

There's only M or F on every job application.

There's only a M or F on every government form.

There's only M or F on everyone's birth certificate.

There's only M or F in everyone's mind.

Even in queer spaces, people ask if you are AMAB or AFAB. Terms borrowed from our community, then simply reduced back to M or F.

When you go to a doctor, they ask if you are M or F, regardless of how your body actually works. Any anatomy or traits you have that does not fit your M or F designation is met with pity or disgust.

You're seen as M* or F*, an aberration of what is "normal", a faulty M or faulty F, a body with a problem.

The intersex experience is being constantly reminded people believe I don't exist.

[status-quo-hater]

You can tell if someone's actually pro intersex liberation by seeing their reaction to the phrase "abolish the sex binary" Yes I said sex. Like biological sex. It's not binary.

[sapphicfailure]

people are all about “looking outside of the binary!” until it comes to sex instead of just gender….

[chelledoggo]

let's hear it for the nonbinary folks who:

don't present androgynously

use "binary" pronouns in any capacity

identify partially with a binary gender

have a "gendered" name

don't experience body dysmorphia

don't experience gender dysphoria

DO experience gender dysphoria/body dysmorphia but aren't sure what gender or body would suit them

just experience body/gender apathy instead

can't be open about their gender identity yet

you're all absolutely valid.

don't ever feel like you're "not nonbinary enough" because you absolutely are! 💖

[sapphicfailure]

Honestly, the entire “afab/amab should be removed! It’s transphobic” is so incredibly frustrating. I feel like people are willing to look outside of the binary UNTIL it comes to intersex people. Yes, afab/amab is sometimes used as a weapon to be transphobic, but that doesn’t mean the concept itself is transphobic???

For a lot of us intersex people who were assigned female/male at birth it’s useful? Of course people shouldn’t use afab/amab for ANY trans person if they do not feel comfy. But can we for once also think about other people who use it (and who i’m pretty sure, it was originally made for). I’m tired of seeing “it helps no one!” yes it does. It helps a lot of us intersex people with our identity.

I guess i’m just kinda tired that intersex people are often excluded in the queer community, even if it’s in such small ways. Let us have something, please.