As much as I enjoyed the last episode of She Was Pretty, I can’t help but feel like something’s off. Seong-joon’s obsession over his first love is not a secret. It was directly said that he suffers from Zeigarnik Effect. But I still shipped him with Hye-jin, because he fell in love with her without knowing that she was in fact his Hye-jin. But a lot of things has been off, and I just can’t ignore them anymore.
The biggest tick off for me was when they were in the lake, and Seong-joon thought Hye-jin was missing, and he panicked. That just shouts obsessed all over. I have had a relationship with an insanely possessive boyfriend, so I know how it ends. And seeing that reaction from Seong-joon, I just know it would not end well. I don’t know how the writer will play it off, but even they are given a happy ending, I’d know deep inside my heart that they’re not going to be okay. Their relationship is not healthy, because Seong-joon isn’t.
Here are two things I tried to ignore (because ok sue me Park Seo-joon and Hwang Jung-eum are cute together idc if you say otherwise) before:
1. How Seong-joon completely ignored what happened before he knew about the real Hye-jin. He didn’t even apologize for the awful things he said and did to Hye-jin. And now he’s acting like Ha-ri never happened. I’m a present person too, but I do know that those things need to be talked about. We all know that he has a problem of only being able to concentrate on one thing, such as reading, or whatever but looking at the big picture, it’s Hye-jin. He doesn’t care about anything as long as he has Hye-jin. Remember “I won’t push you, just don’t run away.” Obsessed.
2. How he has not for one second believed that maybe, just maybe, Hye-jin (both fake and real) does not like him the way he does. He did push his way to Ha-ri. I thought before that maybe he just thought of it as being there for her like how she was there for him before. But it’s been fifteen years? He treated Ha-ri as if those fifteen years never happened. Did he even consider that maybe Hye-jin was already married? Or that she stopped talking to him for a reason? And now he’s treating Hye-jin as if those two months didn’t happen. Honestly, I loved that he saw through Hye-jin pretending he didn’t like Seong-joon. But that’s only because it’s true. I know it’s wrong of me to find fault in something he didn’t do, but I really really think that even if Hye-jin truly didn’t like Seong-joon like that, he would still be pushing his way to her.
Look, I love when a guy only has eyes for the person he loves but in this case, it’s like Seong-joon’s life depends on Hye-jin. Like he would actually die without her. Well he did survive those fifteen years. Now I wonder what happened during those times when he was already an adult. Did he survive knowing he’d get Hye-jin someday? That’s... sick. But really, if the first thing he did when he got back to Korea was to see Hye-jin, then that’s really plausible.
I read a post (here) speculating that Hye-jin will break up with Seong-joon because that’s the only way he could conquer his mental illness. And if they end up together after he gets better, then good for me. I still ship them after all. Just not like this.