Working hard from insecurity = proving
Working hard from self worth = building
Being independent from fear = avoidance
Being independent from wholeness = freedom
Overexplaining from anxiety = seeking approval
Explaining from clarity = communication
Staying busy from discomfort = escaping
Staying busy from purpose = creating
Chasing someone from fear = attachment
Choosing someone from confidence = alignment
Avoiding conflict from fear = suppression
Choosing peace from standards = discernment
Overgiving from fear = earning love
Giving from fullness = generosity
Withdrawing from fear = self protection
Taking space from awareness = regulation
Seeking validation from lack = dependency
Receiving validation from wholeness = appreciation
Controlling outcomes from fear = anxiety
Leading outcomes from trust = stability
Being chill from fear = self abandonment
Being calm from security = groundedness
Holding back feelings from fear = disconnection
Pacing vulnerability from wisdom = emotional intelligence
Clinging from fear = scarcity
Allowing from trust = abundance
Perfectionism from fear = never enough
Excellence from self respect = pride
People pleasing from fear = losing yourself
Being kind from alignment = staying yourself
