self growth motivation

Princess 👜 / 24

[keptandkind]

The best way to predict your future is to invest in it.

[konoko]

[johnnycrass]

u are NOT A SON OF ODIN u live in JACKSONVILLE FLORIDA

[keptandkind]

Men will want to compliment you and they’ll genuinely land on “pure trouble 😻 you look like you’d ruin my life. You look like my next mistake. You look like a bad decision. Red flag.”

It reminds me of the 1600’s no joke “woman make me feel lust so must = EVIL!!!”

[keptandkind]

thoughts on tam kaur??

Ik who she is but I’ve never seen any of her actual content!

[keptandkind]

I've been thinking about something you posted a few weeks ago, and I realized I've spent most of my life trying to be "acceptable" instead of memorable. I don't think I was afraid of people disliking me as much as I was afraid of standing out. I'm trying to unlearn that because it feels exhausting.

Being “acceptable” is safe, but it also means minimizing the parts of yourself that make you memorable. I’m really happy you have the strength to choose to unlearn that!

[keptandkind]

Instagram is killing me lmao

[keptandkind]

Men Pay Attention

Genuinely one of the most important things I could talk about: there’s a difference in supporting a legitimate partner through struggle, versus slowly training yourself to accept chronic inconsistency, neglect, low effort, emotional unavailability, etc from a man because you think enduring it makes you more valuable to him somehow. Especially when there's no reciprocity.

A man benefiting from your patience is not the same thing as him respecting it.

Men are extremely observant to what is tolerated or not. If a man learns that he can give inconsistent effort, emotionally withdraw, cross boundaries, come back with minimal reassurance, and still fully retain access to you every single time, that becomes the relationship dynamic. Being overtly accommodating does nothing more than remove his own urgency, and lower the emotional cost of disappointing you.

[thestandrewknot]

The set of brilliants from the Danish Crown Jewels, by C.M. Weisshaupt (1840).

[barbienefertiti]

 💕 Money, attention, attraction, favor & feminine energy 💸

[keptandkind]

what is some advice you think everyone should hear?

To literally stop caring about what other people think about you!!!! The fear of being perceived as undignified will ironically always be the thing to hold you back from new opportunities. You’ll miss out on far more by worrying about judgment than you’ll ever lose from actually being judged.

[kosmogrl]

[keptandkind]

I have a six hour car ride today pls keep me company 😭😭 anons are onnn

[keptandkind]

Some of y'all are one act of obedience away from the life you've been praying for.

^^^

[keptandkind]

[keptandkind]

Invited to my first sleepover since moving here<<333

[keptandkind]

Aw came back to my favorite flowers and 15g of wax

[keptandkind]

do u think pretty privilege is real

Undeniably yes

[keptandkind]

Something that I’ve been thinking: people will always and unfortunately base their treatment of you upon how physically attractive you present, along with the charisma and confidence you possess. BUT…these qualities can be improved by literally anyone, whenever, with time and intention.