addicted to the diamantes

20 | sugar baby | escort | coming out of retirement

[arabwife]

skincare > boys

[allicisdollasigns]

Idk about you guys but once you dip your toes in the sugar bowl it’s over……..my standards for my life are way up

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25 Things That Will Make You a Better Sugar

• Choose your battles. There are things you won’t be able to convince him of.

• Research sex; watch porn; experiment. Know your limits, know what you’re willing to try.

• Expand your mind - listen to podcasts in your car, learn a second language (like French, Italian or Chinese) and research a few key topics that interest you so that you always have something to talk about.

• Practice good penmanship, always.

• Go to yoga classes which will help you centre your mind, be conscious of your posture and maintain your physique. Many cities have free classes if you’re willing to look.

• Text in full sentences, with accurate grammar.

• Learn how to cook a few ‘fancy’ meals well. Should you spend the night at his house, be prepared to cook one without making a fuss.

• If you’re a smoker, keep gum and perfume on you at all times. Buy a decent lighter, one that you have to refill with lighter fluid. Never light your own cigarettes - pull your lighter out, put your cigarette in your mouth and look at him expectantly.

• Swear less. People will be shocked when you do swear if it’s a rare occurrence.

• Look in the mirror every morning and identify one thing that you love about yourself and your appearance. Throughout the day, remind yourself of this thing.

• Be consciously aware of how fast you’re speaking. Take a second before you speak to collect your thoughts and consider your phrasing.

• Know good dinner etiquette.

• Travel whenever you can, even if it’s only to cities adjacent to yours. 

• On dates, go to the bathroom and take a moment to freshen up your makeup, gather yourself and take a deep breath.

• Learn how to mix a few basic cocktails like martinis, Manhattans and mojitos.

• Know this sentence structure: “I understand that _____, is that right?” People want to feel they’re being heard, first and foremost. For example, “I understand you’re upset that I can’t be available short notice. Is that right?” Follow up with: “Let’s work together on a solution.”

• Remain calm, no matter what.

• Learn a sport - tennis, golf, it doesn’t matter.

• Spend time alone; be independent. When you are comfortable with your own company, you will settle for nothing less than good company.

• Build a list of goals for yourself, long and short term. Know them inside out.

• Watch classic movies: Sabrina, All About Eve, Breakfast at Tiffany’s. Study the starlets and pick characteristics, gestures and the like that you can emulate in your own actions.

• Learn to give a good head rub, back massage, etc.

• Subscribe to newsletters for local galleries, art cinemas, fine dining restaurants, etc. Email your SD with suggestions of things that you come across which you think he might like. Don’t be afraid to make the effort, as long as you’re not the only one who is.

• Make reading the newspaper part of your daily ritual. Do the crossword, too.

• Read more - The Life of O, The Awakening, A Handmaid’s Tale, Cat on a Hot Tin Roof, The Optimist’s Daughter, Lolita. Reading will become a part of your daily meditation.

• Be punctual, authentic and consistent.

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• get out and explore the city/town/neighborhood you live in so that you have some suggestions for places to go no matter the situation. Also, it is great to talk about the places you like to go so that he can get an idea of what you like • ask questions! Beyond the usual “how was your day?” Try asking him- “what was the last great meal you ate and where? What made it so special?” Follow up questions show you are listening and helps keep the ball in his court • When a POT gets to talking sexual, either talk financial or smile and be evasive. Don’t be defensive or disgusted, it will likely make things worse. If he is crossing the line, smile and excuse yourself to the restroom and simply collect yourself and leave. Don’t make a scene or argue, it will not end well. Sugaring requires thick skin and you sometimes have to learn to just laugh and change subjects. • never underestimate a smile and a touch on the arm or hand. Use your eyes and body language to say “I want to fuck you” while keeping the conversation light and neutral- it is a total mind fuck. • pay attention to your daddy’s needs! Is he always coughing? Carry some cough drops on you for when you see him. Is he always tired? Show up with a hot cup of coffee or a protein bar, even some b-12 gummies. A little effort means a lot to these guys who are largely ignored and spend all their energy on others! My regular loves to snack on grapes and pecans so I always have some in my kitchen for him • smile when you talk, it makes you seem engaging and helps keep your voice lively for him to listen to • Keep your place clean! It seems like a no brainer if your SD is coming over to pick your place up but make sure you burn candles or spray something so it smells nice, fresh sheets on a made bed, clean your bathroom, etc. When you take selfies and mirror pics make sure the mirror/background is clean and uncluttered. Keep your car clean in case he needs to get in, you don’t want fast food wrappers and clothes all over the place.

[nybaby94]

Thoughtful

[cxshsimss]

need a new daddy just for fashion nova shopping sprees. who’s with me?

[angelicthottie]

 tips for high heel beginners 👠💋

-don’t start out with super high heels. it’s better to start out a little smaller. they don’t have to be full on kitten heels but try to keep the heel 3 inches or shorter.

-the chunkier/thicker the heel= the easier to walk in

-don’t be scared of platform heels. while they might look intimidating, they’re actually more stable and easier to wear as opposed to your standard heel because a) there’s less incline and your toes are closer to your heel and b) even if they’re high, the heels tend to be chunkier, so you have more support.

-heels aren’t the most comfortable shoes in the world but if your foot hurts as soon as your put them on, don’t buy them.

- when it comes to heels,it’s always better to size up then to size down. when in doubt, opt for a larger size.

- when walking on a flat surface, always remember to walk heel to toe, one foot in front of the other. 

-s l o w d o w n. you might think you can run in heels, but you probably can’t even power walk. take smaller steps and walk a little slower than usual.

-practice. walk around your house in heels for a while to get the hang of it.

-whenever you have the opportunity to sit down, do so.

-avoid walking on grass. if in some case you absolutely have to walk on it, try to focus your weight on your toes; almost like you’re trying to tip toe. your heel should still touch the ground, but lightly.

-avoid walking on cobblestone or any other sidewalk that is uneven or has cracks in it at all costs.

- when going up stairs, tilt sideways a bit. this way you’ll be able to put your entire foot on each stair and you have a less of a chance of tumbling down and busting your ass. also, hold the handrail at all times.

-if you have to stand for a while, switch putting your body weight from one foot to the other. this way you’ll be able to give each foot a break and it’s less painful.

-use cushion and gel insoles, they’ll make your heels a little more comfortable and you’ll be able to wear them for longer periods of time. doesn’t matter what brand, you could even get them at the dollar store; they don’t have to be fancy. 

- never take your heels off and walk barefoot. not only could you step on glass or something sharp but that’s just nasty and very tacky looking. always have a cute pair of sandals or flats on hand in case shit gets real.

-angel

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[happyhealthyhoetips]

Tips For The Classy Hoe Invest in Prada sunglasses, A nice brown purse, Luis Vuitton if you can afford it Quality lingerie, A good sunhat, Expensive jewelry (pearl and diamond earrings are a must) And a wide selection of fancy shoes Regularly get your hair and nails done, Style your hair simply and classically every day and keep your nails long and manicured Stick with nudes and light pinks for every day wear, red for more formal events Invest in voice, piano, and ballet lessons Learn French Read all the literature and poetry you can, keep up on politics and current events Be opinionated and informed, but never stubborn Talk smoothly and gently, but never apologetically Go out for brunch Take walks in the park with or without your lover on Sundays Set aside time at least once a week to go to an art gallery, museum, or theatre Drink fine wine and be knowledgeable of it Life is what you make it.

(via happyhealthyhoetips)

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Strategic Sugar Shopping

Whenever I’m shopping with a wealthy man, my primary objective is to use the least amount of time to find something I like, especially if I don’t really know the person I’m with yet and I have no idea how much patience he has for shopping. With most guys there’s a limit to how much fun they’re going to have in any store. There’s always a chance the guy is going to change his mind about the arrangement or get uncomfortable, so I want to make sure I’m walking out with something before that can even happen. Also, if the guy knows that shopping with me is never a hassle, he’ll likely buy me shit more often, provided we continue seeing each other. For this reason, I NEVER buy clothes, shoes, or foundation/powder/concealer when I’m with a man. Basically, anything I would have to waste time trying on, I don’t even bother looking at.

I love luxury as much as any sugar baby on here, but I also know that it’s fucking stupid to carry around a $10,000 purse when I still have $5,000 in debt. When I’m with a sugar daddy, I rarely look at designer purses or anything that is going to depreciate in value with use and time. I know that if I slow down, look for sales, and plan my purchases when I’m alone, I can find luxury brands at a fraction of the price available in any store. And nobody—especially not an older man—is going to know the difference if I make all my major fashion purchases at a discount! I’ve met enough men to know that as long as I look nice, it doesn’t matter what labels I have on. 

Spending someone else’s money on anything marked full-retail price is a waste of a precious resource, especially if you’re still scraping by to make ends meet. The fuck is a YSL clutch going to do for you if you still have to work to make rent each month? Prioritize buying things your really need and can feel good about long-term. Think of shopping with a sugar daddy as an opportunity to make an investment. Get expensive products you could use every day, or a fancy hair straightener if yours is breaking down, or school supplies, or running shoes, whatever. Just make sure whatever you’re getting is a good balance of practicality, utility, quality, and class. 

If you already have all your necessities taken care of, great. Don’t run straight for the red bottoms. Instead, get that guy to buy you jewelry.

Think about it: one of the smartest, safest things you can dump money into is gold and silver. I actually have a small hoard of silver coins that I’ve been sitting on for three years now. Of course, asking a guy to buy you silver coins isn’t exactly glamorous or romantic. So, I always insist on jewelry. Earrings, bracelets, necklaces, whatever; all I care is that I’m getting something made of real gold, silver, or diamonds. Then I go home and I fucking hoard it. I rarely use the fine jewelry I’m gifted because, again, it’s an investment. And let me tell you, it feels damn good to know I have thousands of dollars worth of precious metals that I could instantly liquidate if I ever need emergency capital. When the market for gold and silver picks up, I can sell some and put that money toward whatever I want. Good luck doing that with a pair of scraped up Chanel sunglasses or with that expensive lingerie set when the stitching starts to fray. 

I’m really pushy about shopping. If I’m meeting a guy during normal business hours when I know stores are open, I always suggest shopping to anyone I’m spending more than a few hours with, and I keep asking (sometimes even three or four times) until the guy gives in. (It helps if he’s had a bit to drink.)

As soon as he agrees, I make moves as quickly as possible, settling for the closest jewelry store, and making purchasing decisions within 5 - 10 minutes of looking. I’m not picky about how it looks, or what store it’s coming from. All I’m looking at is quality: karats, carats, and what kind of guarantee the store offers. This is how I recently ended up walking away from a first date with $3,800 diamond earrings. The entire purchase happened so fast, he barely had time to think about it. And really, that’s the ultimate goal: making sure an impulse buy for him is the best long-term decision for you. 

[cinnamonsugar-uk-deactivated201]

The best post I’ve read on here all day. It’s going to be bling from now on.

[misscherrylikesthediscourse]

This is the hussycat, bringing good fortune to all women of loose morals and questionable virtue, harlots, hustlers and good time girls. #sex workers only

[breadwinnnerz]

[sodhya-deactivated20181218]

Every time you see Gucci mane on your TL you have to reblog for good fortune, growth, transformation and positivity.

[sugarxbabyanna-blog]

Never Give In

Even if you need the money, never give in. Have a set allowance that you need, and then add 200.

Married POT was only going to give me 1k a month! Then I sent this message

“I can be your companion, your secret lover, lay next to you and listen to you talk, comfort you and do all the dirty things your misses won’t dare try. All while building a stronger relationship than you could expect. Don’t underestimate me, I know what you want but if you want it than I believe you can rethink your budget.”

Now with both of my new SDs I have a total allowance of 4k a month thank you sugar gods.

[creatingbliss]

Quick Tips On How I Look Like I Tried

*This is just things I do so I look “my best” when I’m going out to the mall etc.

Keep your skin and hair moisturize (is that even the right word?) and your nails trimmed 

Do your eyebrows and put on some lip gloss if nothing else 

When if comes to hair, makeup, and clothes, if one is ‘lacking’ make sure the other two are on point

Give yourself enough time to get ready

Don’t forget your earrings 

Keep hoodies to a minimum 

Create a capsule wardrobe -it’s a simple wardrobe of about 25-30 clothing items with coordinating colours that can be used to create multiple outfits

When hanging up clothes that have been just washed, place the hanger opposite of the rest so you don’t wear the same item again the next week unless you have to 

Opt for dark washed jeans instead of light washed jeans 

Wear flats or boots (depending on the season) instead of sneakers

Take care of your shoes, clothes etc so they stay in good condition. 

Make sure your clothes fit properly 

Make sure you dress to fit the occasion 

[radicalfeministdragon]

To all my female followers, don’t let yourself be small today. Look him in the eye. Talk back. Walk confidently. Be unapologetic. Speak your mind. You’re all goddesses.

[lilithluxe]

This guy just tried to offer me $500 weekly to see him 3-4 times a week (with intimacy). I make more money actually working, good lord.

[sugarxbabyanna-blog]

Lordy 😂😂

[black-payne]

[dontfeedthemodel1-blog]

Be a selfish bitch.

Don’t feel bad for going after what you want. 

Do that shit on your own fucking terms.

Hold a middle finger up to anyone who puts you down.

Wear what you want.

Do what you want. 

Worry about yourself being good before anyone else.

Live life to the fucking fullest. 

You run you.

You paint your own damn masterpiece.

Never fucking forget that.

[stilettochampion]

This is what I’m learning

[omgwtfmia-deactivated20170313]

How to Tinder

Okay gurl, if you’re sick of dicks at SA I got your back covered. There are several things you can do with Tinder. You can either swipe in your town or somewhere you’re soon planning to go.

I only swipe foreigners in my own town because locals are cheap af and gross. Or sometimes I swipe in another city or country. You need a subscription for it or some sort of app which might work as well.

1. Create a fake Facebook account and if you’re an iPhone user you have to go to settings and logout from your account on Facebook to make Tinder pick up the new account. It’s very easy for anyone to look you up on FB with your real name and school etc.

2. Don’t forget to erase your name off whatsapp settings if you’ll give your phone number. Better have a hoe number.

3. Put a pretty portrait pic, fun pics and a casual body shot so he can’t ask for more, write down an equal school name to your school. Say if you’re an Ivy League babe don’t write your own schools name but name a different Ivy League school that offers same or similar degree. In case someone irl catches your profile you may just say that they must have stolen your photos. Have a fun witty statement that guys can comment on. Don’t list down your interests it makes pretty dull conversations. I always go with a movie quote which makes me look like a fun, sexy and a dominant girl. Domination is important I’ll tell you why.

4. When you match it can go few ways. If you send the first message (I think it’s better since it allows you to lead the conversation) say something out of the ordinary. Like, “Hi, Bob, how’s Monday treating you so far?” Always use his name! If he sends the first don’t fall in the trap of “hi how are you?” Say something else, something interesting. Thank him for the like and move on.

5. Show interest and ask questions one after another. And always be like “Oh, wow cool!” And ask follow ups. You want to find out: his domain, his position at job and how does he spend his money. Ask him what does he like to do for fun, favorite vacation spots etc.

6. If he’s visiting your city try and find out: 1. Does he visit regularly? 2. Does he have friends here (lone wolfs are the most desperate) 3. Which are does he stay? 4. Which hotel? 5. Is he there for business or pleasure? 6. Which part of town or restaurant is his favorite? 💰💸👌🏻

7. At this point you should be more or less able to determine if he’s a SD material or not. Be likable and exploit the fact that he doesn’t have a prejudice on you like SA guys do. You can either keep freestyling or flat out say what you’re interested in. Ask him what he’s looking for on Tinder then take it from there. Some guys will know what it is and be on board. Some guys will have no idea and want to learn and some guys will not be interested.

I personally make a mistake by wasting too much time on 2nd category. If he wants to learn Google is his best friend. Don’t tutor him because most of the time these guys won’t offer anything good. Let him know that your time is money and you’re no tutor.

So far I met 2 POTs and they both seem like very nice guys and we click. Hopefully I’ll be tindering more next week and let you know if any other POTs come out.

Last but not the least, be aware: 1. Guys love to start a company and call themselves a CEO. Check if it’s legit. 2. Guys love showing off with all expenses paid business trips like wtf. My POT does that too and it annoys me to no end. Yet I cringe and laugh it off and tease him a bit. But I know he’s well off enough to throw a jet set party for his friends, so… Look for details! 3. All SB rules apply! No nudes no time for time wasters. Watch for red flags. 4. Take his phone number and look him up. Be safe. It’s actually a little safer because from his name and work/school info you can easily reach to his FB. Although some guys use fake accounts because they’re married etc.

Once you land a good SD let me know so we can celebrate!! 👑💰💸🍾

[sugarangelxo-blog]

Vanilla guys who say "I would never pay a woman to be with me" rant

Why not?? If a woman is taking care of you sexually, caring about you, and providing you companionship, wtf are you doing for her? Sex is not rewarding for a woman unless you’re a sex god, which is rare, and even then!! Money is better to 90% of women than sex. We can use our hand Better than most guys can use their dicks. So I have to ask. If I’m proving you with ALL THAT and you’re giving me shit dick, you’re not worth my damn time. You think your mediocre sex is enough for all the things a woman provides, but it’s not! Financial support is amazing and something every woman deserves. It’s not “paying for a girlfriend” it’s HELPING THAT WOMAN YOU LIKE SO MUCH. HELPING. Especially if she’s helping you by cooking for you, and sucking your crusty dick!!

End rant.