Hi Holy! I'm a fan of BC from afar and of both your work and Blastic's. I think this is actually the first time I've ever messaged you directly or something like that. I don't even really know how to use Tumblr—I only downloaded it to see more BC stuff, so I don't post anything.
ANYWAY, I'M RAMBLING. HERE'S WHAT I ACTUALLY CAME TO ASK:
This is probably a silly question, but what do you think about minors, like people around 14–17, interacting with you? 🤔 I know Blastic is uncomfortable with it and would rather they didn't, but what about you?
I've been wondering about it, and I think I read in one of your recent posts that you're only answering BC-related questions, so if this message bothers you, I completely understand if you'd rather not reply.
I hope you have a great day... or afternoon, or night, or whatever time it is where you are. Greetings from Argentina! 🇦🇷
greetings to Argentina! ^o^/) 🇦🇷
I guess my answer is that I don't really think about it much, mostly because I genuinely have no way of knowing how old most people I interact with online are.
someone can put an age in their bio, but that doesn't necessarily mean it's true, and plenty of people don't list their age at all. so realistically, I've probably interacted with minors before without even knowing it. that's just kind of unavoidable when you're talking to strangers online.
it doesn't personally make me uncomfortable, no. at the same time, this is still an 18+ blog, and I'm obviously not encouraging minors to follow or engage with adult content here. if someone tells me they're under 18, I'm not going to suddenly pretend the adult nature of my blog doesn't exist for their sake either.
so I guess my attitude is mostly: my blog is intended for adults, but I'm also aware that I can't actually verify the age of every person who interacts with me. I can only be responsible for what I post and how I behave toward people.
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