Gwendy

25yo • she/her • aroace • infj • 🇨🇵 || marvel/dc | comic reader | swiftie 4ever | multifandoms | maladaptive daydreaming girl ¶ TikTok account : _gwendy / Wattpad account : scarletwxtchxloki

[scarletwxtchxloki]

I just know that every UA teachers and the principal saw Kaminari and Shinsou as a mini Present Mic and Eraser Head. Even Mic and Eraser, they saw Kaminari and Shinsou the first day of classes and where like “That's a mini me ! I'm gonna teach him the basics”.

[alchcmys]

When I think about how characters sexualities are so quickly accepted until it comes to aro/ace people. The fact that yelena’s creator said that yelena would “probably more likely to identify as asexual than to follow Nat's romantic path” but backtracked when Hawkeye came out and said yelena’s sexuality is open to interpretation. All because people were making a big deal of shipping yelena and Kate, and starting petitions. I think about how aro/ace people are pushed aside in the LGBTQ+ community; a community they’re supposed to feel safe in. The fact a writer or actor can say a character is probably *insert any sexuality* people are so quick to accept it until it comes to aro/ace characters. Fans will say that ‘this character is *insert any sexuality* in the comics so they are in the mcu’ until it comes to aro/ace people. Yelena, to me, is aroace, I accept that maybe the aro part isn’t canon and more implied but ace part is. ‘Aroace people can date’ yes some do, some don’t— yelena is implied and showed as someone who doesn’t. Yelena is a character, who in the mcu, is shown that her feelings around love surrounds family. She isn’t the first character who’s aro/ace identity to be erased and she probably unfortunately won’t be the last.

It’s as though representation matters until it’s something you don’t like.

So many people are under the impression that without romance or sex you can’t be fulfilled. Which just isn’t true. And I think that’s why so many people struggle to accept asexual/aromantic people. But they exist. At the end of the day yelena is ace and implied aro and always will be. Stop shipping her with characters there’s plenty of other characters out there. Let the aroace community have the little representation they have.

[floofybondforger]

Day 6, and we’re talking about Michaelangelo from Rise of the Teenage Mutant Ninja turtles. (Bet you thought I was done the ROTTMNT, didn’t you? 🙃 You fools! I’ve claimed another!)

I never really thought about Michelangelo headcannons much until I stumbled into his aro/ace theory. Personally, I loved it.

Just like Donatello, he hasn’t shown much interest in others, other than his family and friends. He’s a very colorful, sweet lil guy. (We don’t talk about Dr. Delicate Touch or Dr. Feelings 🫥) Unlike Donatello, he loves affection and interaction. But it’s never to flirt or to gain a partner. Instead it’s a way to show that he cares in other forms of love.

As some of you are aware, there’s sometimes a stereotype that aro/ace and those who experience some form of it are usually seen as cold-hearted and mean. Small reminder that it’s not true. There’s all kinds of mean and nice people in the world.

I like the idea that Michelangelo could represent the aro/aces that love to interact with others and snuggles and cuddles. While I do still like the loner aro/ace characters, it’s nice to have the ones that like hugs and lots of friends and going out. It brings more variety and color to characters and stories. That, and there are aros and aces are like Mikey when it comes to socializing.

This has been brought to you by Dr. Feelings. 🙂

[scarletwxtchxloki]

Ok, I just started My Hero Academia (yes, I'm catching up with animes I never watched younger) and... Katsuki Bakugo is aroace.

Like, I'm just at the season 3 but every time I see him, he doesn't seem very much interested in boys or girls. His classmates are interested (very much or like in a normal way) but him ? He's not. His only interested is to became the best superhero ever, the number 1.

Please, tell me I'm not crazy and some people see it too : like he's so aroace implied, it's obvious.

[scarletwxtchxloki]

Ok, since it's Pride Month, what better time to question my sexuality ?

Because I'm asexual for sure. I don't want to have s3x at all, and sometimes I don't mind seeing the act on tv but sometimes I do mind and I just skip 10s to avoid this type of scene or they happened when I'm doing something else — because when I put a show on, it's mostly for background sound —, anywho, back to the subject, it depends a lot frankly : either I'm comfortable, either I'm not.

But now, I'm questioning my romantic side : I thought I was biromantic ace but I'm thinking that I might be bi demiromantic ace or just aroace.

Because, sometimes I like romance and fantasize about it, but sometimes I don't care about romance at all. And I'm thinking that it's because of the society that I fantasize about romance (yk, heteronormative society), because when I see couples in real life or in tv shows/movies, I don't care or don't fantasize about being at their place.

When I was younger, I never had a “child lover” (yk, the kind that little kids have and planned weddings during recess/lunch break). And growing up, I never had a boyfriend or girlfriend in high school : like these type of thing seems very far away from me, I was just in my world daydreaming every day.

Maybe both my high school crushes were actually just aesthetically platonic ? Idk, I'm still searching for a word to describe.

There's also the fact that I don't read romance in books : I prefer a good mythological, magical, adventures books than boring, simple romance books (even if it's queer romance books). I just can't read romance books, and if I force myself to read one, I will lose the love of reading for a month.

My library is just full mythological, magic books that have romance as a subplot (but like it's minor subplot) — exemple of books I have : Percy Jackson, The Kane Chronicles, Magnus Chase, The Mortal Instruments, Tara Duncan (a french books saga), What If Loki were worthy, What if Wanda Maximoff and Peter Parker were siblings, etc.

I also just can't write a romance in my fanfics. Like right now, I'm blocked by that for my Teen Wolf, my SPN, and my Marvel fanfics and that's very frustrating... And it's just the beginning of the fanfic, the love interest isn't coming yet.

Another thing, when I'm listening to music, I just listen to the vibes not the lyrics : like for example, if the lyrics are explicit but the vibes are not my jam, I will not listen to the song. And if the lyrics are explicit but the vibes are my jam, I will listen to the song.

But also, the more I think about it, the more I feel nothing for the romance or don't care. Like, even if my family ask me about my love life, I smiles and say nothing but like it's an embarrassed smile (idk if you see what I mean).

Even for my fictional crushes, I don't know why I have fictional crushes... Like maybe it's just aesthetically or platonic or aesthetically platonic... I don't know what it is, I need to find a word for that.

ARG !!! WHY THE SEXUALITY HAS TO BE SO COMPLICATED ??? SOMEONE HELPS ME !!!

Please, don't hesitate to share your thoughts or experience in the comments, maybe it can help me clear my mind and figure out my sexuality (even though, everyone has differents experiences).

[scarletwxtchxloki]

Nevermind, I just figured it out : I'm aroace !!! And I only want dragons, magical powers, and to be a pirate !!!

[scarletwxtchxloki]

Ok, since it's Pride Month, what better time to question my sexuality ?

Because I'm asexual for sure. I don't want to have s3x at all, and sometimes I don't mind seeing the act on tv but sometimes I do mind and I just skip 10s to avoid this type of scene or they happened when I'm doing something else — because when I put a show on, it's mostly for background sound —, anywho, back to the subject, it depends a lot frankly : either I'm comfortable, either I'm not.

But now, I'm questioning my romantic side : I thought I was biromantic ace but I'm thinking that I might be bi demiromantic ace or just aroace.

Because, sometimes I like romance and fantasize about it, but sometimes I don't care about romance at all. And I'm thinking that it's because of the society that I fantasize about romance (yk, heteronormative society), because when I see couples in real life or in tv shows/movies, I don't care or don't fantasize about being at their place.

When I was younger, I never had a “child lover” (yk, the kind that little kids have and planned weddings during recess/lunch break). And growing up, I never had a boyfriend or girlfriend in high school : like these type of thing seems very far away from me, I was just in my world daydreaming every day.

Maybe both my high school crushes were actually just aesthetically platonic ? Idk, I'm still searching for a word to describe.

There's also the fact that I don't read romance in books : I prefer a good mythological, magical, adventures books than boring, simple romance books (even if it's queer romance books). I just can't read romance books, and if I force myself to read one, I will lose the love of reading for a month.

My library is just full mythological, magic books that have romance as a subplot (but like it's minor subplot) — exemple of books I have : Percy Jackson, The Kane Chronicles, Magnus Chase, The Mortal Instruments, Tara Duncan (a french books saga), What If Loki were worthy, What if Wanda Maximoff and Peter Parker were siblings, etc.

I also just can't write a romance in my fanfics. Like right now, I'm blocked by that for my Teen Wolf, my SPN, and my Marvel fanfics and that's very frustrating... And it's just the beginning of the fanfic, the love interest isn't coming yet.

Another thing, when I'm listening to music, I just listen to the vibes not the lyrics : like for example, if the lyrics are explicit but the vibes are not my jam, I will not listen to the song. And if the lyrics are explicit but the vibes are my jam, I will listen to the song.

But also, the more I think about it, the more I feel nothing for the romance or don't care. Like, even if my family ask me about my love life, I smiles and say nothing but like it's an embarrassed smile (idk if you see what I mean).

Even for my fictional crushes, I don't know why I have fictional crushes... Like maybe it's just aesthetically or platonic or aesthetically platonic... I don't know what it is, I need to find a word for that.

ARG !!! WHY THE SEXUALITY HAS TO BE SO COMPLICATED ??? SOMEONE HELPS ME !!!

Please, don't hesitate to share your thoughts or experience in the comments, maybe it can help me clear my mind and figure out my sexuality (even though, everyone has differents experiences).

[daddysuperduperlonglegs]

Y'all know that one saying when people speculate about someone's sexuality "bi until proven differently", so when will it be acceptable saying "ace until proven differently"?

[moonprismpower456]

I hate that people seem to think a character has to look at the camera and announce they’re aroace in order for it to be canon. I’m sick of having to say characters are “implied to be aroace” because no!! Most of the time I have to say it, it’s explicitly canon! There’d be so much more accepted aroace rep if people actually had media literacy

[siriusblack-the-third]

Ykw if JK R*wling wasn't a bITCH then Bill Weasley would be that Hot Aromantic™ who doesn't want to marry and doesn't want to have kids like bro would be living his best goddamn life in Egypt cracking open ancient tombs in the desert and cracking open ancient tomes in the library like LET THIS MAN BE THE HOT NERD ROCKSTAR HE WAS BORN TO BE

Like he thinks about the concept of Marriage-And-Kids all of one (1) time and immediately has to stop himself from hurling because EW he's had enough of being a parent fuck you very much (he's the eldest of seven, do we really need to spell this out?)

Fleur? Platonic Love Of His Life. She's his Hot Asexual™ best friend. Both of them are roommates and work partners they're both badass and gorgeous and they both know it and neither of them wants love/sex respectively. They're both out there travelling the world for their jobs and nerding out in the libraries over niche academic fields like don't tell me they're not history nerds.

Fleur, with her ethereal beauty, is sick of being stared at like a piece of meat. She's not just an object, she was smart and capable enough to be selected for the Triwizard Tournament and actually came out of it alive (jkr really nerfed her character to push Harry forward like wbk Harry is a BAMF no question about that obv but you didn't need to do fleur like that). She got hired by Gringotts, who famously only take on the best of the best. She's the Best Older Sister™ and loves Gabrielle to bits and can never say no to the baby of the family. She's soooo much more than just a pretty face.

She thinks of sex and wants to vomit (sex repulsed asexuals ftw!!!) like this girl absolutely fucking Does Not Want it. At all. Leave her the fuck alone.

AROMANTIC BILL WEASLEY AND ASEXUAL FLEUR DELACOUR FOR THE WIN

Thank you for coming to my Ted Talk.

[portgasdjayce]

A thought that has been drilling through my head is Amadeus being dyslexic.

Canonically he's bad at linguistics, or at least others tease him for it (idgaf if they're being fr or not I love this hc)

And I just love the idea of him being bad at linguistics cause like yes he's a genius but that doesn't mean he won't mess up spelling/pronouncing 'mischievous' or 'nauseous'. He likes sudoku and chess but he hates crosswords and connections (sorry I like playing sudoku nytimes I'm biased)

He'd shorten words cause it's easier (mf be typing "r u fr rn dpmo r u srs") (jk). And also it does remind of code where you mostly shorten specific commands/parts of code (I haven't done coding in a while mbmb)

Anyway! Back to him being dyslexic. I imagine it more like Percy Jackson. In Percy Jackson, demigods are hardwired to read ancient Greek. So English is often difficult is read or unintelligible. I see smth similar going for Amadeus, where he's great at understanding math and even code and he's able to process that data because that just comes easier to him.

And another headcanon I have that's related. DOGSHIT handwriting. He already mostly types in code anyways. Sure he has 200+ WPM and probably joined typing competitions for fun when he was younger. And is a TOTAL typeracer sweat. Hand him a piece of paper and make him write and when you check up on it later. Half the stuff he wrote? Bro he doesn't even know what he wrote.

This is me projecting here but the way he writes it's just slightly tilted, the letters connect into eachother. If it's a lineless page then the text slowly goes more downwards and if he's using a pencil the text looks thick as shit because he pressed down on the pencil too hard.

It's like he thinks too fast and his hand tries to write at the same pace as his thoughts but well.. it just ends up looking messy. Anyway, that's why typing is better for him.

[erodottir]

adhd tony stark except he never knew because everyone, including himself, just shrugs it off as his eccentric, entitled personality.

He’s late to things because he thinks he’s better than everyone. He spends hours and hours in the lab without break because he does whatever he wants. He’s forgetful because he doesn’t care about things ‘beneath’ him. Plus he’s smart, he’s got multiple PHDS. People with adhd couldn’t do that right?

He’s literally using his symptoms as a way to feed into the nonchalant, uppity billionaire persona he wears, and doesn’t even know it.

Until he meets a diagnosed Peter Parker who tells him all about getting diagnosed and his symptoms and the whole process. Not only does it shatter his pretty flat understanding of neurodivergence but it sounds an awful alot like HIM.

So an unsuspecting psychiatrist has their first appointment with THE Tony stark for an adhd diagnosis, and wow this guy isn’t subtle, they’re not sure how no one diagnosed him before.

[scarletwxtchxloki]

I started Fairy Tail recently (manga and anime) and all I could think is that : Laxus Dreyar is aroace.

And the only ship that worked from me is Fraxus but one-sided.

Because to me, Laxus doesn't seem to be interested in either romantic or s3xual relationship, as his interaction are mostly friendly (or competitive/enemy during the battle of Fairy Tail arc and before).

Everyone show their interest to another (Juvia to Grey, Leon to Juvia, Freed to Laxus etc.), but Laxus doesn't show any interest at all.

Even, in the Grand Magic Games arc (in the anime), when it's Mira vs Jenny, the all girls go to join the fight (it was most certainly fan service) but Laxus seems exasperated when Juvia also join. And still during that moment, there's the “wedding dress competition” and then we see all the boys join except Laxus (and also the others but it's self-explained).

Ofc, Laxus could also be gay but I think he would be showing his interest to men if he was gay (especially, considering Freed is probably gay and only interested in Laxus).

Because like I said, everyone show their interest to another but Laxus doesn't show interest in anyone in particular.

So, that's why I say Laxus Dreyar is aroace (also I'm ace and know when a character is also ace... mostly my guts know it and I always trust my guts).

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