seeing "jirai danshis aren't in the original definition, they're misogynistic!" drama stir up again so i'll make a disclaimer to at least my followers : 99% of jiraiblr isn't in the original definition either.
jirai isn't western , it is a japanese subculture group born from Tokyo night life in the ~2020s. and most of you aren't even japanese let alone even visited or speak the language. i haven't either , but if you're going to make claims of "jirai enough" at least like .. have some interaction with the group that started it anyway?
from its origin, the first jirais were teenage - young adult run aways who lived near bars and host clubs. they were notable for their mental illness and "explosive" personality, aka landmine. they would engage in self destruction and prostitution ( including child prostitution )
do any of you even do sex work? cause most of you don't , or put yourself out there sexually. there is actually large disgust by tumblr jirais of even being approached sexually. ( this isn't to say you NEED to do sex work or accept every / all sexual encounters you get , do not do that behavior out of inspiration of just one group you only participate with online )
are you even runaways ? have you had any experience with night life? if not then you really have no place about "jirai enough" if you don't even fit what you're yelling
and about danshis being "misogynistic" since jirai originated as an insult towards women, most jirai danshis are trans. they do have experience with misogyny because they did live the life of a women once ( and probably still perceived as one in their area ). stop ripping the "trans" part of trans men's identities. also i've never heard of any jirais in japan complaining about men joining the subculture so again , you have no place to dictate
stop trying to control spaces you didn't even create
