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can we please please please learn to differentiate between things that are good but devalued because of their association with women (caring for children, being compassionate), things that are neutral but seen negatively because of their association with women (the colour pink, having long hair), and things that are bad but associated with women because of misogyny (being materialistic, being stupid) because otherwise we’re gonna keep getting takes like “being gender nonconforming is anti feminist” and “not studying for your classes is feminist”

aftonfamilyvalues

ive tried to post this like 3 times and i think it keeps getting censored

cisthoughtcrime

moralintern

some people are like I'm too much of a person to be a woman

lesbianherstorian

excerpt from the lesbian almanac compiled by the national museum & archive of lesbian and gay history, 1996

quinntheestallion

People who think they're "not a terf" but agree with me need to understand that the only difference between you and me is....saying the thing. You realize once you express your views, you'll be called a terf, too, right? I don't know why you think we choose this evil, facist, cunt, bitch- lable. We came as meek and mild, measured and nuanced, respectful and loving and we got told we should be raped while we're on fire. We only sound blunt and calloused now bc we stopped prefacing everything we say with "I think trans ppl deserve a good life uwu, I have empathy for those with gender dysphoria mew mew mew uwu " because we know it's no use- they don't believe us and they don't care. And they won't believe you either if you say anything.

cupcakesandmisandry

sick-sad-world-revolution-now

I knew about top "nullification" surgery where even the nipples are erased from your body, but today I learned about bottom "nullification" surgery. When you think you've seen all the ways in which patriarchy exerts its power, you find another one. Of course it was someone who's female and identifying as non-binary who did it. I saw the pictures. She's in her early 20s, had the option to get the nerves out (so not being able to feel anything down there) but at the last moment was convinced by her mom to keep them. Still, that surgery consists of sewing everything shut except a small hole to urinate. This is the "modern" FGM, the "everything is a choice" option and they (surgeons and people who support this) will try to draw you as the villain for pointing out the issues before ever questioning the ethic of such surgeries. If you're asexual then your sexual organs won't force you to have sex, you can live without using your vagina for sex or delivering babies for that matter. Your body is not a customisable machine from which you leave out the parts that you don't like at some point in your life. The hegemony of capitalism (which dehumanises humans and try to make robots out of us) coupled with patriarchy is what made this horror possible.

You can have a been a young girl raped by a man and getting deeply traumatised for it to the point you want nothing to do with your body anymore, and greedy surgeons will take advantage of this distress and clear ptsd. I am full of rage. I won't ever stop fighting for women's liberation and having this as my priority when the situation for girls and women regardless of how they identify and everywhere around the world is this terrible.

gothcoffins

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"Diane, tell me about the roles that lesbians play. butch, femme, and all that. You ever do that?" The camera zooms out to show (Diane's) entire body and then "no, no I don't (everyone laughs)"

That's so cute like hm I wonder lol I love silly butches !! I love you Diane!!

"No, I just play Diane. I've always been the same"

An archive clip from the film, Lesbians (1986) a sit down style documentary of 3 women discussing what it means to be a lesbian in the 80s.

gothcoffins

Very weird of you to insinuate that I don't know anything and that im forcing boxes onto people essentially? The whole reason why everyone laughed is because she IS butch. Don't talk down to me on my posts EVER. what the fuck. Especially! ESPECIALLY! because that's not what's being said here at all. She is saying at the end of the day she is still herself she is still Dianne no matter how she identifies. Fuck you actually.

gothcoffins

AND! I'm not done. To say that butch/femme is the progressive way of asking who's the man in the relationship is just fucking stupid of you

YOU hating us- hating butches studs and femmes is a YOU problem. If you think butches and studs are men and that this is how you ask "who's the man" then there are bigger fish to fry here. And again fuck you for talking down to me on my posts.

sapphicides

“i want a soft masc!” “i want a tomboy fem!” i want a butch. i want a woman so masculine that my parents call her “sir.” i want a woman who wears muscle tanks, leather jackets, and combat boots. i want a woman with more pit hair than she has hair on her head. i want a woman with broad shoulders and biceps that are 20 inches around. i want a woman who can walk into a room full of men and be the most masculine one there. i want a dyke. i want a butch

#love people who feel this way #someone special recently told me she's “attracted to extremes” and i melted