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[markparham]

You Are Going To Have So Much Success In 2018 (pass it on)

[searchin-2]

Pass it on 😎

[stop-staring]

1. Always have a water bottle in your car 2. Carry an extra lighter (even if you don’t smoke) 3. Get something new where you go to eat often, not just your usual. 4. Make a budget for yourself 5. But don’t forget to give yourself some play money and always round up on how much things cost so you have money left over 6. If you’re texting someone, but nervous to send it, just click the fucking send button. You typed that shit out for a reason. 7. Stay out late, but wake up early. You’ll be glad you had all of your day. 8. If something makes you laugh until your sides hurt, write it down in the notes in your phone, you’ll want to remember that later. 9. When you’re talking to someone, and you suddenly think of something you want to say, put up a finger and wait for them to finish talking. It’ll help you remember what you wanted to say, but you won’t interrupt them. 10. Go to plenty of concerts. Especially outdoor ones. Get drunk with your friends, but not sloppy drunk. Just drunk enough to scream your favorite songs and dance without feeling embarrassed. 11. Even though the best present is someone’s presence, it’s still always nice giving or receiving an actual gift. 12. Always keep a change of clothes in your car. Including a pair of shoes. You never know. 13. Keep at least $20 cash on you at all times. Gas is usually cheaper when you pay with cash, and not everywhere you go to eat splits checks. 14. It’s okay to be sad, but try not to forget about what makes you happy. 15. Coupons are always fantastic. 16. If you think something is cute, fucking wear it. Don’t worry about what everyone else thinks. You’ll look great, I promise. 17. Sex stores are fun, even if you just want a good laugh. 18. Plan out your days off with your friends, that way you aren’t stuck around asking the “I don’t know what do you wanna do” 19. Don’t forget to remind your friends how much they mean to you. 20. If someone gives you a compliment, smile and say thank you. They wouldn’t say it, if they didn’t mean it. 21. Drink plenty of water. Not only does it keep you hydrated, but clears your skin. 22. I know you might want to be tan, but is it really worth being burnt and exposing yourself to all that skin cancer bull shit? No. Use at least SPF 15. It’s not that hard and you’ll still tan. So stop being a brat. 23. You’re allowed to be happy. Don’t ever let anyone tell you otherwise. 24. Aim to be better, not bitter. 25. Some days are better than others. 26. You can never over pack. Pack what you want. You’ll be glad you have options to choose from. 27. Take those extra hours at work. It’ll be worth it when you see your paycheck. 28. Clean your fucking room and make your bed you slob. It’ll look so much nicer and you’ll feel better you did it. 29. If you have to, make the first move. It’s scary, but someone has to do it. 30. Take plenty of pictures. Of the sunset, your food, your friends, your dog, selfies. Everything. That way, later when you scroll through your camera roll, you’ll remember everything about that day, good or bad.

30 things I learned the year I turned twenty. (via stop-staring)

[brownstatuesquesugarbaby-deacti]

To the anon who asked about sugaring literature, I just came across this so I thought I’d share it. Enjoy and sugar on 😘

[scully]

[treplife]

This is how it’s going to be!

You don’t need to tell the world or your friends or family but every single morning you have to tell yourself exactly how it’s going to be!

You have to know exactly how you want your life to be and who you want to be and then get to work and create it!

You tell yourself how it’s going to be by writing down your goals every single morning and night!

You tell yourself how it’s going to be by visualising your goals, dreams and achievements every morning!

You tell yourself how it’s going to be by saying it to yourself throughout the day so you drown out your fears, doubts and negativity that would love to see you fail.

You tell yourself how it’s going to be by getting out of bed before 5am and showing the universe you are serious about your life and goals!

You become more powerful than you can ever imagine when you finally decide exactly how your life is going to be and who you are going to be…you become unstoppable!

Don’t wait too long for that one day…

[searchin-2]

!!!

[luxurytravelpicss]

Sugar bowl affirmations

I promise this works. I said these twice today and chi-ching the sugar bowl ran over, 2k sent to my Paypal. When saying affirmations you must believe and visual they are happening.

1. People love to give me money!

2. I am rich and wonderful.

3. I am now earning a great big income doing what makes me happy.

4. Something wonderful is happening to me today – I can feel it!

5. All my bills are paid up in full and I still have all this money!

6. A lot more money is coming into my life. I deserve it and will use it for my good and others’.

7. All my SD praise me and pay me.

8. Money flows to me like water from a faucet.

9. Money comes to me easily and effortlessly, waking and sleeping.

10.Money is rushing to me from expected and unexpected places.

[verassunshine]

I was gonna create an sugar affirmation…then i found this! Everyday I’m gonna post one!

💸💸💸💸💕💕🍀

[sugardiariesofasiren]

SUGAR BABY ACADEMY

“Business theory teaches us one important lesson,” says the instructress. Always thoroughly research the desires of the consumer. Apply this principle when you search for a rich man. On a first date there’s one key rule: never talk about yourself. Listen to him. Find him fascinating. Find out his desires. Study his hobbies; then change yourself accordingly.

Never wear jewelry on a first date, the man should think you’re poor. Make him want to buy you jewelry. Arrive in a broken-down car: make him want to buy you a smarter one.

HOW TO GET A GIFT FROM A MAN

“Today we will learn the algorithm for receiving presents,” the instructor tells her students. When you desire a present from a man, place yourself at his left, irrational, emotional side. His right is his rational side: you stand to his right if you’re discussing business projects. But if you desire a present, position yourself by his left. If he is sitting in a chair crouch down, so he feels taller, like you’re a child. Squeeze your vaginal muscles. Yes, your vaginal muscles. This will make your pupils dilate, making you more attractive. When he says something, nod; this nodding will induce him to agree with you. And finally, when you ask for your car, your dress, whatever it is you want, stroke his hand. Gently. Now repeat: Look! Nod! Stroke!

The girls chant back in unison: Look. Nod. Stroke… Look, Nod, Stroke.

HOW TO SPOT A SPONSOR 

“There are three types of men,” she tells her students. The creatives. The analysts. We’re not interested in those. The ones we want are ‘the possessors’, and she repeats the tell-all, prison-intimating phrase, a man behind whom you feel like behind a wall of stone. We all know how to spot them. The strong, silent men. They wear dark suits or nothing fancy at all.There is no in between. They have deep voices. They mean what they say. These men are interested in control. They don’t want a forceful woman. They have enough of that already. They want a girl who’ll be a pretty flower.

CHOOSE YOUR PERSONALITY ACCORDING TO SPONSOR

“I thought at first he wanted a bitch. So I played that role. Now I’m not sure, maybe he doesn’t want a bitch. Maybe he wants a nice girl. You know, sometimes I get confused, I can’t even tell which one I am, the nice girl or the bitch.” This isn’t said dejectedly but as always softly detached, like she thinks about herself in the third person. 

FREESTYLING

Bars/Upscale lounges/Clubs:Oliona walks lightly to the front of the line. She’s on the VIP list. At the beginning of every year she pays the bouncer several thousand dollars to make sure she can always be let in, a necessary tax for her profession.

Some sit by the bar, careful to just order Voss water and thus provoke a Sponsor to invite them for a drink.“Ha, they’re so naïve,” says Oliona. Everyone knows that trick by now.She orders a cocktail and sushi: “I always pretend I don’t need anything from a man.That gets them in.”

Go to an expensive area of town-continues the instructress. “Stand with a map and pretend you are lost. A wealthy man might approach to help.”

HOW TO REACT TO CRITICISM

“You should see the eyes of the girls back home. They’re deadly jealous,” says Oliona. ‘Oh, so your accent’s changed, you speak like a Muscovite now,’ they say. Well, fuck them: that just makes me proud.

You will need a thick skin.People will call you a gold digger,a whore,bitch and those are the kindest terms you will hear. You are going to have to know yourself very well, because you are not going to recognize yourself by what you hear people saying about you. And if you were not born to a certain amount of wealth to begin with, or are uncomfortable with wealth, you will face even more resistance and criticism. 

WHAT NOT TO DO

“Everything you see in this flat is his; I don’t own anything,” says Oliona, peering at her own apartment as if it’s just a stage set, as if it’s someone else who lives there.

Make sure everything you get from your sponsor is in your name-cars,apartment,gifts.Never make this mistake!Cleverly insert how your ex-sponsor who was very possessive and stalkerish demanded you return all your gifts when you broke up with him and you thought that was absolutely ridiculous and very immature.

HOW TO BE DISCREET

“But how can you meet with others guys?” I ask. “Doesn’t your present sponsor keep tabs on you?”

Delete all message and call history,Always meet other sponsors on weekdays,Don’t give out personal info,Keep your mouth shut i.e don’t tell anyone your business,Don’t leave any evidence i.e always pay cash,Call your sponsors by the same name i.e daddy,Learn how to be an expert liar,When caught have a lie ready(the more simple your lie,the better).And lastly NO PICTURES with sponsors.

LAST TIPs

Remember love doesn’t pay the bills,open you up to powerful job opportunities(If you choose to work of course),take you on a last minute weekend trip to the Bahamas ,pay off your student loans,give you a black card for shopping sprees with no budget and it certainly doesn’t buy you a rolls royce as a birthday gift.Always think with your head and not your heart.

**And If she loses her sponsor she’ll just start again, reinvent herself, and press reload**

-Excerpted from Peter Pomerantsev’s new book, Nothing Is True And Everything Is Possible: The Surreal Heart Of The New Russia (PublicAffairs, November 11).

-Sugar diaries of a siren,Sugar Academy 101

[honeycountry]

Stay safe X

[searchin-2]

Learn!!!!

[purplebuddhaproject]

The easiest thing to be in the world is you. The most difficult thing to be is what other people want you to be. Don’t let them put you in that position.

Leo Buscaglia (via purplebuddhaproject)

[vicsecretmodels]

Naomi Campbell

[fhenty]

SUGAR BABY ADVICE MASTERPOST

Here’s a list of advice and tips from various sugar babies. This will work for newbies, and sex workers too. I’ll be updating this list often on my profile so go here for more. 

» 10 Questions To Ask a Potential Sugar Daddy Before Starting an Arrangement 

» How To Be a Pure Sugar Baby

» How To Become a Sugar Baby

» How To Stand Out As a Sugar Baby

» A List of Sugar Sites To Check Out

» How To Stay Safe While Being a Sugar Baby

» How To Be a Kept Woman

» How To Ask For Gifts

» The First Date: 10 Tips To Help You Master the Art of the Sugar Date

» How To Respond to Someone Who Calls You a Prostitute

» 100 “Non Allowance” Questions To Ask Your Pot Or Sugar Daddy 

» How To Cheat Your Way Through Intelligent Small Talk

» Free Background Check Website

» How to Get a Job In The Luxury Industry 

» Why Sugar Babies Are The Next Generation Of Entrepreneurs 

» Internet Safety For Sugar Babies

» Sugar Survival Kit

» Literature For Starting Sugar Babies

» Freestyling Guide 

» What Makes a Successful Sugar Baby

» 5 Questions To Ask Before Agreeing To An Allowance Offer

» What To Say To Get The Allowance You Want

» The Sugar Baby Mentality 

» Allowance Talk

» Closet Classics Checklist

» 100 Ways To Be Elegant 

» Sugaring Research Resources 

» Creating The Perfect Profile

» What To Do With Your Allowance

» Common Sugar Baby Acronyms 

» The Psychology Of Persuasion 

» Invest In Yourself

» What To Pay Attention To On Dates

» Let’s Talk Budgeting

» Online Safety 

» What Is a Sugar Baby?

» How To Spot a FAKE Sugar Daddy

» The First Date

» Allowance & Bank Laws

» I Am Not Attracted To My Sugar Daddy

» Plus Size Sugar Baby

» Sugar Baby Shopping Tips

» The Married Sugar Daddy: Guide To Being The Other Woman

» Underage Sugar Baby: 17 & Under

» Sugar Baby With a Baby

» The Rules Of The Sugar Baby Job

» Tip For Traveling Sugar Babies

» Meeting Your First POT

» How To Handle The First Date

» Best Apps And Websites For A Sugar Baby

» The Ultimate Guide To Being A Sugar Baby

» How To Disappear Online

» The Stress Test

» “What Are You Looking For?”

» Ways To Say “No” Politely 

» What To Wear While Shopping With A SD

» Income vs Allowance 

» The Master Sex Worker TV Marathon

» New Sugar Babies, Please Read This

» How To Weed Through Messages & Profiles From A Sugar Site

» Travelling With Your SD

» More Tips For New Sugar Babies

» Hardcore Online Security For Sugar Babies

» Turning A Man Into A Sugar Daddy 

» More Safety Tips. These Could Save Your Life

» Hustle Is A Euphemism For Manipulation 

» Red Flags

» MORE SAFETY TIPS

» Tips On Messaging Someone

» This Lifestyle Isn’t For Everyone

» Free Online Safety Tool

» Red Flags On Sugar Dating Sites

» A Word About Sex And Sugar Daddies

» Calculating The Maximum Allowance A Man Can Give You Based On His Income And Taxes

» Researching Your SD Or POT

» Cash Tips

» Making A Set List Of Your Rates

» What To Say If A POT Date Is Salty And Cheap 

» Sugar Baby Shopping Tips

» 1 Sentence, 7 Different Ways

» 5 Newbie Sugar Baby Mistakes And How To Avoid Them

» Establishing And Arrangement With A Pot

» A Few Tips

» Protecting Yourself

» Messaging A Sugar Daddy 

» When Is It Right To Start Sugaring?

» Control Your Speech

» Never Lower Your Standards For A Pot

» The Money: How To Make Good Money

» A Successful Sugar Baby

» Sugaring Mistakes

» Money 101

» 5 Ways To Showcase Yourself To Your Sugar Daddy

» How To Manipulate The Conversation

[california-sugar-queen-deactiva]

How to: Make a Sugaring Profile

I feel like I am making a series out of these, haha, but they are fun! Men want the best, especially rich men, they think they can buy gold with green. They cannot, there money couldn’t buy the most decadent of women on Earth and that is why we hold the power. But, first you have to catch the fish to eat it, so let’s catch that fucking fish. 

He Wants: 

The Classy Sugar Baby: a woman with modesty and morals, a boss that hides behind smiling lips. She is smart, well educated, cultured and calculating. 

Hello, you may call me _____. I hope my looks captured your eyes but I’m certain my brains will catch your heart. I’m an educated woman looking for an equally intelligent man to take me out and show me his lifestyle. I enjoy the finer things but not alone, so maybe we can take on life together one day at a time. Please message me if you’re a man who can keep up, likes fine conversation and even finer wine. 

The Slutty Sugar Baby: a woman he can take to party, strip club, gentlemen’s club, possible pay-for-play.

Hi! I’m ____. I’m like a present, with every piece of tape you peel off, your anticipation heightens. I love adventure, living life to the fullest and making the most out of each minute! Why not do it in style? Let’s go out for drinks and see if we compliment each other! 

The Lolita Sugar Baby: a woman who looks like child dressed up to look like a woman. Someone he can have the constant advantage on, take care of like he would a baby, and protect. 

Hello, handsome, my name is _____. I am looking for a male who knows who is, what he wants and is willing to share his knowledge. I am eager to be taught and entertained and a man of wisdom is what I need. I am a young girl who is seeking an older man to help me through my life, living is nothing if you aren’t doing it with someone else, right? How about we help each other out? Talk to me if you’re interested. 

The Fuck-You Sugar Baby: a woman who is so sexy she makes every man jealous. Older men like this one, it’s the simple fuck you to everyone who told these men they were too old and too gross to get someone so sexy. 

Hey, honey my name is ____ and my job is making you feel young again! I will be as generous to you as you are to me, and you’ll remember what it meant to have your heart skip a beat! If you wanna make memories, message me.

The Discreet Sugar Baby: a woman who wants something short, sweet, and simple with no attachments and no drama. 

Hello, I am not your average sugar baby. You can call me ____. I am very low key and seeking a man who wants a long term satisfying arrangement. We can be each other’s enigma’s. I’m a smart, sweet girl who is down to Earth and just asks for a man to be the same. I’ll save you the trouble of all these other girls on this sight, ‘cause I could you make you happy. Just find out for yourself and message me.

The Barbie Doll Sugar Baby: a woman who is blonde, tall, and dumb. Usually this men who have not had a sugar baby expect Paris Hilton. Perfect, perky and accommodating. 

Hello, :). My name is ____! I am very excited to go on this journey and would love someone to show me how its done. I’ve always loved older men, they are gentlemen and that is what a lady needs. We can go out to dinner at night and in the morning share breakfast in bed! I am just a kind girl who wants a little companionship and someone to spoil me a little. 

The Boss Sugar Baby: a woman who is independent, takes what she wants and when she wants it. She’s a boss ass bitch, and yes some men like that. 

How are you doing? I’m ____. I’m looking for a man who knows what he is about and doesn’t mind my independence. I’m an intelligent girl who is looking for a partner in crime to go out, forget a little and enjoy our time together. I want to benefit you as you do me, as long as you’re good at what you do, then you’ll get the best. Let’s cut to it, you’re time is valuable and I can save you the trouble. Drop me a line?

So, these are the core personalities I have seen on sugaring websites and I have issued out a paragraph for each. Obviously, you change these up, make ‘em more your own but I think these are good outlines. Keep it catchy, short, throw some keywords in there, and make sure your personality SHINES. They know what they want, they do, and will look for characteristics they want.

Make sure you are vague about the arrangement till they message you, it can come off too much like a transaction. Which they can really dislike, they wanna pretend you’re as much into this as they are. Be friendly but affirmative and professional. I know that sounds strange but this is a job, for the most part. Of course, these roles I have stated DO NOT DEFINE all sugar babies or even some that resemble them. They are simply guidelines for what some POTs look for, which is what a profile is: advertising. 

Make sure it entices them challenges them, manipulates them, gives them something they haven’t seen, sounds believable and different. Think of yourself like wine, now what would the back of your label say? 

Make sure to get a picture of your face (no duck faces, make sure your make up is heavy so it shows up and smile!), two of your full body, and one either in a bikini or doing something active and mention it in your profile. Keep it classy! Always blur or black out your eyes on a photo and make sure they do not exist on any other social networking site. In fact, make your Facebook private as you can so it cannot be linked to it and your SA and not at all recognizable to people who could know you.

Remember, do not cheapen your worth or sell yourself. Sex worker doesn’t mean you’re below any CEO, honey. You work just as hard! 

Good luck,  XO, CSQ.

[searchin-2]

!!!!

[thetwopieceproject]

Make it happen. Shock everyone.

(via organicafe)

[dragonsugar]

Truth.

In sugar relationships and real relationships, a man who is cheap, close-minded, and not generous is still a turn-off.

My friends who married each other at 17 and have been married for 8 years now are not rich, but are more generous than most people I know. Her husband works hard and makes her sure his wife is able to have her hair done, takes lovely trips, and is saving up to build their dream home. He works one job and has a side business to send their kids to private school and put his wife through school. When I went to visit them, her husband gave us money every day to go out. He was so kind. I didn’t want to except their money most of the time, but it’s THOUGHT that counts. Guess who will be receiving a lovely Christmas gift from me there year?! Rich or poor, being generous usually just makes for a nicer, open-minded, intelligent individual. Look for a man who no matter his income, is generous and smart with his money. You want someone who knows how to save money, but who also will treat you kindly. Look at my friend’s husband, he does whatever it takes to get their family where they need/want to be. His main focus is to make his wife and kids smile. A sugar daddy, boyfriend, or husband should do the same. If you find a good man- spoil the heck out of him too. My friend always has dinner for him, gives him video game time, or surprises him with lingerie. One night she, invited his guy friends over,left with the kids and said..“have a great guys night …there is wings and pizza on the way!” He was stunned with gratitude and be bad a great time. She came home and he was relaxed. The next day he sent her flowers when he was at work and a note that said “’ I am more in love with you everyday, if that’s even possible.”

Reach for the moon. You deserve the world in any type of relationship you have.

[searchin-2]

First thing l read this morning, great post.

[lifeschoolers]

[barbiebrownsugar]

Tru

[fkaeastcoastsugar]

More Background Check Tips & Tricks:

This is a helpful tool that searches a few different things at once:

http://www.myhoneysuckle.com/escort-screening-tool/

And some more tips, these are for escorts but can certainly be applied to sugar babies:

You want to search for clues to verify your potential client is, in fact, who they are claiming to be.

Two themes to look for:

- Look for consistency.

- Look for any information you can dig up that is more than a year old.

A good indication that you are dealing with a potential scammer:

- There is absolutely nothing about them online.

- Everything you find was just created recently.

So, first step, head on over to Google.com.

Take their real name, address, and phone number, go to Google and run searches on this information.

Be sure to use quotes around variations of their information, like this:

“John Smith”

“Smith, John”

“555 444-1234″

“[phone]″

This tells Google that you want to find this text exactly as you typed it. Look for older forum posts, business websites, comments in blogs, etc.

What did you find reveal?

Another site where people frequently have their information stored is

Amazon.com. Go over to Amazon People Search and do a search on their name and email address.

If you find their profile, check out their wish list. What is the date on the oldest item on it? What kind of items are on it? You can tell a lot from a person by what they like to read and purchase.

Next stop, eBay.com. Go to eBay Member Search and search for their email address(you will need to be a member of eBay to do this).

If you find their User ID on eBay, it will say right away how long they have been a member for and where they are located. Click on their User ID and check out the kinds of things they like to bid on.

Anything creepy?

Another great site to do a search is Zabasearch.com. You will want to place the full name in for your search. In order to get the most out of this site, it helps to know his birth year, city, and town.

Other optional information you can ask for is their occupation title and their work number. Feel out your screening process and if you feel more comfortable adding those two pieces of information, then do so.

There are quite a few other sites that can be of aide to screen and you can add them to your process at will:

Date Check: Very reputable and highly trusted. Free for entertainers, very low $5/month fee for gentlemen: http://www.date-check.com

Reverse Phone Directory: You can grab a lot of free information, such as location, and the type of phone. For a fee, you can even look up the registered name. http://www.reversephonedirectory.com

Fone Finder: Another phone number reference tool: http://www.fonefinder.net/

Yahoo! Profiles: If the gentleman has a yahoo email, you can look up his user profile: http://profiles.yahoo.com/[add the yahoo handle here]

Black Book Online: This one is a bit more complicated, but might be of service to you if you have a sneaky feeling about someone and you want to dig a little deeper. Make sure to follow the directions: http://www.blackbookonline.info

Email Tracker!

Would you like a great email tracking tool that sends you reports about if and when your messages have been opened and read, how long it was read for, and if it has been forwarded to someone else, and who? Also have the ability to see the city, state, and country the recipient is in, along with countless other features. It is free to try for first 25 emails, and the fee is very affordable after that: http://www.readnotify.com/readnotify/payment.asp

Preventative Medicines:

The first and most crucial step in developing a better, easier screening process is to start at the very beginning. Using preventative medicine in your ad text and on your site will prevent the vultures from ever circling.

How can you do that?

In order to go through the first stage of your screening process, you can first screen by email.

This way you can monitor his level of interest and seriousness before wasting your time on the phone.

It’s in your best interest to avoid responding to any incoming messages that contain the following:

- A photograph of his genitalia

- A request asking for more revealing photos of you

- A request to see your face (if your face is blurred/cropped)

- Vulgar language

- Emails written in txt speak (r u avail 4 booking?)

- Emails lacking a greeting or a closing

- One-liners (are you available today?)

Source: http://www.myhoneysuckle.com/avoid-time-wasters-easier-screening-for-escorts/

[jacktrades408]

Good tips for sex workers.

[najlife-deactivated20200602]

Forget about him. Study hard, get money, love yourself, travel the world, be honest, make mistakes, be successful, and stay humble. The boy you like right now, he ain’t shit. You will find a man that loves you, deserves you, and recognizes your worth. Just do you for now and don’t let any dumb boy stand in your way.

[mcsnuggie-deactivated20131031]

true self control is waiting until the movie starts to eat your popcorn

[leftforbed]

why would the movie eat my popcorn

[leftforbed]

nevermind i get it

[searchin-2]

Funniest thing l read today :)