bitch i might be

mou. indonesian. wannabe writer. multifandom. i promise i'm a cinnamon roll.

[sarahseeandersen]

Mine now.

[katefulleir]

[pez-uzi-deactivated20160424]

Places where reality is a bit altered:

• any target • churches in texas • abandoned 7/11’s • your bedroom at 5 am • hospitals at midnight • warehouses that smell like dust • lighthouses with lights that don’t work anymore • empty parking lots • ponds and lakes in suburban neighborhoods • rooftops in the early morning • inside a dark cabinet

[lizzy-bennet]

#BB-8 has no chill

[feredir]

free them

[buckobarns-deactivated20160718]

I just realised something…did Victor Krum transfigure his head into a shark, a salt-water animal to go swimming in a fresh-water lake…? 

[geekyma12-deactivated20170503]

*squints at jkr*

[booksflowersandthemoon]

a giant squid, also a salt water animal, lives in that lake just fine so i’m gonna go out on a limb here and say it’s a magic lake

[vigilantejustice]

some dude got decked for looking like shia labeouf and so shia labeouf sent him the best voicemail of all time

[grantaerearchive-blog]

　 　 　 　 　 　 　 　 character moodboards: lily evans

　 　 　 　 　 　 　 　 “ everyone thinks their own situation most tragic. 　 　 　 　 　 　 　 　 　 　 　 　 　 i am no exception. ”

[claracivry]

IT HAPPENED!!

[aexmalfoy-deactivated20200312]

s p e l l s

[hirmione]

hogwarts houses and the four elements / slytherin + water people with a strongly emphasized water element are feeling types and are very sensitive. their imaginative and emotional lives are deep and rich. used for healing, cleansing, and purification, water is related to the west, and associated with passion and emotion.

[peetababy]

I literally have no self control when I’m reading books I’ll skip like 6 paragraphs and read the dialogue and then feel bad and go back and read the paragraphs it’s a vicious cycle

[sazquatch-blog]

For once this is like one of those ‘genuine relateable’ posts that I am shocked by like I 100% did not know this was a thing people did, a thing 118,000 people did.

[sevenmileorz]

Can’t wait for the Cap3

[upandoutcomic]

[petersparker-deactivated2016050]

#kill me now

[micdotcom]

Watch: President Obama brought the house down at his last White House Correspondents Dinner.

[rochastocade]

biggest hetero lie i’ve been told: fighting is a part of a healthy romantic relationship

[lilbittydragon-deactivated20241]

Disagreements are a part of every healthy relationship. Having bad days when you’re not your best self is a part of every healthy relationship. Fighting, disrespect, and insults? Those are not healthy at all. 

[scrumptiousgalaxychild]

NO OKAY THIS IS SO FUCKING TRUE. THIS BOILS MY GODDAMN BLOOD.

STORY TIME.

When I was 16 I had recently moved, and was attending a new school. About half-way through the school year, I started dating a guy I was friends with. He and I got on REALLY well. Like yeah we had disagreements and shit, but we always, ALWAYS talked about it and discussed our feelings and why things were making us upset. Every. Single. Time. We had a good system. And when we had disagreements we resolved them immediately. Otherwise we got along SO WELL. It was great I was really freaking happy and he was too!

About six months into my relationship, people, mostly my family members, commented about how WELL we got along…a l m o s t like it was a bad thing. I didn’t really think about it though, too involved in my own brain.

Skip ahead, to about a year-ish in. Friends of mine would sometimes get into fights with their significant others and they’d tell me ALL about it and I’m a good friend so I’d listen and try to give advice. Except I never had anything when they’d ask me, “Oh well what do you do when you and J get into fights??”

And I never had an answer other than “Well we don’t fight.”

And they never believed me. Or worse they’d insist that was UNHEALTHY. “Fighting is healthy, it lets out tension building up! You just need to sometimes!”

I never, EVER EVER felt comfortable with that, and I’d shrug it off and insist we didn’t NEED to fight. Our relationship was ALREADY healthy, especially because of the way we handled disagreements. People never listened and insisted there was something wrong, whether out-right stating it or hinting at it.

Even my best friend insisted that fighting was healthy, and I listened to her on nearly everything. Except for that. I didn’t budge for anyone.

DO NOT LET PEOPLE FOOL YOU. FIGHTING IS NOT HEALTHY. DISAGREEMENTS ARE. BAD DAYS ARE OKAY. LEGITIMATE SCREAMING AND GOD FORBID PHYSICAL VIOLENCE IS. NOT. OKAY!!!

Don’t be fooled guys, please. :/

[psychabuse101]

Talking to one another through disagreements is the ONLY healthy way to handle disagreements in a relationship. Verbal, physical and psychological violence is NEVER healthy.