children of abusive parents: always trying to grow, using every opportunitiy to learn and change and emotionally develop, even tolerate abuse for the off-chance it will help them grow
abusive parents: growth? havenât seen her how she doing. havenât grown emotionally since age of 4 and have no plans scheduled.
Or worse, the whole âYou used to be such a good child! Nice, helpful⊠You were actually doing things! When did you go wrong, huh!? Why the hell did you want to ruin this for me!?â




















