just like heaven

sunny | 29 | los angeles

[sunny-day-sky]

she/they/he/idc

millennial (late 20s)

queer

engaged and not open to people hitting me up

proana/thinspo dni

ty~

[tiktoks-for-dead-pope]

[anti-encomiums]

An alternative to the sternal rub is the trapezius squeeze.

[sunny-day-sky]

You can obtain Naloxone/Narcan in any pharmacy (at least in the US where I am; ymmv). It is an affordable over-the-counter drug and is easy to administer. Please note that you WILL need to call 911 asap, because it is only a temporary solution, and the patient will need medical attention right away. You do not need a medical degree to administer Narcan, and although there can be a stigma against having it on hand, it’s much better to be embarrassed in the pharmacy for ten minutes than to have your patient/friend/family member die. Administer the drug and immediately call EMS, and do not hesitate to tell them that you think it is an overdose. Medical workers are not snitches and will not get you in trouble for drug use. They just need all the necessary info to help the patient.

[llatimeria]

having the ability to stop, slow down, and think "wait, is there any physical reasons I feel bad actually?" is probably one of the most important skills one can have as a mentally ill/neurodivergent person or really just as a human being existing in the world in general

[llatimeria]

I'd always felt like those "stop! are you hungry? have you had enough water? etc etc..." posts from a few years ago were helpful but sometimes condescending because I really didn't realize how much some people with emotionally negligent parents just were not taught those skills. It can come off as dismissive to be like "you're actually just hungry" when someone's upset but ... There are a nontrivial number of people in this world who cannot function normally when they're hungry and don't even realize that's what's causing it.

Anyways if you're sad and reading this go have a snack. Even if you have a real problem beyond being hungry you're not gonna solve it on an empty stomach anyway so just go have a snack. it won't hurt

[aahsokaatano]

If you're upset, ask yourself: is this caused by SHREK?

Sleepiness

Hormones

Restroom

Eating

Kidneys (dehydration)

Also, friendly reminder that if you can't drink water for whatever reason, you aren't a bad person and you should drink SOMETHING. Juice, milk, sports drinks, yes even coffee and energy drinks - there is water in those things and some water is better than no water!

If your options are drink nothing or drink a sugary soda - drink the soda. Dehydration is no joke, and, again some water from a different drink is better than no water at all.

[arkaine-spell]

There are basically only two common liquids a human can feasibly drink that are not water positive: Alcohol and Sea Water. So drinking literally anything else is better than nothing because the additives are not strong enough to counteract the water content.

[enochianribs]

important personality test: mario kart main, gas station order (candy, drink, chip), animal you were obsessed with when you were 8, lightsaber color, and lastly: vampires, werewolves or dragons?

[archive-pdf]

Ann Demeulemeester: S/S 1998 Collection, via Ann D. Monograph Rizzoli Book. Scan Provided by @f.liiiz

ARCHIVE.pdf: Fashion Book Scans, Articles, and Content for the World.

[sunny-day-sky]

Humanity has finally found a way to communicate with crabs, we realize they're smarter than us. Now that they know we know, what are they going to do?

wha

[sexnmargiela]

Paco Rabanne FW01

[thededfa]

Listen, maybe I can’t change the world, but I can pass eggs over the fence to my neighbor to save them a few dollars. I can cross the street and fix another neighbor’s cabinets. I can send my kid to the house next door with a can of tomato sauce they need and they’ll come back with a box of cocoa powder they weren’t going to use. We can leave our old furniture at the curb and one of us will drive by and pick it up to fix and sell or keep. I’ll plant a garden since I have the space and time and I’ll share what I can and I’ll get calls from someone else asking if I can use a crate of oranges.

I may not be able to change the world but I can do something

[synchronysymphony]

Joly and Combeferre on the barricades:

[sunny-day-sky]

lol this is funny

[oracle-fae-deactivated20260720]

Happy May, friends 🍄🌿✨

[sunny-day-sky]

vermilion pt 2 bloodstone mix

[camilicy]

I will forever love strawberries 🍓

[sunny-day-sky]

oh shit i’m 27 now

[regularlesbian]

fun fact: any policy on drugs that isn’t harm reduction is going to cause addicts to suffer and die

[uncanney]

fun fact: Drug addiction is a public health issue, and approaching it as if it were a law enforcement issue is prejudicial to addicts and will result in their suffering and death

[jumpingjacktrash]

if you just assume addiction is a method of self-medicating, you’ll pretty much never be wrong.

now, not everything people self-medicate for actually has a proper treatment. i’m pretty sure the reason my uncle made sure to be slightly drunk at all times ‘to round the sharp corners off of things’ was sensory processing disorder. i have that too, and i just kind of accept that i’m going to randomly get my brain sandpapered from time to time. there is no medication for that. all you can do is dull your senses. i’ve chosen not to, but i can’t blame him for his decisions. when a ringing phone feels like getting hit upside the head with a frying pan, liver damage sounds like a fair price to pay.

anyway, it seems really self-evident to me that people don’t enjoy living the life of an addict, they do it because the alternative looks worse. people don’t get addicted to substances just for funsies. they start making a habit of taking something because of insomnia, or grief, or headaches, or depression, or seething undirected rage and terror they can’t put a name to – something that they can’t ignore or shrug off. and for whatever reason – lack of access, lack of knowlege, lack of money, or it just plain doesn’t exist – they aren’t able to apply the Approved Correct Remedy. they use what they can get.

addicts aren’t some weird otherfolk who inexplicably just Do Drugs because they’re Bad. addicts are you with a problem you can’t solve.

[mikkeneko]

these facts aren’t fun but they are pretty important

[passivites]

[firstfullmoon]

“Is it foolish to speak of little joys that occur in the middle of tragedy? It is our humanity. Whatever we have left of it. We must not deny it to ourselves.”

— Ilya Kaminsky, from Still Dancing: An Interview With Ilya Kaminsky by Garth Greenwell

[supernatural-jackles]

Something no one tells you when you’re going through a tough time, is that even the smallest people will remember you. They’ll wonder why you haven’t bought food for your dog, where the pictures of your boyfriend went, or why their favourite cashier hasn’t been there for awhile. People notice you. People love you. Even if it’s for your jokes, even if it’s for your patience, even if it’s just seeing you around. People miss you. People love you. People care. 

I’m grateful for everyone who is still here today, no matter how hard it is.