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Hi. I'm Tristin I'm 15 years old. My blog is meant to be personal and possibly triggering. I am struggling with self harm, anxiety, and I'm diagnosed as severely depressed. But never let that get in your way of living your life to the fullest. If anyone at all needs advice with something, never be scared to ask. Seriously, I'll be here.

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I know you have anxiety and I honestly think I might have anxiety but I don't know how to tell me parents or doctor that I think I do, like I don't even understand how it works ? Do you tell your doctor or what? I just really really need some advice :(

Just be open about it to your parents first. Then ask and if they would take you to a doctor about it. The doctors will help you figure out what's going on and how to help it.

Hi, so I'm a cutter and I've noticed that in my right arm where I cut the other day, there is a vein that's suddenly more visible than it is in my left arm where I haven't cut. I cut about 4 inches down from my hand, and the vein is between there and my elbow. Would you know if that might have anything to do with the cutting or has this ever happened to you? Thanks :)

This has never happened to me. So I don't know how to really help. :( Maybe that just happens. Maybe you might of nicked it or something. Sorry for not being very helpful.

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sorry to bother you&stuff its just im having a really bad night&just want to talk to someone. No one knows i self harm but i managed to go for ages without doing it, however tonight i broke down&cut myself a lot. I feel so bad&dont know what to do x

It'll be okay I promise. <3 Everyone who understands self harm relapses. It happens. But no matter what, everything will me okay. I'm here for you.

My mom is mad at me, and I just relapsed after a whole year of being clean because of it. I've never told her about my self harming, and she's probably still mad at me, but I really need to talk to her about it, I really need her to know about all of it. Please please I know it's late right now where I am but i really need you to answer this now please what do I do

Be completely honest with her. Have her take a seat with you at a table or anywhere and just get everything off your mind.

I cut down to the fat in my arm, should i cover it or leave it to air? I don't want to go to a doctors and can't see the need as its stopped bleeding. Thank you x

Shit. I'm so sorry that I'm just now seeing this. Cover any deep wound that you inflected on yourself. :(