[sillystigmata]

Why did this make me tear up?

[selfindulgentdebauchery]

[artistformerlyknownasbutttrumpet]

i was training a young person at work, and she referred to sexual assault as "SA" out loud, and i immediately was like, "no, it's sexual assault, call it what it is," bc idgaf if the algorithm overlords have taught y'all that you should fear direct language, how tf do any of you expect to ever address real issues with any amount of seriousness if you can't even say the words? imagine an advocate looking a sexual assault survivor in the eyes and asking "did he grape you?" it's absolutely fucking absurd, but these young interns and new hires are coming into an environment where we deal with survivors of all different kinds of abuse, and they're coming with the mindset that the words are as bad as the actions, and that makes them shitty at the job and look juvenile af

i HATE self-censorship for a lot of reasons, but being in crisis work makes it even more frustrating. who are you censoring for? like i am being so fr, WHO are you censoring for? have you even thought it through? people who have been raped know that they have been raped. if someone attempts suicide or is grieving someone who did, saying "sewer slide" isn't going to protect them from any of the feelings. a murder victim's family isn't going to feel better bc you said "unalived" instead of murdered. if anything, it's just extremely invalidating and othering. it's saying "what happened to you is so bad that i won't even say the word," which is NOT trauma-informed care. you are not protecting survivors/victims when you self-censor. the ONLY things you protect when you self-censor are the puritanical ideologies that are being encouraged by rich fascists who want your money and obedience

say the fucking words, guys. just say the goddamn words before i go insane!!!

[selfindulgentdebauchery]

tvl is so hard to watch, i feel so bad for lestat, lestat let claudia burn, lestat is a mess, he killed 8 wolves, 8 wolves, 8 wolves, he remembers everyone who has ever died, lestat glorifying his assault, lestat loving nicki till the last moments, lestat is one of the worst, lestat is me, i am lestat

[selfindulgentdebauchery]

There was this text meme you see

[homunculus-argument]

Not book smart or street smart but a secret third thing.

[luckyletd0wn]

supid

[homunculus-argument]

supid.

[hppjmxrgosg]

"going out to get milk" is a common turn of phrase used to describe a man abandoning his family.

the "milkman" is a common figure in stories depicting a woman's infidelity and adulterous affair.

this implies that the ability to provide milk would both decrease the likelihood of a man abandoning his wife and children, as it would eliminate the need for leaving to get milk AND would secure that man's marriage, as his wife would have no need to seek milk from an extraneous source.

therefore, all men should produce milk, through various means such as:

- being a cow

- being an almond

- being a woman

- being a coconut

- being in the omegaverse

- being an oat

(list is exemplary and not finite)

in this essay, i will redefine the nuclear family and explain the seductive and inflammatory nature of the 1993 "Got Milk?" commercials.

[kosmogrl]

get in loser we’re gonna try again despite it all

[sailermoon]

having unwashed hair will have you believing shit like i can’t be saved

[caprart1]

i DO believe that a good writer can make mischaracterization work. oh there's a character who doesn't normally cry? figure it out!! disect the character. make the situation cryable for them. make that character cry ugly tears even if it goes against their very nature. YOU CAN MAKE IT WORK!!!

[amyrosedefensesquad]

A great piece of advice I've seen is "Don't fixate about what the character would never do. Think about the circumstances that would drive them to do this, even if they wouldn't normally."

[selfindulgentdebauchery]

FEM SHSE WAS SO FUN TO MAKE AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

[selfindulgentdebauchery]

I MADE MOOOORRREEEEEE RAHHHHHHHH

How i feel right now

Can’t figure out how to dress Sieun for her lunch with her mother though hmmmm, either way Ahn Suho reacts right

[seogloo]

love you baby

[selfindulgentdebauchery]

SCREAMING

[selfindulgentdebauchery]

FEM SHSE WAS SO FUN TO MAKE AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

[selfindulgentdebauchery]

Yes? Yes. but also i cant sleep

[selfindulgentdebauchery]

Okay the moodboard is shit…

… But, do you see what i see?

When i saw lee yeons fits in perfect crown,,,, seol in ahs baeksang shoot was the first thing that came to mind

[selfindulgentdebauchery]

So obviously… i worked on it right ewey…

[selfindulgentdebauchery]

Okay the moodboard is shit…

… But, do you see what i see?

When i saw lee yeons fits in perfect crown,,,, seol in ahs baeksang shoot was the first thing that came to mind

[nyxi-pixie]

myyyy fav thing abt shse is sieun is sooo fascinated so quickly like his whole thing is i speak to no one idc abt what everyone else is doing its me my noise cancelling earbuds and my studies against the world and then suho happens and mr never says a word is asking SO MANY QUESTIONS. how many jobs do you have suho dont u get tired suho is that why u sleep in the classroom suho is there really no subject you find interesting suho. he kept up fully one sided conversations in comatose suhos text messages for almost two YEARS. hes actually a massive loser omg ily yeon sieun

[selfindulgentdebauchery]

Back on my bs