Confessies

Selfship confessions ! ☆ Current... : Open ! (Fixing this acc when I have the chance)

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Salutations ~ !

This blog is ran by two people: 🍓🕙 and 🍰🐰 This is a safe area for selfshippers to say anything on how they feel ! we are not judgemental, so please do not worry on what we will say .

DNI ! Sorry ! ::

Proshippers and Darkshippers. People who are adults and selfship with minors.

What your not allowed to talk about...

NSFW. Sexual related content. Hope you understand! You may joke about it or talk about it if it's a situation. Please no foul language!

What to do ::

You may vent, gush, or literally anything else about your f/o! Please do not say your f/o's name! You may use the first letter or an symbol/emoji to represent them instead. I request that you do not judge anyone, as this is a safe space for people to talk as much as they would like !

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Hey so this is just a kinda silly goofy confession bcus ik my bestie is gonna find this so like uhh

Finn mccool blocktales am I right? Hehe...

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Lowk been thinking of selfshipping with him when he's such a fucking LOSER and IDIOT who talks like a STUPID COLLEGE FRAT BRO (affectionate)

HE'S A LITERAL OP FRAT BRO IDIOT AND I HATE THAT I LOVE HIM (SILLY)

..btw if u do find this hiiii sister moooon pleaaaseee don't beat my asssss (silly) - 🌟💜 anon

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The connection between me and my f/o is starting to decrease, but I still love him, it just feels flat and lacking, so what should I do? :(

sorry if my English is weird,I use Google translate:')

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Im sorry that this happening ! Here are some things that you could do ::

( Make a Journal/Scrapbook :: !

Get images of your f/o, some stickers, random pieces of paper, a notebook, or literally anything that can decorate! Write memories of your f/o and you or if your not into writing, just decorate a page in a notebook using images of your f/o and decor!

( Go on a walk/picnic :: !

Go to a nearby park and take a walk with your f/o! Maybe even have a picnic. You can even have a picnic indoors.

( Go shopping and try on new clothed with your f/o :: !

Go aand shop! Itll make u feel better. Trust me. Try on clothes that your f/o would wear, and try on clothes your f/o would think you look cute in!

Im really sorry if this isnt much. I hope this kinda helped and gave you an idea. Make some memories with your f/o and spend time with ur f/o more.

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Okay, so it's sorta a weird thing to have your bf's oc be one of your main f/os and also be non-sharing?? Because I saw someone saying something about him and I got just a little possessive over him but didn't say much.. :(

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Hello ! Honestly, in my opinion, I dont find that weird. Whatever makes you happy, you should go for it. Im not sure what that person said about him, but just ignore them and forget about their opinion. Not all opinions should be said, and Im pretty sure what that someone said shouldve not been spoken, and kept in the back of their head. I know its hard to forget what they said, and sometimes what they said could last for days, weeks, months. But if you let what they say take over you, that means you that they won. So dont let them win and always remember that your f/os love you very much!

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Hmm I love my fictional wiffe. Need to bite her gently its my love language

If it's open, can I be 🍁🦫?

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I rrlly rlly rlly RRLLLYYY LIKE MY F/O AAAAAAAA HES JST SO AAAAAAAAA HAHAHDIABSJKSLl

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Update ~ !

Hello ! ☆ Mod 🍓🕙 will be temporarily busy for the dates 15-21 and the other mod will take over that week .

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Welcome mod 🍰 🐰! She's my closest friend and will be joining this account to help out ! ☆

(hi 😸 - 🍰🐰

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I may feel a little jealous when people compliment my f/o, but it happens so rarely, so I forget about my negative feelings as soon as I imagine how happy he'd be to hear something nice from anybody

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Your f/o must really enjoy the compliments. It's good to be happy for your f/o when people compliment them. It's okay to be jealous. Just don't stay jealous forever. It's good how you're able to forget those negative feelings. Most people aren't able to do that or learn to do that. ☻

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the mental block between crushing on a character and actually dating them,,, like whatt could possibly be stopping me !!

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My f/os are from a popular media but....they're the most unpopular characters amongst the English speaking fandom so basically no fan content in English & the official stories aren't tl until years after release...I need new stuff if my boys so bad but no fics or anything for em...they have crazy insane lore too that could spark up really cool discussions and maybe even aus but nobody cares about them 😭

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I get it. It must be pretty difficult to find some sort of content of your f/o. Especially if nobody really talks about it. Have you tried finding a friend online in the same fandom that you like? If you have one, maybe try giving them your ideas and aus that you have on his lore and maybe they will be interested and start discussing more about your f/o. Maybe try starting simple with a small conversation about your f/o and slowly move it to your ideas? Since it seems your f/o has a really interesting lore, people are sure to be interested into your conversation! Maybe even try joining a community on Tumblr and talk about ur f/o there.

If you don't have one yet, you can always make friends on Tumblr, since your f/o is from a popular media, it should be not so difficult to find someone of the same interest. And yes, it may be difficult to make one too, but if you want to have someone to talk about the same interest and ideas as you, you have to be confident to talk to them about it.

It seems that the English community doesn't have much fanart of your f/o. Maybe try finding new apps or websites that have people in the same group of interest as you, or try finding content of your f/o off of other language communities. Researching usually helps. Maybe you'll uncover a huge amount of content of your f/o? It did help me once. My f/o is specific, and so there's not much content of what I wish there was. But when I tried other social media apps, I found more people who were willing to discuss or share ideas.

And if none of these advices work for you, you can always share your ideas here! I'm sorry I am unable to help any further. I am not really sure what to do in this situation. But I am willing to know more about your f/o! You can always talk about your f/o here. That is the best I could do.