Service is Golden

This blog deals with mature themes; readers should be of legal age and probably not at work. In BDSM and beyond, I believe service can be a rewarding way to relate to the world around you. Several people have asked me to share my thoughts and experiences on that subject. Here are some; I aim to entertain and educate. You're welcome to email me at [email protected].

[theprivilegedmale]

[serviceisgolden]

The one and only Jason Masters. I’ve had the privilege of serving him in person a few times, and he really is a great boss.

[whitemalefeet]

[mikemann325]

Brad (MyFriendsFeet)

[serviceisgolden]

Brad had a laugh that altered my brain in sexy ways forever. So many amazing realizations about myself and my sexuality came from @myfriendsfeet and that’s something for which I’m grateful.

[serviceisgolden]

These plants call me daddy.

[serviceisgolden]

This would be a good morning to be served breakfast in bed and given a foot rub and then have my back washed in the shower and then stand on a slave as I brush my teeth.

[realmenreallife]

Dean's kinda just... crazy handsome. He's like a rock star and photographing him made me feel like one, too. 🌞🔥✨

[serviceisgolden]

Oh yes!

[realmenreallife]

It’s one epiphany after another.

[serviceisgolden]

I’m glad you’re finding some comfort and light. And it’s nice when we get to hear your voice and your thoughts! :)

[serviceisgolden]

Another day, another sub who adores that I am consistently communicative and caring in my dominance suddenly blocking me because they got scared. I know people go through stuff but dang, y’all need to learn to talk about your concerns.

[alecthebreadboy]

Who else up, gay, and sweaty?

[alecthebreadboy]

[serviceisgolden]

There so much to love here but can we take a moment to thrash around about the wonderful shirt? Thank you.

[orvillepeckspocketpussy]

one thing i am quite grateful to Brian David Gilbert for is the phrase "If you needed ME to tell you that... I'm glad I told you that."

it has been etched into my brain for the past six years, fundamentally altering how i consider knowledge gaps held by others, as well as myself. people usually need to be told stuff before they can know it! that's how knowing stuff works! this is an extreme example played for laughs but it's a legitimately helpful philosophy!!

[serviceisgolden]

I didn’t know BDG had a version of this philosophy, but it makes so much sense that he does. He’s a real champion of creative kindness and enthusiastic transmission of knowledge.

Super cool post by a super cool guy, too. ;)

[serviceisgolden]

Always a little sad and a little amusing when someone thinks being a jerk and being a dom are the same thing.

Repeat after me. “Hi, I liked your blog.”

(It could have also been some weird bot or scam situation, but that’s part of why I said what I said.)

[serviceisgolden]

Just tried to verify my identity (with yet another company) so I could access a website. The service wouldn’t even recognize I was taking a selfie. So, can’t do it. lol. Well, okay. Guess I won’t be talking to those people again since I can’t log in. What a hellscape.

At least I have my hammock.

[serviceisgolden]

Philadelphia for the weekend. Had a lot to do before I left town, and I’m fucking glad that I had a lackey I could tell to handle the booking for me. I love when people pay attention and learn about how to please the individual.

[awesomecrowdcontrol1]

Hairy Alpha Master hypnotizes you into becoming his foot slave.

***This video is amazing! The Alpha will make you cum just by listening to his voice. Must be seen to be believed***

Findom feet hypnosis - ThisVid.com

[serviceisgolden]

This is Mindfoxxx. He’s a pretty stellar dude. Not just interested in money, and has done some cool work educating people about hypnosis kink. He has some stuff up on JFF. Always nice to meet people who actually like kink and fetish and can help you grow in your understanding of it.

[serviceisgolden]

While I appreciate the recent attention, some of that attention appears to have been from no-really-just-unironically-racist-and-needlessly-cruel-conspiracy-spreading accounts.

Y’all. I’ve spent years in war. I’ve lived on the floor of a trailer and in very fancy places. I’ve got decades of experience as both a sub and as a dom. For almost all of my adult life, I’ve been a servant of “the people” in one capacity or another: soldier, teacher, fundraiser, other stuff.

Now, a person COULD go through the same experiences and walk away with a totally different view of those experiences. I respect that. Not just in my feelings, but in my actions. And I’m also a kinky fuck: I’ve done some twisted shit that some people only dream of and I’m lucky. No small amount of that has been rooted in power imbalances around social class, politics, ethnicity, gender, and so forth.

But actual, needless cruelty—the kind of life where the most interesting thing you have going for you is being mean to others—is unimpressive. It dulls your logic and your strength and your conversations. If you’re sincerely mired in that shit, I cannot encourage you enough to find better uses of your time and energy.

[serviceisgolden]

LOL. Example:

Part of a message from someone. “I saw your posting about the guy who posted to you but then either chickened out, blocked or deleted. I think a lot of people get who they are or aren't confused. I prefer a good Alpha to be in charge of me who isn't afraid of what he wants and doesn't want and isn't afraid to apply some force when needed to correct me.”

Naturally, the moment I replied to some racially charged slogans with “Okay? That doesn’t really have anything to do with what I said.” they blocked me.

Which, you know, fine. Better now than down the road. But dang, people really DO confuse who they are and who they are not. Imagine being so petulant about not getting to say racist things that you can’t even enjoy your own fantasies. That seems like a yucky way to live. No thank you.

[serviceisgolden]

I hope you’re having a good day. I’m listening to a meeting on headphones while stretching and waiting on laundry and relaxing in my undies. If you were here, I’d let you kiss my butt cheeks, or the knuckles of my toes, help my stretches, or fold the laundry; I love using subs as psychic background music.

You. Your life. A man’s background music.

[serviceisgolden]

Whilst reading comments, saw a logically wobbly one. Just to check if Riley’s Law was still in effect, I checked their feed and, yes indeed, it is.

Here’s a shrug, but it could also be that presenting hand emoji.

[mightyoakaf]

[enkidu77]

File under "Teams"

[serviceisgolden]

Filed under teams. But are you both mooks? Is one the other’s mook? Are you mook/boss vers? On a scale of Bond Villains to Beebop and Rocksteady, where are we? Also woof.