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Astrology: Venus Signs
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Scorpio Venus; Leo Venus; Libra Venus; Cancer Venus
This reading is about the type of people that they're attracted to before meeting you and how they feel about you compared to their past type.
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CUBE 1
Their type before meeting you:
They're attracted to mature people, those that can be seen as successful and know what they want for their life. The go getter and the hard worker type. They probably like people who can commit in a love relationship, but they like to view it as a partnership or a companionship, someone who can both be their love partner but also their companion in life in general. They like to build the foundation of love based on friendship. Your person probably like people that display loyalty and tenacity in whatever they do and to whomever they pursue. The kind of people that treat commitment seriously and want to work hard for it.
They want to be improved by the people whom they share a connection with. They are attracted to someone who can inspire them to be better, also who can actually help them to be better. They may seek people who have a higher social status then them or someone who's more ahead in their life. This likely because your person treats relationship as a partnership, as work, so there should be something mutually beneficial for both parties involved. They want to work hard with their person, so people who display a good problem solving skill will be attractive in their eyes.
They have hidden insecurities and fears that they want to be soothed by a stronger figure. They're drawn to people who are proactive in the relationship, who are willing to support them and make their life easier and safer. They seek comfort in the masculine energy that can give them the structure to grow into themselves more. So they're likely attracted to masculine energy, regardless of the other person's gender. They don't actually look for the soft, gentle and nurturing type, maybe they're like that themselves so they need someone who's the opposite of them.
How they feel about you compared to their type:
You and their type have a lot in common. The little difference is that you're more laid back in your approach to life than the people they're previously attracted to. You have more spontaneity and a more optimistic outlook than their past type. The past type are doers, who can be workaholics and focus more on rules and orders. You're more relaxed and like to enjoy whatever life has to offer to you. They look for protection and improvement from their past type, but with you, they will feel inspired to actually grow stronger and be more independent, while still contributing to the relationship.
CUBE 2
Their type before meeting you:
They desired a partner who can share a mental connection with them. They're probably attracted to intelligence in a partner. To them, romance starts from the mind. They enjoy someone who can provoke their mind while also allowing them to be vulnerable. They love having deep conversations that can span many hours, where two people can open up their hearts and share without reservation.
Their type tends to be the celebral type, yet still possess the emotional intelligence necessary for a deeper connection. They also like to learn from people, so they're attracted to someone who can show them new knowledge and open their mind more to different things. Even someone who can trigger them, making them feel uncomfortable yet excited to talk to nevertheless. Those people could be blunt, straightforward, have unconventional ideas. They enjoy listening to people when they talk about their ideas and ideals, the more outlandish and different from theirs, the better.
Not just mental connection, they also need to feel an unspoken spiritual connection with a person. The kind that can evoke a sense of fatefulness, of destiny. They probably pay more attention to someone when they keep meeting that person by coincidence or when the two speak and think about the same thing at the same time. They would be intrigued by a person's spiritual belief, someone who is not just rational all the time but actually can be intuitive and act upon their own intuition and faith. Faith is an important factor for them, they like someone who is confident in their own choosen path, no matter how ridiculous it seems from the outside, simply because that person knows in their own heart that what's is right, what's needed to be done and follow that inner guidance without wavering. They probably link this trait with faithfulness in relationship too.
How they feel about you compared to their type:
You seem to be more relaxed and light-hearted than their usual type. If their usual type tends to challenge and trigger your person, you tend to uplift them and make matters seem much more simple and solvable. Your energy is lighter, not so heavy and intense like how they're used to. But you have your own brand of light that can shine upon other people's paths. Your love is consistent yet still spontaneous. In their past, they might be more attracted to the instense kind of physical intimacy. But with you, they will want to do more romance and want to court you, almost like they want to be careful and enjoy the overall process of being in love with another person.
CUBE 3
Their type before meeting you:
This was probably a long time ago, when they're younger. When your person was still unsure of their footing and their path. There was a period of feeling lost and vulnerable. This was when your person looked for someone who can share that feeling with them, someone who's in the same predicament as them. The people whom they tend to attracted to are likely in their friend circle, someone who knows their history, their struggle. They seeked someone who can provide a sense of emotional comfort to them, who wouldn't make them feel small and powerless. Not as a protector, but as a nurturer, someone who could provide a safe emotional space for them to be vulnerable, to cry and to pour their heavy heart out.
They might not be attracted to assertive and confident person, because that would remind them of their lack and their current position in life. So they looked for someone who's a little timid and quiet. A person with weaknesses and a tint of anxiety. This soothed their own anxiety and in some ways, boosted their confidence. They probably wanted someone who can work with them, who can help them, in a quietly devotional way.
In the past, they looked for practicality and material stability in a partner, they want to build with that partner, to secure their footing. They just wanted to have someone who can share the burden of life with them, but didn't look further to the future aspirations, it almost feel like a luxury for them at that time.
How they feel about you compared to their type:
They will feel that the type that they used to look for was like a distant past. They would look at you and look back at their past and see so much difference. In a way, the people they're attracted to show their own progress and growth in life. Their type matured along with them. You will mark the change in their mindset. You will also provide a safe emotional space for them, but you will subvert the dynamic of "victims in arms" that they had. Maybe their past relationships all started from friendship that gradually progressed into love connection, but it felt like a companionship or partnership rather than a love relationship. But with you, they can feel romantic attraction right from the start. You will actively push away their limits and expand their life. Being with you will feel like sitting next to a fireplace on a freezing night, warm, dependable, strong and safe.
CUBE 4
Their type before meeting you & how they feel about you:
For this group, I don't think your person had a type before you, or their type was very vague and general. Maybe they didn't have much experience in dating prior to meeting you or their past partners were all different from each other. This gives me an experimental vibe, your person is someone who is open to different types of people, they're open to many experiences and don't have a judgmental outlook towards dating.
Meeting you will be a pivotal point for them. The image of their "type" will slowly form inside their head and they will begin to know what they truly need and want from a partner. So I will merge the part about what they feel about you compared to their type, because you're literally their type. They will compare you to their past and realise how incompatible they were with their past partners, how difficult it was to be with them. Through you, they will understand their preferences better.
But the common point that you and their past "type" have is the mystery and the intrigue of the mind. Throughout every connection, they seek a deep level of mental compatibility. They need to be able to have deep conversations about profound subjects and even taboo subjects, the kind that can show the real person behind the mask.
This is someone who needs their partner to be their companion in every aspect of life. They look for the ability to weather the storms together, the ability to adapt but still committed in difficulty. As they matured, they begin to look for a more stable and committed type of connection, rather than just a romantic experience that can burn out quickly. They're attracted to someone who can "work" with them, build the commitment with them, slowly, carefully. Someone with emotional maturity that can be vulnerable and allow them to be vulnerable in a relationship. But they also need someone who, despite difficulties and wounds, can still keep their optimism about life, a person who can always look forward to tomorrow. This is especially important because they want both to be able to go through many transformations and reach a better version of themselves. They realise this about you, how you can stimulate their mind and also give them hope and vision for the future.
If there's a particular preference about physical appearance, then it would be about natural beauty, the ease that someone has in their body, the grace in movements. And someone who can genuinely laugh and cry without reservation.
I did try to focus on your physical attributes, but honestly your vibe and other things were included in the messages that came up. I guess what they think and feel about your body are also influenced by your vibe or just general impression you give. For some piles, insecurities came up. There are also similarities across the piles, maybe my page attracts a certain type of audience. I didn't want to be too specific with regard to the body types, because this is a general reading, but I do hope whatever that was mentioned resonates well.
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PILE 1Â
What do they think about your physical body: 5 of Pentacles, Ace of Pentacles Rx, 8 of Wands Rx, 9 of Swords, Queen of Swords.Â
Iâm picking up on... critical energy. This could be your critical attitude to your own body that your person is sensing from you. I know a lot of you came here probably looking for juicy messages about your physical body but the wounds came up, Iâve got to address them. There is a feeling of lack, and like, there's a wound somewhere. Your person thinks that you are carrying some type of pain or hurt; this could be self-doubt, negative self-image, bad experiences, or it could be something physical, such as a physical scar or pain that can actually be seen. Some of you are insecure about your thighs, and your person knows this. A few of you feel insecure about your breasts; maybe they are bell shaped, I donât know why youâre insecure about this though. Whatever it is, regardless of the shape or size, your breasts seem lacking to you. Others of you are insecure about your body hair.Â
Your person thinks that whatever wound that youâre carrying here, it makes it difficult for them to get closer to you, e.g. being intimate, having sex. For a lot of you, your person wants to soothe your pain, to make you feel better, to show you some love so you can feel secure to âmove forwardâ with them, so you can feel safe to be vulnerable with them. Your pain makes them want to care for you. For a few of you however, your person may be a little more critical about it. Not about your body, but about how you act because of your beliefs about your body. If you have self-doubt, they think it doesnât help you in any way; it keeps you stuck and defensive instead, which can push people away or make it difficult for people or them to make a relationship work with you. For example, if they think you have nice hips, but you donât think so; some of you probably refuse to believe them, or keep asking for reassurance, or keep showing how insecure or defensive you are about your body; this will just make the situation feel stuck to your personâlike, you guys canât move forward. Â
I know itâs hard to overcome insecurities about our bodies, it can take years, but I think whatâs important is for you to try, for you to accept the love that people give to you, for you to not tear yourself down or be suspicious of people who donât believe the negative things that you believe. If you want to work on your insecurities, I think it's good to do so for yourself first and foremost, to do it because you deserve a better treatment and better feelings from yourself. But since this is a relationship reading, perhaps thatâs also what your person needs from you, to see that thereâs forward movement, to see that youâre willing to heal and let them love those parts of your body that youâre not happy about. Â
Your person thinks thereâs a certain sharpness to your physical beauty. You could have sharp features (or they think so); you give off a distant, sad and melancholic vibe that makes them want to come in and soothe you, but you also look like you could sting and hurt people in defence of yourself (when you perceive an attack) so this pushes them away a bit lol. You could be bony. Some of you are fleshier, but thereâs something about your bones here that stand out to them; maybe wide shoulders, wide hips or big bones. Some of you have obvious hip dips, or your hip bones stand out. Some of you are quite focused on the gap between your thighs and the size of them. Â
Your person likes your hips, your thighs and your shoulders though. They think youâve got nice hips; they like the swells or the curves of those hips and thighs. Their eyes are often drawn to those areas, to your legs. If you wear a low-neckline shirt; they like to see your dĂŠcolletage area, your collarbones and/or your cleavage. They wonder what you look like underneath all those clothes. They think clothes that hide your body but expose some parts look very good on you. For example, sheer stockings, long dresses with side slits, etc. Their opinion about your physical body may become more positive the more you heal your negative self-image.Â
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PILE 2Â
What do they think about your physical body: 8 of Wands Rx, 4 of Cups, 7 of Swords, 5 of Pentacles, Justice. Â
Perhaps itâs impossible to talk about the physical body without insecurities and wounds jumping out lol. This is similar to the previous pile, in a sense that both piles have wounded energy. Compared to the previous pile, the wounded energy in this pile is more spiritual than physical though, and it's not just coming from you, itâs also coming from your person. If you have insecurities, or reluctance to be naked or intimate and vulnerable with someone; these are probably coming from your trust issues or emotional wound. Â
Some of you have given up on love; some of you have trust issues; some of you are so emotionally independent and distant that you give off the vibe like you donât want to be intimate, and that you donât need it. You may look like you have no sexual desires, that youâre not interested in that kind of thing. Iâm not sure if itâs just the vibe, or if you actually physically look like you are not sexual, whatever this means to your person. Anyway, it makes them a little insecure; they arenât sure how to approach you, or if they should approach you, or if they deserve to approach you, if they are good enough and if they are attractive enough. The men or people with dicks might also start questioning their sizes and whatnot. Your aloofness makes them unsure. Â
They think you are very selective about who you are emotionally and physically intimate with; you give off the vibe like you donât sleep with just anyone. You only give that part of you to people who have âmade the cutâ, people who deserve you, people whom you have tested and approved. Some of you cover up, or you often wear clothes that are modest and unrevealing. Others of you accentuate your chest areas a lot though; either you often wear revealing tops or your tops may be more modest but they often hug your figures. And your personâs eyes get drawn to that area, especially if youâve got big breasts. But they may try their best not to make it obvious that theyâre looking.Â
They feel like your body is a secret; thereâs this feeling of exclusivity. For some of you, admiring your body may be something taboo to your person; it's like their feelings about your body shouldnât be expressed, or should only be indulged in specific moments. Thereâs a feeling of keeping a secret, or doing something that people shouldnât know. They could be religious, they could have other types of restraints that make it inappropriate or âtabooâ, or they could simply feel like they shouldnât think about you that way but they canât help it. So either you are selective about who gets to see your body, or they feel like they canât pursue these feelings, or both. It just creates this internal conflict, this push and pull, which often ends with them feeling a little pathetic about themself and this situation. Â
Like I said, if youâve got breasts, the shape or size of them attracts your personâs attention. Some of you may have small breasts, but even then, your person still canât help but look. They think youâve got balanced body proportions; it could be your body or your face, symmetrical face, or everything about you just looks nice together. For those of you who have half-lidded eyes, wide-set eyes or plump lips; they think those make you look sexy. Thereâs also something about the slopes and curves of your body; like your shoulders, your hips, your backside. They think you look great with long hair (for your gender); especially if you have wavy or curly hair (you could look like a mermaid, thereâs this fantasy feel to it). If you are a man, they like it when your hair is long enough to cover your forehead. They think your hair looks soft. They think you look nice if you show your shoulders, or your decolletage area.Â
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PILE 3Â
What do they think about your physical body: The Hierophant, Death, The High Priestess, 5 of Cups, 10 of Swords.Â
This is a bit similar to the previous pile; thereâs a feeling of exclusivity here but without the shame or denial or insecurity. You seem sacred to them; your body feels like something sacred or pure or something they donât get to touch, taste, or have. For some of you, this is because they think youâre in a relationship; maybe you are. This could also be due to the way you dress, or the way you carry yourself; maybe you just give off the vibe like you are unavailable and you are not easily accessible. There is something both lowkey and striking about you; thereâs contrast or polarity. A lot of you are probably quiet people but youâve got strong energy and presence, or your physical appearance stands out so your person canât really ignore you. This is physical attraction, but for many of you, this is mostly spiritual. Itâs like, when we get drawn to someone, we keep looking at them, but we donât know whyâthat mystical or intuitive pull. Your person feels that way about your looks.Â
They think youâve got sensuality and mystery. Thereâs something about you that makes you look very classy, sensual, elegant, or down to earth. You may look good with earth tones, or in simple, formal, modest clothes. A lot of you have warm skin tone. But you may also look great in something rougher and in darker colours. Itâs like Taurus-Scorpio duality. They think you have ample flesh in the ârightâ places, nice body proportions, the right height for them, the right size. Everything is just right for them. A lot of you fit the beauty standard (where youâre from), or even if you donât fit the beauty standard entirely, you still tick some boxes. Â
You donât need physical beauty though; your vibe is strong enough to make up for it. Your person thinks you are physically attractive but they are more preoccupied with your vibe, to be honest. Your person thinks you look like someone who has often rejected romantic suitors lol. If you wear modest clothing, but occasionally clothes that show off your chest area or your thighs, your person pays attention to those. They search for any patches of skin that their eyes can âfeast onâ. Your accessories can really draw their eyes to your specific body parts; so if you wear a necklace, they may keep looking at your neck; if you wear an ankle bracelet (anklet), especially the ones with bells, oh they pay attention to that too. The sounds can really tease them. Â
So far there have been repetitive messages about the chest area in all the piles, most likely because Iâve got more female audience. Your person thinks about your chest area; they think youâve got big chest or nice-looking breasts (maybe they are roundish, or full at the bottom, or the right size for their palms, or whatever they think as nice). For women or people with big breasts, they wish they can see your cleavage, or they like it when you show your cleavage. This may sound a bit odd but they think about where your nipples are, the size of them, the looks of them; if they havenât seen you naked, they think youâve got big nipples or areolae. They think you are sexually experienced, or that you need someone who is sexually experienced to feel satisfied sexually. Thereâs something about your body that makes them feel like you need a lot to feel satisfied, like you canât really feel satisfied with just anyone. Â
This is borderline sexual fantasy, but they may have wondered if you are well-fucked (if you have had sex a lot; fucked in many different ways; if youâve had partner(s) who liked to control and manhandle you). Your person may wonder if you have been messily sexual like that, if you have been âdefiledâ, especially if you normally look stuck-up or inaccessible. Itâs really weird; you come across sexual but sacred / pure at the same time to your person. If this is a masculine person, they have probably wondered if you are submissive or âweakâ during sex, if you could cry and whine. Itâs because of how you look (and how they perceive you); you look strong, like I said, your energy is strong, but you look soft too. So it just makes this person wants to move past that strength and get to the soft part of you, making you clingy and bringing out your sexual side, and to punish and âdefileâ you a little. Â Â Â
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PILE 4Â
What do they think about your physical body: Queen of Cups Rx, 9 of Cups Rx, Temperance Rx, 7 of Cups Rx, 3 of Wands, 4 of Pentacles.Â
You guys may be from different ethnicities; thereâs something a little different or new about how you look. You both could be from the same country, but for many of you this may be talking about physical distance; one of you could be from a different country or somewhere far. You look different from people they usually go for. For some of you, you don't look like their ideal type. For others of you, you mess with their ideal type; physical attributes they initially find attractive, you kinda turn these upside down and make them question their type. You make them want to put their âideal typeâ aside and âexpand their horizonsâ instead. For some of you, they may not want to do this, but your presence and the fact that they are drawn to you indirectly challenge what they thought their ideal type was. This is especially the case if you guys are not of the same race or ethnicity, and if they are used to dating within their group. Â
There may be initial resistance though, because theyâre not used to changing, they arenât used to stepping outside their comfort zone. For some of you, this is purely because you are different from their usual type. For others of you, this difference may come with some other practical complications, like traditions, cultures, where you guys live or nationality, etc; these are not things that people can impulsively make decisions about, so it can be difficult for them to indulge their feelings. So a lot of these feelings are suppressed, the cards are in reverse. They may not want to let themself find you attractive, or be drawn to you, or offer these feelings to you. For some of you, they may let themself desire you as a sexual partner, because you come across sexually attractive to them or it may be interesting to have sex with you (this they can admit to themself), but they may hold back from letting themself develop feelings for you (because this comes with other issues). Â
You have a simple type of beauty, in their opinion. You are attractive but lowkey, nothing showy or loud. You give off peaceful and mature vibe, and they like watching you when you are just minding your own business, doing your own thing quietly alone. A lot of you probably have Saturn aspecting your Venus, or Moon, or Ascendant. Thereâs restraint but also softness. Overall, subtle and timeless. You may not be that emotionally expressive; the way you show emotions are very lowkey and gentle. Some of you may be more emotionally expressive, but you take some time to open up and be comfortable with people. You look balanced to them; every feature you have just looks nice in combination. They like your thighs, the size of them, even if you think theyâre too big or too skinny, your person thinks those are perfect (even if those didnât match their previous ideal type, they may find themself drawn to yours). They like your hair too, especially if you have curly or wavy hair. They think you look good with long hair. Â
For those of you who are women, especially if you are feminine, they just get drawn to your feminine attributes. They think you look maternal for some reason; your breasts, your softness, your curves, regardless of your size; especially if you wear long dresses or flowy clothes often. Your ankles when you wear high heels. If youâre a man, you may look like you can give a good bear hug, warm and comforting. Some of you have obvious cleavage; they think you can put something between your breasts (like their face lol). If youâre a man, then your pectoral muscles may be quite fleshy. Youâve got the looks that make them want to be clingy. I donât know what it is, but you bring out that desire. Especially if youâre naturally calm, or especially if you donât seek external validation and youâre fine on your own. If they actually let themself feel, they would just want to pour out their feelings, embrace you and be all over you. It is possible that after meeting you (and them letting themself have feelings for you), you become their new ideal type.  Â
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This reading focuses on how you'll recognize that your person is "the one". I tried to think of different ways people influence our lives to create this layout and settled on the below.
đ Reading Contents:
The Energy of Your Connection
The Signs You'll Recognise
The Role They'll Play In Your Life (Extended)
Who You'll Become (Extended)
A Major Shift That Will Happen (Extended)
A pile in this reading does touch base on mental health. Please note that it is not meant to act as or substitute professional help or advice of any kind. Also keep in mind that this reading is based off of current energies and can change as you progress on your individual journey through life. Finally, this reading is for entertainment purposes only, please take only what resonates be it some, all or none.
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Pile 1
The Energy of Your Connection
Cards:Â Two of Wands, Page of Swords, Knight of Swords, Four of Sword, The World
Your connection with your person or who youâll consider the one will make you feel like you finally know what fulfillment is. Youâll no longer feel the need to keep chasing 'something more' constantly. Youâll finally be able to see your achievements and the beauty in who you are, who youâve become and all that you have done. Your connection will feel like finally youâve got a chance to rest. Itâs a restorative connection, one in which you can finally find a sense of peace. But while you wonât feel the need to keep chasing something more, thereâs still an energy of expansion, but this time out of a place of curiosity for what life has to offer. Itâll be a connection that not only fuels new ideas, but also gives you the courage to pursue them. Itâs a whole new world has been unlocked for you.
The Signs Youâll Recognize
Cards:Â The World rev, Five of Cups,m The Star, Eight of Pentacles, The Moon
You could feel like you have unfinished business with this person, even if youâve only known each other for a short while. It could feel like youâre meant to be a part of each otherâs story. They might be holding onto a past experience in which you can see their sorrow. It could also be that they feel stuck or have a tendency to self-sabotage. But donât take that as someone who is destructive and risk âdestroyingâ you. This person is also hopeful about the future and work towards it, even if their path isnât linear. They might brighten your worldâ when life seems bleak, theyâre the light that helps you find your way again. They are someone who is dedicated to what they do and I heard dedicated to you as well. Whatever they do, you can see they put effort into it. You might also recognize them intuitively, like thereâs this nudge or inner knowing that theyâre the one. They may be intuitive themselves or they could be someone who is mysterious⌠not intentionally but they have that energy to them.
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Pile 2
This pile mentions themes of mental health/well-being and could nod to physical ailments as well (specifically in the extended version). It was very difficult to read and interpret the messages, so this pile requires additional discernment on your end. đ
The Energy of Your Connection
Cards:Â The Chariot, King of Pentacles, Ten of Pentacles rev, Two of Cups, Knight of Pentacles
You and your person or the one are a good match, but not without effort. When you're cooking or baking, and you try to mix a fat or oil-based ingredient with a water-based liquid, they tend to separate. But when you emulsify them, you create a smooth, cohesive mixture that lasts longer until more ingredients are added or you emulsify again. You and your person are a bit like that. At first, it might seem like you wouldnât go together, but with a effort and the right additions to the relationship, you can make it work. You both have to figure out how to balance and flow with each other in order to move forward. You may not have the ideal, picture-perfect, lovey-dovey relationship, but what you do have is something reliableâa stable foundation that grows stronger when you build on it. The effort it takes, brings you into sync with one another. It may require constant work, but the willingness from both sides to put in that effort is what makes it work.
The Signs Youâll Recognize
Cards:Â The Chariot, Seven of Pentacles, Three of Cups, Eight of Swords, Ace of Cups
You two could start off as friends or focus on friendship in your relationship. Theyâll be patient but also persistent in getting to know you. Even when something might come up that makes you think, "Oh, weâre opposites" theyâll look past that to get to know you at your core and what you value, not just surface-level interest. Theyâll be willing to try things youâre into and support you through your highs and your lows. Theyâre someone who is very loving and compassionate, emotionally open. I think youâll recognize them by how they make you and others feel like the center of attention. *Post reading edit: I think you'll also recognize them by how they support you and give you unconditional love. It might be difficult for people to get to know you but this person sticks around and patient waits for you to open up.
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Pile 3
The Energy of Your Connection
Cards:Â The Fool, The Hierophant, The High Priestess, Judgement, The Lovers
You and your person are very intuitive and can understand and connect with each other on a subconscious level. You two have the type of connection where youâre always learning from one another. You two could have similar values, shared beliefs or generally just have a similar mindset or view on life. Your connection with your person is one that has an element of playfulness to it too. Youâll find that you can always laugh and joke around with each other. Thereâs also a lot of curiosity towards each other and life together. It feels like youâll both feel like the connection marks a new beginning in your lives. You two could also have soulmate energy which by my definition is the strong feeling that two people were meant to be together. This connection also gives you a sense of purpose whether it's individually or together. You two may also inspire each other, cultivate a deeper awareness of yourselves and hold each other accountable for your intentions and actions. It very much feels like shifting into your âbestâ or âhigherâ selves together.
The Signs Youâll Recognize
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They could be prone to overthinking or generally worry a lot. They may also be someone who struggles to sleep at night. A scenario Iâm getting is someone who starts spouting all these âwhat ifsâ in the middle of the night and you just have to tell them to stop worrying and go to sleep because during the day theyâre not like that at all. Youâll recognize them as someone who is such a hard worker. It doesnât matter how repetitive or mundane the work may be, theyâll put in the effort. Theyâre someone who you can see theyâll be successful if they continue to put in the work at the rate they do. I donât think theyâre all hard work though. They know how to pause, give thanks for and enjoy what theyâve achieved and what exists around them in the present. They could also be someone whoâs always got a new idea for a project or concept, or consuming new ideas and information. Once again, they share similar values, beliefs or mindsets to you. Finally your person or âthe oneâ is very nurturing or creative.
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YELLOW
You have qualities that would make you a person of the people. You have a high level of emotional intelligence and charm that make it easy for you to dive into people's hearts. The chief element that will contribute to your success is how you connect with people. You know how to express your feelings in a calm and soothing way, people feel accepted and nurtured through the interactions with you and your presence. You care a lot about other's comfort. You intuitively understand what the other person wants without them having to voice it out. This is especially helpful when you are assigned a task or when you assign a task to other people. You know how to complete the task in the way that the other person wants and you also know what the other person is capable of, what is their working style, so you can give them suitable task and instruction. You also have the ability to pacify and harmonise difficult situations. Which are qualities that are very much needed when dealing with customers or working in employee relations. But if you're not careful, people's dependency and over demanding could be a problem. Dealing constantly with people's problems can drain your energy really fast. Also, when there are many people expecting something from you, a desire to please, to be helpful and perfect in your job, can become a burden for you. The downside of being in tune with others is that you're entangled with them, it would be hard to act independently.
What makes you popular with people is not just your aura or your caring and pleasant nature. It's also your communication skills. You have the gift of the gab, striking a balance between being funny and wise. Your humour can diffuse tense situations and your knowledge and wisdom can guide you through the intricate system of socialising, never appearing too jesting nor too serious. You can grasp abstract concepts easily and then explain them back in a simple to understand way, this ability will make you a great teacher or a supervisor or someone who needs to present their ideas to a mass. You also can turn those ideas into reality, ideas don't just stay in your head, you pull them out and mould them into solid existences. When you encounter new information or foreign topics, you don't shy away from them but revel in the process of analysing, understanding and absorbing that information. So new job, new position, new opportunities don't faze you, your adaptability is one of your biggest talents.
What can make you successful is your drive for success, it's very simple. As long as you have the desire to succeed in anything you do, you can achieve it, with patience, diligence but also a flash of genius. You are an innovative pioneer, you follow your own rules, and this will attract people and opportunities to you.
BLACK
This may sound corny but it's your heart and passion. As you can see in the picture above, the "heart" bead landed right next to the "sun" bead at the centre. It's just that simple. Your heart shines so brightly that it can attract success. The more you're in alignment with yourself, the better the chance for you to shine and soar. Self alignment can mean various things, self awareness, self compassion, self expansion, all the things that make you become clearer about yourself. In doing so, you can understand your strengths and weaknesses with an objective lens, develop a healthy ego to navigate the world and stand up for yourself, utilise your potentials fully and have a better vision of what you want out of your life (this sounds like an ad for self improvement program)
You being you, truthfully, unapologetically, without any shadow nor hiding, will make everything you strive for easier to grasp. Right now, you might have some fears about expressing yourself fully, showing your creative side, which is precious and a huge treasure. You don't want to be an outcast, being labelled as weird or individualistic. You might have a perfectionist living inside you, constantly criticising and questioning your every move and attempt at doing something creative. Maybe you don't feel confident enough, still thinking that you lack skills or you look at other people and see them getting busy and successful, you begin to doubt your resolution and your ability, no amount of practice is enough in your eyes. This line of thinking is really detrimental to your growth. Looking at other people for inspiration is fine but it can become an obsession, taking other's success as goals to achieve, while ignoring your own brilliance. There's something you need to know, that you don't have to be applauded by a crowd to prove that you're talented and worthy. You will find that, by being yourself and sharing your creativity, slowly and surely, there will be people who appreciate your work, even if they are not the mainstream crowd.
On the subject of the crowd, this group has a bit of similarity with the first group, in the ability to connect with people. But unlike group one, who uses their charm and verbal ability to harmonise and attract people, yours is more about your ability to get into the hearts of other people, through your sensitivity and kindness. This group's soul is like one of the artists. Beauty moves your heart, you see beauty in everything, down to their core, this kind of ardent appreciation will spread to your surroundings, the people around you. It's like you have a subconscious ability to beautify everything, making things softer, more tender, more kind. Don't hide this part of yours, the more you're willing to be transparent and spiritually "naked", the more joy and success will come into your life, for you will be the pure vessel that the universe will pour into endlessly.
GREEN
The quality that stands out the most is your ability to accept and commit to changes, whether those changes are about yourself, your environment, or other outside factors. It's not that you actively seek chaos or transformation just for the sake of shaking things up, but when changes come to you, you don't cower and complain, you accept them and try to find the best possible solution to deal with them, no matter how scared and uncomfortable you feel inside. It's this kind of courage that will help you sail through the ups and downs in life without being sunken and defeated by them.
When you feel afraid or anxious, uneasy in your mind, you actively try to find a solution, a different route of thinking to get out of that unproductive thinking mode. Sometimes you would even seek the very things that make you afraid, to learn more about them, to gain an understanding and to broaden your perspective. When your heart feels weak, you still believe in a better future. In doing so, you attract luck to your side. You would find that whenever you're in a difficult situation, if you keep your faith and your mind open, new understanding and support will come your way, helping you regain stability and inner peace again. Your heart is resilient, even though it might have suffered painful wounds in the past, it still remains optimistic and tries to break away from the clutch of the past. So you don't easily give up when there are hardship and setbacks in your endeavour. Your mind also can think up really out of the box ideas, great innovative ideas that can bring changes to the community, and the society you're in, as long as you give your mind total freedom.
With your resilient heart, your outward aura is very stable and solid, very sure of yourself. You have good self-control, from your body to your mind and your heart. Dark thoughts won't be able to stay in your mind for long, you exercise firm authority on them, not allowing them to sabotage you. Sometimes you can be in a melancholic mood, feeling hopeless or too weary, but you know how to get out of it, centering yourself to the physical reality around you, taking care of yourself and reaffirming your core values. You know how to offset the dark with light, the cold with warmth. When you're stressed, you might choose to do something physical or appreciate the beauty around you, bringing you back to simple happiness. This again points to the sturdiness of your core. You don't seek external validations or nourishment from others, you nourish yourself and shine your own light, you're not the moon waiting for other light to illuminate you and reflecting back that light, you are the sun that give out your light and illuminate others. This self containment, or independence will make you a great leader, or someone who can work independently, actually, any positive won't be daunting to you at all. You can take on lots of stress, not to say that you should, but when working or doing something under pressure, you can still manage the load and work efficiently.
BLUE
Life seems like a never-ending adventure to you. You're not meant to stay in one place, be contented with "normal" life, "normal" means what everyone thinks how life should be, not for you, you're a traveller, a seafarer, constantly following the flow of life. The fluidity of your energy enables you to navigate life situations with grace and ease, not that you're trouble-free or everything is smooth sailing all the time, but you don't get stuck. If you ever find yourself in a predicament, you don't sit and complain, asking why misfortune befell you, you try to find all the information you can get, the lesson you can learn, the most positive outcome and the most opportune moment to turn misfortune into your advantage, rising again, stronger and wiser. You have keen eyes that can notice opportunities from miles away and an open heart that can welcome those opportunities, which makes you seem like a very lucky person to the onlookers.
Your mind is your greatest asset that can make you rise in this world. You don't let valuable information slip through your mind, you examine it with curiosity and intense focus, extract from it the essence that can be used for the future. Your mind is not just geared with sheer laser focus, but also an ability for intuitive abstract thinking, it reminds me of genius, how it can weave all the bits of information into a fantastical picture. If something captured your attention, you would dive deeply into it, try to understand its core. This makes you an excellent researcher or someone who can do works that require focus and resilience. You can also read people accurately right from the first few exchanges and can adjust your approach accordingly. It's not about people pleasing, charming people to get your way, it's tact and understanding, thesr traits will make you greatly attractive, not just on one on one level but also on a bigger scale, in a professional environment or when you need to address a crowd.
Your energy is very balanced between masculine and feminine energy. It's both nurturing and authoritative. Drive and intuition, active and passive, strong yet soft. You shine but you also let others shine too, you don't steal other's light, if anything, you help them shine even brighter. Being with you makes people feel safe, at ease. You allow people to be themselves without ridicule or judgement. But you can also firmly lead people, giving them guidance and security. You can be serious but not rigid and cold, you can be chatty without being superficial, charming without hidden motives. These traits would develop gradually over the years, you will find that as you get older, you'll be more sure of yourself and more confident in front of people, stepping into your authority more, like growing a tree for many years and finally you can enjoy the sweet fruits.
WHITE
Right of the bat, the word "refreshing" came to my mind. You have a unique take on everything, from the most trivial matters to the worldly philosophical thoughts that you have, everything is different from the usual way many people are used to. People would definitely want to come to you when they're stuck in a problem and uninspired, they know that you will always have something unique to say to them, making them more aware of hidden aspects at play and a fresh solution. Problem solving could be one of your greatest skills. But it's not the logical, factual thinking that is usually associated with problem solving, it's highly intuitive. Your mind hovers between the collective thinking and the individual paths each person can have, you can synthesise those two worlds into an abstract thinking system that can get hold of information seemingly out of thin air and mix and match them together flexibly. You instinctively understand what people want and you deliver it, with a new twist. Your ideas are the road to manifest whatever your wishes are.
Not just mentally, but emotionally, you also express yourself truthfully, without trivialise other's emotions or making them feel ignored. You respect emotions, both of yourself and of others, creating an emotionally safe space that can foster trust. Commerce and sales might be the areas where you can express that strong point. Your emotional intelligence also adds charm to your physical appeal. You know how people always praise the eyes that are full of emotions and light? When you're in touch with emotions, your eyes show, and they beckon people to them. Your manner, your aura shows a charm that is real and earthy, nothing elusive or deceptive about it, like walking in an actual orchard instead of looking at it from a picture. You can see, touch, smell, hear all the things happening around you.
You also rarely judge people, if you do, it's not harsh or too triggering. You adopt the mentality of going with the flow, live and let live. You don't demand from people, other than respect for your boundaries and privacy, which you value above all else. Other than those, you let people live their way without imposing your beliefs on them. This open-minded attitude is very important when you're working in a team, you provide ideas, but you likely don't want to control and lead people. Though you could find yourself in the leader position often simply because the one with the good ideas usually is nominated to be the leader. You're fine working for others. But if you're in a leadership, you lead with leniency, allowing enough rooms for individuality to shine.
This might be a bit random, but you can be a good cook or a good decorator. If you're tasked with decorating an event or a living space, or just making anything aesthetically pleasing, you'll be surprised how positive people's receptions are. If this is not something you're aware of about yourself, you should pay more attention to it and develop it, it can open new career opportunities for you.
RED
There's a method to your madness, not that I'm saying you're mad or crazy, but you can think up some outlandish and original ideas, a little bit "out there". What people don't understand is that behind all those seemingly random and genius ideas is a very disciplined spirit. There's logic and sound reasons behind your every action. What people perceived were just the puppets playing on the stage, they didn't see the puppeteer controlling the puppets. Every action and word require fine skill, but you have the ability to make them seem effortless. Your mind is like the sky during a thunderstorm, thoughts and ideas zigzagging, making flashes that blind the eyes. What you say can be very spontaneous or somewhat irrelevant at first glance, but thinking deeper, people can't help but marvel. You might also have a knack of predicting the trends, always one step ahead. Creative careers of course would be very suitable for you, but you can also find success in predictive analytics or education. Your words need to be delivered to the world, they're your greatest contributions.
You have an air of feeling at ease with wherever places you're. You might be someone doing an independent freelance job, but then if suddenly, you're to be placed in the position of leadership or a completely different job, you wouldn't be fazed by it, you go into it as if it's the most natural thing to do, as if you've done this a million times. This air of confidence and ease makes people want to give you opportunities, to trust you with important tasks and jobs.
When you're faced with an unfamiliar subject, you would patiently deconstruct it into an understandable structure. There's an intense focus being put on it, not just to understand it but to master it. To be the object of your focus would akin to being scrutinised and studied by a scientist. You can be a quite obsessive and hyper focused when you're interested in something. Especially when you want to achieve a goal or possess something, you go with all your might, there's no fear, no hang-up involved, because you're not afraid to be judged. Your inner drive roots in the ideal vision you seek, not in simple egotistical desires like wanting to be recognised or praised. You might actually shun publicity or attention, because attention can curb your freedom, which is what you seek and value the most. So you're fine with working behind the screen, as long as you can achieve your goals, and those goals are usually about advancement and improvement of something that can benefit the collective.
These natives pay close attention to the relationships they form and, throughout their lives, learn the lesson of determining who is or is not worth having in their lives. These natives, although open to meeting people, are prone to having closed or small circles, because they know that they are capable of giving everything for those they love or appreciate. The future spouse of this native stands out for their impetus, their spirit of strength and their ease in taking the right risks. They will be a very decisive person, one who does not hesitate once they decide something and someone who perseveres until they get what they want. They will not be afraid to compete in any field, especially in the professional field, which can lead them to be a person who quickly climbs to the top. Future spouse may be someone very oriented toward personal growth and will ultimately put a lot of energy and focus into the marriage. Both will be a source of strength and motivation for the other, with the presence of their loved one being what they need to recharge their batteries or feel ready to take some important step. The native's partner can be someone who, although strong and empowering in appearance, hides a romantic essence, a charming personality who loves to pamper and be very verbal with the love they feel for the native. Passion will abound in this relationship, from that strong romantic and sexual attraction between the couple to the desire to be able to consolidate a stable relationship that works in the long term. The native's partner will be very present in their process of self-discovery and self-appreciation, they will play a very important role in the native's life and will lead them to know many sides of themselves that they did not know about. In their relationships, these natives bring enthusiasm, a lot of love, dedication and a willingness to commit. In addition, they make their partner get in touch with their romantic and loving side.
Ruler of the 7th in the 2nd
These natives highly prioritize stability when it comes to their relationships, which can lead them to be very selective when it comes to forming serious and long-lasting relationships. They are people who provide a lot of commitment, support, and perseverance in their relationships, as they seek to reassure their partners and give them the security they obtain in an equitable way. Your future spouse is a person who is already at a very good point in their lives, they have many resources and everything they need to live a life full of calm and zero worries. They stand out for their patience, perseverance and business vision. They can be people who start their own business, or who have a position with a very good salary. Their future spouse may have had a significant inheritance or be heir to a large sum of money and/or assets. They are someone romantic, with a serene and fancy appearance, but with an intense emotional world. In this relationship there will be a strong sense of support, the natives will feel that they will not be alone and that they can rely on their partner in every way, because they will see in this person someone sensible, who loves them and has shown them with actions that they are protected and loved. Their partner will show them what it means to have something stable in their lives and they will be able to face difficulties without the relationship weakening. Their future spouse will have great satisfaction providing for the native and will always try to fill them with pleasures and comforts. There is a strong attraction between them and they can be perceived as very attractive. They both value each other strongly and feel that the other is the best they have ever had in their lives. During their marriage, the native can obtain many assets from their partner, these being very often tangible and movable assets. Your partner will be charming, kind, spoiling and constant with you, loyalty and honesty will be two of the many values ââthat both will share and see in the same way. The relationship will develop progressively and both will take each other seriously from minute one.
Ruler of the 7th in the 3rd
For these natives, communication is one of the most necessary tools in a relationship, especially if it is projected for the long term. They are people who will always try to be open with what they think and feel to avoid misunderstandings. The marriage of the natives will be like a song to the wind that finds an echo in the corners of life. The couple will not only be a fun and witty lover, but a confidant, an eternal dialogue partner and someone with whom there will be an excellent intellectual connection. Their future spouse will be someone very intelligent, with a lot of knowledge in different areas and will likely be able to understand the native like no one else has ever been able to. Both will have a similar vision of marriage and will see in their loved one someone who wants the same as them when it comes to this commitment, someone who understands their values, who shares their opinions and with whom daily living is enjoyable and pleasant. They will be someone with whom the native can discuss and learn, someone whom the native will deeply admire and look up to. There will be laughter, debate and promises drawn between the lines, a connection that transcends the physical and entangles the mind and spirit. They will meet on casual paths, perhaps through a short trip, thanks to a mutual acquaintance or at a social event. There is a strong closeness between them, even before taking that big step towards marriage, both enjoy sharing their experiences, their ideas and any other aspect of their lives with each other. In this relationship, communication is fair, they seek to talk and share, but also accompany and listen. It is likely that during your relationship, both of you will go on trips together, wanting to see the places that the other considers special or significant.
Ruler of the 7th in the 4th
Natives that have this overlay long for an emotional connection when looking for or forming stable relationships, those kisses that cover their wounds, flooding them with peace and a feeling of security. They are looking for something long-term and someone who, like them, prioritizes the well-being of the one they love the most, their safety and comfort. A pair of arms to take refuge in when the darkness is overwhelming, someone to finally rely on, someone to let your guard down with, and you will find it in them, your future spouse. A warm person, who although reserved, will reassure the native with support, delicacy and a love so pure as to give meaning to the deepest longings of the native. In this marriage, warmth and affection will abound, and they will be overwhelmed by that feeling of being adored and loved for being who they are. Their future partner will be someone in touch with their emotions, someone who knows what they want and need to be happy, someone who pictures themselves next to the native, caring for them, providing gentleness, understanding and even everything that is tangible. The natives will feel that their heart is exposed and appreciated by their partner. There will be a lot of fluidity between both, a strong sense of familiarity and they will awaken in each other the strongest, intense but strangely comforting emotions. Being together will feel like having returned home after the chaos and whirlwind that others left behind, you can become very close and there is this constant desire to be close and together in all kinds of circumstances. Your future partner may be reserved, with high emotional intelligence and the ability to understand other people's emotions without judging or mocking them. Someone respectful, understanding. They have strong ambition and long to achieve great things in all areas of their life that they consider special.
Ruler of the 7th in the 5th
For these natives it is important that both parties know that they are loved and that their efforts and gestures are appreciated by the other. They want a partner who loves them just the way they are and with whom they feel they can be themselves. Marriage will be a stage where both will shine, supporting each other to express the best of themselves. The partner will be someone who motivates, who celebrates your achievements as if they were theirs and who always reminds you of the importance of following the call of the heart. The union will be marked by spontaneity, warmth and the ability to turn the everyday into the extraordinary. They will feel like excited young people, sharing secrets and dreams under the starry sky, and together, hand in hand with each other, they will create a relationship, a life full of passion and meaning. Your future spouse will be someone with a lot of self-confidence, someone who believes in their potential and yours, and above all, someone who dares to go after what they want. They will love to show you to the world, show you off and shout from the rooftops that you are what they love most, their demonstrations will go beyond verbal, it will be through their actions that they will shout to your heart how special you are to them. This marriage will bring joy to your life and can give you a boost of energy, confidence and self-love. You bring appreciation and affection to your partner, they will be that force that reminds them why life can be precious, that glimmer of hope in the nights of heaviness, and that loving kiss that makes their hearts beat like crazy. Your married life will be full of love, emotion, passion and joy, it will not be a quiet and routine romance, it will be one full of loud laughs, adventures together and the warmest desire.
Ruler of the 7th in the 6th
These natives have a realistic vision of marriage, they are not looking for a fantasy utopia, rather something that is positive, effective, healthy and beneficial for both in the long term. They know that there is nothing more valuable than a person who is really there by your side, who does not sweeten your ears with promises, but who is able to tangibly demonstrate the commitment they have and the love they say they have for the native. Their future spouse will be a person with a strong devotion to the native and the relationship, someone who is hardworking, devoted and who no matter how long they are together, will notice the details of the native that could go unnoticed by others, will have those romantic and small gestures that will reaffirm the love and affection that seems to strengthen with the years. Lovers who trust each other, not only will there be romance, but there will be trust, reliability in moments of tension, meaningful conversations and emotional support when stress consumes them in their personal lives. In this marriage, both will be the classic couple that adopts each other's behaviors, habits and small details. The coexistence between the native and their future spouse will be fluid and harmonious, since their practical approach to the relationship will make them patient, understanding and supportive with each other, a great team, strong and giving. Your future spouse may not be the most verbal person, but you will feel their love. They will look for a way to express to you, in your language or in your ways, how much they love you and how much you mean to them. They will be a person who seeks to support you, from a massage after a hard day, a delicious dinner whether made by themselves or from your favorite restaurant, or even something that seems as simple as asking you if you are okay or need something. With your future spouse you will learn what it truly means when someone makes an effort to understand you and make you feel loved, someone who isnât afraid to make changes and who includes you in their lives.
Ruler of the 7th in the 7th
This overlay makes it clear to us that the native WILL get married this lifetime. The native, regardless of any other aspect of their chart, is committed and very focused on their relationships, they hold a special place for their partner and will seek to give their all to make the relationship work, this of course, knowing that their partner also will do it. These natives will meet the type of person they have always dreamed of, something like a blessing of destiny, a connection in which they mutually feel that they are the one for the other, as if the union was written in the stars from the beginning. Their partner will be the perfect mirror, someone who reflects your desires, your desires, and sometimes even your shadows, helping you get to know yourself more deeply through the relationship. Their future spouse will be someone who values ââequality & justice, who seeks to build a union based on mutual respect and understanding. It will be someone romantic who will fill the native with love in all its forms, tangible or intangible, actions and words. The wedding will be a beautiful event, full of love and warmth not only of each other, but of family and friends. Each interaction will be an act of harmony, a dance between two souls who find in each other a lover, a companion and a home. The relationship will be marked by commitment and connection, by a mutual dedication that is not afraid of challenges. They will be companions in every sense of the word, a team that works together to overcome the tests and enjoy the triumphs. It will be a love that finds its strength in unity, that flourishes through reciprocity and that leaves a deep mark on the heart. They will experience a harmonious romance, a mixture of love and commitment that will make people outside believe in love.
Ruler of the 7th in the 8th
When we find this overlay, the natives are people who look for something deeper and more meaningful in relationships, they do not like superficial things, just one night or empty words. They long for a total surrender of mind, body and soul in which both feel the devotion of the other. Their partner will arrive as a mystery to be discovered, a bond that transcends the superficial and takes root in the depths of your being, someone who comes to give meaning to what love had been for you. They will be someone who inspires the native to face their fears, who accompanies them in moments of change and who, in their presence, allows them to take refuge and feel safe. The partner will be someone with whom they will share not only the material, but also the spiritual and emotional, building a love that is fueled by trust and mutual dedication. Both of them may have had tense or difficult experiences in love, from loneliness due to fear of being hurt to betrayal, traits of resilience that will make them feel love and respect for the other. The union will be marked by an intense and burning passion, by the ability to share not only the joys and high, but also the shadows and lows. The relationship will be a space of authentic intimacy, where both will dare to be vulnerable and discover themselves and their multiple facets. Between them there will be a palpable desire, an enormous attraction, that obsession with the other's body and that fascination with the one you call your spouse. Both will meet after a moment of great change, some tense situation that they will experience or after the departure of someone important. When they meet they will feel a pull towards each other, an indescribable attraction and they will feel that they were both destined to meet. They will bring significant changes in the life of the other, whether in their lifestyle or their way of seeing things.Â
Ruler of the 7th in the 9th
For these natives, it is not enough to just feel those butterflies in their stomach to define if someone is the one they want to marry, they look for something deeper before taking this step. They long to find someone who will show them a new side of love, someone who has something to say, many things to teach and show them, a person to love, admire and feel fascinated by. We can define this marriage as a team that is willing to explore the unknown together, a constant exploration of the outside world and the interior of both hearts. Their future spouse will be more than a life partner, they will be a teacher, someone from whom the native will learn and, to whom the native will teach a lot in return. It will be someone who awakens the nativeâs curiosity, who ignites their passion for the vast and the deep, and who walks by their side toward endless horizons. Both will be very curious about each other, they would like to know each other completely and give a deeper meaning to the word marriage, something beyond two signatures on a piece of paper. A fulfilling union, in which both fulfill their dreams and desires together. They will have different backgrounds, they will have experienced really different things, different family situations, even opposites, and it is also likely that this person will be from a different country or continent. Both will have this beautiful effect on the other in which they will teach themselves to see life in a different way, they will feel that next to each other it is easy to appreciate those beautiful and luminous things about love, about themselves and about life itself. They will bring mutual joy, a lot of motivation and endless anecdotes that, when lived and remembered, will fill them with warmth. In this relationship, both will be able to visit new places, travel a lot and experience everything that they thought would only be a dream.
Ruler of the 7th in the 10th
Here we find people who take the idea of ââmarriage very seriously, they think very carefully before committing themselves and not only to someone, but in any area of ââtheir lives. They are people with a preference for long, lasting and less sporadic relationships, which can lead them to spend long periods of time single. Their future husband will be someone of high status, older than them in age and/or experience, and is likely to be an important figure at both work and family levels. Their spouse will be someone responsible in marriage, as they will seek to provide for their partner, give time and effort to both the relationship and the native, seeking to always progress together. With a hard-working, professional personality and with this touch of calm and control, the native's partner will lead a calm and successful life in which they seem to be at their best by the time they meet. And not only that, but it will teach the native not to be afraid to rely on someone, it will show them unconditional support and show them that they should not carry all their sorrows on their own, that they will be there for the native, lending a shoulder to lean on, a person who does not complain with them, but who resolves and finds solutions to preserve the peace of mind and well-being of the native. Their partner will seek to form a home with the native, so that both form stability together, not only in the material sphere, but also emotionally. Their future spouse will be someone who will bring clarity to the native's life, as well as empower them to discover the path they want to take, this of course, always hand in hand and with their partner encouraging them. Natives may take a while to get married compared to the people around them such as family or friends, but this overlay guarantees them a lasting relationship, since they will not do it because of the impulsiveness of the moment or a spontaneous emotion, rather because of the conviction that the other It's what they want and who they want to spend their days with.Â
Ruler of the 7th in the 11th
These natives seek to have a long-term relationship in which not only their personal space and independence are respected, but also their partner and they support each other in pursuing goals and dreams, without judgments or critical views. They are not people who are afraid of being on their own, so they don't mind letting go of people who they know are not what they are looking for or need in their lives. These people can form very lasting bonds with their friends and can attract friends who become their partners. Their future spouse is an independent person who does things their own way and, despite having a strong sense of individuality, knows how to interact harmoniously with other people, becoming perceived as charming, sociable and very intelligent in any social field. They will be someone ambitious and a dreamer at the same time, someone who visualizes the future alongside the native with hope, plans together and many new experiences. Marriage becomes a journey toward broader horizons, an encounter with someone who inspires shared dreams and fuels the vision of a better future. The partner will not only be a life partner, but an ally, a friend who walks with you towards common goals. Love will come like a fresh breeze, in a space where friendship and mutual understanding are the pillar. It will be someone who shares the ideals of the native, who respects their individuality and values ââtheir hopes as if they were their own. They will be able to meet each other when they least expected it, at that moment when they are deeply comfortable on their own. Both can help the other make or meet new friends and can feel that they mutually motivate each other to meet more people and/or feel proud of the person who they are. They will mutually teach each other to never put aside their essence in order to fit in.
Ruler of the 7th in the 12th
These natives may have felt a difficulty in not only finding lasting love, but also difficulty connecting with other people in general on a deeper level. They are people who long for this strong emotional connection where affection and love is unconditional, a desire that is constantly in struggle with their rational side and the fears of previous betrayals. After bad experiences, they will meet their future spouse, a person who will give them that love that they felt they would never experience. There is a very deep emotional devotion quality in their relationship, as they will understand each other better than anyone else and will always be willing to do many things for the other without needing to recriminate them. Your future partner will be someone who is reserved, very in touch with their emotions and with a tendency not to trust just anyone with their heart and emotions. They are intuitive, observant, prudent and dual, because although they are romantic and warm with the native, they can be independent and closed. Their future spouse will be a dreamer, who will love to imagine a future alongside the natives, someone who will fulfill them and can put them on a certain pedestal. In your marriage, there is a feeling of being seen, that the other deeply understands you and strives to understand you. They will have no problem making changes necessary for the relationship to progress [such as learning to open up more emotionally], they will be secretive about the relationship, and they will not let others have a say in what you as a couple decide. You will feel this strong emotional bond with your partner, it is very likely that it will give you the feeling of having already met them before. Between you there is a lot of sensitivity, empathy, and you can help the other to heal or feel better. There is an addictive quality to their relationship that seems to attract them more and more. You will bring out the poetic, sensitive and fanciful side of your partner.
PAC: âĄă First Impressions - (Your FS + You) âĄă
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Pile 1
What would you think of them:
Cards: 7 of Swords clarified by 3 of Swords Rev, Knight of Swords, Justice, 4 of Cups and Queen of Swords.
They might appear very calm and quiet to you. They could be like this by nature or because they've gotten their heart broken earlier, you will know the reason eventually. They might have been very impatient and driven by quick and not so thoughtful decisions before they became calm like a lake. They had to learn the hard way. You might also think that they speak in an unbiased manner and are very fair in their judgement. Although they might appear to you as if they don't speak much and might have a very close circle of 2-3 friends or very few people who are very close to their heart, they speak when it is required and then they speak their heart out. They appear very reserved and aloof to you. They like their solitude and would cut off ties easily with people who don't put as much efforts in a relationship as them. They might also appear very secretive to you but they are also the one to take other people's secrets to their grave. They might have major air sign placements such as Libra, Gemini Aquarius along with some water sign placements such as Pisces, Cancer, Scorpio in their chart.
What would your future spouse think of you :
Cards: The Tower clarified by 10 of Cups Rev, 8 of Swords, Empress, Judgement and Ace of Pentacles.
Their first impression of you would be that you are a f**king empress and you're just unaware of this fact. You appear to them as if you think so little of yourself, it could be so because you're very grounded and down to earth, you might find it hard to take compliments, for example: Maybe you look so gorgeous/handsome(generally) but when someone compliments you on your looks, you find it hard to believe. They do think that you look very beautiful. You become a shying mess or it becomes very awkward for you. Just like them(but yet differently), you had your own hardships, it is something related to family, now see, there could be 2 scenarios here, for a few of you, you could be facing major problems in relationship with your parents/guardian, siblings or you had to cut ties with them and for a few you, there could be a major breakup or divorce before meeting this person. Your future spouse thinks that you have a lot of potential to grow and become successful, they believe in you. They also think that you have a good judgement of right and wrong, good and bad people. They might also think that you could already be taken. You could've joined a new job or started a new business when you meet them. You could have major Libra/Taurus placements, Virgo and Capricorn, a little bit of Scorpio as well because Judgement card is ruled by pluto.
Extra Message: You guys could meet during travelling. It could be anything, while travelling within your own country or foreign travel.
That's all I got for you, my dear Pile 1.
Love, light, peace and hope to you..đ¸đđťđź
Pile 2
What would you think of them:
Cards: Knight of Wands, 9 of Wands, The Star, The Hierophant and the Page of Pentacles.
You would get the impression that they travel a lot or more so, you have seen them travelling a lot with your own two eyes. I'm getting that you meeting them could be mostly work related. You've seen them working a lot, handling a huge pile of work by themselves, working under so much pressure yet so efficiently and with so much determination. You know that they have come so far in their career. They could be someone who started very young yet very popular/successful in whatever job they're doing. I'm getting someone senior to you mostly your superior/boss but someone who's young. They could be handling a family business or it could've been their own startup business/organisation. You draw so much inspiration from this person. This person is very helpful too, they know how to handle a team and they'll help you grow in your workplace if you work under them. They give very good career advice and they can very well figure out who's got the potential to become successful. I'm getting major Aquarius, Taurus, Capricorn, Leo, Aries zodiac signs here for your future spouse.
What would your future spouse think of you :
Cards: 2 of Wands, 7 of Pentacles Rev. clarified by Wheel of Fortune, The Fool, The Lovers and Temperance rev. clarified by King of Wands.
They could think that even you travel a lot but here with the 2 of wands, they can see in you, a lot of passion for travelling to different places, learning about different cultures and languages. They really admire that. They think that you are very tough and determined and you work hard to achieve your goals. You're not afraid to give in your all for whatever you're ambitious about. They think that you can't be controlled but rather you must be handled carefully. You have your own king/queen kinda vibe to you. You have your fate in your own hands, and nobody can make you do something that you don't want to do. You value your independence and freedom above anything else. They see a lot of potential in you because they see leadership qualities in you. This reminds me of a quote which Phil says in Modern Family, âIf life gives you lemonade- make lemons and life will be all like "whaaaaat?âđ This is what your spouse might think of your personality because you do exactly this to turn your life around.đ That's the vibe you give. You are the bold and confident one. They think you could be a very good partner to them(both, in work as well as romantically). For zodiac signs, I'm getting Leo, Aries, Sagittarius, Gemini and Aquarius for you and strong 7th house placements.
Extra Message: You both could meet at workplace, office meeting, debates, conferences. I'm getting an office building or tower.
That's all I got for you, my dear Pile 2.
Love, light, peace and hope to you..đ¸đđťđź
Pile 3
What would you think of them :
Cards: The Star, Page of Swords, 9 of Wands, The Hanged Man, Temperance, 5 of Swords clarified by Knight of Cups rev.
You think that they are quite balanced. They are very generous and kind with their money and other resources, very helpful too. They might be someone who's an heir to some ancestral property or their parents' property, they got a will under their name or something. You might think that their family has a good reputation and they are very protective of their family. You might also get to know that they were stuck in some situationship earlier or stuck in a job and they recently got out of it. They do not seem very lovey-dovey nor they seem too cold. They are just at the right level, perfectly balanced, according to you. But they might be someone who argues a lot, throws tantrums, wants to prove their point, likes to debate. Mostly they are very calm and won't talk much but they can't hold back when they're challenged. They might like mind stimulation a lot, puzzles or any game which challenges their mind. They might be of average height and they have a well shaped healthy body. You also think that they are very young at heart. They neither take things too lightly nor even too seriously. Most of the times, they don't show extreme emotions. For zodiac signs, I'm getting Aquarius, Gemini, Virgo, Libra and Pisces for them.
What would your future spouse think of you :
Cards: The Fool, 2 of Swords, The World, Judgement, Ace of Cups and Empress.
They get the first impression that you're freedom loving, you love to go on trips, vacations and adventures, but you might be quite indecisive, you take other people's opinions in both small and big decisions. You have a lot of patience for the world, they think. You might be a good judge of people and they admire that. You might appear very religious or spiritual to them. You have an eye for fine things, you might be into beauty or fine arts. You might be someone who's very connected to their family and roots, someone who values relationships a lot. They think you're very pretty/handsome, and you'd make for a perfect partner. They think that you're also someone who waits for the right people to enter their life rather than opening up their heart to anyone. You appear very loyal and trustworthy to them. For zodiac signs, I'm getting, Libra, Taurus, Cancer, Scorpio and Aries for you.
Extra Message: You both could meet at a small family gathering or you both are going to be introduced to each other by a third party or through family friends. It's mostly going to be from the comfort of your homes or atleast a safe, comfortable place. For a few of you, I'm also getting a place where you go to heal yourself, where you attain peace of mind, where you get some valuable advice, it could be through therapy, counselling, hospitals, spiritual or religious places, yoga centres or ashrams.
That's all I got for you, my dear Pile 3.
Love, light, peace and hope to you..đ¸đđťđź
Pile 4
What would you think of them :
Cards: 9 of Wands, Strength, The Fool, 4 of Cups, 6 of Cups and King of Cups.
You might get the impression or you get to know this about them, that they were bullied by people or hurt in the past by friends, maybe when they were very young and because of this they might like to be left alone, they like their peace of mind and solitude so much that they don't want to be bothered by anyone. Though they may appear naive or weak to you, but they have so much inner strength, they've survived on just this strength for so long and they'll continue to do so further. They might like animals a lot. They might also love to go on solo trips, solo camping, solo adventures but here's the sad part, from deep inside within their soul, they crave for that true friendship, maybe they're looking for a true friend in a partner. They never got one, never found one. Maybe romantic/lovey-dovey relationships makes them cringe. They might be very emotionally mature too but they know the price of their maturity. Unlike others, they were given harsh/cold treatments for small mistakes, they could've gone through mental trauma, guilt or anything that challenged their calm demeanor and innocence. Keeping their solitude aside, you'll see that they're someone who's very helpful, in general. They might love to do charity and donations. I can see that the courtship period between you guys could be very challenging for you, especially. Zodiac signs of your future spouse could be Aquarius, Sagittarius, Leo, Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces.
What would your future spouse think of you :
Cards: Knight of Swords, The Devil clarified by 6 of Pentacles, 8 of Swords, Empress, 7 of Wands, Justice.
They think that you are quite the opposite of them. You fight for things that don't seem right to you whether it is for you or others. They really admire this quality about you though. They can see that you're a social butterfly, you like to make friends and hang out. You find it easy to talk to people too. They might also get to know that your actions are being controlled by other people in your life, somebody does not allow you to decide for yourself. There's someone who's told you that you can't do this or you can't do that, you feel mentally trapped with this person or these people. You just want to run away and never come back. Your spouse respects your fighting spirit, and they really would like to help you in this matter. Your future spouse and you could help each other in healing past traumas of friendships and relationships. They kind of feel secure and safe within your presence. They know you wouldn't harm them. Over the years, people have made you believe falsely about yourself but you'll get to know your inner strength when you'll meet your spouse. This relationship is manifesting in reality because you both need healing and together you'll be able to achieve this. You both have a fair sense of equality and justice. You really stand out from the crowd, for your spouse. In the beginning, this connection might look difficult, but once the bond is developed, you both will be unbreakable together. Your zodiac signs could be Libra, Gemini, Sagittarius or Virgo.
Extra Message: You both could meet while on beaches, holidays, vacations, someplace where any kind of drinks are involved such as parties, pubs, bars or clubs. There's going to be a water body surrounding this place wherever you guys meet, such as a pond, lake, river, ocean, fountain, waterfall, etc.
That's all I got for you, my dear Pile 4.
Love, light, peace and hope to you..đ¸đđťđź
Pile 5
What would you think of them :
Cards: Death clarified by 10 of Wands, Page of Swords, Knight of Swords, Queen of Wands, 3 of Pentacles, 6 of Pentacles.
You would keep your guard up when you meet your future spouse because they appear too bold, loud and cheerful to you while you're the opposite of them. You'd think that they're not your type. At first, you might be very skeptical about your connection with them. You think that they are very quick and direct in their approach which might irk you a bit. They are also very straightforward with their words. They don't like to sugarcoat, whatever they feel or think, they would speak. So, if they like you, they'd say that directly to your face. They could be a huge flirt too. They live in the here and now. They might appear very confident and full of pride to you but this first impression of them will slowly fade away because you'll get to know that they can be serious too, they give very good advice, they are very mature, they help people a lot and they are very kind. They are the 'life of the party' kind of person and you might be the one who enjoys being alone in the corner. Eventually afterwards, they might feel like a breath of fresh air to you, like a burden has been lifted off your shoulders, when you actually get to know them. There can be some anger issues here though, some stubbornness in this person. If you see major red flags in the beginning, then you shouldn't get yourself further involved in this connection, but, because we are talking about your future spouse here, this connection is going to develop further but that does not mean you should stay in a relationship even if it gets toxic in the future. Their zodiac signs could be Aries, Leo, Sagittarius, Gemini, Libra, Taurus, Capricorn and Virgo.
What would your future spouse think of you :
Cards: The Hermit, The Hierophant, Page of Pentacles, Knight of Wands, 8 of Wands, 4 of Swords.
They might get the impression that you're very wise and knowledgeable. You appear very calm and serene to them. You might either be very traditional and religious or very unconventional and spiritual, or a contrasting mix of both. They can see that you're someone who's converted their passion into a profession, someone who's earning money from their talents and you've faced a lot of challenges regarding this. Maybe you left a proper job behind which gave you good money and started something which gave you very less money. They might be more rational and you might be someone who goes with your heart but there is mutual respect between you two. They really admire and respect you for whatever you're doing. They do not harshly judge you like others. They think you have a very calm demeanour and you're very patient. There's this innocence to you which reflects on your face and in your speech. You appear emotionally understanding and mature to them. They also think that you're quite hard to impress. Your zodiac signs could be Virgo, Taurus, Cancer, Pisces, Libra and Sagittarius.
Extra Message: You both could meet at a celebratory event, wedding, concerts, festivals, where there's lot of grandeur, lights, music, flowers, where people are dressed in their best. It could be a fine dining restaurant, a museum, art gallery too.
That's all I got for you, my dear Pile 5.
Love, light, peace and hope to you..đ¸đđťđź
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PILE 1 đ
The Setting
Cards:Â The Miser, The Tailor, Twelfth House | Introspection, Chiron | Heal, Virgo | Digest
Your person is so cute. The setting in which your person first realizes they love you is one that is a bit solitary and introspective. There are a couple of different ways this could happen depending on your person's personality.
The first initial impression I got was that theyâre alone and I think theyâre a bit broody because thatâs naturally who they are. They could be nitpicking at their life or having a self-reflection session and generally taking stock of moments in their life that have shaped their perspective recently. This could be with a therapist/professional or otherwise. A key part of it though feels like while trying to make sense of their life up to a certain point, they realize how much of a part you've played in making them feel better or helping them heal. It's through this that your person has that realization that they love you. It feels evenâ it could be a very profound realisation or a very subtle one. Either âWAIT A MINUTEâ I love pile one!â or a quiet, âI think I love themâ. Overall though, there's a theme of thoughtfulness and reflection and then it clicks that they love you.
Initial FeelingsÂ
Cards:Â Death, Ten of Cups, Four of Wands, Page of Cups, The Hermit, Ace of Pentacles (Love Messages Cards also)
When your person realises they love you, it may take them by surprise initially. For your love messages cards, the vibe Iâm getting here is relief, but also a bit of fear. Initially there may be a feeling of wanting to run. It seems like theyâre saying âIâm not where I want to beâ or they feel like theyâre a mess on some level and unready. Yet simultaneously itâs like âI love this person. Theyâre my dream person. Iâm single. Why not?â. Iâm just noticing the card Iâm Single, actually. So when they realise this, you two may not be in an official relationship yet or maybe havenât even expressed interest for something more yet. But I think theyâll want to try to be open to actively pursuing you. This could also be someone who youâve separated from at some point, as in life took you separate ways before you could get together.
When it comes to your tarot cards and how they feel immediately after, there's this sense of happiness and wanting... They kind of jump ahead in their head and start thinking about the future stability and home they want to create with you. There's this sense of wanting to celebrate and rush to you with a promise of everlasting support. However, they're definitely still in their head about this, so thereâs the questions of: What do I do next? What seeds of intentions do I plant so that they can grow and bloom from here on out? It's a transformation happening inside and it's very quick. It goes back and forth a little bit. Overall, thereâs this immediate realization inside. It marks the end of one thing and the beginning of something else. But again, there's still this deep introspection that they have to finish navigate before they can fully understand what they're feeling and before they can act from there on out.
I also want to say this section was ridiculously hard to focus on. Everything felt very rapid and restless.
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PILE 2
The Setting
Cards:Â The Hunter, Champion, Opposition | Confrontation, First House | Arrival, Solar Calm | Clarify
To be quite literal (and of course if you're into it), the setting could be while hunting, camping or anything outdoorsy (and a bit rugged). That asideâ the main thing I'm getting is that your person comes to this realization that they love you in a situation where there's some type of confrontation or they feel jealous about something or someone. Someone could be either hitting on you or getting a bit aggressive with you when a person steps in. And I want to say theyâre you knight in shining armor, but I know that's not going to sit well for everyone. What Iâm saying though is they could step in and stand up for you. I think this interaction brings a lot of clarity. In standing up for you, they realize they love you and there are more feelings that than what theyâve acknowledged for you.
I will say though, looking at all of your cards in advance, this pile feels a bit dramatic, so buckle up.
It does kind of feel also like your person may be hanging back a bit when they realize they love you. It could be either in the moment or afterwards where they just hang back observing you. I don't know why, but I keep getting images of a club or some kind of social event. I did have to redo this pile, and one of the things I got was the gambler and the masqueri (? canât remember the spelling)â so think âlavishâ events. Whether it's at a theater, a casino, something where you're dressed up nicely, if you're in demandâ that's the image that I'm getting the most strongly. But I do feel like there's a good chance this is some place where alcohol could be involved, even if you personally donât drink. It reminds me a bit of Pile 2 from Your First Kiss With Your Person. So if that pile/reading resonates with you, then I would say that this could be related to that instance because it doesn't feel like you two are âtogetherâ yet either. It feels like the before. It could also be during an argument with you that your person realizes they love you. Thereâs also this energy of it being very loud internally, and then all of a sudden it gets quiet afterwards, so they may actually distance themselves from you (physically or emotionally) after that moment after realizing that they love you.
Initial FeelingsÂ
Cards:Â Six of Wands, Six of Cups, Knight of Swords, The Sun, Knight of Cups, Knight of Wands, Queen of Pentacles
Starting with your love messages cardsâ It feels like your person's aware that they've had these deep feelings for you, but it feels like they've never allowed themselves to feel them. Their mother could have a big influence in everything as well. Not directly but something from the past has stuck with them. I don't know what specifically it is, but there's something in their past that causes why they might be distant even though they have feelings for you. They also don't want to see you with anyone else. I think their jealousy and not wanting to see you with anyone else is what acts as the catalyst for realizing that they love you. But they might also feel a little bit lost and unsure. They don't know what to do with the feeling. I don't know why but I also want to say they have an avoidant attachment? I donât really go into subjects like that so take it as you will. Finally I think they are be a very attractive person. Not just physically, but they have a lot of people who are attracted to them⌠so it feels like they're accustomed to the single life. I think that's kind of what I got in the first section as well with all the deer. I thought of stags, some person who's like enjoying the single life. But then these cards and this realization it's like not really maybe I do want something more but I don't know why or how to go and have something more.
Now, with your tarot cardsâ you could have known each other from like childhood or for a while. At the very least they feel a very carefree sense of happiness with you and they probably feel like they could have a shot of being successful with offering you something more. There are so many energies I pick up on here, it's hard to say definitely, but a proper relationship is on the table after this realization. Your person will find that drive to pursue you then if they aren't already. If they are, it will become more of a priority for your person.
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PILE 3
The Setting
Cards:Â The Sailor, The Pilgrim, Opposition | Confrontation, Venus | Beloved, Taurus | Cultivate
It looks like the realisation comes during a new beginning of some kind or in uncharted territory⌠travel or somewhere new maybe? You guys could get in a bit of an argument or your differences start to clash when your person realizes that they love you. You guys tend to be good one minute and not good the next. To be honest, this relationship feels like in the beginning stages it has the possibility of being âtoxicâ if not care, so I'd be very aware that you don't entertain toxic relationships because you think it's your person. There's a lot of passion involved when your person realizes that they love you, but again, there's a sense of stubbornness at the same time. Whatever happens is supposed to be something that's gonna go into the future⌠this event is the catalyst for long-term improvements and stability between you two.
Initial FeelingsÂ
Your personâs kind of annoying tbh. đ Sorry, I had to say it⌠BUT, hear me out. I don't know if you guys are on the younger side, but I do think that might be the case here.If not young in age, then there's a little bit of... immaturity. I don't know. Just make sure that your person is treating you right, or Iâll fight them for you. I'm just kidding. Love you. đ
Cards:Â The Magician, The Devil, Knight of Wands, Ace of Wands, King of Wands, Eight of Pentacles
Starting with your love messages, I feel like when your person realizes, they'll want to tell you right away. At the same time, I feel like you guys might be separated on some level. It could be a temporary split or an actual breakup. And I think this is kind of where it feels like you're on the younger side. Maybe even like college age of college somewhere, like in your early to mid-twenties. Or they could be in their early to mid-twenties when this happens. They just kind of⌠act out because you guys are not getting along. Yet simultaneously they do miss you and they realize that they love you, so they might want to reach out and apologize for their actions. Thereâs a very immature energy here that's bothering me. Their mindset seems like one of âI don't need them, I'm good on my ownâ. Thereâs an internal clash and pull.
Going on to your tarot cards, I kind of feel the same way here again. On one hand itâs like, oh my gosh, I love pike three and I want to fix my relationship with them. I know it will take work, but I'm willing to put in that work.
Then it switches and it just makes me feel like self-sabotage. Your person will then think, hmm, but we're not together. I don't know, it's just this very contradictory energy for your person of realizing that they love you. They're very conflicted about what to do initially. There's a slight sense of not wanting to be tied down. That could even potentially be what your dispute was about. You might want something more long-term and your person is like, nah, I'm good something short-term. But in reality, they're not.
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Maestro of Your Heart: Pulling On Your Heartstrings đť
Watch me do a side chassĂŠ, a sweet pliĂŠ
Now we gon' be the maestro of your heart
When weâre in a romantic relationship, we sometimes wonder how weâre so affected by our partners, and of course, we wonder if we are also capable of pulling the strings in their hearts, wondering if they are comfortable and trust us enough to let us be the maestro of their hearts.
Close your eyes and meditate on this topic. Then, open your eyes to see which pile talks to you the most/draws you in the most. Once youâve found your pile, scroll down to the respective parts to see what are the messages for you.
Pile 1 - Pile 2
Pile 3 - Pile 4
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Youâre currently going through something, and this message is loud and clear. However, Iâm not seeing much worries? The waves are huge but youâre taking the chance and surfing on it instead of swimming your way to land. Iâd say that itâs because of a certain confidence thatâs in you, where youâre secured enough that the storm will die and youâll still be safe no matter what happens. You have heard, seen or any other forms of receiving messages from your guides and the Universe, that things will pass and youâll still be safe. You have that faith, and you let that voice guide you through the chaos and broken promises that are happening around you.
For some, you may not be the one falling from The Tower, but are the spectators as youâve heard of the warning messages and heeded them, leaving the danger zone soonest. You may be looking at the others who are struggling right now and wonder how to help them, if you should be helping them. There can be quite a few different situations and circumstances, but either way, I do not feel much chaos or pain from this card. This card is more of a statement than a description.
One card to symbolise your person: The Hanged Man
Your person reminds me of a cat, inquisitive and curious. They wonât swat every single thing on the counter down, but will take it up, observe closely, and may accidentally break it. They may have a tendency to get into certain unexpected situations, but they are very well capable of getting themselves out of them too. Theyâre capable of looking at situations from various angles, but they just have a habit of accidentally saying something that sides with one of the conflicted parties. It just extends further and he just gets his hair tangled on all sides to make sure that things are âfairâ (same amount of pros and cons for both sides).Â
Yet, pairing the energy of Venus and Neptune, your person feels very⌠Aesthetically dreamy. No, not in physical appearance, but the general vibe of them. Thereâs a soft charismatic energy that they have, which makes you feel like you want to nurture them. They donât quite need it tho, despite how they look. Theyâre capable of masking themselves softer than they are so that the people around them will lower their guards down easier.
1. What power do you have over your person? - Six of Swords
You do not put yourself into situations. You weigh, judge, contemplate the various issues thatâs going on around you, and youâre capable of detaching yourself from things that can put you at a disadvantage. For example, you know that your neighbour needs help. You donât mind helping it once or twice, but you also know that your neighbour will be leaving the house often and will continue to ask for your assistance constantly (based on past observations). With that in mind, you chose to not offer to help them out. You would think youâre just making a rational decision by weighing the pros and cons, but not your person. Your person would think that itâs natural to help those that are in need, and they can be upset over it.Â
The main theme would be detachment and isolation, where you have the ability to just avoid the murky waters, or not step into the waters at all. You may also be able to get over certain emotional related issues quicker than your person. This will make your person feel bad that theyâre still âtrapped in the past painâ while youâve already âmoved onâ. I put them in quotation marks cuz this would be their thoughts, but not what actually is.
2. What power does your person have over you? - Four of Pentacles
My first thought from seeing it is that your person may be frugal, financially or skill wise. Letâs say that you want to get a technician to fix something, theyâll be like âI know how to fix itâ or âI know someone, lemme get them, they owe me one anywaysâ, and thereâs a 50-50 chance where theyâll mess it up or not get the problem fixed on time. Your motto would be if money gets the thing done, youâll spend the money. But not them. Theyâll be fixing things, preparing home cooked food when you mentioned youâre in the mood for a buffet. You know that itâs not something to be blamed, that being frugal is helpful in the long run where you guys can save up more. However, there are just times where you want to splurge on yourself, where you want to see physical and material gifts. To you, itâs something that you can see and feel, itâs something of monetary value. There will be frustration here from time to time, and youâll need to work on balancing emotionally and getting your point across.Â
3. What can be possibly toxic or problematic between you two? - Five of Wands
I would say that conflicts and/or arguments can be pretty frequent in your relationship. You guys are used to your own set of values and rules, finding the other personâs set of values questionable and not aligning with yours. This is definitely due to the different upbringings you both have (family and society play a role here, yes). Every disagreement can spark fights, but some can be debates. Fights happen because of anger and how much you want to be heard; while debates happen because you want to persuade the other person to see things from your point of view. No matter the reason, you need to understand that the main outcome from this is to arrive at a common ground, to understand what are the things or issues you two need to compromise and get used to.
4. How can you two transform/evolve together? - Page of Wands rx
You two need to⌠Grow up. You both will face failures, may it be with your personal projects, career, or even conflicts or feelings of dejection throughout the relationship. There will be moments where you both may feel that the relationship isnât worth the struggle and anger. However, as you explore and dive into introspection, you will realise that both of you will continue to have issues with other partners as the root cause (family or childhood trauma) have not been resolved, allowing past patterns to repeat themselves. This would definitely be unpleasant news, but itâs not too scary where youâd pick flight over fight. By being more focused and decisive, as well as understanding your loving habits and expectations in a romantic relationship, you two will be able to grow stronger together. There are themes of renewal and loyalty here, where you two will learn to trust the right people, be loyal to the right people.
5. What can you two achieve together? - The Hermit
The Hermit is one of my favourite cards in this deck, where beautiful flowers grow and bloom from the wounds. It signifies that you two are still able to create new love, new beginnings, new passion from the wounds of your battles. Those battles, may they be with your family; with your past; with your loved ones, have transformed you into a better person, into a stronger person. You two have learnt to not leave the other person, to not let them feel even a speck of loneliness, as you have gone through that personal hell yourself. You two have gotten wiser, kinder, and more patient towards each other and towards yourself. It has been a long journey, but you will notice that the load gets lighter with every step taken as you cleanse yourself throughout the way.
6. The core values in this relationship: Justice rx, The Moon
Fairness is one of the main themes that you both will need to learn and implement in your daily lives. There is a tendency for you two to be biased towards each other, allowing them to overstep your boundaries. You may think that âtheyâre the love of my life, they can do whatever they wantâ, but it doesnât work that way. Sometimes, your person will do something that reminds you of a past trauma. If you do not say or do something about it, your person may continue doing it in the future, and it would not be helpful for you as you slowly associate your person doing something new as hurting you. Setting healthy boundaries as you explore the options will help the relationship flourish.
For some reason, Iâm feeling that you two can be overwhelmed by the other person easily. The balance of emotion and solitude will be something practiced within the relationship as well. Itâs not that you donât trust them or you feel uncomfortable with them, but more of retreating into your bed and doing your favourite pastime activities to wound yourself down from the excitement of the date. You both know intuitively when itâs time for you to go back into your shell as you recharge and let yourself be prepared for better things to come tomorrow. (Most of you may be introverts, which is why solitude and alone-time is required.)
Overall energy: The Devil, Eight of Wands, Strength
Thereâs a daredevil vibe here, where you or your person are interested in trying a bunch of new things in life, thinking it would be a waste if you do not enjoy life. You guys may be travelling or are in travel, as there are energies of constant movement here. You do not worry about whatâs going on, what will happen in the future, as you know that the Universe plans well for you, that everything happens according to the right timing. From what Iâve gotten in this reading, your main challenge will arrive when you meet your person, as you push each other to be better. All the best during then.
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One card to symbolise you: The World rx
The first thing Iâm picking up here is that you have an impatient energy within you where you like starting projects even though your body is tired or you have unfinished projects currently. The cards were impatient and quite a few flew out, which I believe talks about the impulsivity and slightly annoyed energy you have towards yourself and everything around you. Thereâs a need for you to be able to control a certain aspect of your life, and youâre just⌠Unable to hold it firm in your hand. Change is often present, and itâs either things are changing around you or youâve decided to be the catalyst of change. However, that change is external, as youâre still quite in your comfort zone where you are unwilling to move out. You can change people and/or some things, but those donât apply to you. Some of you may have Earth placements or Saturn as one of your dominant planets.
One card to symbolise your person: The Empress rx Â
For some reason, I see this as⌠Your personâs someone whoâs not very in tune with their emotional side. I need to emphasise that the word Iâm using here is âin tuneâ. Theyâre someone who knows about their emotions and feelings towards things, issues and people. But, theyâre unable to understand and work together with those emotions to reach an answer or a conclusion to reach an action goal. MBTI wise, itâs giving me the vibe of an inferior Fi function, where theyâre unable (or to a certain extent, unwilling) to explore and express their emotions.
Thereâs a lack of softness and gentleness they have towards themselves, but theyâll do their best to provide for you. Iâm seeing some patterns of anxious attachment style, where they would want to do whatâs good for you but are afraid that theyâll disappoint you, causing you discomfort as theyâve been debilitated in the past. With the gentle energy of the Empress, theyâre working on it bit by bit.
1. What power do you have over your person? - Five of Wands rx
For some reason, Iâd say that you have a certain stronghold over your words and actions that can affect your person. The first thought I had when I saw this card was âcold warâ, where you two donât speak to each other, or you just choose to shut down and not communicate your thoughts to your person. Iâm not saying that you will do this, but if you ever subconsciously do this (shutting down, unwilling to communicate), the damage youâll be delivering is going to be much stronger than you or your person expected. They may experience similar issues in the past and have handled it appropriately, but if itâs you, youâre able to mess it up real bad.
However, if you use that energy and engage in active conflict and resolve them, youâll be able to benefit the relationship as you understand each other better through conflict, removing the tension as you two work things out together. You need to know how impactful you are towards your person, and to not use it to hurt them. You can build them, and you can break them, and please, for the love of God, DO NOT be proud of it. Be cautious, be loving, be patient, and be gentle.
2. What power does your person have over you? - Eight of Wands
Weirdly, the first thing Iâm feeling is that⌠Your person can be more comfortable on the financial side as they may be the main person who provides travel related assistance. They may work in fields that require them to travel a lot and hence, able to bring you along on their trips. Or with how frequent theyâve travelled, they have saved up a bunch of mileage points and can use them to bring you around. So letâs say, you guys got into an argument, they can very much easily cancel whatever trip theyâve been planning to bring you with. That kind of power. In which, it will also affect your mood and emotions, especially if youâve made a bunch of plans and suddenly theyâre all gone. However, Iâm seeing that theyâre a gentle person, so I donât think theyâll be doing something like that. Still, thatâs what theyâre capable of providing, thatâs their power over you.
3. What can be possibly toxic or problematic between you two? - Five of Pentacles rx
Financial views is something Iâm picking up immediately. You two are probably prone to being career driven, which allows you two to be able to earn and contribute financially. However, how you two view money and use them can be different. For example, one of you would use it for trips (huge spending at once) and the other would use it for everyday life (fine dining once a week, or gatherings with friends often). This will bring upon disagreements and sometimes, even arguments, as you two have not properly talked things out and arrived at a middle point, where both sides compromise equally.
There may also be a chance where one person earns more than the other, and the one with a lower income may feel imbalance and not know how to stand on equal grounds with the one who provides more, creating internal conflict and not resolving it. They may also end up more dependent and the codependency may worsen with time. It is very important for both sides to recognise this and to work together to resolve this crisis.
4. How can you two transform/evolve together? - Judgement rx
Iâm seeing healing and growing, and then transforming bit by bit throughout the journey together. Itâs a process that will take a long time, but you two are patient in it because you two know that results are guaranteed and it would be worth it. You two are very goal driven (or at least, one of you are, and the other is willing to go along with it). Instead of working on something that may or may not work, you two are more prone towards doing things that have a secured outcome, taking calculated risks. Thereâs quite some brain energy going on here, making me wonder if you guys are more earth or air dominant.
With that in mind, you two decided that this relationship is worth investing, and hence, work towards it. You two are willing to work through them, opening up yourselves to inspiration, allowing inputs from others and growing together. This pile gives me the feeling that you guys will go for courses together and work through the hurt and pain. Something like couple counseling? Or going through some seminars to understand each other better. You guys are willing to put in the effort as you recognise the importance of communication (through the hard way, probably from your family).
5. What can you two achieve together? - Two of Wands
You two can go far, not just achievement, but also building your life far from your trauma, building something new together. You guys build something totally new, and may constantly come up with something new to keep the relationship fresh. This card gives me the feeling that you are looking at the future together as you have the (your)Â world in your hands. Whatever difficulties youâve gone through in the past made you stand up, and this time, youâre not standing up alone. Your person will be there to pull you up, and youâll be there to pull them up too.Â
You guys donât necessarily throw yourselves into challenges as they present themselves to you guys through shared decisions made. You guys also learn to accept the various downs that have resulted from the shared decisions, and learn to live with them by looking at them in a positive light. Something like learning from mistakes and knowing whatâs not good for both of you. For example, you guys went for a buffet for a date night and realised that one has an allergy towards one particular food. Going for the buffet is a shared decision, the challenge faced would be going to the hospital due to an allergic reaction, looking at it differently would be you guys now know what should not be added onto the list of food. Instead of going âIâm sorry that this date ended up bad because of my allergyâ, it would be âhey at least we know that we should not have this for our next dateâ.
6. The core values in this relationship: The Sun, The Magician rx
Thereâs a bright surge of energy here, where you two will feel childlike wonders and enthusiasm, learning more about them and yourself. Itâs like⌠Thereâs a feeling of victory here, where you grow from your pain and reach the throne youâve always aimed for. You guys focus on keeping the relationship young, if that makes sense. Instead of letting that romantic love turn into family love along time, you both make an effort in doing romantic gestures and continue to be in that zone of falling in love over and over again. You guys will be creative too, as you come up with new ideas of constantly learning about each other, from each other. Iâm also seeing that your preference for certain things may change throughout the relationship. For example, you used to not like strawberry, but your person likes it, and you slowly learnt to enjoy it too.
And⌠Hmmm⌠For some reason, you two may be a little too smart. I feel that you two may be Mercury dominant, or have Aquarius, Gemini or Virgo placements. Thereâs a lot of words and thoughts, instead of feelings and tears. You guys can be a little rigid at times, and Iâd say, one of your main themes in this relationship is to learn how to work together to create something together (working for it or manifesting it with actual effort). Thereâs a lot that you need to work on, yourself especially, where you work with your dreams and your spiritâs energy to reach your highest good. You both will need to open yourselves to new possibilities and welcome new beginnings into your lives.Â
Overall energy: The Moon rx, Five of Cups rx, The Chariot rx
Some of you may be going through some difficulties at the moment, especially in terms of emotion regulation. You may be experiencing pain, or despair that cannot be immediately resolved. You may also be experiencing fears, especially fears of failure (failing your expectations towards yourself, returning into a state you thought youâve finally grown out from, etc). Allow yourself to slow down as you tread on this path. Remember, every step you take is on a new path, no matter how familiar it looks. Allow yourself to fall, allow yourself to take some rest before you run again. Be kind to yourself, and youâll be able to move from the old to the new easier. Help will come to you, be patient and accept it with an open heart.
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One card to symbolise you: The Hierophant
My first thought from seeing this card is that youâre⌠More inclined to the traditional values of how you were brought up with. It may not be your familyâs traditional values, or the societyâs traditional values. Itâs more of⌠A certain concept, Iâd say. For example, marriage is supposed to be between two people (monogamous), and you may have difficulties in understanding and/or accepting the concept of polyamorous relationships. Another example could probably be youâre a huge advocate of home cooked food as outside food is all MSG and unhealthy, which is a value thatâs pretty much found in Asian families (âWe Have Food At Homeâ by Mom). These are just examples, but if you ask yourself deep, you do know that itâs talking about you, and you donât really listen to other people who say otherwise.
One card to symbolise your person: Temperance
If anything, Iâd say that your person is someone whoâs very in tune with themselves. I would also say that theyâre a person who constantly renews themselves and to make sure that their information is not outdated. Theyâre very welcoming to new details, but they also are rather selective, which is a plus point for anyone who sees things from a lot of aspects, making them a rather balanced and critical person. If it took you long for you to meet your person, itâs because theyâve been working on themselves to be at the right place to meet you. For some of you, your person may be your soulmate, where youâre comfortable enough to confide in them on various things.
1. What power do you have over your person? - The Tower rx
Iâd say that youâve gone through quite a lot of significant changes in your life, where you grow from your pain and challenges in life. But also, this can appear threatening to your person as youâre used to chaos in your life, and your person may not be so. Something that appears dangerous to them may be nothing to you, and how you react to it will make them feel belittled, as though youâre not from the same world. I would say that this also stems from the various family values you two have gotten and grew up with.Â
Thereâs also themes of imprisonment, where your person may be used to keeping themselves in check so as to not create discord or discomfort, but you are more⌠âI couldnât give a damnâ kinda attitude, which may make them feel lesser than you. To them, their way of expressing affection is by sacrificing themself for your comfort. Letâs say, theyâre more interested in watching movie A, but you prefer to watch movie B. Theyâll watch the movie you want with you without you knowing their preference. However, you may be more towards the type of âYou shouldâve spoken up! Why not, you watch movie A, while I watch movie B by myself or with a friendâ. To you, you think youâre resolving the conflict by âWatching what we both wantedâ, but to them, they may see it as âyouâre not willing to spend time with meâ kinda thing, and they may feel that theyâre unable to catch up with you in terms of the values in the relationship.Â
2. What power does your person have over you? - Page of Pentacles rx
Weirdly, Iâm seeing this as your person may be younger than you, or may be less experienced than you in terms of career and finances (they may have gotten into their desired field of work later in their life). With this, it creates a disparity or conflict where youâll need to compromise with them more. To you, you may feel that theyâre more of a responsibility than of a lover. Itâs like⌠You love them, thatâs why you feel the need to compromise certain dreams of yours. For example, youâre aiming to go for an overseas trip together in June. However, they have a training session that they need to attend, and you chose to cancel the trip instead of going alone cuz âit feels offâ. Itâs not like theyâre doing this on purpose, but sometimes, their presence may make you wonder if youâre doing enough for them or not. You may also feel a lack of worth when you stand by their side, as you notice their potential to flourish into a King/Queen, and youâre not sure if youâll be equals during then.
3. What can be possibly toxic or problematic between you two? - Seven of Cups
The first thing Iâm picking up here is that thereâs a lot of daydreaming here. A lot of âwhat ifâs and a lot of fantasy painting. Itâs like⌠Thereâs an expectation of plans to fail and you guys can go âa lil bit of daydreaming isnât badâ. The image I have in my head has two people sitting together on a bean bag (young energy), leaning into each other and discussing plans of wedding and fun activities to do, and then leaving that as plans and not doing anything about it. There may be a hint of leaving future things for a future you to handle kinda energy.
Alternatively, the daydreaming may shadow faults and shortcomings. Thereâs a tendency to paint everything pink or look through them through rose tinted glasses. There are a lot of hints and issues there, but you tend to focus on the prettier items and ignore the more serious questions. It will take quite a lot of time and problems to happen for you to break the bubble and to recognise the issues at hand. The lack of action is highlighted here, as well as impulsivity of choosing flight over fight. This may also be due to the power or financial imbalance existing in the relationship.
4. How can you two transform/evolve together? - Nine of Pentacles
Surprisingly, Iâm seeing you two grow individually. Like, you guys go through the life lessons together, but instead of growing together as a couple, you two grow individually, as your own person, and couple together. The best example I can think of is where oneâs an accountant and the otherâs a painter, where your knowledge is different, but you guys improve in whatever youâre doing and still enjoy cooking together. You guys work and support each other throughout the journey, helping the other person to invest and grow into the best version of yourself.Â
You guys also learn to communicate more to assure the other person that theyâre not being left behind, that all the effort right now is worth it in the future. There are a lot of future related themes in this card, may it be building the future together, having a common goal for the future together, or building a new self together. Individuality is very important for you guys, and Iâm seeing less of a compromise for each other. For you guys, itâs 1(you) + 1(them) = 1(you) + 1(them) + 1(a future built together). Hopefully this makes sense.
5. What can you two achieve together? - Four of Wands
Iâm seeing here that your life together will be very pleasant. You guys are capable of building a home together once youâve gone through the challenges, learning more about the buttons of each other and knowing which to push at the right time. Honestly speaking, thereâs less of a âtrial and errorâ kinda vibe in this relationship, but more of âoiling the cogsâ here. This card is giving me harmony and happiness, as well as a beginning together, may it be engagement, marriage, or partnership. Thereâs also some form of balance and groundedness here, so if you or your person was flighty or emotional, you will be more toned down and will be able to look at the earthly sense too.
6. The core values in this relationship: The Hanged Man rx, Wheel of Fortune rx
Iâm hearing stubbornness here for the both of you. You two are used to your own ways, your own values as you two grew up together, which definitely lead to you two growing individually. You both have experienced stagnation and detachment in the relationship, and effort has been made for you two to evolve and find a comfortable point for each other. Thereâs a lot of things to evaluate and work together. Assessing the situation, understanding the phase of the relationship where youâre at would be beneficial.Â
A lot of accepting is needed as you two understand that certain things cannot be compromised, where you two decide to do them differently. For example, oneâs a vegetarian and one requires meat protein, and so, you guys choose to not settle for each other's diet by preparing different sets of cutleries and cooking utensils. Different fridges may be prepared too, but if it works, it works. You guys learn to challenge each otherâs comfort zones as well as your own, oil the cogs as you find something that works for you both. The lessons are slowly learnt, and once youâve gone through them, your relationship will prosper.
Overall energy: The Empress rx, Death rx, The Chariot rx
Thereâs a lack of gentleness going on. For some reason, it can be finance or love related, such as lack of self-love, worrying about financial issues, etc. Basically, anything thatâs Venusian themed. Thereâs a period of change, a period of transition that youâre going through right now, and Iâm seeing that you may be lost, not knowing which step to take. Do not push or rush yourself through things right now, as Destiny is realigning itself for you at the moment. Have faith that youâre the co-creator of your life and destiny, and that you will still be able to write your story however you want it. This may be a challenging period in your life, but things will work out as you pick yourself up, nourish yourself and prepare for the upcoming battles. This will be a solo battle, so make sure youâre kind to yourself, make yourself a warm meal (or warm meals) as you move yourself back into action.
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One card to symbolise you: The High Priestess rx
Iâd say that youâre someone whoâs losing touch of your spiritual side. Not to put it in a bad way. Itâs just a reminder that you should tune into spirituality from time to time. A bunch of things have been happening to you and around you, where itâs completely natural and equally important for you to focus on whatever thatâs going on externally. However, take some time to perhaps pull a card or two if you do tarot, or meditate and listen to your higher self. Make spirituality a part of your daily life, let your hands feel the running water as you feel it taking away your tiredness and emotional impurities. Find the discomfort, acknowledge it, and let it be cleared out from your system.
One card to symbolise your person: Temperance
My first thought when I see this card is that your person has a balanced air and earth and water energy here. Itâs an energy that Iâm very comfortable with, where theyâre grounded and yet able to resonate with you in terms of emotions, and theyâre smart and comfortable with who they are. This is a very assured person, knowing what they want and how to achieve it. For some reason, it feels like they enjoy cooking or making comfort food for the people they care for. Your person may also be your soulmate, and theyâre pretty much educated with a lot of things, or theyâve been involved in various projects and activities and hence gaining the knowledge and experience of life. They may have a mysterious side to them as well đ
1. What power do you have over your person? - Five of Wands
Similar to Pile 2, you have this card here to signify the power you have over your person. However, Pile 2 is more passive aggressive while yours is more⌠Actively aggressive. You do not think twice about your words and can be rather blunt with how you express yourself. For some reason, Iâm seeing that it may be due to you having some sort of insecurity over yourself and the relationship, or you may have some inferiority complex where you do not see yourself worthy of this relationship.Â
I need to emphasise a little that itâs not your words thatâs the power you have over your person, but the mentality of you not thinking yourself highly (or as high as they see you) that can drive your person up the wall. Itâs the chain reaction that will make your person feel powerless, not knowing how to help you and to show the world to you, that there are better things in life and that youâre worth so much in their hearts.
2. What power does your person have over you? - Page of Wands rx
Your person is very adamant in communication, if that makes sense. They are vocal and more structured in their speech, and will not stop the conversation there until you fully understand what they mean. This card feels⌠Not young. Your person has been through quite a number of things in their life and have learnt to communicate effectively, making sure that their needs are heard, and knowing what they need to do. For some reason, Iâm also seeing charms? They may be quite charming, good with their words, fulfills the typical definition of success, and people may be drawn to them. That may also be the reason why youâre insecure, since theyâre pretty charismatic themselves.Â
3. What can be possibly toxic or problematic between you two? - Page of Cups
For some reason, Iâd say that you two can be fairly new or fresh in relationships, not having dated much before, or this can be your proper first love. Thereâs a tinge of inexperience here, something like a young love, where you two tend to experiment much on the various aspects of a romantic relationship. You two may be prone to doing fun activities a lot, hence, ending up not talking much about the practical aspects of a relationship, for example, marriage and responsibilities.
This card talks about heightened intuition as well, where one or both of you may be relying only on intuition or gut feeling, and not communicate with each other more. Like⌠You should be discussing with your person when youâre making plans. Yet, you just decided to go with Plan C because your gut feeling tells you so. Even though they may be free during then, communication and discussion is still important so that they are heard.Â
4. How can you two transform/evolve together? - Four of Swords rx, The Hanged Man rx
Iâm seeing that you two will be resting together first. You two have been fighting different personal battles, and when youâre done, you guys will be resting together as you recuperate. This pile kinda gives me the feeling of bonding through trauma. Itâs through the pain and exhaustion that you learn better about yourself and your person, where you guys learn the importance of the balance of body, mind and soul. You both learn to let go of things that are not within your control, let go of things that are pulling you down. There are themes of releasing pain here, and also releasing guilt. Like,,, youâre holding onto a fault youâve done years ago, and not letting yourself free from it, forever beating yourself up over That One Thing youâve done when you were a teenager. The same may be for your person as well, and you two just learn to let the past remain in the past. You will need to expand your horizons, and let yourself try things you never had the chance to mess around with.
Throughout this period of time, you both also learn about the tendency of being apathetic towards your own pain (you think that your pain is nothing; they think that their pain ainât much worth mentioning). Detachment towards your emotions is a thing, making you stuck in the past. Your inner child is not healed, and this would be something you and your person will be working on, to find ways to heal yourselves, enjoying the world with its gifts for you. Youâll learn how to nurture the people around you, but starting from yourself. Itâs like⌠Two wounded small animals hiding under a shade as they licked each otherâs wounds. That, but things are promised to be better.
5. What can you two achieve together? - Strength rx, The Hanged Man rx
The Hanged Man rx extends towards this card, symbolising that by breaking past habits and treating yourself kindly, only then youâll be able to grow stronger together. The topic and lessons about inner self will follow here as well, and may be a lifelong theme where you constantly need to nurture yourself and each other to flourish.
The strength you both will gain will be inwards, where you are more gentle towards yourself, more forgiving of yourself, bandaging the wounds that your inner lion has caused. Your passion, desires and anger is the inner lion in you, and youâll be learning to keep it in check once you understand them and accept them. Imagine going through the five stages of grief, and it ends with acceptance. Thatâs when you learn to live together with it as part of you.Â
Remember that strength comes in gentleness too, and that to accept your vulnerability takes a lot of strength, energy and effort. I would also add that once you are at this stage, youâll be able to combat self-inadequacy and doubt, learning to trust yourself and your partner. Itâs a constant growing process, but you have each other to support and help throughout this journey. Together, your strength can be limitless.
6. The core values in this relationship: The Hanged Man rx, The Sun
The Hanged Man rx appeared again. Iâd say that one of the core values in this relationship is to learn to open up and accept the emotions (the happy ones and the not so positive ones) youâve been feeling. You or your person, or perhaps the both of you have had a difficult childhood growing up, where you guys have learnt to repress the various feelings for you to function. In this relationship, opportunities will open up via challenges (discussions, disagreements, compromises, failed plans, etc.), and you two will need to learn to release the pain and anger. From there, the relationship will continue to renew and become stronger, and you two will also be able to heal at your own pace. Iâm seeing that one of you may have been working on it earlier than the other, and the one whoâs more experienced in self-healing will be able to help the other.
Followed by healing comes The Sun thatâs hiding behind the rainy clouds. Another core value that Iâm seeing here is that you two will learn to enjoy the small and big happiness in your life. Celebration is the theme here, where you two will learn about appreciation and gratitude, growing along the way to celebrate the small and big wins, achievements and building up self-worth along the way. Iâm seeing you celebrating for them when they get a pay raise, and them throwing a celebration (or a romantic dinner/gesture) for you when you achieved your goal of maybe not self-deprecating for a whole month.Â
Overall energy: The Tower, Death rx, The Emperor
There are quite some strong energies here, both you and your person. You guys are still fighting personal battles and are at the significant stages of your lives, where a split decision can contribute to different outcomes. Thereâs an energy of autonomy here, where youâre fighting to gain back control over yourself, your identity, and you learn to break free from the cocoon thatâs binding you. Things are difficult, values you believed in may start to break down, making you doubt if youâre even doing the right thing. Rest assured as youâll be seeing messages and signs around you. Your guides and the Universe will be dropping you signs, and youâll know youâre on the right path. Know that youâre beloved and guarded, take the chance and go for whatever it is youâre fighting for.
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PILE ONE
Hello, Pile 1! Welcome to your reading. So what I'm getting is that your future spouse's first impression of you will be a mix of emotional, intellectual, and practical nature. Your future spouse will see you as their soulmate or "the one" the moment they see/meet you. When you meet, they'll be in the stage of life where life's testing them real bad. I feel like they're one of the fixed signs who will be heavily affected by Pluto in Aquarius and their life will be such a rollercoaster ride. So when they meet you, they'll feel like this rollercoaster ride has just ended because you'll be their comfort zone. I'm seeing that you could have a masculine energy who's emotionally intelligent and/or connected/in touch with your emotions. Your future spouse admires this trait of yours and it makes them want you even more in their life. I'm also getting that your future spouse sees you as someone who's practical and might be good with money. You could be financially stable or money flows easily for you. They see you as someone nurturing and caring, to the point that you're really committed to them and to your relationship.
PILE TWO
Hello there, Pile 2! Welcome to your reading. First of all, what I'm getting here is that your future spouse will see you as someone who constantly learns something new. You might meet at a university or institutions or workplace where you're required to learn and enhance new skills. To your future spouse, you're a logical person and you might have masculine energy. I'm getting the IDGAF energy here and this might be their first impression of you. They see you as someone who doesn't tolerate toxicity and bad behavior. When someone does you wrong or dirty for the first time and they apologize to you, you'll accept and forgive. But if they do it again on the second time, that's a goodbye to them. There will be no third time. You don't give a fuck whether they'll be hurt when you cut ties because first of all, that's their fault and you're simply protecting yourself from their energy. I'm also seeing that your future spouse will see you as someone who knows what you want and you just do your thing and get it. Just like in Ariana's song 7 rings, "I want it, I got it" which I keep hearing right now. I also feel like when you meet, you might be in a "stuck" situation or you're mentally foggy and they'll notice this so your future spouse will have the urge to help you or approach you and be in their strongest masculine energy because they see you as someone with masculine energy, and they'll try to beat that. Not because of ego, but because they know you have high standards and well, they want you so they'll try to fit in those standards, but not in a fake or pretentious way, but in a way that they'll be a better person.
PILE THREE
Hello, Pile 3! Welcome to your reading. Well, this is such a passionate and fiery energy here. I'm getting that your future spouse's first impression of you is that they'll see you as someone who's fiery. You have a lot of courage and when someone tests you or makes your life a bit difficult, you don't back down. Instead, you fight back. I can see that your future spouse sees you as someone who's expanding your finances. You're trying to make your financial life stable here, or even more than stable. You could meet at a workplace, specifically in business-related workplaces. I'm seeing a woman wearing a white blouse, dark blue/navy trousers and 3-inch black heels standing in front of a desk and typing something on the computer, helping someone get their work done or looking at their work. This could be you or them. I'm also seeing that your future spouse sees you as a passionate person, you're passionate in your job and you get all your work done. I feel like you could be the CEO here. I'm also seeing that your future spouse will be really physically attracted to you when you first meet (to a sexual level). They'll be starstruck when they see you and it'll feel like the world suddenly stopped moving.
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Their characteristics: They're someone who will cause some significant changes in you, especially in your growth as a someone. They will strive and encourage you to be a better person. They might influence you in making significant changes in your own life, such as moving out to new places and trying out new skills and having new experiences. They will encourage you to move on from the past, and I feel like this person will actually make you move on from your rough past. I don't mean this as if they're your rebound or something, it's just that moving on is natural for them and you could be someone who holds grudges deeply. And because of this, your next romantic partner would be someone who would help you move on, in a healthy way. I feel like you'll feel so safe around them to the point that you'll forget what happened to you in the past and just be grateful that you met this person. This person knows how to balance things in their life. They have all the stuff in their life and they're juggling them to balance them. They have these family and personal matters, then financial matters, their other connections (such as their friends), and then you. I can see that despite how busy they are, they still make time for you and they really manage their time very well, and you admire this in them. They could still be young and you could be young as well, or you and them just have this youthful nature in you. They're logical and private, they could be keeping information to themselves. This might result to them being private of your relationship. Your relationship is the private-but-not-a-secret type of thing. I also see that this person has leadership skills in them and they also radiate confidence. It's like when they walk into a room, everyone would turn around and look at them and just admire them and their confidence. They're a passionate person and they'll be very passionate about your relationship, especially towards you.
Signs: Fire signs (Aries, Leo, Sagittarius), workaholic, goal-oriented, ENTJ, INTJ, ESTJ, music/Spotify playlist, meeting online, social media is very important, private, mysterious on social media, dark/red hair, gym, hiking, surfing
Their characteristics: They're workaholic and they're still trying to get their life together. They could be chaotic or going through a lot of chaos when you meet them. They could have this push-and-pull energy when you meet and it might feel like this relationship/connection won't work because of how chaotic this person is. They're going through a lot of stress and they're just starting to face their responsibilities. Then you came along, which could cause them to feel more stressed and overwhelmed about their situation and their own life as a whole. They're still going through a lot of changes in their life when you meet and everything's all over the place in their life. They're going to move out to their new place (like an apartment) which could be near yours, managing their finances, thinking of resigning in their current job and find a new one. They could have a feminine energy, especially when it comes to you. I feel like they're quite in-touch with their emotions, in a way that they actually sit on their emotions and feel them and process them. They don't suppress them. This is why they could be in a lot of stress and be really overwhelmed when they meet you because they want to commit to you but they don't know how to manage everything. They would want to give you everything but they feel like they couldn't and they might get you involved in their chaotic life. It's like they feel that you'll stress over their life as well and they don't want this to happen. I feel like when you meet, you'll feel that instant connection and be passionate with each other the moment you meet. This might be a one night stand when you meet. And because of this, there might be a lot of confusion in the connection because it started in the way that you don't want. Despite that, this is a genuine connection, though it might take you a while to realize that.
Signs: Fixed signs (Taurus, Leo, Scorpio, Aquarius), workaholic, goal-oriented, chaotic energy, new apartment, living in the same town/city, winter-spring season, ISTP, INFJ, INFP, ISFP, downtown aesthetic, blonde/brunette, blue eyes, how to lose a guy in 10 days movie
Their characteristics: You might not be fond of each other when you meet and there might even be some conflicts or disagreements especially during the early stages of your connection (not necessarily a relationship). You might see them as someone arrogant and insensitive of other people's feelings. You might be so annoyed of each other's presence and be defensive whenever someone disagrees with the other. This disagreement might feel like a personal attack even if it's not. You both might be young, you could still be students (especially university students). You might be in competition of each other in class and you might get into debates a lot with each other. I feel like you both will enjoy disagreeing with each other's opinions and answers in class even if you actually agree, just to annoy the other. Your classmates/colleagues could even ship you both and tease you from time to time. You might get into the same group together to work on some project and you'll be stuck with each other for quite a while. During this time, you'll get to know each other and realize they're not really who you think they were. They're actually a soft person and you have a lot of similarities with each other. This project will be the best project in the whole class (whole university even) and you'll want to work with each other again next time. I'm seeing that because of this project and you'll start to work more often for the next projects, your connection will start to get deeper. You'll be connected on an emotional level. You'll go from being enemies/academic rivals to being friends, then best friends, then lovers. From being annoyed of each other's presence to looking for each other's presence and laughter and time together. From hating each other and laughing when the other gets hurt (like falling off a chair) to being protective of each other. From denying the teases of other people about you to just accepting them and acting like couples, just like what they're teasing you about. You'll keep spending a lot of time with each other to the point that you'll study together and even stay up really late just to "study". You'll be very patient with each other now. And the rest is history.
Signs: Aries, Sagittarius, Libra, Virgo, Gemini, ESTP, ISTP, ENTP, enemies to lovers trope, academic rivals to lovers, study dates, coffee dates, group project, university, camping, debates, dark hair, wavy hair, dark academia aesthetic, autumn
I feel like your person is such a romantic. They genuinely want you to feel loved and believe it wholeheartedly. You can practically sense their loveâthey want you to feel like you're absolutely blessed and gifted in this lifetime when you're with them. I really get the sense that your person embodies certain love languages strongly. Gift-giving and acts of service could be their primary love language.
They want to make you feel like you're living a luxurious life, defined by whatever "luxury" means to you. They're the kind of person who would buy flowers for you, just because. They'd go for a walk and hold your hand which may feel a bit cliche. with youâsimple, sweet moments like that mean a lot to them. If thereâs something practical, like bugs in your home that need dealing with, theyâd step in and handle it for you without hesitation.
Theyâre very romantic, both in the classical sense and in a way that's unique to how the two of you define romance. Thereâs also this cheerleader vibeâtheyâll always be in your corner, supporting you and encouraging you.
Theyâd take time out of their day just to be with you, even if itâs something quick, like grabbing coffee or tea together for five minutes. Theyâre the kind of person who appreciates those little moments and stitches them into something meaningful.
Theyâd also plan thoughtful surprises for you. If surprises arenât your thing, theyâd still do spontaneous, kind gestures to show their love. If you asked, âWhatâs the occasion?â theyâd simply say, âJust becauseâ or âJust because I love you.â Thatâs their energyâalways looking for ways to make you feel special.
I get the feeling they want to be your knight in shining armor. Anytime you need them, theyâll be there. You can absolutely count on them, 100%.
PILE 2
I'm getting the sense that your person is the strong, silent type. You may be someone who has either struggled mentally or faced a lot of hardships and difficult events in your life. Because of this, your personâs primary love language is to show up for you and be there, offering unwavering support to help you navigate those challenges.
I feel like quality time and words of affirmation are the love languages they most naturally express. Theyâll use these to offer you love and support.
Theyâre the kind of person who will help you see new perspectives, guiding you out of your head and pushing you to grow into your best self. At the same time, theyâll also be there to comfort you, offering a sense of safety and reassurance. Even when life feels overwhelming, theyâll remind you that you donât have to face it all alone.
Theyâre going to help you break free from anything thatâs holding you backâbe it limiting beliefs, unhealthy habits, or challenging relationships. Theyâll stand by you as you work through those obstacles, and theyâll support you in fostering healthier connections with others.
When life feels like itâs falling apart, theyâll be right there, holding your hand every step of the way. Theyâll also help you rebuild, piece by piece, until youâre standing on solid ground again.
On top of all that, theyâre a deeply loving and nurturing partner. Whatever you needâmentally, emotionally, or physicallyâthey wonât hesitate to provide. They want to see you thrive, and theyâll go out of their way to make that happen.
PILE 3
In comparison to Pile 1, where that person was more outspoken about their love, your person seems to love you deeply in their mind, though they might not express it as openly. They could just be a quieter person, or maybe they're more reserved in how they show their affection.
The sense Iâm getting is that youâre your personâs museâthey genuinely want you to be happy. Because of this, I feel like quality time is probably the main way they express their love. However, they might always be on the move and have a lot going on in their life, so when they do make time for you, itâs their way of showing you how much you mean to them.
They try to connect with you emotionally, which leads me to think words of affirmation might also be a love language they lean toward. Theyâll offer support and encouragement, letting you know how much you mean to them through their words.
Thereâs also a subtle, gentle touch to their affection, though they may not be overly physical. They may not be a super touchy-feely person, but they show their care in ways that feel warm and comforting.
They seem like the type to take you on dates where you can either learn something new or experience something beautiful together. I get the sense that theyâre very creative, perhaps an artist or someone with a deep appreciation for art, and that creative energy is something they bring into your relationship.
Their passion will likely show more in the experiences you share together rather than grand declarations or intense gestures. They value those shared moments and want to create lasting memories with you.
In terms of love languages, theyâll likely try to be fair and give you a balanced experience. While quality time might be their favorite, theyâll also try to meet you where you are and love you in the ways that resonate most with you. They wonât limit themselves to just one way of expressing loveâtheyâll try to cater to your preferences.
I also get the feeling that they favor experiences over material gifts. Rather than buying things, theyâd rather create meaningful moments with you.
Ultimately, the main thing here is that they just want to spend time with youâquality time is the consistent theme that keeps coming through.
Notes:
I've been working on this all week, I'm depressed and on top of that burnt out and exhausted soooo sorry if I missed any mistakes!
đ Reading Contents:
How Do You Unintentionally Captivate Them?
The Personality Traits They Find Magnetic
Your Everyday Charm
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Moments When They Feel Weak for You
Their Favorite âCaught in the Actâ Moments
How They Fantasize About Responding
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PILE 1
How Do You Unintentionally Captivate Them?
Cards:Â Page of Cups, Two of Wands, Sun,
For some reason, the first thing that comes to mind is someone caught mid-thought, their eyes kind of distant but soft, lost in a dream or musing about something exciting. Thereâs something so captivating about when you slip into those moments. Itâs like you radiate this quiet, hopeful energy that makes your person wonder whatâs going on in that mind of yours. To them, it's irresistible.
You also have this undeniable joy exuding from you. The kind that can infects others without them even noticing. When youâre fully in the moment, letting this joy pour out of you, itâs like the world around you disappears for your person. Theyâre completely pulled in without you even trying.
I also keep getting this image of you smilingâa genuine, effortless kind of smileâand your person being absolutely smitten. You seem to have this way of lighting up when youâre excited or happy, and itâs almost like they canât help but feel it, too.
The Personality Traits They Find Magnetic
Cards:Â Knight of Swords, Death, Seven of Wands
The first thing that stands out is your ambition and driveâyou donât hesitate to charge forward when youâve set your sights on something, and your person finds that magnetic. And itâs not just that youâre ambitious; itâs the way you act on it. You seek out transformation and change with a sense of confidence and purpose. Thereâs something so inspiring to your person about the way you embrace growth, even when it means taking risks or stepping into the unknown.
I also get that your fierceness is a big part of what draws them in. I feel like you donât back down when it comes to defending what you believe in. Even in moments where you might not be 100% correct, the passion you bring when it comes to standing your ground is something your person finds strangely endearing. Part of what draws your person to you is that spitfire energy and the way you throw your whole heart into what you care about.
But you also have a softer energy that balances everything out. Youâre someone who's generous and compassionate, maybe even without a second thought. You're the type of person who would stop everything to help an injured animal or lend a hand to someone in need without a second thought. Itâs that blend of intensity and gentleness that makes keeps the hooked. Your person loves how multi-dimensional you areâsomeone who can fight for their beliefs one moment and show deep compassion the next.
Your Everyday Charm
Cards:Â Five of Cups, Five of Wands, Wheel of Fortune, Ace of Cups
Thereâs something about you that comes across as a bit mysterious... I feel like in quieter moments when youâre lost in thought or just keeping to yourself, your person may feel like they take the time to really see you. What I mean by this is the little details about you such as the way your features soften when youâre deep in your own world.
I donât know if youâre someone who fidgets or has a habit of touching things, but it feels like they notice those small quirks. Maybe itâs the way you twirl your hair, tap your fingers, or run your hand over a textured surfaceâ but whatever it is, itâs something they canât help but find endearing. I'm also getting that in moments where youâre being challenged by others, you may observe before reacting. If they're with you, itâs like they can see the gears turning in your head. They love watching you process things, almost like theyâre trying to understand your inner workings of your mind.
Thereâs also this magical quality about you, like you have this ability to make life feel filled with magic in the simplest of ways. You might not even realize it, but somehow you make them feel like theyâre living in a dream. Thereâs a sweetness to the way you show care, whether itâs through small, everyday gestures or moments where youâre pouring into your person or your relationship. Even mundane thingsâlike making them a cup of coffee, fixing their hair, or just sitting next to themâfeel enchanted for your person.
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PILE 2
How Do You Unintentionally Captivate Them?
Cards:Â Five of Wands, Three of Cups, Death
The first thing that comes to mind is your ability to adapt effortlessly to different environments and social circles. Itâs like you could seamlessly blend into one group today and an entirely opposite group tomorrow, without missing a beat. This could stem from a survival mechanism you developed throughout your life, but itâs become second natureâa part of who you are. Your ability to navigate these social dynamics with ease is likely something your person finds captivating.
Thereâs also a strong sense of resilience about you. The way you handle conflict or challenging situations seems graceful, almost effortless, even when the odds are stacked against you. Your person might be struck by how you manage to remain composed under pressure and spin difficult moments into opportunities for growth. They might admire the way you emerge from the other side of hardship renewed, stronger, and ready to embrace whatâs next.
Beyond that, thereâs a warm, supportive energy radiating from you. Whether youâre celebrating with others or offering comfort, you seem to have a knack for making people feel at ease. I also get a sense of enchantment from these cards, almost as if thereâs a spark of magic in how you carry yourself. For some reason, Tinker Bell comes to mindâmaybe itâs a reminder of your playful, whimsical side or your ability to light up a room in unexpected ways. Maybe it's a confirmation for something you've been pondering on for a bit.
The Personality Traits They Find Magnetic
Cards: Seven of Cups (Reversed), Page of Pentacles, The Emperor
You give off an energy of someone who is grounded, decisive, and incredibly self-assured. You have an ability to cut through the noise (of life really). While others might get lost in daydreams or overwhelmed by choices, youâre someone who sees clearly and knows exactly what you want. Your person could likely find this decisiveness magnetic, as it exudes a quiet confidence that feels stable and dependable.
I think you also bring a unique blend of practicality and creativity to the table. Youâre someone who can take even the smallest spark of an idea and nurture it into something tangible. You have the focus and drive to bring dreams to life, and thatâs an inspiring quality. Itâs like youâre the one people look to when they need a plan or want to see something through. You come across as someone who knows how to take charge and create stability, whether in your own life or for those around you. Your person might admire how dependable you are, someone they (and others) can rely on for solid advice or a calm presence in chaotic times. I also feel like you're someone who puts the time and effort in and that's something that just does it for your person.
Your Everyday Charm
Cards: Wheel of Fortune, The World, Five of Pentacles
Thereâs something charming about how you carry yourself through lifeâs ups and downs and not just the significant moments but the little ones too. Like missing a bus, running late for work, running out of something when you need it (I hope you get the gist lol). I also feel like your person sees beauty not just in your appearance (although that's emphasized as well) but in the way you quietly navigate the dull moments and short term disappointments we experience. You have a way of picking yourself up and boosting your spirit that is endearing. On a daily level, it might be the little things you do to create beauty in your life, no matter the circumstances. Think how you decorate your spaces, plate your food, cultivate a cozy moment.
Your person really admire how youâre able to turn the simplest things into something special, creating a life that feels fulfilling and intentional even when resources are limited. You donât need the latest trends or expensive itemsâyou can take something as humble as a few old books or scraps and turn them into something that feels genuinely valuable.
Your person notices the way you focus on making things better, no matter the circumstances, and finds it charming and hard to ignore.
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Pile 3
How You Unintentionally Captivate Them
Cards:Â Death, Judgement. The Emperor, The HierophantÂ
Itâs not just one thingâitâs everything about you that pulls them in without you even realizing it. Thereâs this grounded, unshakeable energy you carry, but itâs wrapped in a quiet elegance that feels so effortless. Itâs not about trying to stand out; you just do. The way you move through lifeâintentional, steady, and composedâcreates a presence that people canât help but notice. Even in chaos, you somehow stay calm, like youâre the eye of the storm.
What really gets them is how deeply you focus on whatâs in front of you. Itâs like the world blurs around you, and youâre completely in your element. Whether itâs the way your hands move when youâre busy, the calm in your voice when youâre speaking, or the determination in your eyes when youâre locked into somethingâitâs magnetic. They canât look away.
Itâs in the small, subtle things, too. The way you pay attention to details, how you seem to elevate even the simplest moments, or that quiet confidence you have without even trying. Maybe itâs the way you smile, how kind you are in little ways, or the natural grace you bring into every interaction. It feels like you make life more beautiful just by being in it.
Thereâs this perfect balance between your strength and your calmness that they canât get enough of. Youâre firm but approachable, confident but kind, and itâs just captivating. They admire how you move through life and how you make them feel just by being yourself.
The Personality Traits They Find Magnetic
Cards:Â Four of Cups, Eight of Wands, Queen of Wands, Strength
Your person is attracted to how intentional you are about what you let into your world. You donât say âyesâ just to go along with things or settle for something that doesnât feel right. Your discerning nature makes you stand out and pulls them in.
Thereâs also the way you move through life with an air of purpose, momentum, and confidence. You donât linger too long in âwhat ifsâ or overthinking; you simply trust yourself to make the right call and go for it. It makes watching you in action thrilling for your person as you bring this bright, unstoppable energy wherever you go. Youâre bold, and you own it, but it never feels forced. Itâs just you, shining naturally.
I do think that what makes you really magnetic to your person is how you balance your boldness with gentleness. Beneath all you passion and creativity, thereâs a softness that makes people feel safe and seen. Itâs in the way you treat others with kindness and show care without making a big deal about it. Even when youâre chasing your passions, you always seem to carry this warmth and thoughtfulness.
Your Everyday CharmÂ
Cards:Â Wheel of Fortune, Justice, Nine of Pentacles
Somehow, you manage to make the simplest moments feel special, like everything you touch has a hint of magic to it. Even the way you go about your routine feels intentional, like youâre crafting a life thatâs all your own.
I know I keep saying it, but the balance you keep on a daily basis charms your person. Youâve got this knack for keeping things in harmony, be it work, downtime, or fun, and on top of that you make it look so natural. Itâs not about chasing perfection either, you just do what works for you. I think your person admires this so much.
I think you also manage to genuinely enjoy your everyday life and your person loves that about you. You donât wait for big moments to feel happyâyou find joy in the small stuff. Whether itâs sipping your favorite tea, throwing on an outfit that makes you feel amazing, or stopping to notice something beautiful, you have this way of savoring life thatâs so refreshing.
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This reading is about the assumptions people in general have about you. Which might not be true to how you really are.
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LILAC
⢠You have a quiet, mysterious vibe that makes people think you have been through a lot. This kind of being experienced creates a sense of knowing, like nothing can faze you, you have seen enough, the good, the bad, everything in between about life.
⢠They also assume you wield your power well, you're used to it and you can use it to seduce people or to deter them from getting closer. There's a contradictory feeling about you, on one hand, you seem intense and seductive, on another, you're aloof and impartial. So people think that you just like to appear attractive for the sake of being attractive, not to attract anything or anyone in particular.
⢠Those who are lucky enough to get into your inner circle will be treated differently, with generous care and intuitive understanding.
⢠They could think you're from a religious background. Or someone with mixed races and have a diverse religious background.
⢠They could assume you come from money or are well taken care of.
⢠You seem to be good at learning, fast thinker, intelligent. No matter how you actually think about your intelligence, people will assume you're smart and don't have trouble solving problems. Maybe you talk fast, have knowledge about a wide variety of subjects or people usually see you learning, researching something, especially about some niche or taboo subjects. This also contributes to your mysterious aura.
⢠Some could assume you like casual relationships. You revel in social interactions, you can chat anyone up and have some friendly banters with them. You enjoy hanging out with people but you don't want to be involved too deeply with anyone. Your goal in interactions with people is usually to learn something new, to satiate your curiosity. Again, the thought of getting close to you, being considered more special than the rest by you, is a great ego boost to some people.
⢠You're good at hiding your more unsavoury side. People generally think you're calm and worry-free but some will have a little suspicion that you're hiding your negativity, it's like they can't believe there's actually anyone who has no worry or problem. Especially if you're being anxious about the future, feeling lonely or lost, you won't show it. The people who suspect about this will likely want to dig deep to get to see your problems.
GRAPEFRUIT
⢠You have a brilliant aura that makes people automatically assume you have it easy in life. Like someone who has been treated so well by life that they are so positive and lighthearted.
⢠Enthusiastic and mischievous, people will assume you're younger than your actual age.
⢠You have no problem convincing someone, pulling someone to your side purely by talking and debating. People can see your cleverness and humour clearly.
⢠People think you have a fast lifestyle, always on the move, rarely at home, never sitting still, don't settle down. They assume you have an extensive travel backlog. Some will want to give you advice about settling down, having a stable family life. Maybe they think you're too young or have too many things going on for you to consider those topics seriously, but you will, in the future.
⢠Based on your cheerful or carefree demeanour, some will guess you are not well disciplined or are spoiled. They think your upbringing was a little loose and lacked proper guidance, resulting in a freestyle way of living.
⢠Maybe the way you dress or the things you use will make people think you're careless about money or have a lot to spare. You like shopping, hoarding material possessions and are just generous with your money in general.
⢠Some could assume you're too easy-going and simple-minded, despite your expression of cleverness, like someone who is easy to be taken advantage of, gullible. Some would want to protect you because of that, others would want to take advantage of that.
⢠You seem to be well liked and have no trouble getting a date. If you're single, they will just assume that you probably don't want to commit, prefer to stay single by choice, if you want to, people would jump at the chance to date you.
⢠Some would think you prefer older people for friendship and connections in general, you like to be spoiled and taken care of. But they also can sense that you treasure your friendships greatly, those who can stick to you through thick and thin will be revered and respected by you.
⢠Some can see you easily getting stressed, over exerting or are afflicted with some illness frequently. They might think to themselves that's the consequences of living a fast life, or you're going through some stressful situations that you don't want to talk about.
PEAR
⢠Maybe your reputation precedes you. People could form assumptions of you based on what they heard about you, not necessarily from interactions with you. They think that you're really a go-getter, ambitious, if not sometimes ruthless. You act on your impulses and zero in your targets, you get what you want, one way or another. They could feel that being the target of your gaze would equal to being a prey. You could give off a no-nonsense and efficient vibe that won't tolerate misbehaviour and disrespect.
⢠But they also feel that you put great value on friendship and community bonds. You would be a great leader, a pioneer, a protector of your group.
⢠The thing is, not many assumptions about your are correct. People could hear or see one aspect of you and proceed to make up a whole story about you. You could be a favourite topic in gossip. Some would put you on a pedestal and can't see you do anything wrong, while some would be so ready to find any dirt about you to make you seem less than ideal.
⢠Some would assume you have unique dreams that you want to achieve. Those that normal people won't understand or sympathise with. You're on your own road, doing your own things. People think you're really daring, you won't sit contentedly with what you're having, you're not afraid to upset the status quo. If you find a new inspiration, a new objective, you will be ready to pack your bag and get up and go, leaving behind everything you have achieved. In a less dramatic sense, people sense that you have the ability to let go, to search for a new horizon without attachment to the past.
⢠Speaking of the past, some would think that you're a nostalgic person. Some hobbies and favourite things of yours are those of the past. You might still keep doing or enjoying something that you had done when you were a child. Childhood could be your soft spot, the one thing that you guard so fiercely.
⢠They feel that you come from a traditional family with parents in their traditional roles. And somehow, you don't want to follow their footsteps, you want to rebel, to challenge that system. You might want to stay single and independent, focusing on yourself rather than family and partnership.
⢠If you ever get into a partnership, people think that would involve some deals and terms, something beneficial that is worthwhile of your effort. You approach every partnership like a business one, negotiating the terms, striking a deal, exchanging of values.
CHERRY
⢠People think you're in a purging period. You're not satisfied with your current life and the direction it's going. It's like you've reached a plateau, you need to find a new direction, a new way of living your life. And people think you're really brave for that intention, you're not afraid to discard unnecessary things, old thinking patterns, limited beliefs. You're willing to give yourself a makeover. Fears seem to not faze you at all, there seem to be no emotional turmoil. You act with your instincts and your heart's desire, charging forward.
⢠But people don't think you're a flaky, changeable person. You only change when your life demands it, your ultimate goal is stability and a stronger foundation.
⢠On the topic of instincts, some people feel you're really spontaneous in love. You fall in love easily, suddenly, with the naivete of a child. You love being in love, you don't take into consideration other practical matters surrounding a relationship, you just jump in for the pure bliss of romance.
⢠They would guess that you're usually the one doing the pursuing and confessing first. There could be a pattern in the people you're attracted to or a pattern in your relationships. Some would think, quietly, that you might be not aware of some deeper aspects within yourself, manifesting as these patterns. Like a certain part of you is repressed or neglected, so you seek that part in the other person.
⢠But in general, people think you have a lot of love to give. Your brave heart is undeniable.
⢠Other than romance, people also think that you're artistic and creative. Your ideas are unique and refreshing, some could be a little too grand, too far reaching. Some could guess that your job involves this kind of artistic talent.
⢠The way you act makes some feel that you're being sheltered by the people around you, like a precious child being protected by the community. But there's no envy or negative emotion here, they just observe that and can understand by themselves why you're like that. There's a honesty, a purity of thoughts in the way you express yourself and the way you share with people. They think you deserve that kind of good treatment.
⢠Also, due to that perceived honesty, some would feel comfortable confiding in you, they trust that you would keep their secrets for them.
GOLD
⢠The first thing people would assume about you is that you love hanging out with people, socialising, and having superficial fun with anyone you come across. You seem lighthearted like an excited kid in the middle of a carnival, wanting to see everything, to taste everything.
⢠People also think you like to shine, to feel seen and applauded. You're gregarious and seem to have no difficulty being yourself in front of a crowd. A bright confidence. Some would assume you like to be in a crowd because you like the attention. But most just assume you're friendly and have an extrovert nature.
⢠A few would try to guess the base of your desire to mingle with people. They think you're lonely or are sad about something, and you want to soothe that feeling by being with people, seeking the warmth of others. But most people don't seem to think too deeply about your nature, some would even find it hard to believe you're having some emotional turmoil inside.
⢠Some with a more suspicious nature might think you like to use joke and sarcasm to mask your insecurities and the difficulties you're having in your life. They think you're running away from the problems, trying to stay positive while a future disaster is pressing on your nerves. They think you need to change something or to be more brave in taking a new endeavour. It's not malicious though, they want to help and support you because they think you have potential.
⢠Right now, you seem to be pretty settled down with your life, doing things routinely, repeating days after days, like a drill. Some think that you're running in circles, wasting your time by immersing in the mundane details of other people's lives while refusing to look further for your own life. Or they assume your work requires that kind of lifestyle. You seem like a busybee, moving, talking constantly.
⢠People would assume based on your outgoing nature and the carefree way you show yourself, you have an active and passionate sex life. Your sexuality might be the question lots of people have in mind. Some would assume you can be quite dominant and aggressive in bed.
HONEY
⢠The assumptions about you would change a lot with time. Each period of your life will be accompanied by different assumptions from people. Could be that with each period, you are in a different environment with different types of people. So their values and beliefs would be different. Consequently, their assumptions about you and everything around them in general would be different. But the common point between these assumptions is that, they usually don't reflect your true self very well, people would likely be surprised when they get closer to you.
⢠At first glance, they assume that you're very passionate and full of ardour. You're optimistic and like to believe in a bright future, regardless of your current situation.
⢠People would think that you're a relationship person. Another group also has a passionate and confident air about them when it comes to love and romance, but yours is softer and feels more mature. People think you don't chase love, but by being so intensely you, you attract love wherever you go.
⢠They would assume that being love by you would be an unforgettable experience, the kind of love that is so pure and nurturing, where you can put your heart out into the open. Some people would fall for your perceived ability to love. Your potential of being a lover.
⢠Right now, you seem to focus more on securing material comfort and building a foundation for yourself rather than focusing on relationships. You can be perceived as a very hardworking person, to the point of being a workaholic. The people who want to approach you think you don't have time for them. You completely committed yourself to your work and study. Determined to be stable and thriving.
⢠Money and material possessions might be a source of comfort for you. They think you would try everything to achieve that, even using some tricks or personal talents to help you get ahead. Nothing too serious or negative though, they just feel that you have a knack for completing tasks faster, skillful and flexible.
⢠If someone knows more about your upbringing and the traditional values surrounding it, they would assume that the you right now is rebelling against those values. It's like you've reinvented yourself anew, away from the old values that no longer resonate with you. You could have been disillusioned by them, a naive believer. But now you stand on your own, find and build your own set of values. You could change your jobs, your studies, your living places because of that.
We've been running this far, non-stop, all day yeah
 Never getting tired, we keep up this runner's high
 You know graduation
 Even though it's over, it's not the end
 Put on some new shoes
 Yeah we're ready at the start line
Things have been difficult for a lot of us, and sometimes, we just want a flicker of hope, or some words of encouragement that can push us to go further. Just⌠Something, a message, to tell us that the pain weâre going through right now is temporary, and things will be better.Â
Close your eyes, meditate on this topic and tell yourself that youâre on a brand new start line, and ask for the messages youâre called to hear. Breathe in and out, make sure your mind and heart is calm. Then, open your eyes to see which pile talks to you the most/draws you in the most. Once youâve found your pile, scroll down to the respective parts to see what are the messages for you.
Pile 1 - Pile 2
Pile 3 - Pile 4
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The first thought that popped into my mind is that⌠Youâve probably been told (many times) that youâre a good manifestor, but you have not seen it working out for you, or at least, not at the moment. Youâll need to try an error (or maybe errors) to find what works for you, and what works best for you. It can be rather disheartening to fail, but look for the opportunities in lifeâs challenges and learn the lessons. You work better by letting your physical body learn rather than your brain to absorb the knowledge.
You probably have also noticed your tendency to self-sabotage, but you donât intend to do anything about it. Perhaps, not at the moment, as youâre not in a right place yet to fix yourself, but you need to remember it and to work on it.
1. Why have things happened? - Four of Cups
You have been too focused on what youâre feeling and not looking at the outer world, on whatever thatâs happening around you or to you. This definitely has something to do with The Magician rx above, where youâre sabotaging yourself and not focusing on the present. Itâs giving me very⌠Neptune rx in Pisces vibes, so some of you who picked this pile may have Pisces placements. Itâs like living in the world yet not living at the same time, where youâre floating and drifting, not seeing where youâre at or where youâre going. Life has been throwing you opportunities to learn the lessons, but youâre not learning it. Not to mention that youâre not organising what it is that youâre feeling inside and to do something about it. With all of that happening, some of you may feel youâre at a standstill or some will have their head and heart wrapped up in different bags and not know how to unify them.
2. How to stop your train of thoughts and start again from where youâre standing? - Knight of Pentacles rx
You have to stop dilly-dallying, and pick up the pace if you want to move away from where youâre standing. Sure, ADHD paralysis is difficult to deal with when youâre frozen (Iâm referring to myself as well, in case yâall think Iâm attacking anyone), but it is already something if you can move yourself away from the way of harm first. My first thought here is to train your body to be able to move on autopilot from time to time, which will help you in countless ways. Sure, youâre still sluggish and unenthusiastic, but let your body move first, exercise, and let your brain rest during those times.Â
Another way you can attempt to stop those thoughts is to get help. Not only external help from professionals, but more of building healthy interpersonal relationships. True friends will want to help you to be better, and will be willing to spend some time to accompany you to carry out activities that are beneficial for both of you.
3. What to look forward to? - The Magician rx
Youâll be able to tap into your energy. I do think that this is a time for you to work together with your manifestation talent/skill, and for you to decide which direction you want to head. You need to remember that the direction youâre going is not something fixed, so no worries in making a decision. You can change that anytime, or go on a different journey if it doesnât fit you. The more important thing is to have a welcoming heart, to dream and invite limitless magic into your life, allow your guides to show in unexpected ways. Do not be afraid, go step by step and find out what works for you.Â
Of course, you can look forward to this if you take action. If youâre not doing anything, do not hope or wish for things to fall directly into your laps.
4. What have you left behind and grown from? - The Tower
Youâve gone through a huge upheaval, youâve gone through a lot of chaos and traumas in the past. Now, youâre going through another fundamental shift. It may not be as tremendous and messy as it was in the past, but this shift is something more of an energy thing, where you need to learn to be more selective with where and who you want to spend your energy on. This energy encompasses mental, spiritual and physical energy, and you have to remember that youâre also an exhaustible being, where you canât focus on others forever. Look back, and youâll see how far youâve gone from that unhappy place. Remind yourself that youâre able to do it again.
Once youâve grown from it, youâll also be more free to explore your skills and abilities. Youâve always had a tendency to have a foot in almost everything, and with you now knowing how to distribute your energy and time? You definitely can. You can try focusing on whatâs in front of you instead of attempting to explore far, you might find treasures closer to you instead.
5. When will things start getting better? When will you get your justice? - The Chariot
The Chariot talks about action and goal. I donât think I need to say much on this, as itâs pretty self explanatory. However, remember to hold onto your reins as you move towards wherever it is youâre heading. You need to have a clear goal and a destination, else youâll run out of energy/fuel, and you may end up in different places. Youâll need a clear and visible goal, and the stages need to be well defined and measurable. You get strength from seeing actual results, and thatâs when you gain the confidence to continue moving forward. You will get justice when youâre moving forward. The justice here is internal, as it is more towards countering the self-sabotaging part of you. Itâs difficult, but once you wipe the tears and bite on the happiness youâre seeing, youâll know your purpose in life, and youâll taste that justice.
6. Advice for you - Five of Pentacles, Nine of Cups rx, Ace of Cups rx
Some of you may be facing financial difficulties or even health problems. Itâs best if you work on them now as you prepare for what it is to come. It can be quite disheartening at times when you question and wonder why hard times fall on you more often than others. This may also result in an unhealthy stream of emotions. Emotions itself isnât a bad thing, the problem would be how youâre managing it. Donât hold them in and stack them up. Find a safe place to release them, understand those emotions and nurture yourself back. Place your trust in the Universe, believe that whatever that is happening to you right now is part of a greater plan. Twist your thoughts a little, see it as a blessing where youâre finding problems when itâs still salvageable (itâs still painful but hey, we can work on it eventually).
Tune into your heart, listen to your wishes, and look at what you have achieved throughout the years. Your wishes of the past are now fulfilled, and youâve finally built the life youâve wanted when you were much younger. Well, it may exist in different forms, or youâve gotten it not according to how you originally planned, but itâs there. Know that you can change your wishes into reality because you have the power. Believe in yourself. Letâs say if you want to recover faster, you can manifest quicker healing. You can. Just make sure that you do not fall into the habit of feeling dejected and dissatisfied quickly. Hold on to a heart of gratitude. It will open up doors for you.
Overall energy: The Tower rx, Six of Pentacles
Thereâs a mix of energy here. Youâre unsatisfied that things have gone out of your control, yet thereâs also a sense of relief that you are not responsible over those things going out of control. Despite the difficult times, you still hold generosity in your heart, where you offer what you have (materials, energy, time) to those who need them. In turn, youâll also be blessed with what you need. Accept help given to you with an open heart and a grateful attitude. The greater plan the Universe has in mind for you may have something to do with people and connection, so that may be an aspect you want to pay attention to. Things or memories from the past can be resurfacing, so stop hiding or running away, and face them.Â
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Pile 2
One card to represent you: Death
First thing Iâm picking up here is that youâre going through a lot of changes right now, and the next thing is that⌠Youâre being watched over. There's a lot, and I mean A WHOLE LOT of things that are going on right now, and theyâre overflowing your plate. I could sense a certain level of panic and dread over everything, but thereâs also some form of apathy where youâre tired of everything and anything happening all at once. Thereâs too much thatâs going on to the point you have no idea where or what to focus on, so youâre probably at a standstill where youâre looking at the overflowing plate, doing nothing. Iâd say that this is a âfreezeâ response because youâre at a point where you canât process anything at the moment, but once your brain starts spinning again, youâll get things done.
You have people watching over you, or your guides are protecting you at this time. Imagine youâre standing still in the middle of the path but no one is hitting you. Itâs like that. Your guides are making sure that you have enough time to process whatever thatâs happening to you and around you. Once you start moving, theyâll follow behind you and help you out when you ask them, especially when youâre facing any confrontation.
1. Why have things happened? - The Hermit rx
Youâve withdrawn yourself from certain aspects of life (friendship, or work, or a certain class, or even a hobby) with attempts of healing yourself and to give yourself more time. Sure, youâve got the time, but those times were not spent on yourself, those free times were not helping you, but the other people in your life. In another sense, you were still busy, and you did not get the rest you needed.Â
Thereâs a certain level of emptiness that Iâm feeling here, and that youâre torn as well, not sure if you want to fill that emptiness or you want to remain it as so because of the comfort of being used to it. Do you trust yourself, with the steps and decisions youâve been making? BET ON ME by ITZY was playing as I typed this out, and I do feel that thereâs a message in this song for you.
2. How to stop your train of thoughts and start again from where youâre standing? - King of Pentacles rx
King of Pentacles is generally the last card of the deck, and what I'm seeing here is that you still have a lot more to go, that things are not final yet, and you have the ability (King) to change things to your favour. I understand that you're currently in a flight or freeze mindset, but you need to work your brain to trick it a little so that it moves, and you can reprogram it a little so that you can move away from the spot you froze. Be kind to yourself and let go of those thoughts that are haunting you, step away from those self-criticism, know that you deserve gentleness.
The King is abundant in finances, life experience, but I'd also like to add connections into this list. To be a King, you must have known to pull strings around to make things work, to make sure you win the trust of the people. To achieve that, you need good and skillful people who are willing to listen to your plans and to make them work. Those connections are what will help you throughout your difficult times. Sure, people may have turned you down in the past, but know that they may not be in any position to extend any help back then, and that things may be different now. They will be more capable now. Some⌠May have a really painful tongue, not filtering their words. But still, they will help, and you'll be surprised with what they're able to offer.
3. What to look forward to? - Ten of Cups rx
This⌠probably is not gonna sound ideal to a lot of people but⌠You can look forward to having a fresh start. It's like the cups you have are now poured clean, and you are forced to redo things again, to fill them up again but this time, you get to choose what you fill them up with. Previously, when you were growing up, people around you filled those cups for you, helping you make decisions (that you may not like or agree with), or even tainting them (putting droplets of other things in it), and those form you to who you are today. But, by pouring them clean (a very, very painful process), you are now able to pour and fill your cups with whatever you want and whatever you need. You'll be able to work with your dreams and spirit's energy to reach your highest good as you fiercely protect your cups, your energy, your life. Your life is now yours to write.
4. What have you left behind and grown from? - Three of Wands
It feels like you have left behind a lot of original plans that you have made for yourself in the past as you build yourself anew. There's a lot of internal cleansing done, and you've decided to start everything from scratch again. You'll be able to build things again and fully immerse yourself in a new future you'll create. You've learnt to grow from pain and to see the smaller happiness in life, learning to accept that growth is inevitable. Visualisation is also vital here, where you will need to immerse yourself in whatever you have now as you visualise where you will be standing in the future. You decide your own path, and you have to walk it.
5. When will things start getting better? When will you get your justice? - Ten of Swords rx
Things will start getting better once you pull out all the swords from your back. There's a lot of⌠Purging. Yeah, purging is a more suitable word to use for your situation. Your situation is like the shelf full of ceramic plates that will crash the moment you open that door. But you still need to open it, you'll need to let all of those fall, and you can clean it, to make space for new items to put in. You now can choose metal plates, or plastic plates to put in, whatever it is that you want. But first, you need to clean the space, only then you'll invite limitless magic into your life and allow your spirit guides to show up in unexpected ways. They are there for you, through a breeze, through a flyer, through a sudden noise to stop you from crossing the road. Once you've made space, that's when you'll get your justice by living your best self.
6. Advice for you - King of Wands rx, Strength rx, Six of Swords rx
There's another King card here, telling me that whatever you're going through right now is not an easy one. It probably will be there a little longer and it is what will help you to build up your upcoming new life, to start everything again. You will need to be at peace with yourself and be kind to yourself first.Â
Turn your strength and focus inwards, nurture yourself, and do not shy from cutting people out of your life if they drain you too much, even if they are family. You need to understand that you are your own universe, and you are your own priority. If you do not prioritise yourself, no one will. Others do not have that responsibility over you, so let yourself breathe. For now, heal your wounds, use it as your badge of honour, and live your life as how you see fit. Remember, it is you who define who you are, not your past.
Overall energy: Strength, Nine of Wands
There's a lot of strength in you, actually, just that you have not known how to work with it right now, not sure how to turn that strength for yourself. You have been resilient in everything you do, no matter how battered up you are, so let those tension fall from you. Sit down in peace and quiet as you receive the messages from your guides, letting them guide you through this time of difficulty. Trust your feelings, they know you better than yourself. Listen to your emotions, they understand your needs better. Act on them when needed, you will know when the timing is right.
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Pile 3
One Two cards to represent you: The Tower rx, The Chariot rx
I'm⌠Not exactly that surprised to see two cards falling out. The Tree in this image symbolises the Tree of Life as I was doing the reading, so some of you who picked this pile may be told that you guys are knowledgeable or do possess some extensive knowledge in very specific fields. And with this knowledge comes expectations, which can be seen with two cards falling out for you.
With these two cards, what I'm immediately picking on is that⌠You are in a phase of life that can be quite challenging right now, where things that are beyond your control are happening almost all at once, and you're losing your balance as you continue to run on the uneven paths. You're growing exhausted as you're being chased with expectations and by your own sense of duty. So, please take a break when you need it.
1. Why have things happened? - Three of Pentacles rx
There have been conflicts going on with you and your social circles, may it be disagreements between classmates/colleagues, or getting shunned by them for not going along with them. Thereâs a slight hint of one being an outcast here. Correlating to the cards representing you, how you became an outcast is also due to what you're going through life right now, requiring you to put a hold onto a lot of other things, including assignments and/or socialisation, etc. Your intuition has been your assistant throughout these times of perils, and it's giving me that you do know how and why you're in a situation that's making you stagnant. Not sure if you are capable of breaking that ice or you're resting at the moment before you take the first step out. Either way, unlike most people, you know where youâre standing at right now, and you do know how to make changes towards a new you if needed.
2. How to stop your train of thoughts and start again from where youâre standing? - Three of Swords
This is probably a weird way to put it, but you need to use your pain as a tool to help you get back to the present. You may be able to perceive pain differently, like⌠It's to prove that you're still living, that you're still alive, and you still can make changes to the situation you're in. You need to remind yourself that you're beloved, and that the Universe loves you and is throwing hints at you through very⌠questionable ways. Trust your inner wisdom and intuition, let them guide you to where you're supposed to be.
Oddly, I'd say that you have been through something similar before, but you kinda panicked when your previous methods no longer work for this situation. This is the time where you need to find a new method that will help you develop your senses, and for you to be at peace with yourself again. Coping mechanisms, but let it help you with more than just coping.
3. What to look forward to?- The Chariot rx
I'd say that things will slow down, not because the problems are resolved, but because the tires have worn out. Your nightmare and problems have also run out of strength to go after you, which gives you a quick chance to take a small break before you retreat to somewhere safer, where you build a new coping mechanism and possibly plans for the upcoming problems. I'd also say that this is a good time for you to make new connections that will be helpful in the long run. Don't worry about burdening others, as I believe that there will be a chance for you to help them back. Friendships and connections are mutual, where both parties benefit from them.Â
Not sure if youâre the type whoâd welcome new changes. Nevertheless, challenges will be coming your way for you to level up. Iâd say that these challenges are coming in a way where youâre capable of managing it. From there, youâll experience a new sort of rebirth, and youâll find a new identity that works with you better.Â
4. What have you left behind and grown from? - King of Pentacles
I have no idea why but I'm sensing some⌠Familial relationships and expected duties? Most of you may be working with establishing healthy boundaries with your family, making sure that the roles are properly and fairly distributed. It also feels like⌠Financial responsibilities aren't yours alone, and the entire family will need to figure out how to contribute and prepare for any emergencies.Â
Youâre now the King, where you have a comfortable relationship with your finances, knowing that itâs yours, your property, and you have every right to access it and to use it without guilt. There may be a chance where your family or extended relatives have guilt-tripped you to sacrifice or contribute to their needs, and youâre unapologetically free from those now. You now learn to trust your intuition more and let your inner wisdom guide you through your way subconsciously. Itâs now a part of your life where you donât really need to sit and listen, as youâre driving on auto-pilot by your subconsciousness.
5. When will things start getting better? When will you get your justice? - The Sun rx
I'd say that things will start getting better at unexpected times, or even at times when you can't see hope. The Sun is unable to shine on all people, it's unable to pierce through thick walls, but it doesn't mean it's not there. The Sun here feels mellow, like it's keeping its warmth and heat in check to not burn the other living beings that it's feeding.Â
Thereâs also another message here that is assuring you that good things take time, and that youâll need to be kind to yourself so that those blessings arrive and youâre ready to receive them wholeheartedly. The entire thing is a journey, and the roads can be bumpy. But still, what matters is the journey and youâre able to reach your final goal in a good condition, so take your time as you tread through those paths. Once you start walking and taking action, luck will fall by your side and accompany you through this journey.
6. Advice for you - Nine of Pentacles rx, Knight of Wands, Knight of Cups
You may be using your time unwisely by focusing on things that do not exactly benefit you. Iâm not saying that you canât, but you need to set your priorities straight and know what is the final goal of your actions. You may start a project that requires you to invest and purchase tools, when youâre rushing a deadline thatâs gonna affect your assignment and finalâs results. By doing this, youâre in a way, not planning well. Sure, you get your emotional fulfilment, but it also comes at the price of you failing your semester (touchwood). Passion projects can be fun, but you need to plan your time well, plan your resources well, plan your enthusiasm as well. The planning happens behind closed doors. Others will see how well you portray yourself and be drawn to you, but you need to remember the need for continuous effort for you to achieve the best results.
The public, or people around you may gather around you because of how well you have a grip over yourself, and once things have calmed down, feel free to let yourself loose a little. People will show up around you, and itâs totally fine for you to enjoy the attention and affection. You just need to remember how much youâve put in to build yourself, and not let others take you for granted, or to take advantage of your skills or what you have to offer.
Overall energy: Strength, Four of Wands rx
Strength and beauty comes in all forms possible, even through pain and tears. This is something that youâll be learning to accept through this difficult time. Most of us may understand the beauty and appeal of pain, but not many can accept it. Whatever weâre going through right now makes us learn and accept it, to come to terms with it. Of course, changes come along with it and we will need to learn to adapt to it, to build a âNew Youâ as you face the upcoming challenges. Know that whatever youâre doing right now is a pre-requirement for you to achieve your dreams. You are your own world, and you can change the world as you grace the strong wind standing your way.
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Pile 4
One card to represent you: The Devil
What Iâm feeling here is that you tend to have a certain level of control over some things in your life. The control here isnât exactly pleasant, where it may be imbalanced and there can be some arguments going on. Temptations are heard as well. You know youâre stuck in some loop where you canât escape, and you have no intention of escaping. The picture for this pile is somehow giving me Sex and The City vibes, where the neon lights (benefits, financial resources, interests) have been the focus of your sight, and this allows you to have a different perspective, or for you to see things differently from your peers.
1. Why have things happened? - Strength rx
You have lost strength, internal strength mainly. You were not surrounded by those who supported you, and your energy was depleted bit by bit as you tried to fit in. You have put yourself in a position where you depend on the actions and feelings of others, and you may have given up on your instinctive responses, not having the self-discipline and control you need. The Lion is your passion, and itâs now your enemy, threatening to destroy whatever stability and name youâve built. Imagine a woman trying to tame the agitated lion and the two ended up in a fight, while the spectators (wrong group of friends) by the side just watched.Â
2. How to stop your train of thoughts and start again from where youâre standing? - Knight of Swords
Youâll need to start taking care of yourself, listen to yourself. Youâre a person who prides your intelligence, and you tend to be in your own head a lot. However, youâve listened to the noises out there that have affected you in a negative way. Not to say that youâre supposed to go back into the state of being in your own headspace, but for you to pay attention to yourself more, to listen to the voices of your heart instead of the external noises. Youâve always been head>heart, and now youâll need to go head<heart. You may not like how different this⌠new routine is, but you will also know that it has to be done, as youâve been seeing messages of this ânew pathâ around. Balancing out the heart voices and head nagging is important, and this is how you shall start.Â
You also need to remember you yourself, are the source of everything essentially you. You build yourself; you create yourself. You are not built on the words or acceptance of others. You need to remind yourself that you are already doing well, and the expectations of others are not yours to bear.
3. What to look forward to? - Ace of Wands
New beginnings come with changes. Once youâve chosen a different voice to listen to, youâll be able to regain energy, bit by bit, to attempt more changes in your life. Opportunities will surely come your way when you accept the positive energy around you, and itâs up to you to seize them and make them work. Itâs a time for you to follow your instincts and have courage. Take action when you need them.Â
That aside, itâs suggested that you return to your roots as you venture through this bright explosion of good energy. Remember the importance of grounding yourself and go back to the basics from time to time. Itâs not only to cleanse your heart, but also serves as a reminder of where you came from, and how you need to be in touch with your past and nature.
4. What have you left behind and grown from? - Six of Wands
What Iâm seeing here is that youâve put down the yearn and drive for fame and luxuries, and have redefined success for yourself. Youâve awakened from the past and start to feel more energised, learning to start your days in a better mood as you count your victories. More people are recognizing your achievements as they approach you with interest.Â
As you compare what you had and what youâre having now (or will be having in the future), youâll be able to evaluate better and have a clearer idea of the direction you want to take next. You are warned of self-doubt and lack of confidence. You have to believe in your abilities and worth so people can trust you, so that you can trust and confide in yourself.
5. When will things start getting better? When will you get your justice? - Eight of Wands
Eight of Wands is a card that talks about movements. Once youâre moving, once youâre taking action, thatâs when youâll see things turning out different for you. Youâll start to receive things or messages that youâve been waiting for, and itâs time for you to stop stalling. If youâre interested in someone, you will have to walk towards them and work for it. Youâll be able to attract a loving, happy, fulfilling relationship into your life as youâre no longer the old you. Remember, birds of the same kind flock together, and the same goes with people too. You attract people of your level. You want that person whoâs active and charming? Be proactive in approaching them.Â
Your justice will come in unexpected forms, but most of it would be releasing of past hurt. There will be times where youâll want to hug yourself to sleep as you were reminded of how things have been difficult. This is one of the healing phases where you slowly let things go. The lighter you are, the better you become. This is also because the karma of those whoâve wronged you will not be tied to you anymore.
6. Advice for you - The Star, King of Cups rx, Nine of Cups
Rebuild yourself. This probably sounds difficult and too⌠idealised? But this is what you need to do. The Star is there to tell you that thereâs a silver lining behind every grey cloud, that youâre not broken beyond repair, and that youâre able to work yourself up to another peak. This card is an extremely gentle card, so take that message and be gentle to yourself as well. Youâll need to practise self-compassion, listen to your inner feelings, cultivate yourself and let yourself grow into your very best self. Love others by first loving yourself, donât forget about the promises youâve made to yourself.Â
Make new and healthy connections as you flourish. If you wish for them, theyâll come into your life. Learn to be content with the gifts youâre having everyday, learn to hold gratitude with what the Earth is offering you. With the amount of Cups here, try getting close to bodies of water (beach, sea, waterfall, etc). Water may be a healing element for you. Alternatively, try doing activities that are related to creativity (crafting, writing, drawing, or something thatâs symbolistic) as they can be an outlet of your heartâs wants, which you can understand better from the results of your craft. Remember to stay hydrated too.
Overall energy: Justice, Eight of Swords
Justice is really your theme right now. Youâve been choosing to run away from the obvious, but itâs high time that you wake up, pull down the blinds that have been covering your eyes and to see the truth for who he is. The first action needed for every awakening is to open your eyes and acknowledge whatever that has been going wrong. Only then youâre able to take action towards a better situation. Youâll need to open up your heart and invite new changes in, welcome new beginnings in.
The theme of Justice can be difficult and painful, but itâs necessary for you as you transform bit by bit, cutting down the vines that have been tying you down, severing unhealthy ties that have been binding you down (refer to The Devil). Get back your own autonomy, treat yourself right, let justice be served on who deserves them.
