I wish I could go back to my high school and tell the women in my graduating class to avoid relationships and invest the energy of their 20s into themselves!
Iām 36, and I hear it all the time from women my age. They say, in their 20s they had the best body, the most energy, wettest pussy and they were full of hope about love and life.
When I ask where the burnout occurred, without fail, itās usually a relationship she stayed in too long, when she knew she should have left, that robbed her of her youthful energy. This is especially true of my friends that are single mothers.
Iām saying this as a man, niggas is worthless until theyāre emotionally intelligent. Until then, they are emotional children, and you will have to mother them.
Unfortunately, men donāt usually realize how emotionally immature we are until we reach our 40s or 50s, IF that!
Jay-Z for example, mature in business and successful in his 20s, but was an adolescent in emotional intelligence until his late 40s!
Look how long Beyonce had to wait, and how much she had to endure, and sheās Beyonce! Do you think youāre exempt?
Also, according to the women Iāve surveyed here, most of you in your 20s arenāt getting good dick either.
I tell each woman I survey the same thing, men learned how to fuck from porn, so if a man isnāt actively seeking real-life knowledge on how to make a woman cum, donāt expect much more than getting pounded and choked.
Personally, I didnāt even realize I was supposed to focus on the clit when eating pussy until I was about 28, and I didnāt start intentionally giving women vaginal orgasms until I was about 32. I also didnāt begin to realize I was emotionally ignorant until I was 30.
So donāt expect men in their 20s to be your sexual or emotional equal. The world doesnāt require us to grow at the same rate it forces women to mature.
In my opinion, the best thing to do is focus on building your passive income during your 20s, travel the world gathering experiences and avoid getting pregnant.
Children are the number 1 excuse I hear as to why women ācanāt _____ā. They never regret the children, but wish they had waited until they felt fulfilled in life, before taking on the lesser fulfilling responsibilities of life.
Married people always tell me not to get married, and people with kids always tell me to wait, but people that travel tell me itās the one thing Iāll never regret doing, and after spending and entire year traveling the country, Iāve discovered this is true!
So, you should use your 20s to learn who you are alone, before you fall into a cycle/paradigm of being defined by your relationships.
And Iām saying that as a man that has had to deal with women in their 30s, still trying to get back to where they were in their 20s, before they started investing their 20s energy into everyone but themselves.
Understand, the entire world wants your 20s energy: parents, men, credit card companies, colleges, car loans, beauty industry, the love, romance, happiness & marriage industry, mortgage companies, children, work, fitness industry, food industry, fashion industry, church, TV shows, etc.
They want you to commit to their ideals of life in the ignorance of your 20s, when you feel the most adult, but arenāt aware that you donāt know shit about the world, yet.
They want you to borrow from them in your 20s, then work to pay them back in your 30s.
This way, by the time you finally figure it out youāre too busy with life to do anything about it, except remember how lit your 20s were.
Donāt trade your future prosperity for todayās temporary gratification, 30 aināt as far away as you think it is, or as old as you think it is. And I wish someone would have told me that in my 20s.
The 20 year old you should be planting trees that will provide food and shade for the 30 year old you.
Orā¦.orā¦.you can just continue to do what everyone else is doing.
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